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MadeINchenzen2:
Some may say "u dont know what u have until it's gone or u loose it" ...sometimes we may think a partner is not good enough or does not measure up to our taste or standard or social and financial status... we may observe some contrasting personality traits that does not complement us... so we want something more, we want something close to perfection.

We end the relationship and then find someone else... thinking we have found what we want, only to discover that "EX" was better and even presently still improving.

Now we regret !!!

Have u ever been in such situation?

Kindly share your story in summary

Mine: it happened 2005, I left an 18 months old relationship cause I thought she was damn too ugly and broke, few years later after we parted ways, I discovered she is the owner of a leading cosmetic brand and now looks so beautiful compared to current bae.

The babe mama prayer helped her remove you, her obstacle so she can see road to progress...

You are not made for her....bitter truth.

edimalo:
No one is perfect, even tongue and teeth fight.

Lagos a place where IKEDC has made electricity bill more than house rent or how do you explain a bill of NGN 151,353 in 2 months for a 2 bedroom apartment.
How much is rent of the building that you are bringing this exaggerated bill for 2 months.
The place is residential and doesn't have any commercial activities in it.
see my story

https://www.nairaland.com/6516871/ikedc-fradulent-overbilling-scam-activities#101054639

Pettition IKEDC to come and do proper counting of the electrical units in your house,If they refuse, pettion NERC...Nigerian electricity regulation commission...Follow it bumper to bumper...I bet you laugh last as they will beg u.

Boko haram emerela ha give away...

Sirmuel1:
Where is Tope?

While Buhari's govt mysteriously terminated the female one produced in his regime, Jonathan is show casing the one produced under his watch.

Iamvictor:
She needs to look for a better excuse. Just tell us you are tired of his old banana and you want a new and more energetic one.

QeD....

Other talks na fabble......

At this stage he is more of articulating his daily income and working on philanthropy...He will pay little or no attention to madam.


Money men create time for fun and business at their own will..... Na poor man without job deh wait on styles to pound person daughter...lol

KingAzari:
Just look at their mama before make a dowry down payment.

This, is not up to 45%correct most times...You see a slim mama, and plus size daughters....


Most times na food factor...To add is easy, but to slim is the case.

Slim ladies need extra dowry....

KingAzari:
His bride-to-be is beautiful. The type I am also getting married to - slim-thick, cute, hairless milk skin, tall and young.

Did you mold her personally...

Even the slim ladies we have here, ones they marry, they start adding up like say them chop fertilizer.

Some ladies are justifying the act of stealing from a partner because it involves the female gender...smh...Digital mothers in the making...

A wife who steal or cheats is not worthy to be wife/mother.....That one is leaving my home that minute...which morals will she bring to the home that we know mothers to do from ancestral days.

bestman09:

Moral of this post? Get enough money and spite your ex to enough jealousy

I disagree...Moral of it is Love and loyalty gives room for peace of mind which is priceless...


Nobody is irreplaceable...

Let me hide hear and sip my beer abeg....Idol ko project fame ni...

michlins:
Most of the cars fit make into Nigeria as toks

You said most, it's All... official dump site...

Watch the influx of Hyundai cars in every car stand.

PlayMaker14:
We will destroy the hotel called Imo.

Go and destroy Ibori's bungalow called Delta state...

Kriss216 and playmaker14 nairaland unmen gun known..

mariahAngel:
I told someone "if you want a loyal friend who'll stick with you through thick and thin, look for an Arsenal fan"

Exactly...

PlayMaker14:
DJ Cuppy says "Hi"

Cuppy that does anywhere weh belle face for relationship...How will I take her serious with support for one club...

Some human are spiritually and physically unstable...And highly insatiable...eg..Dj cuppy..lol

Probably she is a butterfly no nest...Anywhere weh good she deh, ones challenges come, na jakpa things.


O gbara uru, agbaghi oghom....Fair weather fan..

Morray:
Please I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm losing my mind over a girl that just broke up with me 3wks ago. Moving on has been herculean for me. I can't help always thinking about her. All these problems started after I traveled to another state for nysc. We've not been communicating fine ever since until an issue broke out which I tried to figure out a way to patch things up and continue with the relationship. Instead she opted for us to go our separate ways which got me furious and which I angrily obliged to. We've dated for 2yrs plus and we planned on spending our life together through marriage - Obviously after service. I'm beginning to lose sleep over the thoughts of losing her. I've tried to get myself engaged in things that would ease my thoughts of her but they keep getting stronger by the day. I won't fail to mention that I have some female admirers where I'm currently serving. Have tried mingling with them to just feel good but I simply can't. I'm someone that don't like to beg for my feelings to be reciprocated whilst in a relationship. Reason why I don't fancy making up with her for now because I know I'd be treated like a piece of trash. I'm just looking for ideas on moving on. My first relationship didn't take me this long to move on. This is entirely a different feeling. I did love her truly but I believe we would still be of we were meant to be.
What can I do to help myself from getting enmeshed further into this situation please guys?

You are either Idle or working for peanut...Get busy and see yourself bounce back to life...

I wonder how women matter will weigh you guys down like this...Anyway break up is necessary to rejuvenate your senses atimes...If not you will spend quality time washing car wey another man go drive..Without getting paid.


Meanwhile, that lady is not yours...If she is, she will stay no matter your mess up..

PlayMaker14:
Dear Morray,


What you're going through now is what 98.63% of Arsenal fans are going through on a weekly basis, and this has been going on for more than 10yrs...

Having said that, I will advise you to put yourself together and let her go....

