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Even though this guy overreacted, some Nigerian lecturers feel like a demi-god..

Simple understanding would have solved all this...Nobody knows tomorrow, person wey you frustrate today fit be the barrier to your kids and their dream place..

The did is done, and e never end...that's if the guy won't come back to murder her after them rusticate his 4yrs of suffering or him taking the suicide way...

Kinematics:
That's another story. But we are talking about prevention of STI and the use of antibiotics after unprotected sexual intercourse.

Advantage/ disadvantages comes to play in almost everything.

Kinematics:
Well abstinence still remains the only 100% protection against STI. However condoms can guarantee a significant level of protection for almost all STIs besides HPV.

Abstaining is cool, but oyibo say practice makes perfect..

So if brother titus abstain finish, only to be using torch light to find where them locate the opening on wedding night with a naive sister Patricia as well.. what will you say?

I read a chinese couple that were doing it from anus thinking that is where the opening is.. And it landed them to emergency unit of a hospital....

Anyhow e be, people go dey chop before the meeting..

Kinematics:
Too many comedians here...

Don't you know vitamins will still play a role in boosting immunity and a bit of resistance?

Give us advise that can alleviate fears a bit..not turning everything to joke na.

Kinematics:
So those penicillins you just mentioned will work against viruses, parasite like trichomoniasis and some bacterial infections that are resistant to penicillin treatments?

Smh..kinetmatics i know you will swing this to your medical field..

But, I guess you skipped the first statement I made..about the authenticity not being 100%

Plus telling him to use protection..

If antibiotics works fine, those things won't come up at all...

And I know antibiotics doesn't cure viral issues, it is only used to treat secondary infections that can act as complications.

Chuky7:
Does Taking Antibiotics after raw sex prevent you from getting STD

The authenticity is not 100%, but ampicillin or ampiclos works.

But then, please use a condom abeg!..And clean up well.

Havilaah1:
Good day all, i want to pour my heart on what's bothering me and get people's view and possible solutions to the issue.

I've been in a relationship with my boo for a couple of years now and it's a serious relationship, we're are very close.. infact we're practically besties aside relationship. For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

Just yesterday he told me there's something he wants us to talk to me about and it's been bothering him and i asked him what it was, he said it's about us. He said 2 of his siblings asked him same question on different occasions but, he didn't see it as a big deal the first time but when it was asked the second time he got angry and that's the reason he hasn't been flowing well with me.

The question was how can you get married to someone who is not close to your siblings, when he said this i was weak. I know when we started the relationship he told me his siblings are free people i can relate with, i told him i will try. I was in contact with 2 of his sisters before this year( i sometimes chat, text or call during birthdays, new month and festivities).

This year i started chatting with the 3rd sister, her wedding was coming up and she sent me IV. I congratulated her and she asked if i will be around, i told her i will try and create time so i can travel down to attend. I really did travel down to attend the wedding, she was surprised when she saw me but i noticed my boo wasn't happy with me all through the event.
Now he's saying he's in close communication with my mum and siblings, they talk all the time but same can not be said about me. He was thinking how can he get married and his siblings will refuse coming to his house because there's no relationship between us.

I'm a very introverted person while himself and his siblings on the other hand are extroverts and ambiverts, i don't find it easy building up ties with people from a distance. I have very few friends, i can be in a place and i won't talk if I'm not used to the people or there's no serious thing to talk about (that's the reason i talk to his siblings during birthdays, new month or festivities). I don't know how to build up a strong relationship with them before marriage, it's even worse because we don't get to see often cos they're in a different state but I've visited them on a few occasions.
How do i handle this issue. I was in deep thought all through the night, i couldn't get up to 4 hours sleep.


God knows i love his family as much as i do mine, he himself said he knows i care about them 100% but his family cannot read my mind to see that i have them in mind. After our discussion last night i couldn't sleep, I've been feeling bad about the whole thing. Introversion is making me look like I'm not a good person.

I really don't know how to go about this, please i need advice from people who have been in similar situation.
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No case here at all...

Simply see how marriage works, when a man marries you, he is introducing another sibling in his father's house, just like you are introducing another sibling to your own father's house.

You said he is very close with your family, he is expecting you to be same to his..

A lot of simple ways to win the hearts of your prospective in-laws...It is very easy for men..

