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Charmingrascal:
I didn't want to share this but I was motivated by someone who created a thread on how his ex has been calling him
https://www.nairaland.com/6722392/ex-never-stops-calling-me#105224144

It's a long thread but please read to the end.

I dated this girl when I was kind of younger around 19-20 years while we were still dating she travelled out of Nigeria (to Libya) without informing me, infact without informing any of her family members according to what I found out. After like Three years I, got her message on Facebook requesting for my number (I was in the University then) I gave her the number and we started chatting.

She pleaded that I should forgive her that she still loved me and all. We got along real good because she really changed, more matured and fresh. The girl I was dating in school then got to know and we had issues. The girl picked her number and called her to leave me alone but instead of living me alone she blasted the girl and even involved one of her friends then they insulted the girl and told her that she met me first and the girl should leave me alone.
She was working and was always sending me money then and promised to come home soon.

She also confessed to me that she had a baby for one guy there but they were not married.
To cut it short she came to Nigeria around 2018 and brought many things for me and we continue our bleeping spree. (I got an STD through her then). Then I had to go for service (NYSC) in 2019 we were apart again, unfortunately while I was serving I got to know from her close friend that that she was cheating (the friend wanted me too) Infact I was told that she was constantly sleeping in the guy's house.

I told her on phone that I knew about how she was cheating, she begged and ask me to forgive her (that was 2019).

Fast forward after service I stayed back in Abuja because I got a job. To cut it short I got to know that she was pregnant for another guy in Nigeria, she hid it for me, she wouldn't send me her full pictures but she later told me when it was obvious she couldn't hide it no more, infact the guy wanted to marry her, she told me she wasn't going to marry the guy that the pregnancy was just a mistake, I personally convinced her to stay with the guy since she told me herself that the guy liked her so much and was taking care of her and her first baby.
Then this girl said she would stay with him on the condition that I would still be dating her. I was shocked and surprised I refused and told her that I will never be involved in such an illicit affair.

While this girl was heavily pregnant she was sending nude pictures and was constantly begging me that we should continue having sex, it continued till early 2021 even after the guy engaged her, I refused I blocked her on Facebook where she was sending the nudes to, she started sending it to my WhatsApp and I blocked her there too.

Now she has given birth and I am presently In the state where she resides with her husband, (that's where I am from too) I don't know how she found out that I am around and she has been calling me still begging for sex.

I wanted to report her to her brother and sister who were aware of our relationship back then but a friend asked me not to report her, infact some of them are telling me to give her what she wants (the bad guys that I have) Lol
I have warned her to desist from making such request but she is still requesting to just see my face, as at 2 days ago she was still begging to see me, I told her I was going back to my base yesterday maybe that's why she hasn't called me yet.

I am a young man of 28 years and one of the vow I have vowed is never to sleep with another man's wife except I am not aware that she is married.

I can snatch careless men girlfriends but not to sleep with another man's wife or fiancee.

I fear karma.

I am sharing this to tell men to be very careful with the kind of women they call wife.
Her attitude makes me have phobia for marriage I swear.

A married young lady with a loving husband still begging an ex for sex is too bad and I feel sad for her husband who might be beating his chest that his wife will never cheat on him.

1. 28yrs is no longer a young man
2. You are Edo
3. That girl went to Libya to do prostitution
4. She couldn't make it to Europe that was why she returned to Nigeria.
5. The girl is an Olosho

Run for your life, next one na HIV u go get.

TarOrfeeek:
I'm not against Journalism and highlights of our political ineptitude.

But BBC Hausa has never called out the Northern Oligarch for the many issues bedeviling the North.

Why are they now so invested in uploading pictures of a flooded road in Owerri. Something that looks ordinary in the sense that after Rainfall, water takes time before flowing out.

BBC Igbo should either tell positive Igbo stories or they should start making comics.

Hizba has made it clear that the Hausa's worship their elites hence they turn blind eyes to their rubbish, the Igbos are different.
The governor has been boasting about his baloon drainage and how it will solve Imo perennial flooding challenge, mind you the same flooding problem is what he is inviting president Buhari to come and commission and you want BBC Igbo to keep quiet. ...Tueh.
You are the problem of the Igbos

Insecurity:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/07/14/hausa-residents-cry-out-as-rivers-govt-demolishes-shanties/

That place is the criminal and drug den in that our.ill axis.
It is called Middle belt by Islanders cult group, drugs, hired killers, petty thieves, and shop buggers are dominant there forget what that their leader is saying.

No Hausa has been convicted of crime because, because you finish making statement their hausa/fulani police friend has granted them bail from one end.

