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And they had to hide in Kaduna to write this nonsense. Classic misinformation and disinformation tactics by IPOB

Ganduje should have thread carefully during his tenure, and shouldn't have allowed power currupt his mind. Had he managed his relationship with Kwankwaso well he wouldn't be fighting for his legacy. As it is now his political survival is even at risk

I listened to the complete audio. The transcript you provided above is accurate but was cut exactly where she uttered the insult which baffles me as to why she did that, given that she didn't need to do that, and in Sokoto - seat of the caliphate - of all places. Still that doesn't justifies mob action.

In the complete audio you could hear her friends in the background cautioning her not to post it.

Desire18:
Not keeping dirty clothes in the laundry basket while I only wash clothes found in the laundry. I simply dislike it. Asking me irritating questions like: when did rain starts in the night, when does light went off as if I'm his night quards. Bad time management,
I'm always waiting for him if we are going out together.

He refused food simply because I didn't slice yam. I just cut it anyhow .

Also, he can analyse a single statement that I said into many�� we fight over this. He said if I think I can talk, he too can hear.

Another flimsy thing we fight over is when I send any of the kids out on an errand, small time, if they delay, you'll see him looking for his slipass or trouser- he'll go and look for them. It isn't that where we live isn't safe, I don't know his problem. My argument is somebody born me too��

Maha (Arabic) <In reference to the beautiful eyes of a wild deer>

Adama (Hausa)

Tobe (igbo)

Hindi (Hausa)

what is number 10

Ok here is my advise.

You seem like an understanding lady (keep it up).

One thing about relationships is knowing were to draw the line. Also know that its never too late to draw a new line because both of you are in it for the long haul. This means right from the onset you gave all your earnings without keeping anything for your self (which might not be a bad thing then, and still isn't). But trying to do it now could ruffle your relationship now especially if he isn't as understanding. But like I said, its never too late to draw a line. Use wisdom to establish that reality in your relationship, because you need to take care of yourself. Like I said it may cause some turbulence in your relationship, but if you manage it with wisdom both of you will outgrow it and the new reality of you setting something aside for yourself would have been set.

Secondly, some men are wired in way to be fighting multiple battles at multiple fronts without communicating it to their spouse (its good men learn to communicate better). They do this thinking they are shielding the partner from worries, or that they trying to solve some anticipated issue in the future that could affect you, him or both of you at the expense of your immediate need. Thus he can appear to be not caring enough or not considering the other your immediate needs.

I am no expert, but knowing where the shoe pinches means you are able to address it. How, where and when are peculiarities different relationships need to explore alone.

ChoCho54:
Peeing on the toilet seater.

Not rinsing off foam from the bathroom wall and shower curtain.

But on this toilet seat matter, why cant you/she just wash it of when you see it (Just kidding). But this just show how we all have similar idiosyncrasies .

I thought I was the only one in the world concerned about soap scums on the wall

poshestmina:
Eating and not leaving some for me .

Picking up and keeping his stuffs ( I'm now a professional Carkey and Wristwatch Detective) .

Coming back home without buying anything , not even Suya? .

Hmm the last part is enlightening I would buy gifts for the boys by default when i go out, but forget hers. I don't know if it is because I give her money? But I believe gifts are very important. Thanks for sharing

justified007:




Premenstrual syndrome

Wow, Its interesting. My wife sometimes tells me she gets angry for no reason. Perhaps i should mark those dates to see if its actually PMS.

MadamVanessa:



No perfect marriage agreed.

When got married before we divorce, the epicenter of our problem was always on sex. She wasn't able to give me the needed satisfaction and he won't allow me to get myself a dilldo. It was really frustrating. A whole week will pass no sex I was so tired of the whole thing, so to get my sanity, I opt for a divorce.

Wow!

That is a major issue in maraige that needs talking about, but most couple either shy away from it of or feel its not important. If legally married couples dont discuss sex then who should?

In this department I must say I am very very lucky. Even after 12years we are like newly wed in this department.

which one is BTC

Couples have arguments and fights between them, some times for a reason and other times for no reason. NEVER YOU THINK THERE IS A PERFECT COUPLE OUT THERE.

What silly things cause fights between you two?

For me she might just get angry because our shared data is finished.

Or when I don't notice her new hair style
These little things can cause us to go a day or two given each other attitudes

Modified
My own silly things are:
When she laughs with others when I am sad (very silly)
Travels and don't call me

Well, they say in times of war truth is the first casualty.

Kingsnairaland:
Before I went to sleep, my wife said to me: This Russia is such a bad country, If Ukraine wants to join Nato, it is their business and freedom, Russia has no right to intervene, this is just an excuse for Russia to invade Ukarine.

