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Teeboy15:
You're not yet ready to get married. Seriousness is faaaaar from you.
Like someone said, that young man's heart is purer that all your motivational pentecostal preaches put together.

Infact, purer than yours inclusive.

I just pity him for trying to make a mistake by marrying your type.

Pretender

I pray God to save him....This is walking into hell of fanatic without solution...She will frustrate the guy to depression.

I fear who no fear these type of ladies.

Tloc:
My dear young lady, that path of religious piety which you assume you on is your step to DOOM. Stay woke and refine your RELIGIOUS views to be in tandem with contemporary life realities and grow your inert spirituality. Be far away from religious extremism and you would live a more fulfilled LIFE. I am sure that young man's mind and soul is purer than all your Pentecostal pastors' put together. Shalom.

Words on marble!......

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahakikikikikikikikikiki

Otu ndi ojoo!
Esokwala ha o...if not, lekwe ka I na gahie

I laugh, maka ihe nwoke huru nñuo na redpill, he can't bit a natural Alpha guy...

Just like ihe nwaanyi huru saa hee anya na woke/feminism she can't beat a natural Apha lady na iwa anya.

mariahAngel:
Well, it all depends on what one wants in a partner...
A well educated man could want a traditional wife with basic education, and I know many men with little education who are into (successful) businesses and married well educated ladies.





In all, I hope they're able to sort out their issues o...and not taking the cowardly side chic route

Most men these days are just cowards, instead of them to think of ways to sort out their family issues, they'd rather take the cowardly route, and end up destroying their family.

Well most times I get to see well educated lady with a business guy with little education...And things move fine...

But, u see the other way, sometimes it doesn't sit well....then the question there, will be what is the problem?...I think every girl child need a good education as well as boys and a little bit of knowledge about basic things in life....

Every woman who wish to marry is a potential manager...She is going to manage a lot..And therefore, need that education and little bit exposure...Exposure a wuhu kwa nke ndi woke sisters o... ma o wu bitter women association..mba o
Exposure wu basics, managing and expanding resources weh oga bring home...

Managing oga and the kids...keeping everyone satisfied.

Managing her little work/business..

Managing her people and those of her hubby...

Nna eeeh..oru kariri...

And uwa emehele anya with a speed of light...


Hehehe I si coward smh...But in this case, OP don beg tire....Even involved third parties to intercede...Or is he going to beg for years?
Is not cowardice o, Its keeping his sanity...Ya megide ihe nwuo, the woman will move on jeje without hindrance...And might even fall into it with another man, even na enye di man local government ya ofuma si ya tawa....with style o wula o choro..


One has to apply wisdom...That six months gap of no bonding has damaged a lot...Some things lost will never be recovered..

mariahAngel:
Then onye wu president ha?

Ubunja na nwaamaikpe deh drag am....Mana ha nwere ike hie ura, kris ma o wu jayson a piara the president from behind...After all overtaking is allowed...

mariahAngel:
Forget o! You'd be surprised...
Nwoke ma ihe o huru ma luo ya na.
Wisdom and common sense are not obtained in schools.



There's no other way I'd rather be na...I also get serious when the situation calls for it.




The guy a gaala one side ga gbabere. He just created the thread to seek opinion. He's probably too embarrassed to engage in the discussion. Chai!
Nwaanyi obi ojoo awudikwa onye a na lu-alu o.

Ike gwuru.....For someone like me, I can't o...Understanding ga adi difficult...PhD vs waec..mba o.
Yes I agree, many things are acquired outside the four walls of classroom.....In fact basic things needed to survive can't be from school.

Good for u.


Lol, He brought an ant infested fireeood home...Ha ya wu zi chuwa ngwere biara la ya holiday...
Nwaanyi ojoo anghi ede ya n'ihu.....Ufodu will act all sweet and rosy until u put a ring, gbam! Real colour will begin to surface....Ya bia mutazie nwa, the hubby a wuzie nkikara akwa.

This is common with our over religious sisters....Ndi daddy GO....Their fanaticism is extreme..

My mom will say, nwaanyi enwe hu church until ya luo di...She follows her hubby to his church..Mana OP, I don't know if he followed the wife to hers...

Or he allowed her worship separately, It's a whole red flag...but he overlooked the whole thing.

There major red flags u have to be conscious about in a relationship, and they are non-negotiable.

The painful thing is that, these things will weigh him down gradually...nwoke na anwu slowly.