Even the land is a community disputed land which they are leveraging on the dispute to settle and occupy the land as if is their right.

When it election time, you won't see them again as they will hand on trailers that brings cow and food stuffs to return to the village to vote.

Good one Wike...

My.Google business is asking to be sent via post code, how can I receive it by email or sms.
Thank you

I have this items for clearance sale.
PH residence only no strength for waybill.

Item 1, baby car seat
Item 2, Baby breast milk storage and warmer never used.

WhatsApp only:
Zero (Viii) Zero (vi) (vi) (5) (vii)(vii) (5) (2)(2)

Tommee Tippee Pump And Go Complete Breast Milk Baby Bottle Feeding Starter Set, White

New and used, for nursing mothers, you can store breast milk in fridge and use warmer to defrost instead of Microwave.

PH residents only, no time for way bill.
PM and make your offer.

Funny how someone who didn't attend university to now be the one that will tell if University certificate is fake or not.

This road is the road with the worst EIA.
Theb; people living on the adjoining parts of this road has been suffering flooding, all the road developers could do is build a 0.5-1.5meter above the ground level without proper plans to drain the runoff from the build up areas to Imo Rivers which is on the other end of the road.

The road will certainly remain but people living off the PH Aba express way, you flooding is about to enter the worst level when this road is completed.

Please ignore the typo-error I will be editing same.

Cases like this first thing first.
1. Who brought the business idea Billy or Sam?
2. Who has the idea and knowledge to run and grow the business other than financial and other start up?

We need to know this before we discuss Sam and Bully Profit and Equity revenue.

Let's do this way.
Assume you are Sam and you have a fish and chicken grilling business idea after working in a bar for many years.

Because you do not have money, you decide to approach a buddy of yours, explaining the details and nitty gritty of the business viz a viz capital and earning and he buys into it. He might have an idea about it but he certainly need Sam idea, knowledge, expertise and day to day presence in the business. While Billy comes around with hands in his pocket watching and cashing out like someone who put his money in MBA forex.

I won't call Sam request greed, neither will I see Billy as a wicked person. They need to work things out themselves * For me 80/20 Equity is fair since Sam don't have money,
* Profit 59/41 is also fair.
* The running cost is something Billy need to look into else Sam will inflate and use it to zap the profit and channel the money to set up his own business and abandone Billy&Sam Enterprise since his capital is just 20%.

Reccommendation
1. Let Billy employ a secretary or worker that he can have daily update of the place and provide Billys presence since Sam is feeling cheated by working alone. The worker will be Billys eye provide he/she is not compromised by Sam.
2. Install CCTV to record activities and how running cost are generated and managed.
3. From Sam's estimated short and long time revenue earning, estimated when Billy can recoop returns on his investment and profit then sign an agreement that no one pulls with that number of years add additional plus one year to ensure Sam don't wreck the business and abandone it with that period. Who ever choose to pull out forfeit business premises and cash in the bank.
4. Run a joint account and ensure are transaction are to be made with the account. Running and maintenance can be withdrawn when their is mutual agreement but profit must not be touch until the end of your financial year as agreed by both of you.

A typical Nigerian man will agree to your terms, wreck the business and open his own business.

Finally if billy can
1. 80/20 Equity is okay
2. 50/50 profit is manageable considering his input
3. Running cost should be shared 70/30 Billy/Sam, the more financially committed Sam gets the more he will be committed to grow the business.
4. The should be a time frame to re-invest some of Sam profit into the business to raise his equity to 80% of billy or refund billy 30% so when bully is presence to support the business 100% they can comfortably share 50/50 of the profit without referring to using the original equity percentage to adjust the profit in favour of Billy when Billy has understand the nitty gritty of the business which will bring disagreement
5. Lastly, their should be next of kin which will take over each others share in case anyone dies.

Advice to Billy
Because how you go into and manage joint business with people because many has been waste and sent to early grave because of revenue from joint business.

Thank you

Instead of doing a pain staking investigation and come up with actual fact to enable them erect arrest.
They are fingering people. Instead of solving question to get answer, they are solving answer to arrive at question.

helinues:
Very clever

Better to separate quarrel than to separate fight.
They are forming the letter was not addressed to us, when they burn CoolFM now same NBC will come out from no where.

ePoster:
Reasons for cheating? What about a woman, can she have 'reasons' as well?

It's your choice...
You catch me cheating you go.
I catch you cheating you go..
Marriage no be must, you either find many reasons to go or a single reason to stay.

Your choice!!