So I said nothing, I just went to the kitchen and took a knife to bedside, then I said: Let’s go to sleep.

My wife looked at me with her wide eyes: What the heck are you doing, sleeping with a knife?!?!

I said: No worry, let’s go to sleep. Beside, sleeping with a knife is none of your business and it is my freedom.

My wife said: How can I sleep when you are sleeping with a knife? What if you accidentally cut me?

I said: Well, You don’t even trust your own husband, how can you expect Russia to trust Ukraine? Me sleeping with a knife is like Ukraine joining the Nato.

This is an over simplification but it made a lot of sense.

In fact joining NATO by Ukraine is like inviting your EX to come and sleep in your house (not even in your bedroom). Sure your wife wont agree to that

"Men must fall for other men to rise"

If anything this has laid bare for anyone to see the hypocrisy of the west and how far they are willing to go twisting international order and institutions to benefit them.

Am very sure the world (not the western world and their mentally enslaved) is watching how this is unfolding.

I was wondering why China was going out of its way to decouple itself from the west - from cancellation of what could have been the largest IPO in history by the ANT group/Alibaba from the NY SE, to weaning its massive population from the mind bending grip of celebrity adulation. China in fact has its own global positioning system GPS with a higher precision than the west's GPS.

One thing I hope comes out of this is that the merchant of wars enabling and funding conflicts across Africa get distracted towards their new "venture" and Africa is allowed to grow to its full potential.

hmm!

I don't know, but the COO is doing more harm than good with this situation. In court of public opinion, no one will condone delaying a flight unnecessarily for the Emir - so you have the upper hand already. But the tone of this statement is desperately trying to exonerate himself, there by intentionally or unintentionally putting the emirate in a bad light (you could see that by his desperation to point out what and what not the emir could do).

This statement might go down well with purveyors of sensationalism but definitely not for an airline positioning itself as a prime national carrier.

Forget that story. I was planning to go shop for pack of insecticide and baby food there today when i read the news.

I chose sunday because hopefully there is less crowd - That place is always packed with people. Just as it is packed with people it is more packed with goods. Mind you there is always a fire truck parked in the premises (most likely owned by the business) and also a hydrant line.

But guy forget, the harmattan in the north got no chill, and we are in the middle of it, the relative humidity is low and wind gust can get to 11km/h in the mornings when the fire started - these are all ideal situation for an inferno (cause what happened there was not mere fire)

The cause of the fire is unknown (spark, arson etc.) but severity of the fire was expected given the weather and items in the store (gas canisters, gas filled AC/fridge compressors etc.)

Any form of hindsight that is not for learning purpose is just a waste of time. The owner should think ahead

Beautiful prayer, hopefully easy to remember

My advice to IPOB don't bite more than you can chew. You may continue the normal sit at home when he comes visiting, but contemplating anything beyond that is suicidal.

WHY do Chelsea fan look retched. In my area it is always agberos, area boys, wheel barrow pushers you'll see with Chelsea shirts

Interesting

I really don't know what Farooq's obsession with Pantami is. FFK used to attack Pantami you used that against Pantami (Pantami ignores you), now FFK in his own lack of principle goes back to his vomit and befriends Pantami you still attack Pantami and not FFK!(Yet Pantami ignores you)

Is there something we need to know about your relationship with Pantami, Farooq?

Thank you all for the contributions

socialmediaman:
OP @myglodata there are various things that could be happening to her. You really need to do some research and get medical help. She could be showing early signs of schizophrenia, Alzheimer’s or dementia related illnesses.

Whatever it is, I would advise you to start doing A LOT of research to figure out clues, people and places you could get help from. Don’t forget to start a diary with notes of everything that happens including incidents, dates, behaviors, symptoms, medical history including those of family and relatives etc. These will help you make connections and be able to tell the whole story to professionals when needed.

I'll surely start the documenting

InTheCloudySky:
Kudos for being an attentive and caring husband - to have noticed all these changes in your wife. I'm impressed. Have her see a Neurologist asap. Neurologists diagnose and treat brain disorders, which is likely what she has. Your post points to the symptoms of Early-Onset Alzheimer's Disease (e.g. memory loss, headaches, disorientation in time and space, changes in mood and behavior, etc.). It can affect people in their 40s and 50s, as well as those 65+. As it's a progressive disease, the earlier it's diagnosed, the better. She needs to see a Neurologist.

Best wishes to her, and you.

Thank you.

drmorphine:
@ myglodata, your wife's situation is more of an impending medical disaster if serious medical help is not sought on time. Stress is a major factor that induces these symptoms you described in your narration. I want to believe your wife falls into the categories of those who take many of their day to day activities like taking care of the kids, house chores, work, business etc too seriously. She probably finds it difficult getting to sleep on time or when she sleeps, she wakes up much earlier than necessary and then later starts feeling sleepy back around 5am - 7am- these definitely are tell tale signs of mental ill health. If your dear wife ticks some of these signs, you guys need to go to a very good hospital for proper medical evaluation of her situation and of course back every thing up with prayers (probably Rukyah since you are Muslims). Wishing your family the very best at this trying period.