If na me, she deh go...I play a lot, but i no like nonsense....I can't keep an extremely wicked partner na....maka sanity.

My Ibadan friend go say He pain am.....

mariahAngel:
Secretary? K'owu vice president

Mba....mosdi wu VP...

mariahAngel:
That's why it's important for couples to be friends... So that they can joke about anything.
People should go for someone who matches their sense of humour.
Like me, I don't enjoy the company of people that are too serious.




I gbuola op final!

Yes, that friendship is very Important...And couples kwesiri i nwe level of understanding...I av seen PHd holders marrying a woman weh no even obtain normal degree...chai how will this type of union work na.

I likiri nu i di happy mgbe o bula...na chi ochi gi na....There times one needs to be serious o...before anyhow person mistake u for onye egwuriegwu...


Gbuo OP kwa? Mba o...Nwunye ya wu onye choro I gbu ya o, o wuhu kwa m...

Nwoke a gbabela zamzam ke mgbe 6months... For a high libido guy like him...na big punishment...

Orubebe01:
Joe should concentrate in cleaning the gutter cos rainy season is here abeg

Chai....

Igbo Amaka!


Anywhere is a home.

Simplyleo:
Rubbish.

Buhari has connived with US, Brazil etc to make it look as if Nigeria can produce something to export to America. We all know say na lie.

Where Dangote jihadist get brain to produce export products when umu chineke is available?

Buhari should try harder.

Don't ask me how Buhari is doing that, ask ipob pigs.

Na so madness the start, small time na to locate available market...

teegurl2:
Honestly I don't understand. After my first baby, my husband said I have become fat....I started to work out and lost weight. Second baby same thing. He even said babe you are going out of shape. Lol

How can I take offence in that. Instead I saw it as a motivation to put in more effort in my weight loss goal.

I didn't find it insulting at all. I felt he just wanted me to look my best.

Nice thoughts.

Cc Mariahangel this is it...Na man weh really care and doesn't want to jeopardise what he share with the wife, will always help her checkmate her figure and others...


And na wife weh get understanding, will know it's a motivation for her to look peng for him.


Nwaanyi OP di wicked...

Ollins abeg where una the see this kind wicked wife?...Abeg tell us make we change location before person go follow u enter tunnel weh water flood.

mariahAngel:
What?



Owu significant other.

Nothing o...


Oooh, I am still in stone age.. I no even sabi all this coded social media language...

Crack wu crack...Secretary ndi red pill anyi....

mariahAngel:
Who knows a spouse better if not their partner?
Op should've known better the level of play the wife could tolerate...
E get some kind play wey some people no dey fit handle.
Well, not that I'm justifying what Op's wife is doing to him...'cause it's not right.

Na you sabi




I swear, I like her already!
Greet her for me.

Smh

Okwa SO wu special one?

mariahAngel:
Onye onu ojoo!

Okwa o si nengi wu matron saint ya...


Ndi isi gbakara juru ebe a...lol

mariahAngel:
I'm actually not missing anything.
Life can move on without me biko...I don't feel the need to catch on
We all can't be the same.

Lol

O dikwa risky....for an aspiring mother...


The way life is now, u need to be 2times smarter, in other to train ur kids well......Uwa emehele anya..

Unless you will be in 1945 ,while in 2021...

mariahAngel:
You ehn...

I no even know where to start from.

Okwu kariri....Ikpe mara nwunye OP na...lol


But na truth I talk na?

Blastblade:
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Please speak for yourself. Nengi is a saint to me.

As long as she didn't do any of what these sluts did in that house with all the temptations. Nengi is a saint.

Saint nengi......pray for you..

Kayode 600yrs await you....A lot happened!

Lizzyangel:
Talker!

Your comment is funny but you're as well hitting the nail on it's head....the man is just a sissy, I felt irritated reading his attitude towards the situation.... it's either the wife is the breadwinner of the house or she's an over-pampered daddy's girl....all this"do you Know who I am? Or who my dad is " ladies.

Shior!! Aya n rin mi Sha!!!

It's a pity he is drowning,but the truth is, only him can save himself.

mariahAngel:
The truth is most men of this generation no longer respect and value wives, and to be honest, they're not worth stressing over.
At least, going by the comments I read on this forum...

Is not about the value or respect in this case na, it is a case of a guy being honest with wify, and wify change am for him...The guy gave room for the nonsense from onset.

