₦airaland Forum

heendrix:
Does it mean the Majors in the army are all sensible??

cause the one that calm boys in Osun state was also a Major

NAF are always sensible and diplomatic so I wount be surprised if it were to be NAF

The are, until the reach colonel and humans become chicKen...From brig gen upwards act liKe cult.

mariahAngel:
Okwaya?


I was laughing while reading it I even had to read it again

When u see that Kind question for exam, na sweat plus itawasi ishi pen...

mariahAngel:
Dodo and peppered chicken

ooooh!!! eri cha, a gbotoro...na añu so mmiri....

Share the step wise series of processes encountered before u arrived at this , the peppered chicKen.

My last statement reminds me of undergraduate exam question in chemistry..

Tobichuks08:
Breakfast. My best meal.

Boarding school way, weldone!

mariahAngel:
Coffee loaf cakes.

ji si iKe!

mariahAngel:
Songs of Solomon kwanu?

Ha nile so cha...

mariahAngel:
Spouses should be each other's first priority, and not the kids. The children should be secondary.

The summary!

mariahAngel:
Hey!

...and they resort to blackmail

Men and tantrums are like....help me insert that Zuma meme

My favorite bible part, na booK of proverbs, especially the areas solomon advised men and wonen...

mariahAngel:
Make oga go stay oneside small na...ogini di?

.. If oga begin stay one side with one sabi babe, una go complain...

Madam happiness maka y...
Give him na, weather this days na weather for two o..

Most of her type plenty for dubai, doing ashawo job...Sometimes, some foolish guys try to keep them as personal babe....Usually end in premium tears.

mariahAngel:
The men should get involved with the kids.

The more you spend time with the kids, the more they'd love to spend time with you, instead of only mummy. It's called Connection seeking

Na so, mtn connection...house husband o kwaya...

mariahAngel:
I been confuse your comment, then I come see say we dey the same boat, come delete my post

Although, I don't agree that the children should be left to the domestic staffs. No way!
Men are always looking to buy their ways out of responsibilities.

To wash their clothes and cook...

Men are battling to secure more time from their women.

Some women always hide behind taking care of kids to run away from oga,wit i am tired...

mariahAngel:

Wetin happen?.

mariahAngel:
Wait fest! You want make she pack all her attention give only the husband? For what kwanu? Abego!

Them little babies need mummy's sweet attention too biko!
Make husband go watch match with him guys too

When does she even give time to herself? I'll definitely go crazy!

lol, ur partner is your partner o, the kids will grow up, to have their own partners, and it will definitely not be any one the parents...

Watch match ke...

The woman is equally, enjoying na, abii na only the man follow th go weekend getaway... She has enough time for herself o.

mariahAngel:
That usually happens when most of the responsibilities concerning the kids are left to the wife.

Not so all the time o, some women are so glued to their offspring, to extent of forgetting the man weh pound the work..

My aunt na case study.

mariahAngel:
Well, it is up to the couple, especially the husband, to make things work no matter what.
They should try to take time to themselves aside the kids, no matter how occupied they are. Like a You and me time
The husband also should be involved with the kids, not leaving most of that responsibility to the wife. That is how the neglect usually starts.

Na so..

I have a family frnd, her kids are taken care of by domestic staff, no one cooks her hubby's food except her.

Infact, some weekends, they usually hang out to return sunday...Despite her undivided attention towards her hubby, she still have special time for each of her kids...

And still manages some of her hubby's business.

Na wife weh share her time well go enjoy hubby and kids palliative...

mariahAngel:
I believe these kind of issues should be addressed at the beginning of the relationship to avoid misunderstandings and resentments later on.

True, but things can change along the line..

eaddyboy:
I have observed that some married women later on in life start loving and caring for their children even more than their husband (her lover) by her actions, words, body language and also her inactions.

Even to the point of abandoning and neglecting the man even at old age to align with the children and having more emotional attachment to the children than the man, could it be as a result of hormones or blood but they do this in such a natural way that they feel right and good about themselves concerning their actions and inactions which i am not comfortable with

I don't know why but I would want some contribution leading to clarity on this, if you can relate or have an experience as regards to the topic I would appreciate if you share with us.

N/B: I'm not in any way against women or bashing them, just seeking clarity as I'm concerned.

This issue tire me, I think it starts when, the kids start coming, smart ladies strike a balance between the hubby and kids.

Well, men are like tractors used in constructing road, but usually don't enjoy the road.

swiz123:
What is your business if your wife loves your kids more than you? Heck, you should love your kids more than her

smh....

helinues:


RIP to the guy.. But how are we going to be ascertained that his son was one of the protesters or died during the protest?

You are sick upstairs...

nwaezeemmanuel:
Move on. I personally don't advice dating for that long without courtship - as a Christian.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationships can easily be terminated any time. Be strong

what of relationships weh don reach 5yrs to 10yrs...

Mine kwa?........oohh!!!!.....hian!
PDA no be by force now

helinues:
She has some questions to answer truly

She needs to tell us where the 78 people killed at Lekki toll gate are...She claimed to be there live now and she broke the 78 figure news

U go wail for the remaining part of the year... genesis.

difficult time for zombies...

MasterofNL:
These women make it difficult for men that want to stay faithful

Marital challenges...

MasterofNL:
I have done so many times that's why I said I am tired.

something is wrong somewhere, get her comfortable , and get her open up...It will benefit the both of u.

Romangalactic:
mayb she one of dose babez who ar prayin dat deir fuchure hosbands mother iz alreadi dead b4 dey marry. She my frend tho bt u can neva know evritin abt dese girls dese days.
Dey nw carry deep mind naw

hmmmmmm

MasterofNL:
There's always drama. Why can't I approach my wife and have sex? Drama today, tomorrow until when she senses the strain in our relationship she will then agree. I am tired of the cycle

Oga talk to her one on one, this one na punishment.

Romangalactic:
Am jst been helpfull, Klass iz my veri gud frend. Iz nt so easi 2 find a man who dnt want any children atall evn if it jst one.
Dis guy mite jst b har lucky brake, no one know tmr

No child In naija, when her MIL starts praying to see her grandchildren, unto patience ozokwo way...

MasterofNL:
Husbands, how do you handle it when your wife denies you sex?

I am tired.

ooh!!!....
Person go deh chop anytime while single, but start begging when married.

Plead:
Will knowing all that prevent the woman from misbehaving during marriage?

Just curious...

It gives u pointers about where u are going, some families have questionable issues surrounding them.


Our parents ask before they married, but our generation nowadays only see and marry.

Romangalactic:
Send pm 2 dis girl Klass99, she veri single & desparately seriously searchin 4 man on nl sir. Only ish is dat she dnt lyk children & cant haff dem, she alreadi plan 2 donate all her lyf savings & work 2 charity wen she get elderly

Manage har plz, children ar nt a blessing according 2 har

chai nairaland....smh.....