Built2last and all the people that liked his post I have a question for you


Why is it that all this states you mentioned have different languages?..... It should be same without any difference because it us normal to pass their language to their offspring.... So she should all speak same language with GAD tribe in isreal

OP shd ve added graphic pics

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It could be KARMA knocking


(knocks on d door......)
OP: hello! Who is there?
KARMA: It's me oooo..... Sorry I took time to come buh not too late... I'm sorry tho
OP: Aw may I help u sir!
KARMA: you don't need to help me bro... I can help myself
OP: Mr are u sure you know what u came here for?
KARMA: SURE! to give u the fruitssssss of d seed u and your dad planted (karma blushes while clapping)
OP: mogbe oooo! ( rush inside, grabs phone......NAIRALANDERS HELP OOOOOOO)

ststyreal:

Bring it out my friend I am waiting How does prayers and miracles tallies with the begging of money you mentioned I indirectly ask I remembered asking for prayers and miracles because I was expecting money from someone and not begging. Get your facts straight or I will report you to the mod for false accusation. So bring out the thread where you said I am indirectly begging for money, I am waitinggggggg pleaseeee

This is a faceless forum.... U don't spend your time to reply everyone.... U ll be disappointed if u fig d kinda person Ure replying .... So many immature minds here no be by bn a law graduate.... Some wanna forcefully act adulthood buh u can't give that u don't ve ..a kid is a kid

My mum always tell me: never correct your in-laws directly.... If you need to correct them send your partner... They only can deliver d msg better....... D OP shd ve called d wife n tell her what means dey shd use in boiling water...... D OP is not accomodating...he only brought d issue here cuz he is already feeling Bad about d consequences of his actions to his SIL....if d wife is my sister I ll never visit that home n if I do due to circumstances I won't eat or bath....d SIL will never feel comfortable around him.. To gist sef go be war.... So she ll avoid him like a plague....

Jahblessme:


Am i supposed to take the sabi sabi as insult?
Why should he undermine his wife in such a manner?His wife yelled,yes but where did she 'command' him?
I believe that when people get obsessed with control issues they are usually insecure.
If you are confident in yourself ,make logical decisions and act mature,you will earn and command respect without uttering a sound.

You too get sense Abeg... I guess Ure married.... If not for your comment I wud ve banned myself from nairaland when I saw 402 likes for an advice that ll make things worse

Jahblessme:


Gosh!! where do i start from What kind of local story is this?

1. Your wife should have discussed with you first before her sister visited you both-she was very wrong but everything after that made you look so petty.You were counting water used to bathe and asking your cousin helper to report to you first? If she wants to eat eggs will that also be reported to you?Do you also measure yam with ruler in your house?
Your actions have sown a very bad seed - belittling your SIL & your wife.I do not blame your wife for being very angry but she should have cooled off first and expressed her annoyance to you without flaring up.

Just a quick question OP,if your sister visits and your wife tells your little cousin to report to her first before doing anything she asks for nko?How would that sit with you?Just know your wife will never forget,be ready for your siblings to recieve the same hot soup

Yes,you should have been told before her sis landed ,but the deed had already been done.You should have controlled yourself instead of acting like a miserable being.What did your SIL do wrong?she probably thought she was coming to visit human beings who would treat her well not knowing her husband is a hot water measurer
Best approach would have been to discuss the issue with your spouse quietly.See disgrace!



Your wife raised her voice,you raised your own too,asked her to leave your room.'Yoour Room'??!!! i thought you both are married? I cant even believe what i'm reading here.
In the same sentence you talked about not wanting to be a woman beater.I do not see any reason why beating should come into this abi you normally beat or you were raised by a beater?Violence should not be an option.ah ahhh!!!


Both of you displayed shameful behavior and i don't blame your SIL for leaving,you disgraced her infront of your cousin helper,you disgraced your wife,your wife as disgraced you & you have made her feel unwelcome. Tueh
She will go and tell the story to family members who already don't like you and you will officially enter hate list with tattered reputation.