Ur wife attends a different church, thats rubbish...she go grow more wings..A woman is very fragile, you don't give her soo much freedom because she will be oliver twist, just like you don't build a fortress around her...

Everything is on a medium cost, if not she will abuse it....Even bible is against OP's wife action..If you read proverbs or 1Corinthians 7 gbada wa... chai I know no say I sabi bible o...I thought my sin plenty sef ....

6months no sex for an active OP aru!...Nwaanyi a gbara wicked..OP don beg tire... I can't make any excuse for this kind of wife....Even God no go forgive me if I do.

I am sorry is the most cherished words in life.. If a wife cannot accept it....To hell with her...If she do anyhow, nwoke eweputa ruggedity......Ones a confirmed, always a confirmed....A man should be a man...and not sisi.

mariahAngel:
Na wah o!

I no know say life don reach this level. I must be really naive.

I'm shocked sha.

I gbara last....

Hahahahahaha...Life is more than what we read here o...ife na eme for real...

Shock kwa, lekwa gi...u want to collect most shocked award from buhari?...

The world is moving fast, u have to buckle up.

Onye hie ura, a nara ya diya...

mariahAngel:
https://www.nairaland.com/6613935/wife-cries-husband-starves-sex#102947418

If the woman on the above thread could survive 4yrs without sex, I'm sure you could... After all, so many comments (by men) on that were like Is sex food?

Find a way to pacify your wife for body shaming her and hurting her!
After you killed her confidence, you expect her to sleep with you?

Playfully kor! Playfully ni!

Heheehehehe....You decided to settle OP with the other thread...


OP is just a sisi man sha......A huge red flag, attending separate church....If husband and wife cannot worship God in the same boat, how will deh fight unforseen circumstances?

How will they even progress?

You mean he killed her confidence by telling her the truth. So, IF her husband doesn't tell her the truth, who will?

This is her husband for good sake..Even girl friends cannot purnish their boyfriends for this.

@Ollins bro quit the reporting, Cut off your attention and affection...Infact channel it to ur kids...And if nothing changes, u know best...Make e no be like na me tell u..

If you are good looking, and earn cool, biko do the needful...you only leave ones...Na man without class, woman go use the play ludo like this...when we have millons of classic babes out there waiting to pick the rope weh cut....

This is where we appreciate side chics...Imagine one, even your wife go naked lye down for bed if she hear your car horn... As you no longer care if her local government deh function...

Twoclans:
With magnoliaa at all my sides I willl talk

When the era of attacking side chics was raining I said it countless times ,as a wife never attack a side chic physically or verbally in a public place.It never pays you as a wife to do that.

With the covid lockdown and movement restriction who else has noticed that attack on side chics is on an all time low. Madam has gotten enough dick thanks to lockdown and 95% are pregnant so oga can be with side chic in peace now.

I stand with him the only problem is that 95% of side chics do not want to be upgraded to a wife.Who wife help?.I will rather be a side chic to Dangote than be a wife to nwAmaikpe of nairaland.

Good side chics are important for a mans sanity,regardless of our disdain for side chics the truth is that side chics keeps a man sane.They will always have a place in the society.

Side chics helping men with bad and arrogant wives since days of Solomon...

Well this was how a friend became second wife from side chic, first madam slap her...she maintain her cool...And months later oga paid dowry and perfect others...now she is comfortable with 4kids...And pushing her 4matic last time she visited... Life is cooler when u cruise round town with 11million naira+ suv weh oga the fuel sef..

Wife weh no calm down will become concubine when number2 enter.....

Life is sweeter when a man is loaded...

Vee the queen of savage...

FTC of this thread affirm that saying " women are their own Enemy", you never hear the song, but rushed to comment trash...

Poor brand representation and marketing strategy....Regarding this economy...

Anything is possible, besides she exhibited threats of being a virgin during her BB time...frustrated one though.

Ighalo see your mate...No be to deh press Lilian esoro and other nollywood ashawos nyash..And writing okoto in reply to your wife shalaye...

Mane nwoke oma.....

fuckingAyaya:
Sai baba till rapture take place

The next thing they will rush down south to beg... sai baba....poor plus poor..

mariahAngel:
Akwa I wu onye ihere?

Mba o...Mana awuhu cha m onye PDA...Though I will cope if my Partner wuru onye likiri PDA..
After all I am a preacher of love, I am not a man of war or fight like Indaboski Odumeje...

mariahAngel:
No ooo!


Happy new week.

I na eti nooo...

Wishing you same..