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DavidNative:
Need Advice Pls

Good Day, everyone, am having a serious challenge in my marriage, been married for a year and was no Premarital sex, since I need to promise her am a faithful guy and based on religion ground….

But honestly even in the marriage, it has been one sided, she said my private part is to big and I stay too long, I do every for her, love her, care for her, help her in kitchen, setup a home business/career for her to save her the stress of going out. I give her head, sometimes I suck and engage in pre-intimacy for long , but many times, since we had gotten married, I am the only active person, sometimes for a month no sex, am getting frustrated, I need advice.
Everytime i try to discuss it, she say i should try to understand that she is nott the sex type. Am tearing apart on my inside. What can i do pls

Get intimate with her na, This things have a way of solving them..

This is why it is difficult for two inexperienced people...You just have to calm down and teach her how to enjoy it from scratch...It will take time and patience, but will worth it..

Open up to eachother....You are not close to her...I mean heart to heart...You guys are not connected...

Open up to yourselves, free your mind and discuss sex in your bedroom or bathroom..Conquer your shyness/fears...Expore your fantasies and have fun..

I swear na you go tire if u succeed on this....no be juju.

Kilotat:
Make them come Sokoto see something,
The kind sun wey go Wire them ehh, them go reconsider

Lmao...that sokoto sun no be here o...I feel it is 30mins away from hell..

Sonnobax15:

In a society where women tend to celebrate their promiscuity,a woman who has preserved her only dignity for a man who's worthy enough to take it should highly be valued

Wahala for non virgins...E reach to celebrate...but on Social media is a mess...It should be private jaree.. .

Congrats to the lady, she bought everlasting trust.

vybzkartel:
Meaning?

Everlasting simping...

As long as you av developed feelings and she isn't, abort mission...

Two people can be friends with mutual likeness, but when one starting growing feelings and the other isn't, wahala don start....

If you've been friends with her for sometime, then you started loving her and she isn't...Just back down...Love must be reciprocated when it comes to man/woman matters if not, one person will use the other.

constance500:
Connected but no internet

When a lady tells you she likes you but can't return your love

So you can't browse

What an Intelligent comment... soo on point...lmao

mariahAngel:
Ha ja a sa gi afo?



Happy new month.
Happy independent survival.

Mba o...due to the excess vitaminC content of most, I am careful not to take excess...


Okwa happy survival.. no be small one o..

CRUISETOPIAVP:
White hippo

Lmao...

Jadentico:
Whitepig...

mariahAngel:
A maghudi’m si owu #100 o



Of course, you can.
2-4 per day is good.

The woman gwuru m ike...

Ok...Thanks...All these citrus fruits na dikari somehow..So i am careful when consuming.

Happy New month!.

Uzomarrr123:
Whitemoney would have won laycon hands down


Take it or leave it

Na so malaria dey start sha...

Try armatem sha..

Somebody comes to mind....

Vanity crew......

Amanda4life:
Because of Emma
Liquor will not win

Na so!...Remove Emmanuel she will still struggle to retain her 2nd....

Holluwhakemmy:
Ewedu nko?

She just want to get problem with Ogun..

Mstchweewwwwwwwwww

mariahAngel:
O nwere ike wuru #500

Reminds me of my grandmother.

I ga asi kwa, na #100.... I was lost so I directed her
to momsy, ya na ya e settle akpa ego owu..


Ihe nke afugburu momsy that day..Ya emechaa kpo m, si ihu la Nwaanyi a, gbagbuo way ya...

Ndi mma siri ike sha..

Can I take oranges daily?....a huru m ebe gbara cheap, zukoro ya...I just hope it is not too much taking it everyday since Tuesday now.

mariahAngel:
5k cha? Mba, ya wete pam ise.

Pam ise owu ego ole?

One mama come buy something last year, she said she is paying otu akpa ego...I was lost...


Like I am in 1914..lol..

Ndi mama eeh..

Threebear:
All the time when the weaklink leaves , the lover goes on to win.
In this case .....

This year no follow...Regarding Mercy and Ike fallout, shipping is dead on arrival for prospective housemates...

Even if one falls for anyone, they will keep it in the refrigerator till they go outside....

Threebear:
They left him to vote liquorose and Liquorose is still losing .

Normal normal...The weaklink in every ship that made it to finals, leaves first....

So Emmanuel is settled.

The show winner wins before finale.

mariahAngel:
O rubenuhu otu ahu.
Owu ihe m jiri si ya mee otu ike kwere ya.
Ya wurugodi I bite ego, ya bitetu nke o ga kwufuli.

Ya si gi ihe o ga akwuli wu 5k kwanu...

Threebear:
Emmanuel is in the bottom .

His fans really failed him .

