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To me its meaningless...break up with them 1st b4 de do to u thats d best way outta it.

Education and proper mannerisms.

Despicable act

*will gladly watch from afar*

Super weekend b dt..

esof1: Every calabar girl is good in bed,

Every ibo girl likes money , which girl nor like money?

Edo girls go to Italy for prostitution

U look like a calabar girl

mstik: At that age, I also hated school so much.. I really don't still like school now. I don't think anyone can come out and say 'I love school' lol

For real..?

*falls from bed*

Oh boy.....she fynnnn o!

Onyiridike: I am a Nigerian lady with a lot of experience about life especially when it comes to relationship and marriage. Experience is NOT just passing through a situation but what you did with the situation.

Obviously, our young ladies always list ridiculous criteria that a man they will date/marry MUST possess. Among those ridiculous criteria, height is always a priority. Gone are the days when character is placed above physical appearance.

When I was an undergraduate, a certain young man approached me and told me how he loved me and wanted to date me. He is an enterprising young man, very intelligent and handsome. However, he is not very tall; just 5ft. 7 inches in height. Of course, young ladies don't take decisions independently. This is why they are easily influenced by friends and relatives. My friends then said: "Never! My man MUST be 6ft and above, so tell him capital NO". I rejected the young man.

Today, he is happily married with a lady who is by far more beautiful and talented than me. I almost shed tears on their wedding day. Meanwhile, all the so-called very tall men that I dated are ONLY interested in my vagina.
So far I have learnt the following:

1. Most tall men believe that their height is a 'master' key to every ladies heart and therefore, their ONLY achievement is ' I am a tall dude and ladies are dieing for me'.

2. Most tall guys are NOT caring because they have this notion that a lady should count herself lucky to date them.

3. I am yet to understand that unique or remarkable thing about tall men.

Fortunately, I repented because it occured to me that all those times, I was ONLY playing my friend's script. I wanted to feel among and brag that my boyfriend is equally tall. I gave a guy who is not very tall a chance and I started enjoying my paradise on earth. We are married now. All my life, I have not come across such a wonderful person. He has it all:

1. He is God-fearing and generous.

2. He is handsome and a great orator

3. He is educated and intelligent

4. He cooks for me when I am tired (caring)

5. He satisfies me sexually ( oh! What a heavenly feeling)

6. He got a good dress sense

7. He is social

8. Among others

I am not in any way trying to say that tall guys are bad. As a lady, I am only advising other Nigerian ladies to see a man beyond height. The height issue is over-hyped and even unnecessary. You may NOT get a second chance like me.

Finally, based on my experience, I have come up with a quote:

"A man is NOT known by his height but by his heart (bravery) and meritorous achievements".

This is remarkable...thank the almighty that uv come over the brain wash the media was able to install in most girls of contemporary times as regards a man with height.Not all that glitters is gold,but behind every dark cloud there is indeed a silver lining..thank the almighty once more u found yours

LATE MARRIAGE Is the cause of all this..and how the media defines the kind of man ladies should go for,most ladies don't usually go for short guys...

"By late marriage, I mean from 32 years for the woman and 40 years for the man.
Honestly the disadvantages are numerous For a lady.Menopause now starts earlier.I don't know whether to blame it on dietary habits or environmental factors, women now experience menopause earlier; some as early as 35. Women who marry late panic and fret about having children.
Their anxiety can also delay achieving pregnancy. Women over 35 also miscarry easily and experience more complications during delivery.Again when women don't marry early,they become fearful at the prospect of becoming spinsters that they abandon the search for Mr Right and accept any Mr Available.
Desperation can lead to wrong choice and failed marriage. When a lady is made career-wise, men get scared of her.They feel an inherent sense of inferiority. Those that muster the courage may be seen by her as gold diggers and opportunists.
Better to marry when you can get genuine love and grow with the person than wait to be on the begging end."
Reality things.

100Cents: So in depth...

God bless you...

It takes an experienced and mature mind to know that there is nothing in this world. There is nothing worth causing sorrow to another soul for. There is nothing worth cheating for. There is nothing worth lieing for. There is nothing worth being ashamed for. There is nothing worth being embarrassed for. There is nothing worth stealing for..

There is so much created by God to go round to everyone..

U said it all my guy..noting is just worth dying for..well maybe ur very very responsible mom,she is worth dying for abi?

