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Mariangeles:
Okwu gbasara usekwu ehn, anahu ekwubi ya ekwubi.
Different strokes for different folks.

Just say married couples.. Okwu ya wu elechaa aghara sometimes.

JONNYSPUTE:
,....The same way they have this natural thing for kitchen is also the same way men have natural thing for their sitting rooms.

Just because I like mine to be sparkling at all times shouldn't be an excuse to restrict my in-laws from making use of it but at the same time, allowing my own siblings to do as they like in it.

I wouldn't have a problem with my wife if she wants to put a restriction inrespect of the kitchen provided that the rules will be applied to her own siblings and not just mine. Period.

sitting room kwa..Just reading that for the first time...The only thing I know a married man feels is his entitlement is his wife body...


I feel both hers and yours must be treated same...If their is partial acts, then injustice is the case...Treat my siblings and parents same way you will treat yours..As simple as that.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Can you restrict your bro or sis in-law from your sitting room?

If no,then what's so special about the kitchen that most women will want to destroy their homes for?

Women have this natural thing for kitchen..ones you are married, what you did is, giving her a house, in return you want a home from her.


The main thing there is respect which is reciprocal.
Meanwhile can your siblings have free acess to your bedroom, and sleep there?

BeeBeeOoh:
It seems APC didn't remember that Anambrarians does not have a short term memory before they made Andy Uba their guber flag bearer?

We know what the Uba family of Uga can do.

Anambrarians knows the Uba brother's antecedents like the back of their fingers and they decided not to risk their future and the future of their unborn kids in the hands of people that ones kidnapped a sitting governor.

As in eeh, that kidnapping of Ngige then is a huge blow to their family name.

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Is only poverty that make one do some certain things.

In my house for e.g. Provided you stay under that roof apart from the kids,you re free to assess the kitchen and eat as much as you like.

I don't even wait for anybody to dish my food,I will just walk straight to the kitchen and do my thing.

My kids atimes leave their mum,come to me and say daddy we want eat this or that. I won't even wait for my wife,I would simply walk straight to the kitchen and prepare their different dishes and serve them.

My cousin's that stays and work with me are all free with the kitchen and I will not take it lightly with my wife anyday I comes back and start hearing rubbish about kitchen restrictions or permission nonsense.

What's food by the way if I may ask.

All this goes with understanding and harnessing of resources for couples.

Mariangeles:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaaha
See where you don carry am go. Ihukwa gi ehn...



I believe there’s more to what happened than the op is telling.




It depends on one’s personality sha.
Like me for instance, I’m territorial when it comes to the kitchen.
I also like to dish out the food that I cooked myself. Ya so unu rigodi hundred, if you want more, tell me.



There’s nothing my mum hates more than cooking little amount of food.
God help you if the food finishes in one serving...she won’t let whoever cooked have peace.


Gi e lefuru ya anya okwaya?




Respect. Exactly.

I say make I involve everything...Otu ahu ka ejiri zuo anyi..Except house helps who assisted my mom during our childhood, no disturbances..Except maybe ndi biara i le exam...

So, mpa m na nwunye ya nwere full time for themselves...I like that as well..Onye owula noro la onwe ya stuffs...

Definitely, maybe he doesn't want to go deep.


Yes, personality is the real deal..Time will come mgbe ike i chekwa kitchen ga agwu gi..lol
My mom was like that, even her boys, she rarely allow us cook even noodles..But after we don grow finish, she do beg us to cook onye kwanu nwere time nke ahu.

I feel as the home manager, she was managing resources as onye mummy o wu...And that is same reason you are territorial too..You've been groomed like a second mom by your mom...

With time, ike ya ga agwu kwa gi...

That cooking small food can be annoying...I don't like it at all...
Nke kacha afu is cooking special something, bia kwa mee ya di small


Ya wuru na owu nwunye m, I know nobody will enter kitchen without her permission...Nke a wunu gf. her presence then do scare some sha... A no fu hu m with nwaanyi juru oyi... .

