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Forum GamesRe: 1st Tot by Mustay(m): 3:57pm On Jul 31, 2008
wet
PoliticsRe: Phcn Is On Strike! Somebody Help! ? by Mustay(m): 3:56pm On Jul 31, 2008
I don't mind swapping houses with this gal o
PoliticsRe: Animals Do Not Turn Into Human Beings: Ok? by Mustay(m): 3:55pm On Jul 31, 2008
Eyan gbadura ko le ba awon aye ja l'oru
Forum GamesRe: One-word Association by Mustay(m): 3:49pm On Jul 31, 2008
logic
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Naira Land Magazine,have A Look by Mustay(m): 3:49pm On Jul 31, 2008
Srta. Gamine no puede descifrar donde estoy fijar


Srta. Gamine cannot decipher where I post
FamilyRe: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Mustay(m): 3:44pm On Jul 31, 2008
hmmhmmh


For which form u don sign dat one?
TV/MoviesRe: Second Chance Fans (did AIT Show It) by Mustay(m): 3:43pm On Jul 31, 2008
twinstaiye:
AIT should imbibe the culture of rendering apology, that singular efforts seriously cushion the effect of dissappointment of our hope being dashed each time we create time to watch the mexican soap.
I think it's even better for them to live up to expectations in order for them not to forget the "apology act" grin grin wink
WebmastersRe: Cuil: Am Still Down With Google by Mustay(m): 3:39pm On Jul 31, 2008
They were formerly known as COIL before being cuiled.

In an interview, they set a target of 5 years to overtake Google
BusinessRe: Beware Of Union Bank of Nigeria PLC: The Worst Bank In Nigeria? 2008-2012 by Mustay(m): 3:36pm On Jul 31, 2008
hbrednic:
you had better find something else to say or short the mess up.
abi o - they bring useless sides to it.


protocol:
UNION BANK? NAWOO! EVEN AFRIBANK, CBN AND NDIC SHOULD LIQUIDATE THEM. THEY ARE NOT INNOVATIVE AT ALL.
They have a good capital base - that doesn't call for liquidation na
WebmastersRe: Cuil: Am Still Down With Google by Mustay(m): 1:12pm On Jul 31, 2008
adewaleafolabi:
The cuil claims it has the largest index. But to my surprise, i searched for something and it said no result and yet google gave me results
yea!


And I like my google.com.ng - 'compresses' to Nigerian sites
BusinessRe: Beware Of Union Bank of Nigeria PLC: The Worst Bank In Nigeria? 2008-2012 by Mustay(m): 1:06pm On Jul 31, 2008
Their services are poor and they just wanna remain ORTHODOX
TV/MoviesRe: Second Chance Fans (did AIT Show It) by Mustay(m): 12:59pm On Jul 31, 2008
Wdh are you saying?

AIT stands for AFrican [/b]Independent Television. AIT has advertised this stuff to her viewers.

Stop this talk about "non-patience". You need to satisfy your customers and stop keeping them 'guessing'

If STV decides not to show it, that's their bizwax; it further goes to show how unprofessional they are.


twinstaiye:
AIT is notorious nowadays for lack of etiquette. [b]In the past, you will see them apologising at will for any slight problem, but they don't do that nowadays.
At will, they will not render a programme at the appointime time, and there wont be any explanations, no verbal or even written explanations. The
FamilyRe: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Mustay(m): 12:56pm On Jul 31, 2008
roflmao
CultureRe: If You Can Speak Yoruba, Talk It In Here! by Mustay(m): 12:53pm On Jul 31, 2008
ibi bayi o ki n bubble mo bi ti tele; ki lo sele na?
HealthRe: My Acne Has Become Wild by Mustay(m): 12:52pm On Jul 31, 2008
mecussey:
ACNE are caused by dead skins mixed with oil, secreted by sebum. The best cure for it is never to allow oil to mix with bacteria in dead skin. Wash your face with liquid soap three times a day and use hand towel every 10mins of the day. My face is smooth like never before now.
. . .and stop bursting the spot
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Naira Land Magazine,have A Look by Mustay(m): 12:43pm On Jul 31, 2008
"Nitori e ko ni mo se wa s'aye

Ni to ri e ko ni mo se n s'oge


Ni to ri e ko mo se gbadun ibi bayi


aye mi lode eeeeeee



ahhhh ooooooo

ahhh hhhh

"
Srta. Gamine no puede descifrar donde estoy fijar angry angry angry angry
Forum GamesRe: One-word Association by Mustay(m): 12:39pm On Jul 31, 2008
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BusinessRe: Help On CBN Bulletin by Mustay(m): 12:38pm On Jul 31, 2008
People are complaining in the dailies that CBN should always update their site
BusinessRe: Beware Of Union Bank of Nigeria PLC: The Worst Bank In Nigeria? 2008-2012 by Mustay(m): 12:36pm On Jul 31, 2008
smooooooth:
are u all saying their add shld have been , union bank,small, weak, unreliable. grin
When last did you see their ads on Tv?
PoliticsRe: No More First Ladies In Nigeria by Mustay(m): 10:44am On Jul 31, 2008
They remind me of the beauty paegeant gals
Music/RadioRe: T-pain Is Killing Hiphop by Mustay(m): 9:48am On Jul 31, 2008
shilling:
Do you agree? I just think that the guy is whack and he's killing what's left of hiphop. Don't hate, just tell me what you think
what's left of hiphop?
IslamRe: Another Teacher Of The Koran In Hot Soup by Mustay(m): 9:08am On Jul 31, 2008
Source:


Doctor Bulldog & Ronin
News, History, & Analysis of Events Leading to WWIII


See where Quuenisha is getting February 1,2008 news from.

You want to satisfy your urge?