But quite difficult for some women...

Marriage is a place of steady sacrifice, if you give him a vibe of not willing to sacrifice, you will lose him...As simple as that..

If he bothers about you not relating to his family, some other men might careless about that.

If he is the first son, sorry that marriage might not work if you remain cold and hide under introverted mindset.

Just improve your self a bit, since you have identified your flaws...Two must agree to work better.

Season of anniversary we have here...beautiful wife though.

Mariangeles:
Sometimes, mothers say things that shouldn't be said.

Isi shouldn't be said? O wuhu maka ndi mma o..


Ma owu ndi mpa, ihe i huru mee, they can't feel shy or hide words from people that came out of them...

Mariangeles:
Owu ije love. Inukwa!


Owu nani sneak out na sumptuous meal...
Jikerekwa obi gi o, maka na ihe I chere ma gi luo nwaanyi nwere ike I wuru the opposite. Maka adi a ma-ama.

Udi nke ahu ka mma’m ga si “ ‘ke a mege pipipi otee(otu a), I ga e bulikwa?”



Jikere! O dihukwa nfe.
O wuhu ya ruo echi ugbu a, gi si “nobody told me about all these”

Lol....no matter what, we've got choice to make in life...

Before nwoke aluwa nwaanyi , definitely o ga enwe ihe ndi ohuru masiri ya na....Ya wuru go di onye emechiri anya

I can't settle with a woman who hates cooking...Mba na...Maka happiness mu na ya..o ga na esiwa go di ite..
O wu m lobata, ma si ya mere m chicken bbq, ya elewe m ka pastor chefuru sermon.

Nwaanyi mee pipipi, mu eme papapa..

Uche m di ya naa....Anahu aso mgbagbu aga ogu..


Ndi mma eeh, reminds me of one guy in my street back then that married one handicapped woman that feels too high of herself, mma m bia ya si this guy ha enyekwara ya change mgbe o kwuru ugwo ishi the lady..

You will think ndi mma ahu gahu ihe n'ile, for where them dey see everything.

These comedians and their partners eeh..funny people..

I don't even know how they get their women sef..

Ndi a sef.

Mariangeles:
Some men like them that way na.

My sister told me her boss' wife calls him at work to order her breakfast almost everyday, while she's at home.
Then another that sits on the stairs after work, then waits for her husband to carry her upstairs because she's pregnant.

O nwere ndi umu nwoke umu nwaanyi pipipi na'a mashi o. It makes them feel powerful in some kind of way I guess.

Inukwa! Nwaanyi no n'ulo, si m zutara ya breakfast, no be juju be that

Mu nwa kwesiri i choro way sneak out from work, to go and eat the sumptuous meal she made

I understand ones in a while treat/pampering di mkpa, ma owuhu udi nke everyday a biko...

A time I visited my Uncle, nwunye ya ka na akwado ishi nri, ya kpowa my uncle si ya zutara m mu na my cousin nri outside kanyi tachie osa tupu ya eshicha nri at least nke a di understandable...

Onye nke pregnancy a to gbuo lam na ochi ihe umu nwaanyi na eme anyi during pregnancy wu chizoba anyi.. nke a di funny and lovely sha.

Ma ndi nke na abia with weird appetite/craving in the dead night..

Aarenasbaba:
And d doughnut was very ok with #5 blackcurrant

I swear...Reminiscing good old days.

The fool that give this fake percentage will not make heaven...ndi ara.

KingDash:
hahahahaha oh boy, no be small thing oh.

Mariangeles:
Inyanga na nghogbu di n'iche.

O wuhu umu Nwaanyi n'ile mere understand the way you do na.

Many na eji nghogbu a mix up inyanga...

Overdoing it is the worst...

KingDash:
lwkmd... no be small thing oh, to be man dey sweet sometimes sha.

I swear , crazy things man dey do..


I no even forget guys wey go come buy condom where guys gather for a pharmacy shop just to appear like say he be parole guy..Only to throwaway condom after walking few poles away...

Aarenasbaba:
I gave one of my junior #10 to buy me doughnut of #5 and he was to give me #5 change. Both my #10 and doughnut is nowhere to be found since 2004

Chai...5naira doughnuts...When economy is good.

Reminds me of one ice cream called jamil yoghurt...20naira.