Shey na the restaurant business be this??

jaybenugo:
Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Lucy took to Instagram to flaunt her body as she enjoyed a day out at the pool, IgbereTV reports.

Her first photo was captioned:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CGFTYLWnAFg/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Her second photo was captioned:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CGFWX16Hvhl/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

See photos below.

What about screen short of your discussion with him?
Which bank and account number did you pay to?
If you are serious this is the first information you will reveal so people can assist you in tracking him.

Thank you

uboma:
Please share screenshot of your chats with him and proof of payment you made to his bank account.

Sorry this bitter experience.

5kva by 96v perfectly working Sukam inverter for give away sales.
Quote me if you are interested.

Sold?

bahause:
[s]Chocolate brown wooden blinds available in good condition.

Width is 1.1m and 1.2m wide respectively.

No ridiculous pricing as price is fixed.

serious buyers only please.

Going for 11k and 12k respectively.

Whatsapp - https:///2348052719426

Location is Ajao estate off International airport road. [/s]

With that price it will continue to be available.

ibrahim2032:
Still available

Is FIRS along Aba road on fire?
Someone please confirm this pictures.

Your case is different.
You designed yourself to be useless before you finally became useless.

You gave into the religious C&S scam and they used your five useful year's and when they are done they told you your destiny has been restored.

Now let me ask, when they restored your glory why are you still useless?
Instead to working and studying hard despite all the challenges you dropped out and now blamming a woman for your misfortune.

Your mumu never do....wanlahi you will soon clock 40 being useless, and you know a fool at forty??

Sunrise258:
You are very lucky. My case is a very pathetic one. I finished secondary school in 2002, gained admission in 2009 all to drop out at 400 level (final year). I figured everything was wrong with me but I was alone in the struggle cause by then, I've become an orphan. So I went to one C&S church and dumped myself there for 5 years. The entire church would pray for me and myself too would pray for myself althrough the 5 years until the unexpected was revealed. My uncle's wife, (my dad's immediate elder brother's wife) had collected my glory when I was a baby of 2 years!!! I got it back through the mercy of God a day to my 32nd birthday. Meaning she was with my glory for 30 good years! The 30 formative years of my life!! I've gotten it back now but no job, no degree, no money to do trade or go back to school. I am in my late 30s and useless.

NzeNaOgbunike:
Was talked into buying it...It wasn't my initial plan.

But the remarks I have gotten so far have demoralized me.

I ain't comfortable with it anymore...will return it tomorrow and pick Haire Thermocool or Scanfrost

After one month im sure you are enjoying it. I have the Samsung version is superb.

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1358419/akpabio-set-sue-ex-nddc-md-nunieh-defaming-character/

Lalasticlala

This is a plot to buy time. The next thing you will hear is the senate does not comment on issues already in court.

Southboy:
1hp Carrier split unit AC for sell
Working perfectly
Remote inclusive

Location: Olodi Apapa
Phone number: 08066264685
Price: 35k

Can you Carrier outside carry a Sharp babe inside?...

Exclusive101:
Audit to will expose any infraction is what you term "talk for talking sake" in a ministry so corrupt. Pls I can't reason with your level of foolishness.

I never heard a minister of NDDC joke with audit before now one is screaming with loud n clear n someone who as been in the same ministry for year is shouting they want to rape because an audit is being conducted and in your deluded mind the person making noise to get the audit done should be castigated after no single minister ever dare to joke about doing. Sir you are born foolish and that is a fact.

I like engaging constructive and unbiased mind in political discussion.
Thank you

The former acting Chairman of NDDC held hostage earlier to men of the Nigerian police to prevent her from testifying in the ongoing panel has been rescued by Gov Wike.

Rhythm PH gathered that Gov. Wike went to her house with his security details and drove away with her.

Stay tuned for more details.

Source
Rhythm 93.7 Ph

You just talk for talking sake.
The last served inky 3 months or so.
She was never in the system before her appointment.

He is not against the audit, but only said the minister is just shouting audit audit audit at the outside while looting at the inside.
She said she support the audit 100% but so far nothing is happening 6 months down the line.

As for me, Akpabio is using that audit to do us the more you look the less you see.

Exclusive101:
I knew that foolish woman or whatever her name is was up to no good. Whether Akpabio is devil or not NDDC account must be audited from 1999 and all those with any sort of infractions brought to justice. I knew the woman must be wailing for a reason when Wike became her defender.

Buhari should do the needful and send her on leave for the unhindered forensic audit of the organization. Intelligent Nigeria should wonder why NDDC we all know is the bedrock of corruption since it establishment is suddenly holy after Akpabio was appointed.