It might sound harsh, but a lady that says she wants to go you guys to go your seperate ways just because of little misunderstanding is not worth keeping as a potential wife material.

This is a hard time for you, but trust me, you'll be fine.

Hahahaha...

Supporting Arsenal will help you adapt in Nigeria perfectly.

Jay take time with Arsenal and it's supporters oo..Before UGM will visit u for Sapele..

mariahAngel:
Munzy na Arsenal fan na...

hapu jayson

PlayMaker14:
Cc; Munzy14, why are you still allowing this lady I leave in your care to support Arsenal? Why do you like to see her carry 10th position in everything?

I need answers before UGM comes to dance for you at Celestial Junction.

Ihe nzuzu anaghị amasị

Lol....Supporting arsenal is more of organic support...Rather than anywhere weh belle face kind of supporters we have in some other clubs...like Chelsea, Manchester and Barcelona....

chatinent:
We must have had one embarrassing thing we've ever done in a relationship.


What was it?


Me: It was in year one... we were having a freshman night.

I ate different combinations of food. I became pressed.

Lied to bae I was feeling sick and had to go home to rest.

Baba, as I leave there, I locate one bush near one gate likedat enter dey pass time unto fresh breeze things o. It late getting darker by the day. Mehn, see relief. I backed the road.


Wetin I see na torch light illuminated at my angle with a voice saying: “...so this na the hostel where you dey sleep baa?”


She called my name twice so that I responded.


Her friend with her was laughing.

Mehn, that call made me know she wasn't sure I was the one, plus the light wasn't too bright to reveal the person hiding behind the icheku trees.

Mehn I begin crawl enter inside inside bush to escape the brightness of the torch.


Dey followed me o.

I took off.

They took off too o saying “you no go fit escape this one.”


They were trying to affirm truly it was me.


We ran around the bush for about five minutes before I dribbled them and came to the main road and super-ran to the hostel, changed my clothes, and feigned deep sleep.

Lol. Fine boy like me no fit just gree fa.


This wahala babe still come my hostel. Now, they were four. Lol. Trust me, I denied all allegations.

Enough respect.



Please share yours.

For your mind u outsmarted her, story story...She only allowed the back and forth to die down...Don't joke with a woman's determination.

Mariangeles:
Finally made some red, round, stretchy, non crunchy, sweet puffpuffs. ❤

Loukma.

Nice....

falcon01:
And you wanna eat this! What the f*ck is wrong with you guys yo? That doesnt look like anything edible! Ya'll are Train wreck.

Smh...white African...

These things were created to supply protein to man...We can't follow the white man way hook, line and sinker.

China again....Smh

PlayMaker14:
Munzy Nwaném, you know this things.

Hehehe ya hapu penetration for now..Make the place tighten a bit....

Stomoney:
My prick no dey even dey stand this days and na Buhari cause ahm

Buhari or Desmond Elliot...

PlayMaker14:
Oga, if you don't fire this night, the chances of you cheating with a roadside Prostitute is 94.27%

I will advise you give it to her this night and it should be spooning position because of the current situation.

Kindly inform her that you would be live on her stage performing tonight.

Jay..... onye highway...

No be only spooning na fork.

bestabigaelever:
Small showglass-7k(used one on Jiji)
Bench-3500
Gas 3kg-3k(used one on Jiji)
Filling-#1200
Frying pot medium-3k
Small stew pot-1k
Yam-#1500
Potatoes-1k
Oil 5litre-4k
Pepper and it's accessories-1k
Ponmo-#500
Plantain-1k
Nylon-#500
Small Plates 1dozen-2k
Fork 1dozen-#600
Purewater 2bags-#340
Big umbrella-#9500
Umbrella holder from welder-5k
Medium speaker plus memory card-5k

Wow..

Toks2008:
Nice one. The truth is that there is no big deal if any lady chooses the path of feminism... I just hate it when a lady wants to have her cake and still eat it.

You can't be acting like a feminist in a relationship and still expect to be treated like a traditional lady.

You and this your coded game of gender threads...

Anyway I agree with you on this one..

Traditional ladies are feminine and should be handled as queen.(A queen is submissive to her king).

Feminists should be treated as men...

Princedapace:
What of fathers?

Lost case...Na God hand e deh..

Even OP carefully separated the fathers...And later add your parents.

Growing up it has always been my mom...But for some time now...I just the spend on the man...He deserve everything as well as mom...

Na him the give the real blessings and not mothers.

Mothers pray...

Fathers bless...

The two are extremely important.

JungleJustice01:
Sore throat, flu, muscle aches, lymph node enlargement. These are signs of a viral infection and they show up 1 -2 weeks after exposure.

I'll go for a test tomorrow, secretly. I've made peace with myself, it's telling my wife that's the issue. This home I hold dear will definitely scatter over a 5 minute one day stand.

Go for test and stop reading online signs and symptoms...The mind can be deceptive.

captainamiedi1:
Honestly every month i go to the market to buy foodstuffs, i just weep for many. i bought milk for 2500 last two months, i bought it 3000 yesterday and many other stuff. People are really suffering in these country. many people can't afford decent meal anymore.

Thats why i told my friend to stop fighting anybody because many people are moving corpse. God help us in these buhari era

very risky to fight nowadays....

EmekaBlue:
If u look well Men soup dey sweet pass women soup. I wish i can cook! I know say eno hard but i no just like kitchen

Sometimes...because men add everything required...While, some women will economize to squeez out small cash from the cooking money for maryK and sisters...