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Denilaw:
We haven't fixed any date for wedding. The intro I did is not even the main intro.

Abegiiiiii go siddon, u r a wicked guy. I so much dislike olojukokoro men like u. Mind u if u leave your first girl, I will join her in cursing you which am sure, by Gods grace the curses will work on you. Foolish and greedy stroke selfish and wicked guy that is exactly what u are. Habaaaaa, fear God and do unto others as u would they do unto you

hotmolo:
what really is it with ladies and front seat

my dear it depicts you as the first person in his life and also to let people know always that here is somebori by his side. So being in the front sit with your man shows ownership and a way of telling those cheap girls on the street who wouldn't take their eyes off a car to see who is in there, that there is no vacancy. U get ritttttt

Nnem please excuse yourself from that house for now or you tell it straight to him, that he either choose you or his mistress so as to know your stand except you are comfortable with his strange attitude. And don't forget to seek the face of God, most especially for the sake of this wonderful children of yours.

Nkasiobi87:
yea I do have education, am an accountan.his reason for the security is that he don't want me to speak with any other man.divorce I have put that in my options. I really need to be happy.

Huh, my sister, this is why I oftenly pray to God not to give my husband riches that will make him miss the track in our marriage. Am sure your hubby is super rich, abeg even if you did not divorce him, you can leave his God forsaken polluted house to somewhere else you can relax and breathe free air. Am sure your hubby isn't that educated. My sister, please go somewhere else and cool off for now please, but don't divorce him, let him start the divorce process himself.