Black, Muslim and Gay

Jaheda: Still considers herself Muslim
With MPs this week pushing legislation through the Commons to create civil partnerships - gay marriages in all but name - homosexuality has never been more accepted by British society.

But what happens if you are gay and come from a cultural background where that acceptance is not available?

In a documentary for BBC Radio Four, Black, Muslim and Gay, three people describe their struggle with identity, faith and family. Islamic scholars say their faith forbids homosexuality, although approaches widely differ in how to address it.

Some regard it as a sin deserving punishment. Others regard gay men and lesbians as needing pity and spiritual guidance.

Jaheda is a 28-year-old British Asian whose family came from Bangladesh. Raised in Sheffield, she lives now in Manchester and struggled for years with how to explain to her mother that she was gay.

"When I finally told my mum that I'm the kind of woman who didn't like men - there's no word for gay in our language - she stood up, stared at the fish-tank, put on her burqa and went out of the house for about five hours," says Jaheda.


Islam allows direct communication with God and after a long personal search I decided that a heterosexual man doesn't question his identity, so why should my sexuality be an issue with God?
Rumi
"She's still convinced I'll burn in hell, but gradually she's coming round."

Jaheda rejected her strict Muslim upbringing and ran away from home when she was 17.

Making the break led her to gain the confidence to discover her identity.

But despite rejecting the culture of her family, she found British culture just as unwilling to accept.

Her first attempt to visit a lesbian bar in Manchester was at turns comical and disastrous. The bouncers could not believe that an Asian woman, dressed in a shalwar kamiz and heels, could really be gay.

Dealing with faith

G, a 40-year-old policeman struggled for years with his identity. Raised by a Nigerian father and a Jamaican mother in north London, G's experience was that of a strict west African ethos mixed combined with a strong sense of faith.


It's like there's a pile of elephant poo in the living room - everyone knows it's there but they pretend it doesn't exist
"G"
However, G says his father beat him to try and toughen him up and eventually sent him to rural Nigeria to try and make him more African.

Eight years later he returned to the UK, no less gay than the day he left - but even more lacking in confidence.

When he did come out, the reaction was hostile. His younger sister, a devout Muslim, told him he had made the wrong "choice" and then told the rest of the family.

His mother will neither discuss it or accept her son is gay and his father does not know.

"It's like there's a pile of elephant poo in the living room," says G. "Everyone knows it's there but they pretend it doesn't exist."

G has learned to deal with the rejection he has faced from his family and faith, saying they no longer hold power over him.

"The more people I tell, the more confident I become. Now it's like this unstoppable power. I am at last claiming me."

That view is shared by Jaheda who still considers herself a Muslim and sometimes turns to prayer.

"I no longer care what other people think," she says. "I love my culture and I love Islam. I'm proud of being a lesbian, or a woman who sleeps with women, or whatever else you want to call me."

A mother's acceptance

But rejection is not universal. Rumi, born into an Asian family in east Africa, remains a practicing Muslim even though he is gay.

Both he and his mother have been on a long journey of searching deep in their faith - and have come out the better for it.

"I struggled with being a Muslim as well as being a gay person," he says.

"But Islam allows direct communication with God and after a long personal search I decided that a heterosexual man doesn't question his identity, so why should my sexuality be an issue with God?

"I began to realise that what mattered to my God and my faith was the way I lived my life and interacted with the community."

That belief in actions towards others counts most is one that chimes with Rumi's mother. When she first met his partner - a practicing Catholic - she urged her son to cherish him and be faithful.

Rumi says: "My mum is remarkable she's proved that prejudice can be overcome through love. What's emerged from all my family is that love is what matters above all else."



Black, Muslim and Gay was broadcast on BBC Radio 4 at 2000 GMT on Thursday 11 November. If you missed it, you can still listen to it via the BBC Radio 4 website
PoliticsRe: Lagos State Buys An Hotel In Uk. by Mustay(m): 9:03am On Jul 31, 2008
lucabrasi:
he he he!!nigerians have started again oooo, what is tokunbo afikuyomi's own there now?he only represented the governor by virtue of his portfolio, diamond bank funded it,the governor fashola approved it and afikuyomi just signed and did the official handing over
Thatz why he is the commissioner
PoliticsRe: Animals Do Not Turn Into Human Beings: Ok? by Mustay(m): 8:55am On Jul 31, 2008
RichyBlacK:
I'm still waiting for Juju Airlines to take off! Really tired of paying so much for air travel when teleportation via juju full ground grin
you don't know How To Fly To China As A Witch?
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Naira Land Magazine,have A Look by Mustay(m): 8:52am On Jul 31, 2008
Gamine



Shut up and drive angry angry tongue
Forum GamesRe: One-word Association by Mustay(m): 8:46am On Jul 31, 2008
disease
Forum GamesRe: When I Meet A Nairalander by Mustay(m): 8:44am On Jul 31, 2008
you just wait till I swallow you tongue
PoliticsRe: Adam And Eve Were Nigerians, Say Researchers by Mustay(m): 6:17pm On Jul 30, 2008
Adam and eve were researchers?

It's not bad now abi - how does it affect the children of eve?

This has nothing to do with gullibility.
PoliticsRe: Shopping Mall Collapses In Abuja, 3 Workers Dead by Mustay(m): 6:14pm On Jul 30, 2008
An uncompleted building grin grin grin
Forum GamesRe: When I Meet A Nairalander by Mustay(m): 6:14pm On Jul 30, 2008
Have you heard of the cat that turned into a woman?


ur head will enter my dungeon grin grin
Forum GamesRe: One-word Association by Mustay(m): 6:12pm On Jul 30, 2008
catch
TV/MoviesRe: Gulder Ultimate Search 5 (GUS V) by Mustay(m): 5:55pm On Jul 30, 2008
e'one entitled to their opinion

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