₦airaland Forum

eraj4real:
I am a young man, and at about age 17-18, a pastor often called me to his office in Port Harcourt to teach him to use computers and huged me tight behind the door of his office. Then used his penis to try pressing on me. Because of fear, and confusion I often kept quiet. Till a day at about age 20 I visited the church he was posted to in Onitsha as I was returning on a journey. He made me pass the night, and made us sleep together in the parlour (his wife traveled). That night he attempted having sex with me, but I resisted all night, but didn't say a word till I got into a bus the next day on my way back to Port Harcourt, I sent him terrible text messages. He apologized. I forgave him. 5-6 years later in year 2011, when he opened his church in Ibadan, I donated N264,000 as a NYSC corper (I closed my account) to support his fledging church. It was only today, at age 33 that I summed up the courage to tell him, "never contact me again". Pastors have a controlling power on members. I didn't add, I also put his son on scholarship for about 2 years but ended this year (I paid over 250k to support his son, mainly because though he tried hurting me, he gave me books and advice that really helped me in business and life in general. He also once called a young entrepreneur who gave me this advice at age 18, "what will you want you children to call you? Papa or Daddy". That influenced my actions for life. I suggest pastors constantly go for counseling to avoid destroying the same people they build. He helped me see my talent in computer than studying medicine even when my parents forced me to study medicine. Pastors have strong influence

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like homosexuality? I think pastors needs to resist the power of flesh that's ridiculing the embodiment of Christ in them and the house of God they lead

so sorry about your awful experience but I disagree that pastor has influence. anyone can influence you if you make yourself ready to be influence


in the part that he made your life change positively that's what Christianity should be seen doing. I know pastors misbehavior lately is a content of some unseen forces. they must all rise to resist the power of flesh not to ridicule the power of God


I hope I see someone that will declare a state of emergency on the poverty that's using me do tutorial

I need a loan, I have message the mail provided. I needed 300k to add to what's on ground in getting a car for cab commercial business


I just need to know the requirements and loan rate. if I'm to be paying weekly or monthly it would be nice.


NB: I have been doing the business before the person I drive for traveled out of the country. I have my valid driver's license and I stay in Lagos


will be waiting to read your feedback

I'm still optimistic I will see a kind hearted that will be merciful enough to help me in preventing the velocity of my hbp


if there is a different loan interest you want me to pay pls feel free to discuss with me. if I'm OK with it I'll surely be sincere with it




please guys I'm pleading

this life ehn

Ijawwomaninoyo:
They are being pushed away and hit on the head, it is written in the post.

disorderliness my sis please find the meaning and read my post again


I was talking about prevention of the incident not post incident intervention. if the securities were proactive, no one will be disobeying the Queue

BabaO2:
stop writing disgusting comments, let's face reality. Instead of proffering ideas how you think issues like this could be eliminated you are busy pointing accusing fingers

Baba pls read my comment again. we don't need to go verbatim before you can comprehend simple sentences


the solution you're proffering since 1999 what has it earned? how can this issue be eliminated when the leaders number 1&2 citizen aren't been truthful with facts that's happening


what can the harmless citizen do with these sophist we have has leaders that keep seeing the crimes as a political game

seems Igbo guys are really kind hearted, it was one guy giving prisoners goods of his livelihood now this


God bless the man and I hope God can elevate the guy from road to office

disorderliness is the hallmark of these BRT staffs. I wonder what is the duty of their securities there

you made her get used to it. the way you handle your courtship with your partner will surely reflect in the marriage



a Romantic man need not beg his woman for sex rather the woman beg. my girl do unzip my upper iweaka whenever nature call on her side


divorcing your wife won't change anything as it would make you loose some reasonable members. work on your romance life Mr pastor

I wonder how Osibanjo sleep with his two eyes. why he feel kidnapping incident are staged amused me till death


as a Christian I can't trust him again

I won't disappoint if I'm given the opportunity to leave this depress life


please be merciful if you're privileged thanks

I'm a graduate and jobless for over 2 years now. Please I need a loan of 300k and I pledged to be paying 10% of the loan every month for the three months I will returned it back.

300k and 30k monthly, on the third month I will returned the money with the agreement 10% interest 330k. I'm ready for court and police documentation and guarantors

Or if anyone can get me a hotel job that pay well, I have experience in hotel job. Please my two brothers look up to me in regards to academic assistant

I live in Lagos, ikorodu to be precise. I'll be looking forward to a kind hearted people for assistant please

benson1411:
Lmao

better

SouthEastFacts:
Keep ranting, Saturday you will still elect an Igbo man into Lagos House of Assembly, Isolo precisely.

Your rants wouldn't stop your brothers from wearing Isiagu to beg for Igbo votes but the day any Igboman tries that in the East will be the day he will lose.

Your stupid laws will never prevent an Igbo man from contesting elections, like I said before, Federal law supersedes any stupid law Tinubu will craft.

You thought you were doing Ndi Igbo when Ambode introduced his dead-on-arrival policy on admission into LASU, but today, our retaliatory policy is still in place.

You can never graduate from Unizik if you don't pass Igbo which was not so until Ambode made his sectional laws.

Today, your brothers can never get admission into UNN. If you like shoot gun tire, nothing for una.

Compare the number of Igbos in LASU a state University with the number of Yorubas in UNN, na una still lose.

Take your hatred go one side, we no get una time.

where is that UNN you keep ranting in the rank of Nigeria university?