banjicom:
Sha! Sha!! Sharaap !!!
Last day Mumu

Ewoooooo! Una no go kill me with laughter for here

ebbyneza:
Does your girlfriend or wife yell, scream, and swear at you? Do you feel like you can’ttalk to anyone about your relationship because they just wouldn’t understand? Is your relationship making you feel like you’re slowly going crazy?If so, you’re probably involved with a woman who is an emotionally abusive bully.Most men don’t want to admit that they’re in an abusive relationship. They describe the relationship and their girlfriend/wife using other terms like crazy, emotional, controlling, bossy, domineering, constant conflict, or volatile. If you use words likethis to describe your relationship, odds are you’re being emotionally abused.Do you recognize any of the following behaviors?
1) Bullying.If she doesn’t get her way, there’s hell to pay.She wants to control you and resorts to emotional intimidation to do it. She uses verbal assaults and threats in order to get you to do what she wants. It makes her feel powerful to make you feel bad. People with aNarcissistic personalityare often bullies.Result:You lose your self-respect and feel outnumbered, sad, and alone. You develop a caseofStockholm Syndrome, in which you identify with the aggressor and actually defend her behavior to others.
2) Unreasonable expectations.No matter how hard you try and how much you give,it’s never enough.She expects you to drop whatever you’re doing and attend to her needs. No matter the inconvenience, she comes first. She has an endless list of demands that no one mere mortal could ever fulfill.Common complaints include:You’re not romanticenough, you don’t spend enough time with me, you’re not sensitive enough, you’re not smart enough to figure out my needs, you’re not makingenough money, you’re not FILL IN THE BLANK enough. Basically, you’re not enough, because there’s no pleasing this woman.No one will ever be enough for her, so don’t take it to heart.Result:You’re constantly criticized because you’re not able to meet her needs and experience a sense oflearned helplessness. You feel powerless and defeated because she puts you in no-win situations.3) Verbal attacks.This is self-explanatory. She employs schoolyard name calling,pathologizing(e.g.,armed with a superficial knowledge of psychology she uses diagnostic terms like labile, paranoid, narcissistic, etc. for a 50-cent version of name calling), criticizing, threatening, screaming, yelling, swearing, sarcasm, humiliation, exaggerating your flaws, and making fun of you in front of others, including your children and other people she’s not intimidated by.Verbal assault is another form of bullying, andbullies only act like this in front of those whom they don’t fear or people who let them get away with their bad behavior.Result:Your self-confidence and sense of self-worth all but disappear. You may even begin to believe the horrible things she says to you.4) Gaslighting.“I didn’t do that. I didn’t say that. I don’t know what you’re talking about. It wasn’t that bad. You’re imagining things. Stop making things up.”If the woman you’re involved with is prone toBorderline or Narcissistic rage episodes, in which she spirals into outer orbit, she may very well not remember things she’s said and done. However, don’t doubt your perception and memory of events. They happened and they are that bad.Result:Her gaslighting behavior may cause you to doubt your own sanity. It’s crazy-making behavior that leaves you feeling confused, bewildered, and helpless.5) Unpredictable responses.Round and round and round she goes. Where she’ll stop, nobody knows.She reacts differently to you on different days or at different times. For example, on Monday, it’s ok for you to Blackberry work email in front of her. On Wednesday, the same behavior is“disrespectful, insensitive, you don’t love me, you’re a self-important jerk, you’re a workaholic.”By Friday, it could be okay for you to Blackberry again.Telling you one day that something’s alright and the next day that it’s not is emotionally abusive behavior.It’s like walking through a landmine in which the mines shift location.Result:You’re constantly on edge, walking on eggshells, and waiting for the other shoe to drop.This is a trauma response. You’re being traumatized by her behavior. Because you can’t predict her responses, you become hypervigilant to any change in her mood or potential outburst, which leaves you in a perpetual state of anxiety and possibly fear. It’s a healthy sign to be afraid of this behavior. It’s scary. Don’t feel ashamed to admit it.6) Constant Chaos.She’s addicted to conflict. Shegets a charge from the adrenaline and drama. She may deliberately start arguments and conflictas a way to avoid intimacy, to avoid being called on her bullshit, to avoid feeling inferior or, bewilderingly, as an attempt to avoid being abandoned. She may also pick fights to keep you engaged or as a way to get you to react to her with hostility, so that she can accuseyouof beingabusive andshecan play the victim. This maneuver is a defense mechanism calledprojective identification.Result:You become emotionally punch drunk. You’re left feeling dazed and confused, not knowing which end is up. This is highly stressful because it also requires you to be hypervigilant and in a constant state of defense for incoming attacks.7) Emotional Blackmail.She threatens to abandonyou, to end the relationship, or give you the cold shoulder if you don’t play by her rules. She plays on your fears, vulnerabilities, weaknesses, shame, values, sympathy, compassion, and other “buttons” to control you and get what she wants.Result:You feel manipulated, used, and controlled.8 Rejection.She ignores you, won’t look at you when you’re in the same room, gives you the cold shoulder, withholds affection, withholds sex, declines or puts down your ideas, invitations, suggestions, and pushes you away when you try to be close.After she pushes you as hard and as far away as she can, she’ll try to be affectionate with you. You’re still hurting from her previous rebuff or attack and don’t respond. Then she accusesyouof being cold and rejecting,which she’ll use as an excuse to push you away again inthe future.Result:You feel undesirable, unwanted, and unlovable. You believe no one else would want you and cling to this abusive woman, grateful for whatever scraps of infrequent affection she shows you.9) Withholding affection and sex.This is another form of rejection and emotional blackmail. It’s notjust about sex,it’s about withholding physical, psychological, and emotional nurturing. It includes a lack of interest in what’s important to you–your job, family, friends, hobbies, activities–and being uninvolved, emotionally detached or shut down with you.Result:You have a transactional relationship in which you have to perform tasks, buy her things, “be nice to her,” or give into her demands in order to receive love and affection from her. You don’t feel loved and appreciated for who you are, but for what you do for her or buy her.10) Isolating.She demands or acts in ways that cause you to distance yourself from your family, friends, or anyone that would be concerned for your well-being or a source of support. This typically involvesverbally trashing your friends and family, being overtly hostile to your family and friends, or acting out and starting arguments in front of others to make it as unpleasant as possible for them to be around the two of you.Result:This makes you completely dependent upon her. She takes away your outside sources ofsupport and/or controls the amount of interactionyou have with them.You’re left feeling trapped and alone, afraid to tell anyone what really goes on in your relationship because you don’t think they’ll believe you.You don’t have to accept emotional abuse in your relationship.You can get help or you can end it.Most emotionally abusive women don’t want help. They don’t think they need it. They are the professional victims, bullies, narcissists, and borderlines. They’re abusive personality types and don’t know any other way to act in relationships.