Yea, respect is very important.

Mariangeles:
Hehehehehehehehehehehehe

What do you think about the op’s action?

First I am not comfortable with him living with a young couple...So nwoke choro i nara nwunye ihe oma ya na parlour or kitchen, he can't..

The lovy-dovy will die a natural death with his continued stay...Nwoke can't even carry his wife romantically while unwinding in the parlour..

As for entering kitchen, If their is abundance of grocery and he wanted something cool, no problem...Mana ya me ka o wuru a general treat for the family...In that way it will be cute...


I don't like kitchen monopoly sha, Me I follow culinary stuffs...and I like entering there ones in a while to give everyone a treat....What I don't like is any one being selfish..Yawuru ma o gara dia, ga shie ihe nani ya riri, I personally will frown at him.

Even growing up, o nwere mgbe mma m ga abanye kitchen sie ihe nani ya na mpa m likiri...M bata, e ji m a piasuru the house..When you cook, cook for everyone...Their is love in sharing.

In school, every of my friends have free acess to my kitchen..Even dish food for themselves..Mana babe noro ihe ahu ga na afu ya eeh..


Umu nwaanyi unu ejihu kitchen egwuriegwu at all...Everyman must understand that.
To be honest, When i am in a relationship, My babe can't be around, I will enter kitchen....Except she say oya cook...Is a coded respect I learnt from momsy.

Sparkle777:
You don't know how they've been managing, u just carry yaa big nyash enter kitchen dey use her ingredients. Next time you are coming, bring yams, rice, beans , gari etc. I bet u came empty handed but will be cooking as if u know whether she's saving her condiments.
I dnt have problems wit ppl entering my kitchen or cooking, just dnt use the meat I plan to cook a week's soup and cook for urself only and even chop am finish. Then expect me to be happy. When I visit in-laws I dey dey careful, sometimes I go out to eat and help them by buying some food stuff.
Madam, abeg go find another place to stay.

You forgot to tell him to come with gas as well...

BigYash:
Maybe your own food sweet pass her own... You don fall her hand .

Lol

Mariangeles:
Since you've been living with them for several months, have you ever witnessed her male siblings have unrestricted access to the kitchen?

Ihe wuni topic gi...

olabrinks:
I’m not being funny but women born after 1990 should not have this stupid olden day mentality of the “kitchen belongs to me only”. It’s weird and stupid. The Kitchen does not belong to the wife of the house, if someone is hungry and they want to cook, let them cook. If someone wants to bath will they ask for permission before using the bathroom? What nonsense.

Lol...It is funny...how our mothers colonized the kitchen in their era..

Mariangeles:
It is not about him not killing them, it is more about the embarrassment if it were to happen again.
Hardly will anybody excuse that it is mere coincidence.



Forget all the gragra, it is not natural for man to be alone.

Embarrassment kwa? Hmmm gi lewe onu umu uwa, you will never take good decisions for yourself.

Exactly...Man cannever be alone...Even nwoke na akpatahu ego, will still get a companion, ma ya fodu ndi kpatara ego..

emmanuelbrown26:
This Kanu of a guy has guts I swear. His boldness and courage is out of this world.
I watched the video like 3 times, I can now say that I'm very proud of Kanu.
Every courting sitting Kanu keeps waving strong and stronger.
This is a typical Igbos, tthey are bold and courageous, it's only in dotland.com that u would see a guy without kobo but his boldness alone can even intimidate one that has money.
IIn mmy nnext life, if I'm to come to Nigeria,iI would always Rep Igbo.com, dotland.Com

My Igbo people can Intimidate for Africa..

Here somebody with a bicycle will tell another with Gwagon " Oga come on commot this carton for road " ..

Them no dey use money intimidate a typical Igbo man sha.

Balls...

Agu adighi eri Agu..

Mariangeles:
Akwa I fuola ichafu ishi?

Well, it is up to him mana ya were oge ya. There's no need to rush into it again.