I have made my fact and if it happen no one, not even FG will reverse a state law

hisexcellency34:
Tinubu...garrison commander of agberos in Lagos. We Igbos will vote without fear. If Oluomo try nonsense, he will receive nonsense

see this village man. Tinubu made a political statement there. I'm sure sensible Igbos residing in Lagos who love him/herself must have understand that political Machiavellian statement

SouthEastFacts:
Federal laws supersede state laws.

We will continue to vote in Lagos. A Northern contested and won election in Ebonyi and Anambra, nobody is feeling insecured about it, just voting, you guys are screaming like mad dog.

are you this dumb? I should have known when you started comparing a school course with general entry requirement


no one ask you lost immigrants not to exercise your franchise. my fact remain that contestant in Lagos should be limited to westerners as it was in all part of the country. Tinubu led administration foolishly implemented that law of liberal politics and his hurting him. it's time to redress/ reverse it, Lagos state constitution gives room for redress/reverse


the liberal law made all Igbo lined up at the back of PDP as they were given opportunity to contest coupled with jimi vow to handover to them


we Yoruba youths won't tolerate any vote apathy that's giving the tribe that seek asylum in our land such benefit that other tribe aren't enjoying in their land

InaNla:
Only the brainwashed APC children of hates & angers refused to agree...

so obj is now the best now but he was giving series of negative names when he wanted Gej out?


talking about hypocrites of the highest order, Igbo fit in that aberration

there was never APC candidates in Ebonyi umahi had exchange the state presidential election for the state and house of assembly election.


umahi is smart. when election time is near a whole APC that had power at the center will just withdraw just like that? some folks don't understand how politics works.


we warned them to leave Yoruba politics and concentrate on their region politics but they won't hear. their politicians keep playing political chess game on their head but they don't know. all those East politicians won't function in west politics if they're from here

MYHUBBY:
Anyone that win in Oyo as far as he's not using other tribe to play politics on yorubas
is OK by me but is it not the same Makinde that took the transformers he gave to some communities back because he lost in 2015 that's is contesting under pdp?



anyway let the best winner win but I learnt Bayo Adelabu is loved at Ibadan, akala and I expect more lobby from APC if they're indeed serious to win.


ajimobi ti ba ile je jína

I was asking a question at the bolded because I wasn't sure and some folks started splitting nonsense. if I don't want to be corrected I wouldn't have ask. read and understand a post before jumping like loose dogs next time. there was question mark at the back of that sentence you keep quoting. so stop telling me to get any fact right

SouthEastFacts:
We mustn't follow your example because we are not slaves.

LASU is a state University, UNIZIK is a Federal Unity, if you don't pass Igbo as a general course you will never graduate.

It is mandatory for all courses whether you are doing art course or not. I think it is only exempted for those studying Igbo.

If you like you use Yoruba language to set the University screening exams, e no concern us, at least Ndi Igbo will return to the East to study and it means IGR lost for LASG, we will only get concerned when you do with UNILAG, a Federal University.

One thing we know is that any anti-Igbo policy by LASG will responded to with a punitive policy. At least unlike before, every Yoruba person in Unizik will have to pass Igbo before graduating, we will never use Igbo to screen the candidates because we need their money.

UNN no even get time for una. Go and ask questions, you can even browse it, it is easier for a camel to pass through a eye of a needle than for a Yoruba to get admission there ever since Ambode introduced his language madness.

Your people don cry tire, lead a protest against the VC, rant on Twitter but we no get una time.

These are Federal Universities ooh. If they hot like this, I wonder how our State Universities go be.

Ambode wanted to punish Ndi Igbo, but we pass am.

After introducing the same language in public secondary schools, how many Ndi Igbo are in public schools?

Just few, so the policy is inconsequential to us.

will all this jargons stop Lagos electoral law redress? if they Lagos govt don't do it now they will regret it in future


Tinubu that gave you people sense of belonging is the most hated politician in West. just wait and see the outcome of march 9 election and see if those electoral law won't experience reverse

SouthEastFacts:
About the imposition of Yoruba language in the tertiary institutions, we don't have a problem with that because in the East, Anambra in particular if you fail to pass GSS (109) you will never graduate and that course can NEVER be waived.

It was a punitive policy and a response to Ambode's stupidity.

About the issue of voting, the madness will never happen.

see this ewu! if you're so serious with your mud region politics as you're serious with Yoruba politics, would you people handover your region politics in the hand of clowns, incompetent Buffon and a smart thieves you have in East?



we are talking about mandating Yoruba language as etiquette to gain admission in lasu, you're saying thrash. you don't know different between school course and institution entry requirement. even Hausa has their language as general studies course so save that yeye talk abeg

Base1line:
Have you asked Abia Enugu n Ebonyi who are your tribesmen the same thing or you are just being foolish like every PDP senseless Igbos or are election not holding in those shithole you Igbos have been ruling since 1999 ?

thank you for breathing sense inside that lost immigrant dumb skull


Ori e a kan oke omoluabi


as for obj he should not rest with his criticism but he has no right to impose anyone on Nigerians, not even the known thief he once wrote a whole chapter for in his useless book

Edandy:
NO. It was Teslim Folarin that did that. He won his senatorial seat in this lat election

thanks jawe. wasn't clear that's why I asked before those having problem with simple question started jumping like loose dogs

[quote author=Rudethriller post=76381633][/quote]shut up your mouth. if you've problem with grammatical function, am I suppose to be hold responsible for that?


now run along to play with your toys, don't have time for kiddies talk