₦airaland Forum

dominique:
So he should turn into a monk because he wooed you and you turned him down or he should keep wooing you for the next 600 years? Even if you both dated and you separated amicably, there's no betrayal if he decides to date your friend. If you were so bothered about whoever he dates, you should have given into his advances

Na so.

Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

No betrayal..you are being petty.

In the analogue times we chase women till they accept..

But now, Even the moment we are not seeing green light we move...Green light comes before approach.

The guy realized wat he was looking for in sokoto, deh for shokotor...

Your friend as well became attracted seeing the good guy in him...I wish them success and pray they move to next phase and become very successful beyond your Imaginations...

Some lessons are better served chilled, chilled like mortuary standard..

Some girls think the whole world revolve around their azuka or on top their nke iruka....Well...As usual women age like milk, men age like wine.

mariahAngel:
This one's marriage is only just a few months old o...and he's already taking extreme measures.

https://www.nairaland.com/6625830/how-discipline-wife-disrespecting-me#103187726

Lol...I read his plight.

Their is a little bit of childish behaviour in both the wife and hubby.

They attend church, but don't really understand the scriptures that binds their religious life.

The wife disrespected him with a daring attitude..What happened to being submissive to hubby?....Also 1Corinth from chp7 u will come across hubby owning wife's body, Just like wife owning hubby's body..

If i tell my wife I don't like she dressing such way to church, wisdom demands she work on it, even she doesn't have the money, she will know how to ask me about it as support if she is out of monthly maintenance cash..

The guy over reacted to the disrespect he got....Childishly...Anyway he followed newton law of reaction with equal action....


If that lady respects him, she will enjoy him more...And you know respect is reciprocal..

mariahAngel:
It seems being married these days equals giving away your peace.
Ashi GBA!

Yes, If you marry the wrong person....Make sure u watch out for compatibility...otherwise peace of mind will be searched for like Ultimate search...

Compatibility di very Important...


If you have a low sex drive, chowa kwa nwoke nwere low...if you have a high one, chowa kwa onye nwere high...

If you are enlightened, chowa kwa nwoke nwere sound one.

In marriage women love to learn certain things from Oga, Not limited to educational stuffs.

Despite the wrong cases we hear about marriages on dailies, Many people are enjoyjng marriage.

Guys! No go deh do pass....no medal abeg...


Sex is for pleasure until porn video people turn am to competition...

mariahAngel:
Going by some comments on this thread, I don't doubt it.


If the guy is lucky to live long enough to marry, na the wife go suffer am because the thoughts will haunt him for the rest of his life.

He will live, and marry a beautiful lady, have his kids and life goes on...


Being a Nigerian alone, has removed conscience and such thoughts...lol

The thing is karma no deh forgive...Likely another guy man ga a taa nwunye ya vamvamvam.....Still under probability.

Married people kwakariri singles na iko nowadays....If you do hangout, u will understand sha.

PlayMaker14:
Mun.zy14, 99th.enemy, and Kris.s216,

I will be coming to Owerri soon, and I know you guys are already planning to offer me some fresh "Chidinma's" as a welcoming package, but please I also need some personal securities for the fear of the Unknown.....



Thank you and God bless you.

Hhehehehe...yes you will get some fresh chidinma with a touch of sharp knife...

And Niger delta avengers will be on ground to give u best of security...

Please notify us to block your ATM pin if chidinma opens her hand bag..

mariahAngel:
That kind of relationship is called forbidden passion.
They can't stop until something terrible happens.

Lol...unfortunately a lot of guys are into it now...Infact these ladies are sometimes well to do and fund their life style...sugar boy/sugar mommy...

Anyway we pray the terrible thing will not be death.

Pillar12:
What happened could have been avoided, could probably be mended at a point in time but right now i rather talk about my music than anything else.


In a summary he's saying Ericum is irrelevant

Laycon is extremely smart....And super intelligent...He determines the dynamics of any conversation he is involved in...

Kudos to him...I like intelligent people, they are super attractive....Especially when they don't force it.

mariahAngel:
O choro ka op gba nkiti ka nwanne ya gafuo?

Nwaanyi ahu a ruola ala! O jishiela nwa ndi mmadu.
...but it could be that she's more in love, considering the fact that she got pregnant for op's brother and wanted to keep it.

The truth wu, they provide wat eachother needed...I mean the guy and the woman.

At 24, he needed a woman who will genuinely be there for him..plus the huge care she will be baptizing him with as an experienced older lady and probably that gift..

In return, the guy gives her attention, that huge sexual satisfaction and respect as well.