Hmm..

Everything else apart from that is normal - She's a good mom, I love her, we have the normal couples fight and reconcile again, she's even doing her PhD in a STEM course.

In the past we had been ascribing these headaches to typhoid or malaria (even though some times it is the case) but they just seem to never go away. Oh yes she is also hypertensive. She is quite an interesting being. Could these physical ailments be the cause of this psychological "thing" or is it the other way round.

I am not naïve to discount there are things we don't fully understand, neither am I narrow minded to think it can only be spiritual.

There was a similar episode before the one I described in the OP, it also happened after she went for a walk at night. So I have resolved not to allow her go outside alone after dark.

I just want to read about other people's experience. I might not be able to describe the phenomenon, but I'll try (bear with me)

We have been married for over a decade now with kids. Like all human interactions (marriage not excluded) we've had our problems but we always manage to resolve it (patience is key - an advice to married couples).

About 3 week ago after one of our usual argument (over some flimsy issue). She walked to me told me we need to talk. She said, and I paraphrase; "If we keep on arguing like this my love for you will keep reducing, and I'll only be staying with you for the kids". She then left for the room. After some few minutes she called me on phone and said "come and take me out" (this was around mid night). She then started crying and complaining of severe headache. She said she wants to go out for a walk at midnight, and crying and acting wired. She loves playing the Qur'an from her phone but at this point she asked me to take it far away from her and lots of other drama.

After about 30 to 40 mins she snapped out of it, her tone changed and she asked me "what are you doing here, are you not coming to bed". As if nothing happened, and when I told her about the incident and our discussions (about the kids and our love) she had absolutely no recollection of it whatsoever (even though it happened just moments ago). She just said she is having severe headaches. I could sense she was visibly disturbed when I told her because she hates any form of mental illness attributed to her.

Recently we travelled and she slept in my sisters place. In the morning she told me she had those severe headaches again and almost called me to come get her in the middle of the night because she was terrified and didn't want to snap into that state again and end up embarrassing her self at my sisters house.

Looking back at some fights we've had over the years couldn't help but think could it be that "she wasn't the one" I've been having these arguments with, but I only start noticing recently?

She normally gets into this state when she's angry (so I try to avoid getting her angry - but its quite hard)

She told me that recently she's been having some wired and fetish urges (even though I have known her to be a good woman)

I don't know if this make sense. I have always thought this kind of things (splits, possession etc.) happened to pretty women (and my wife falls in this category).

I am not the superstitious type and have resolved to stand by her, no one knows about this and I intend to keep it like this as long as it is not beyond our control. But I just want to here from people out there with similar experience

N.B I hope she's not on NL

I have a feeling that this article was a corporate hack-job by NASCOS competitors or even some sort of internal rivalry. NASCO and Kellog's are the market leaders in the breakfast cereals industry (with NASCO having a slight edge over Kellog's), others are Supreme, Infinity etc.

The article had all the hallmarks of a corporate character assassination (well written, laced with facts here and there but stretched beyond credulity). The essence is to cause some rabbles and throw a spanner in NASCO's seemingly unstoppable wheels, and what ever NASCO does from here (ignoring the writer or suing him) will still be playing into the hands of the writer's pay-masters (who ever they may be) - because for now NASCO's attention seems divided.

joinnow:

Is it so difficult for you to comprehend.
Hussi gang three in number scam a someone that need loan to build a world class school. Along the line money drop how to share am become kasala. One out of the three reported to the guy they duped that they are fraudster. hussi was angry planned with Abba. Abba in Nigeria collect him cut and frame up and imprison hussi member that reported to the person they duped.

Ok you try and comprehend this;
Hush and his 3 men gang scammed someone - that is the crime his held for - AK, the Gucci shop he buys his wears, the car rentals he used or any other beneficiary of the proceeds of Hush's fraudulent wealth are not accomplices, not until you prove that AK arrest of Vincent was to directly aid Hush's scamming of the "someone". Or that the Gucci shop aided the scam by kitting him up, or the car rental provided an escape vehicle.

AK, the Gucci shop or the car rental might have breached some code of conducts, standard operating procedures or any other thing but not aiding and abetting Hush's scam. And if the Feds say so (which they haven't yet) they have to produce concrete proof that by arresting Vincent AK aided Hush in his fraudulent acquisition of wealth

Note:
If not for our flexible morality AK should start facing the music in Nigeria already