KingDash:
lwkmd.. porn na our crypto currency that year for school..

When men were boys..

For university, men will put porn for LG home theatre to dey operate throttle..

KingDash:
A pirates porn movie, when I buy with my allowance say if school close I go watch am... my best friend move am.

Lol....Who no watch porn for secondary school, never sabi sha..

Principal carry our case then, me I run from school for a week..claiming sick..

My timberland sandals...in JSS1
I saved my pocket money for a term to buy new one.. no be today Man begin challenge himself.


I walked home barefoot that day...The person that stole my sandals, I hope life is fair to you now?

Mariangeles:
Owuhucha nghogbu sha...most times, o na wukari inyanga

When a man loves a woman, she basks in and takes full advantage of the attention.
Na mumu dey form strong woman all the the time.

Okwa ya? true sha...

Nwoke formu ga strong head, wu onye na hu behu o di n'obi ya....Ya hu ya, ones in while a woman will become a girl.. metu iyanga ntakiri..


Ije nwoke na nwaanyi wu understanding...mana ya towa uto si wepu aghugho.

Mariangeles:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Udi gi manu I le nwaanyi anya n'ihu na wu ndi umu nwaanyi na a ghogbuli.

Lol..

I didn't bother to question further, o wunu ya nuga ufu the pain na...o wu m

Mu nwa ji na adi open in whatever I am doing, so Nwaanyi tuwa ashi, onwe ya ka o mege...maka I will lose interest very quick.

I don't even expect much..

And, onwehu nwoke nwaanyi na aga hu a ghogbuli o...She only need to capitalize on your care for her.

Mariangeles:
I doubt.
She probably didn't know the drugs that would've worked for her.

Some use diclofenac, some use piroxicam or even ibuprofen. What works for one might not work for the other.
You just have to figure out what works for you.

I feel she didn't identify what works for her well, or ya wuru na otu gara m ashi then.

Davash222:
Brother Timothy advised us in the Bible to be taking small Wine cos of our stomach.

My Rev Father takes Stout during Church bazaars.

I tire o....People pay too much attention to unnecessary issues..

I wonder how men who don't take beer ones in a while look like..

Nwoke coke na malt

Mariangeles:
She never used pain killers?

Hers defy all pain killers according to her..It was scary then o...

bukatyne:
Let me flip the question:

Do husbands 'owe' their wives sex in marriage?

I believe it depends on the type of marriage contracted:

In Christianity, marriage is for the following (in no particular order):
1. Companionship
2. Prevent adultery aka access to godly sex
3. Raise godly children

To ensure number two is achieved, plenty Bible verses talk about husbands and wives sexually satisfying themselves. The key would be 1 Cor 7: 2 - 5:


So yes, husbands and wives owe themselves sex, companionship, support etc.

Full stop.. .

That person writing that novel, will still claim to be Christian... with twisting of scriptures to suit their skewed opinion.

Fools they think this is how money is made...Ndi ara


Nollywood giving people wrong mindset...You cannever make money through rituals....You must hustle right and smart.

Mariangeles:
I gbakuo la ya!

O wu nu ya..

I wouldn't want that stress for my woman sha..

I remember dating a lady cramps ya na di severe, i hu m mgbe afo na ata ya eeh, I just look helpless knowing fully well their is Notting I can do....Mpia ya aka n'afo, me ebute cold Ice tukwasa ya n'afo....Oyi mawa ya nga eeh, I go any length to help o..Same with mma m na mpa m....

Remembering the situations then was touchy...Umu nwaanyi chukwu kere ihe ebe unu nor o.

It is stupidity trying to hate women sha.

Mariangeles:
I wonder how they do it o.

Sometimes, I just wonder how my mum kept having babies in the month of December.

Definitely from nice planing...it means the woman took in around feb/march/April..Then carry it through the cool raining seasonings, and come down in the cooler dry season.

It is seriously stressful seeing pregnant women in the hotter part of the year...Jan- March..The heat is extreme.

O diro easy sha. But worth it.

Mariangeles:
December born are many in my family, so our celebration for the season usually starts early.

Interesting!

I wonder how couples do it...Same as french footballer griezman..All his kids born same month or so.

My family wu interval of two months except nke last that follows second.

Mpa..nov
Mu...jan
2nd..march.
Last...April.
3rd...june
Mma..August.