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CaptainAyub:
This one wey im imported wife leave run because he no fit impregnate am, everyday, he go de cap nonsense

As in eeeh

He wants to talk all the time, which made him lose the respect he used to command the moment he became APC chairman. He was doing spokesman job as well.

Imported wife no be small one o..Even wedded her..

Sanmel:
Toh! Another perspective.. Ok o

Thank God I had the wherewithal to leave at that time so it wasn't even a big deal.

Your leaving was a smart decision needed at that particular time and as you did it, That was were the sister friendship you are enjoying now with her, started.

Her respect for you trippled.

Mindlog:
Recognizing and respecting personal space, is not part of our socialization.

For me, I will..I cherish space and privacy a lot.

Jisie ike...He thought you how to do it.

Baby diaper don add money o


Those days when we use to be the cockroaches in their cupboard, sugar in their tea, tomato Jos etc...

Ndi a biko ha echetakwala m ihe m chefuru la.

Under the Mango tree love with TT.

Mindlog:
Some would start living with married siblings right from the first day of the marriage, putting unnecessary pressure on the couples.

As in eeh

Sanmel:
Hmmmm...
Makes sense sha but then...

I used to live with my brother before until he got married.
I remember how I use to feel bad and even sometimes cry when my brother's wife would be insulting him, when I say insult, I mean deep and hurtful words. I always feel like I should be fighting for him but I've always known not to interfere in any couples affair and all these started less than 3months after their wedding..
As I quiet reach, the woman later started looking for my trouble and as soon as I sensed the extension, I started packing my things small small without even my brother knowing..
My brother later noticed how she was acting towards me and said I should be challenging her back, I just said okay.
In my mind, I just said "no be me and you, person wey you no fit talk to, na me wan con dey face am for you"

Today, the wife and I are now like sisters and no one would believe so many terrible things happened between us and I rarely discussed with any other relative..

You were actually the problem.

Your presence was the problem...Probably you blocked their privacy.

The intimacy can happen anywhere but ones relatives are around, couples don't feel safe..No mata how big the house can be.

Plus the moaning tunes will be hoarded by the wife so you thirdparty won't hear.

This evangelist made sense in a way.

mariahAngel:
Zombie don drop comment.

Righteousness2:
With all that going on in this crazy world, it surely won’t be too much longer before we hear that shout & trumpet blast.

You see how that hot reddish Fire is bubbling and bustling! It is air condition compared to what Hell Fire is.

Lets take advantage of the opportunity we have now to settle the matter of our relationship with JESUS Christ so as not to open our eyes in Hell Fire!

You too dey cap..

DeJoeee:
My 96k down the drain

Mr raw nwanne

DeJoeee:
See eh! I don repent like this till marriage
I go find bible start church next Sunday

He should win some of these assembly members to his side first..

Before he can act.

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.


She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

A man is in a deep problem and probably creating more problems for himself..

Not telling the truth comes with consequences...And that is what you are facing for allowing ana outsider tell your wife what she should have heard from you instead.

mariahAngel:
Maka ndi oru bekee.

Hehehehehe

A nuna'm.

Okay.

Awnnnnnn!!!!

Romantic babes are bae.

mariahAngel:
E miniri'm ya.
Yes. She wanted to stay, but we decided it won't be healthy for her for now.



Ka gi ma. Hahahahaha
Ulo wu highest naa.

Nawa o..Unu egbuhu kwa oge o..
Okay..Maybe it was a wise decision.

Ama hu m o, well ka m detuo date last time I biara..shiri ugbua guwara gi day1

Gbalia na lota ulo o..Gi guru gi e ginger everyone to.

They look unkept for the level of investment on claimed on their heads.. Buba Marwa Weldone!..

We sabi the pattern..tribal stuffs

mariahAngel:
He has that effect.
A less talk, more action type of person.



Hahahahahahahahaha

Anyi a biaghachila.

My kind of person offline.
Awesome!


Iminiri ihe a?
That was fast o...
Mama gi oso unu?

Nani chukwu ma mgbe ozo i ga abia SE

Mrmb:
Olodo, his brother was a serving senator before his death. You no know story u dey put mouth. Were you the one pointing fingers, this your hand go push you where you no like if you are not careful. You never learn from the mumu that wrongly accused the first lady abi

Shut up!

Who doesn't know senator Isiaka adeleke who was getting set to secure osun Governorship seat under the useless evil party called APC..Before Emilokan and his cousin did what they know how to do best..

That man you called mumu is 10times smarter than your Lineage.

This is exactly what I was saying, will OBEDIENTs withstand the politics as the intense side begin to unfold?

Both Tinubu and Atiku will do anything to secure victory even assassinations like this.

They have all it takes, including urchins ready to carry out orders.

Coming months will be tougher.

Zonefree:
Alex is going to win.

Come board na..

Abia is to me as what Imo is to me..

Home. Defeating PDP in Abia is like Defeating PDP in Rivers state.

Happiness is infectious

Looking forward to him infecting Osun people with happiness.


His late brother could have been on a second tenure now if not his mysterious death.

With accusing fingers pointing at Emilokan and his cousin oyetola.

Affliction..

illicit:
They are slaves to money

All humans are...We are only denying reality.


We all wake in the morning, rushing to our various work places all for the money struggle..

Each man in his lane and circle though.

ALEX the time waster..

Soon he go use zenith labour party created by Olusegun mimiko contest for Abia Governor..smh

Yeye

Blake755:
Yeah where others failed grace go carry u pass

Full stop.

Nolly wood directed by Tchidi abii Teko benson

Blake755:
Life needs small luck too

Just say Grace..
One grace found, covers 10yrs of steady hustling.

Throwback:
Many bankers stole employer funds to start their own bank.

Exactly...

He is deceiving gullible followers..with the luck nye nyenye..

Luck and coded stealing from initial employer

Tony rest! We know the story.

expatinmalay:
may it be unto you as you wish and said. your moniker says alot about who you are

Wicked man na psycho..

nairalee:
Africans will always criticize their own.

Was Rooney not with bald head at 18?
Was Robben not looking much older while playing with agility?
If it's our players we'll use criticism to overshadow their talent

As far as I'm concerned he's 27 until proven otherwise

Patriotic African

FalseProphet1:
I started my spiritual center my Bible and a bell and today, we've successfully built a magnificent building. I see myself buying private jets and bullet proof cars very soon.

This I have seen.

Eddy nnogu2 is that you?