Ndi sisters no na church ya ha ga ekwe kwanu ya..

He isn't the one killing them after all, natural death happens.

At that age he needs a companion...Hapu cha o, ma ndi red pill anyi a juru ebe a, mgbe ha ruru 38 to early 40s..The need for a companion abia setia in, gi i hu ha, ha sound wa zie ka married men ..

Even the need is higher when a man becomes wealthy or a bit comfortable...

Gi abia mata na ego without a better half is sour.

Mariangeles:
Owu nani!?

O nwe kwaranu ihe ozo?

Mariangeles:
I think so too.

To avoid it happening the third time maybe.
Some people are just unlucky in some certain areas of life, and in life, not everything is a must.

For his status, he needs a wife...

A sister is getting set to become his sweetheart..

The sugar in his tea, the cockroach in his cupboard..

airsaylongcome:
He lost his first wife

If he feels lonely, he can re-marry.

Another sister is getting ready to be a mummy GO..

Mariangeles:
Lack of self-control.

Yea...The can't wait to get home or ya wuru adventure they wanted to experience...

Them say it is sweetest when it becomes an adventure...

jesusjnr2020:
Perhaps he shouldn't get married again.

Why?

Mariangeles:
Uwa mmebi!

Mba o..o nwehu ihe gbasara uwa na nke a o..

Nke a wu ndi nzuzu abuo who took adventure to extreme...

This ones done turn to cock and hen..

mightyhaze:
Paul is real



Perter na eye service chief..



Has he ever wished that girl anything before now?

Lmao...this life eeh...A big problem in that family...


Two sweet guys making millions together, until they married..Problems started...

I still blame their elder brother..He failed in his duties...As their parents are no more.

ValCon888:
Mental poverty is not just a disease. It is the chain that is holding the African man down.

Herd Mentality and the Sheeple Effect.

Not one person in that video conducted an
investigation.
They are busy tearing the cloth like Agege Bread.

Lmao.... That was soo unintelligent of them.

gasparpisciotta:
See what my workers killed at a project site somewhere in Lagos.

2 scary black cobras were killed and 4 scorpions were caught and lucky to be released on my instructions

Simply a food chain stuff...cobra came for the lizards that feed on the insects...
As well as the rodents scavenging.

Becareful you guys might encounter more.

younglleo:
Oga, u catch black scorpion release am?
Pls instruct dem make dem catch am make i come take am abeg!

Any specific need for it?

So cute when guys spend on their better half...

OreMI22:
The duty of the soldiers and security agencies is to provide security and not shield party agents from observing the process.

The army is now under instructions from the FG in Abuja to write fake results in Ihiala LGA.
This last minute desperado move of the APC will not stand!

It will be easier for Nigeria to be better now, than APC winning Anambra election now.

DaInferno:
her last sentence caught up with you mahn

Hahahahaha...uppercut..

Tokskob2008:
A 50years old woman still sleeping around like a teenage....

You don't know what is going on.

Iyaebe:
Its not funny you know, it was the man that started the chasing before she agreed to it and we won't be reading all these if he had remain faithful to his wife

Who said it was the man that started it? Were you there when they started?
What if she seduced him as we know men are moved by what they see and pick interest in...

Mylordmygod1:
Op.. Why call it beans cake and then using 'a.k.a' to call its original name; akara?

Pizza as popular as it is today is not an english name, it is an italian name and pizza originated from italy.. But you simply call it pizza!

also, the likes of shawarma as popular as it is today is not an english name, but you simply call it shawarma!

why then call our own 'akara' beans cake instead of akara?

some people will be calling garri cassava flour, calling moi moi beans cake.. A nigeria girl will be ashamed to say she ate eba, because they have not gotten a sexy name to it.. What is wrong with you, why spoil thing for us?

do you think calling it beans cake will make a white man to know what u ate, what is beans cake self?

mctheeew..

I love the fact we are becoming woke towards the positive things like this.