Do u really know what marriage is, I mean seriously "marriage". If u know, u wouldn't have typed those things u typed there, cos it is never a bed of roses. Some coupes insults and yell at each other when they are angry but that does not depict what u enumerated above and after all this yelling and insults, the end would be sweet and romantic night together, so op, forget all this emotional bullying you are talking about, they are all spices of marriage, though I couldn't read all but the first paragraph I read gave me an insight of the rest.

Huh! So so Sweet

MrKong:
Let me give you a theory of this whole ruckus:

Our ex president, Goodluck Ebele Dumbhead Jonathan, the undisputed olodo PHD holder, the worst President in the history of Presidents, The Jaw-Jaw War-War,The Lame one, The Fresh Air The silent criminal, The Condolense Visitor, The Drunk, The Confused One, The Clueless,The stealing is not corruption, the steal but don't steal too much, Lord of Wailers and Hero of the Fs from the Rising Sun, His Excellency in Failure and holder of the exclusive right to wanton display of stup!dity...had 3 plans pre election, well not his plans persay we all know he can't even add 1 plus 1 to hundred;

First he ordered Dasuki to make a last minute quick fire purchase of arms after he's seen the popularity of PMB, the arms to cause chaos and disorder....then he told Orubebe, the CHURCH ELDER, to initiate the chaos and then in the ensuing confusion...They scuttle the election process and hang on to power but Jona The Clueless, developed cold feet and spoilt their plans

That's why they hate him na...EVEN PEG HATE HIM TOO

Speak for yourself bro. Gej, my pp. He who is without sin should first cast the stone. Pick out one saint among our present and past leaders, then i would justify your insult on gej, in d absent of non, i wish u all that u wish that guy u just insulted.

agarawu23:
she told you she isn't happy about it?

Huh! Happiness ke? What kind of happiness is there to get in marrying a man as old as ones father. R u not seeing sanusi' s children?, some of them are her age mate. I don't just understand what is wrong with our girls of this days.

MTN should b sent packing from nigerian soil cos I have never seen an organisation, so so dubious like mtn. They are filled with all manner of 419 vices that can get one angry all day. Crimiconpiscous organisation!. Abeg, make una no mind my grammar jare, abi wan copy that former house of reps member from Edo state, wetin b him name sef oooooo, abeg make una remind me, ehen i don remember na obahie..... Wetin self?. Abeg, mtn no b ra m.

To the best of my knowledge, you are legally free as d air to marry her, as long as u guys are not in any way connected by blood and u guys willingly entered d relationship. So carry go...

To the best of my knowledge, you are legally free as d air to marry her, as long as u guys are not in any way connected by blood and u guys willingly entered d relationship. So carry go...,.

xertyy:
Ok if you see dat as an invasion no problem! And if u also don't see anything to worry about on this story no wahala! I pray may your boyfriend do same thing this girl is doing to her boyfriend! Say AMEN to that pls?

U've got no right to invade her privacy. Learn to mind ur own business. He who is without sin should first cast d stone. Aproko no b job, na joblessness. Shalom!

osile2012:
Come on, thats not true .How can a girl come for a weekend in a guys house and only cook indomie with fried egg, bread with egg in the morning, fried yam, plantain and egg. Claiming that's her favorite . Then you tell her your own favorite is soup or rice, she cant make. She only knows how to make her favorite foods(indomie, fired potato, plantain and egg)

Hahahaha, u r so so funny.

Pls kindly add me 08060548191.

oluwaSmith1:
Come to think of it, i have not seen anything wrong with Buhari's appointment so far.

If he allow people like Ameachi to be SGF, we will still be the one to attack him that why must he appoint Ameachi when he's facing Wike's probe panel.

My opinion sha.

What happens to ogbonnaya onu? Is he corrupt too? My question out of curiosity sha. Shalom!