Excerpt

I still Remember d story of a man who became popular for engaging in money rituals just to buy the 80's edition of the Honda Prelude.
U wouldn't buy that car for 50k today.Some other guy brutally murdered his brother ( whom their father gave cash 2 travel 4 the purpose of re- stocking their warehouse), just cos he wanted 2 acquire the rave of the moment - Pathfinder Jeep.That same vehicle is now better described as a coffin.
I remember as a kid, my whole street gathered to watch a truck deliver a very large satellite dish to my neighbour's house.Today a dish one tenth that size delivers 5 times the value and is in almost every student's room.What about the Volkswagen Santana, Mercedes Benz V boot, 505Evolution, Toyota Crown, all overtaken by latest models of Camry, Honda, Nissan, Bugatti, Bentley, X6, Acura and Infinity....
Vanity!Some ladies left their true love, cos some rich guy then persuaded them with a Benz190, which turned out 2 be the only car they ever owned till date.They found out too late that true love is invaluable.
A friend declared drinks because he launched the Nokia Communicator for over hundred grand in 2002.Today that phone would embarrass the owner and is a joke compared to the low cost and everyday phone. What about d MTN sim card that many people went extra miles b4 dey bought for over 30k, today u will not buy it at N100 cos all networks are begging people to even take it for free.
People are still making the most horrific sacrifices over 'vanity' and make enemies over worthless material things.What can I Say?
Look back at that one thing you want to kill or die for today and see what becomes of it tomorrow.
There is absolutely nothing u can't achieve, all u need is a little time and PATIENCE and u would thank GOD without regrets.
There is actually nothing in this world that is worth going 2 Hell for, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.. not even u my girl or an iphone 6..

Do u remember?

This reminds me of a small narrow rd called " gossip center" during campus days.90% of the skol population pass thru that place while the campus " bad guys" observe the girls passing by bursting their secrets.they b like see dt girl,idiot she de form innocent,yesterday as i de pass their crib she just de shout de morn..guess who de f**k am..na Darrel o!
Na so dem de assess girls they burst their secrets,who and who f**ks them nd all nasty stuffs girls do..

akitijackson: Sometimes I over hear guys saying they can't have anything to do with a model or a beauty queen. Some guys claim they're too expensive other think such girls are cheats, and above all they say such girls sleep with politicians blah blah blah just to attain titles. Now my question here is, are such girls not human beings? And they're always beautiful.

A key that has the ability to opens so many lock is a master key.but a lock that can be opened by any key is useless.

Tex42: wow!. this piece is rich.


permit me to copy and paste this on ma facebook...

Anything for the guys..its all about us..

As a man smile,thank her and walk away..

Welcome development if and only if its true

ogbonnajoe: Smart Guys Don’t Have Time To Waste On A Girl- Waconzy Tells Ladies

A lot of ladies may not be happy with Waconzy for
saying that smart and hardworking guys do not have time for them.
The music artiste, has called out ladies who do this and said it is not the right thing to do, especially when the girl have a crush on the guy. “If someone you like walks up to you and ask for your hand in friendship. Please don’t dull yourself by playing hard to get” he said.
He also stressed that hardworking guys do not waste time on a girl “hardworking guys don’t have time to waste; most of them are not patient. They move onto the next one almost immediately and you probably will loose your only opportunity for a perfect relationship. Think!”

3 hours ago by Taboola

Reality..

Old excerpt worth sharing

Who is a MAN

A man is the most beautiful part of God's creation who starts compromising at a very tender age.

He sacrifices his chocolates.. for his sister.

He sacrifices his dreams ..for just a smile on his parents face.

He spends his entire pocket money on buying gifts for the lady .. he loves.. just to see her smiling

He sacrifices his full youth for his wife and children.. by working late at night without any complain.

He builds ..their future by taking loans from banks and repaying them for lifetime.

He struggles a lot and still has to bear scolding from his mother, wife and boss.

His life finally ends up only by compromising for others' happiness.

If he raises hands on a woman, then he's cruel.

If he gets hit by a woman, then he's a sissy.

If he picks up a fight seeing his girl with another guy, then he's jealous and insecure.

If he remains silent, then he's a coward.

If he goes out, then he's careless.

If he stays at home, then he's lazy.

If he scolds children, then he's a monster.

If he doesn't scold, then he's an irresponsible guy.

If he stops wife from working, then he's an insecure guy.

If he doesn't stop wife from working, then he's somebody who lives on wife's earnings.

If he listens to mom, then he's mama's boy.

If he listens to wife, he's wife's slave.

Respect every male in your life. You will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Varagous: dats y dey are teengers... growth is a process. they wil out grow this.

Abi? Ope u wer not like this during your teenage years?

honey001: And u thought u have contributed meaningfully to the topic posted above for ur mind ba? SMH.

Continue shaking your head till u turn red neck lizard..

two vessels pregnant wit crude oil sank mysteriously during presidnt obj era,wht happened? not to mention some tractors that wer mysteriously blown away by a sand storm in one of d northern states too at dt era...na today??

victoria ascerta by d grace of d almighty