Like as if he get fans before...

This guy should know music is not his calling biko...

He should bank on hospitality business...maybe he will soon compete with Chibuike and his Oga.

Too many sane Nigerians want this move to work...

Maybe north will realize what Hisbah is doing to their economy.

Maybe they will start generating VAT from Cow.

mariahAngel:
Op seems like he’s afraid, but there comes a time in one’s life when you need to step out your comfort zone and do what you have to do.
Sometimes, we allow ourselves to be unnecessarily overwhelmed by a situation, when there are options we’d rather not take.

O wu afraid to borrow?


In this case, ya mee ihe no ya n'uche....Ma ya agakwala gi i biri ego o na agahu akwucha li..ma owu gawa ohi..

Ma owu nwaanyi i ga kwawa iko..

Mpa m si o nwere challenge ga a bia kwute mmadu, onye ahu a di forced to i mu agwa ojor.

mariahAngel:
I chiga ochi?
Ya wurukwanu s’owu nna ya nwuru, owu o gahu e li ya?

Ya wuru nna ya, and he has no one else to do it, he will find ways to...But avoid borrowing what will send him to depression...

Ya kara ya mma, na nwoke mmadu no na mortuary chere mgbe OP matara ego o ji eli ya.

Ihuru mme mme wu ihe m na agahu agwa mmadu ga biri ego mee o...Do according to your pocket...To ensure your peace of mind.

mariahAngel:
Exactly!

Borrowing is not a crime, neither is it a taboo.
Onye ri ndu ga a kwu ugwo o ji and life continues.

Onye na enwehu ihe oji akwu ugwo kwanu?


If them knock for his door after burial, voom! Obi ama fuo ya..lmao

mariahAngel:
As they say, wahala no dey finish, but challenges are surmountable.

Challenges makes us tougher and wiser na.

Karlman:
My In-laws are doing their father's burial and I don't have money kindly advise.
This is really a serious matter as I have only two weeks left.
Elders in the house kindly advise a brother.
Thanks



Chief Lalasticlala ... Mynd44 Dominique and all mods kindly uplift this post as I am on very hot seat please.
Thanks

Afford what you can, if you can't, delay is not denial...

You can always redeem yourself later...

Genuinely, do the little you can, and heaven will not fall...Even if it is culture, the gods are wise and can be lenient.

In this trial time, your wife and kids are your priority, anyother thing is extra if the money isn't there.

If you can't meet up, return home few days to burial and help out with errands to cushion side talk stuffs.

You can be a major financier of the memerial service if you pick up from your trial moments.

No go do pass yourself o...Depression is real and dangerous for a family man.

Karlman:
Not a family specific at all..this is the cultural practice if you really want to attend an in-laws father or mother burial.

Did you married from Anambra? Or SE state?

mariahAngel:
Negotiate with them to cut it down to what you can manage to give.
I don’t see the need for three goats and all that.

Lol...

Wahala for who no get money in law come die..

mariahAngel:
If it were your father’s burial, wouldn’t you do what is expected of you?
Your wife’s father is also your father, so you have to do what is expected of you. It is your obligation.

You brought the matter to nairaland looking for excuses and support on why you shouldn’t fulfill your obligations, knowing fully well that traditionally, it is what is expected of you.
When you’re done fantasizing, you’ll log off and go see what you can and should do about the situation.
It might not be easy, but it is not impossible. O ruola n’omume!

Lmao....I wouldn't encourage even an Enemy to borrow and do occasion in this dwindling economy...Payment might lead to depression for some people.

If he is lucky he has other people than can assist in burying their Father-in-law, it is fine...

But, he must accept he failed in little contributions he should make...And it should be a boost to hustle for him, Maybe he can single handedly sponsor his memorial service to redeem himself.

Who hold today, fit be broke tomorrow...

A friend ones told me some years ago he found it difficult to feed, his wife elder sis treats him like thrash...Even tried to discourage the sister from dating him wayback...But today, dude is a multi millionaire...Guess what, he is even a means of livelihood for most of his In-laws now..Especially the one that hated him most...

When you experience somethings in this life, their is a level to your chills and focus as man precisely.

OP is probably in a down moment...It should be a motivation for him...Seeing he can't even be in decision making to bury his second father.

This time last year, My aunt and her hubby faced similar case when her MIL passed on...Her SIL...almost humiliated her...Dad had to come in to assist them at least cook something personal to serve their own guest...

But guess what, few weeks after the burial their last son in Turkey, called and told them to relocate somewhere...he pulled down their old house and erected a bigger modern house in 2months...Got them nice ride and a driver, Infact their life has changed as we speak.

Life is not that deep if we no carry stuffs for head...Like if it doesn't happen now, heaven will fall.