ERODEDEAST:
Make dem collect the money from Guuduluck pay people # Shikenan

I tire oooo. D last time wey i check goodluck jonathan never die ooooo. If dem dey sure say goodluck steal d money, make dem arrest am now bring d money come ooooo, because dis their excuse don pass b careful, abi no b goodluck dey waka for everywhere so. Shalom! My people jare

Tonto dear, dis ur hubby wey do face Like asari dokunbo junior brother wey no dey smile, na waoooo. Any way congrats to both of una, please, tell ur husband mak him laugh small because bible say person wey see wife wey him go marry, c better tin and find favour from baba God but dis ur husband no do face like person wey find better thing. Abeg, beg ham make him smile small.

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Oyind17:
Light dey my side 24/7

Thank God u said ur side.

Keneking:
It might still take sometime for South East to start scoring goals in this administration

Am sure by now most south easterners would have liberate their mind from holding any position in baba bubus govt. That is y i keep saying that it is only by God's mercy will anyone make heaven. D bible teaches us to love our neighbors as our selves and to forgive those who might ave offended us. If I were to be president buhari, i will appoint the easterners, just to prove a point to them but alas, he is allowing politics to overshadow His religions teachings of forgiveness. Our leaders and politicians have forgotten that every actions and words spoken will b accounted for on d last day. May God help our dear country and leaders, amen. Shalom!

AnanseK:
You are still talking of section. What did Anyim do for you or for the south?

At least it gave dat section a sense of belonging.

iiiyyyk:
SO ASHAMED EVER SURPORTING BUHARI.

NEVER AGAIN WILL I EVER SUPPORT A NORTHER IN AN ELECTION.

THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IN THE HISTORY OF NIGERIA THIS IS HAPPENING

President ....north
Senate P.....north
Speaker.... North
SGF....... North
Senate Majority leader... North.
AGF.....north

No excuse, this is a case of extreme prejudice and tribal bigotry.

This isn't fair at all, in d spirit of one Nigeria, my humble opinion though. May God help our country, amen. Shalom!

Agbaletu:
Somebody should tell Buhari that Nigeria is not for Northerners alone. He is going too extreme. Are there no incorruptible southerners?
I can't take this, we should not deceive ourselves, this is northern agenda.
How i wish we Yorubas can align with our brothers in the south.
I now see reasons why Igbo people want out. I just love Igbo people. Buhari, this is too much.

Somebody should tell Mr. Kanu not to relent in liberating his people from this zoo, Yes, i agree with him, this is a zoo. He is an hero to Igbos, i expect all Ndigbo to support him. I am downloading Biafra Radio now.

Somebody is just waking up from sleep. Good morning to you.

[quote author=FreeGlobe post=37396632]very good... Buhari should also follow the same template for ministerial list. The fulani government should be total[/quo
Abeg, make una helep me advice baba bubu, before dem go killam trower say mak him consider other tribes too, abi him wan tell us say na only northerners no corrupt. Abeg, make una no kill me, I just express my feelings as he bi me for body. May God help d govt of baba bubu, amen. Shalom!

Yes ooooooo, I am d refereeee, oshiomole 5 points, orubebe 6 points, even as we awaits another revenge points from d camp of oshiomoles, whistle blew for half time. Habaaa! Nigeria politicians, see as dem dey abuse themselves like children for my streets. May God have mercy on our politicians, amen. Shalom(peace), to them.

Oyind17:
The light them get na who give them? the money people dey return no be cos of baba? Nigerians like suffering and smiling sha.

Abeg how many u don hear say dem return? Where d light dey cos for my house here na generator I dey use since 2 days now. Abeg, forget dat thing, no hating, na God go help baba bubu.

CriticalThought:
They have the locations listed on their website

Ok. Thanks a lot.

HerexG:
After allowing the Okra steam for some seconds , you can then add extra pepper to your taste, as for me I like well peppered food, the remaining seasoning cube and your Ugwu (Pumpkin leave). Add your palm oil immediately and stir it very well.

Nna menhn, u have cooked kwokoson.