Such relationship, no one can stop them, until they decide to seperate themselves....OP is wasting time...And if he snitch, he will lose his trust and being his confidant....plus subtle hate.


You see these ladies that marry oversea guys, and stay here while oga deh outside, this is the result...Nature must fill vacuum...She must be in natural needs...Even intimacy gadgets won't handle...

mariahAngel:
True.



I think it has to do with her temper/outbursts...that is if she's the same person that shared her story before.

You see that bolded, I have walked out of relationship because of that...A huge turn off..One minute a lady is cool and all sweet, next minute she change am for you...It doesn't make sense at all...A woman is naturally a water/care giver, that calms difficult situation...

To be honest, if a lady does that outburst stuff, I will be like OP's boy friend..

Three people u will be wasting time advising;
1 A man in love(infatuation)

2 A lady in fun filled entanglement.

3 A buhari supporter...If I lie, check manna, simply Leo and cilic...plus sarrki...


There darling daddy...

mariahAngel:
His brother is his business!

Ihe afugbuo la gi...

mariahAngel:
Never easy, but not impossible. Trust me.
She just needs to channel all that emotion/energy somewhere else.
One should never beg for love.

Sad but true....loving happens naturally, and it's a process....

For her to beg, something happened...It is not ordinary.

crackhaus:
I'm going to take your post serious for a few
minutes because honestly, I think you're just catching cruise.

Regarding the bold text, that's the MO of a guy who is dating/sleeping with another chic.

I shouldn't be exposing this format on a public forum and spoiling work for my brothers-in-arms but do your investigation... Your bobo is already involved with someone else and the excitement of that new fling is making him confused.

If you're lucky, he'll get over the excitement quickly and remember you...might even come back begging.
But if you're unlucky, you will see his wedding invitation on FB within the next 6months.

Nawa for you o....

mariahAngel:
As hard as this may seem, cut off all forms communication with him.
The more you're connected to/communicate with him, the harder it becomes to let go.

Hehehehe....oooh!!!

Never easy at it sounds.

Kriss216:
Doctor advised I stay away from Nigerian girls. Effective remedy.

Hahahaha...

SportsHD:
Woe betide the girl that broke you. Damn!

Hahahaha...

Oliviajones:
He doesn't even want sex. I'd give him that if that's what it takes.

No dear, sex can't keep a man even though we like it...

It's your character...I mean good character that can tie a man down....With good character, sex is a pleasure for u and him and not a tool to make him want u...

Dignity of a woman, na husband weh marry her..But real beauty of a woman na good character...

No mata how beautiful a woman is, someone is tired of seeing her unclothedness....But no man will get tired of your good character...

Kriss216:
Be stingy with sex

She's a Nigerian girl. What else will she be offering the guy? Long life

And prosperity...

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TooMuchStuff:
Ahahhahaha....! Smelly bony ragtag fulani gals...?

Wish say dia skinny tiny malnourished fulani gals even get better body sef.!
Na waste of kidnapping be dis na!

Chai... waste of kidnapping...smh Nairaland

Everyone surprising mom..but no one is talking about Dad...chai...uwa umu nwoke....smh

Hehehehe....anyway it is good to have money...

Well, life is all about choice...You have to be in a place where you have peace of mind...Very very Important for sanity.

Straight up we are having increment in cost of gas...All this long story sef...

Nezzjnr:
How Alex Report go dey c8hop now

He will move back to Regina and ned..

colorsofrainbow:
If it was lai Mohamed who was caught,he will tell you how the media is trying to promote fake news & explain how he was only trying to suck out bone that stuck in her throat after having lunch...

Lai Mohammed has a miracle working mouth

Fantastically corrupt minister...

MITCHELL96:
Bro, She doesn't love you anymore, if she even did in the first place sef.. if a girl loves you, she won't post guy especially with such caption, ahn ahn na! if she could call that guy LOML, then what are you ? Just use your head, if she comes clean to tell you she doesn't love you, just Use that energy to get money and girls will line up for you, you'll even be the one to choose who you want to date.

He is the LOMD....love of her death.

Thebest12:
Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
.
Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.

Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

You have been displaced internally in the relationship...

Well the good thing is that the heartbreak will help u recover and rediscover your senses and hustle spirit...

We will help erect an IDP camp for u...After all what is nairaland membership if we can't be here..

If you check well...the guy will not be giving his wife as at when due...

If you check well well the woman will be forming career woman and no time for her hubby at home except when she wants it.

Life no balance...

Quality when you compare them to Rochas and hope.....Ike gwuru...

franklingud:
Dem don chop you.

In Igbo we say e rie la ya.... Maybe without change...