If Akpabio is corrupt will he not continue with the systematic looting in the agency perpetuated by the devilish PDP but because he vowed to unearth PDP looticracy n replace it with APC structure vultures n hags planted by PDP claim billionnaire former governor who can have the best of Nigeria beauties, TV personalities is now chasing after an old hag with saggy boobs wrinkled orifice. Nonsense n ingredients.

You support them to leave abi? Then when you fall sick here you will be taken to Baba Oyo for treatment.... 58 of our best doctors is what UK will go for no the once that graduated from OOU or LAUTECH Friend of progress.

This is a case of when trees are falling in the forest baby monkey was seen rejoicing and the mum shook her head and say.
It's our house that is falling.

murphyibiam15:
Enemies of progress.. See the kind of flimsy excuse they're giving.. They should simply say they're jealous the Drs are moving away from this shithole called Nigeria to where things work
They can't continue to hold them back for long, that I'm sure
The country the docs are travelling to already made arrangement for them and is it that they don't know what is called visa on arrival? That is uk's headache not Nigeria

Why not look for Aboki and dash this thing instead of occupying Nairaland pages.

ibizgirl:
Vero Cuoio
Italian design
Size:44
Price:10k slightly negotiable
Got for my son but wasn't his size
Call or whatsapp08130350400

Audio age

mrflex999:
I cannot get that lubricant ,the lady said I can use saliva or soap but I should make sure if doesn’t get Into the container

How true is this ?

Go with your side chic......thats the fastest way to cum but I won't advice that.

The best thing is to go with your wife... When you are TTC let the both and your wife be on same page.
You are doing all this yourself without your wife notice she on her own will be depressed and feeling bad that she can't conceive you are the problem.

Just tell her and see how she will carry your matter for head both with prayer and drug.....before your know it baby will come.

What's the point of writing this Useless epistle when you won't mention the name of the company for people to start away.

You self have your own problem. I'm sure if you mention the company name she will come up with her own part of the story then we will know who is wrong or right.

As for now, you don't have case until you mention her name....
This case is hereby dismissed and the complainant is hereby sent to 7days Isolation.

Jahda:
Do not be carried away by people who seemingly sound 'nice' or 'well-mannered' on the phone. Most of that is just a basic social skill used to interface with the customer and does not in anyway portray the true character of the person.

'Buyer Beware' is a popular caveat used to warn buyers of the risk of getting into a transaction and that is the essence of this post. To warn unsuspecting victims of what they stand the risk of experiencing with ONE LOGISTICS Company, run by a certain Omure and situated in Lagos State.


My First unfortunate experience with them was when I made prior arrangements a day before for them to deliver an item to a customer the next day. The package was not delivered that day and it cost me a Sale, and not just that, I had to spend close to 10,000 naira to reroute those packages.

This wasn't even what got me really upset. It was the fact that the woman who runs said company neither offered an apology nor acknowledged responsibility for not delivering a service I'd already paid for, thus costing me money.


I decided to look past it as at the time I considered it trivial and one of the downsides of doing business until it happened again. This time she was to drop off a package with a customer which was a Payment on delivery service. Prior to that, she had told me she didn't offer payment on delivery and I requested for a location so that I would send another logistics service who offered the option of accepting payment on delivery to pick it up. But then she said she was going to do the drop-off.


Then I instructed her not to hand over the package until I confirmed receipt of payment. I overemphasized this particular instruction on the phone, via text and even via voice-note on Whatsapp. She acknowledged that she got the message and assured me that she would do just that. She also insisted I paid before the delivery which was unusual but which I did.


I waited all day but I never heard from them. Only for me to call later that evening to ask if the delivery had been made and she said yes. I was surprised because I never got any call to confirm payment neither did I receive a credit alert. I called the Customer who then told me that he had returned the item.


They not only handed over my package to the customer without payment but allowed him to open the package, do whatever he pleased with it and return.
The woman never apologized to me for what happened but just like the first time she was very determined to shift blame from herself. Not only that, she ignored subsequent messages on whatsapp and when I asked for pictures so I could ascertain the state of the item and the packaging itself, she sent me a picture that desperately tried to hide the terrible state of the packaging. The pack had been compressed and was now looking rough from over-handling.


The worst part was she never apologized and just ignored my messages. It's apparent that this company has a TERRIBLE after-sale Customer service which is a very important part of any business especially in the event that something goes wrong.
I'm posting this so as to warn other members of the public to use their services at your own risk and annoyance.