Please do the world a favour and delay this wedding till you both learn to behave like adults.


If you want to be the leader of your home you must learn to conduct yourself with dignity and self respect.You have to lead by example.
Discussions can be had without raising of voices.If your wife starts to shout,tell her you won't listen till she calms down and addresses you like an adult.I also expect her to do the same to you.That way you both will learn to trust each other and start building your little unit,she will also stop seeing the need to tell every little deed to her family as you will become her best friend and confidante.

Normally you should be in honeymoon phase but you people are already acting like cat and dog.
Good luck o.






By the way the way you worded little cousin and 2 big pots are you trying to imply that the girl is too little to do chores in general or specifically chores for SIL? If she is little,ideally she shouldn't be in your home doing housework.

You typed this outta my fingers.... I be no get strenght type this thank God u did.... Most sensible post here....d guy is something else.... His action prompted d reaction from his wife to be.... I wud only advise d woman sef to leave this potential wife beater

Richy4:
You did what u feel was right @ that moment...

Your sister inlaw was a classy young woman too I must say, she left when she was supposed to..Maybe She never knew her coming will be a problem,maybe she felt her sister will sort u out...But she got it wrong.. Some ladies would have stayed even when they knew they were not welcomed..

If u have a younger bro, or Sis, just expect a cold welcome from your wife anytime they step into your house..it will never be forgotten...

U mistakenly broke an unwritten code that most women held with high esteem especially from the Eastern part of Nigeria....They always want to show that they are comfortable in their husband's house and their relatives are welcome to stay for sometime..I guess that was why she was mad @ u

Just say u were sorry bro.. with a peace offering like earring, or perfume etc.

You're d first person to say a sensible thing on this thread.... 2 n 3 commenters are wrong... Probably they are kids or an authoritarian... Or they grew under an authoritarian father....

Gourdoinc:
when you marry her, manage her till she gives you the kids you want, then if her character hasn't improved, fall out of love with her and whatever she does again will never bother you no more. woman can only bother you as long as ur in love with her

Aw old are u? Diz ur mindset Ehn

Plankton2017:
Good day fellow NL,

Please judge this case. Last week thursday my sister inlaw visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full ghana must go. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks on camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.

My lil cuzin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to cook 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didnt she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cuz to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave my room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.

This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarell too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarell we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them never free with me and act cold towards me. Damn it! pls advice me

Brother check your attitude... Refine your attitude then your relationship ll be fine..... From what your wife did I didn't c anything domineering about it.... For every action there's a reaction... If the reactions u get from your wife family Isnt good them check your actions

When she knows she's mature enough to take on d responsibilities of marriage and she has built the required VALUE to be a wife material....i ll say 22 n above buh age is not maturity...

Ladies should note that marriage should not be a POVERTY ALLEVIATION SCHEME Try to be an independent woman to an extent, if not u should be an asset to whoever ll marry you not a LIABILITY SLAY QUEEN WHO HAS ONLY V to offer

Evaberry:


TF!!!! it's little children that do that nonsense of chopping and cleaning mouth. do u know what love is?
love is not something you feel after 2 weeks of knowing someone, the word love gets abused alot by people. from likeness comes love you just can't start screaming love up and down anyhow.

Yea I know what love is...i know it grows with time,communication n commitment ..... Buh d topic is about marriage proposal..... as the word proposal in relationship insinuate marriage proposal in this part of the world.... So m beginning to imagine d kinda proposal Ure scared to propose cuz u really like him....cud it be marriage or dating.... I love your understanding of love only few know d true instance of love

Evaberry:



what kind of mindset if you don't mind my asking and no one said anything about love here

U are liking him hence want a relationship... No feelings no potential loving... U just want to chop him n clean mouth ba? Children of nowadays Chai!

Evaberry:



what kind of mindset if you don't mind my asking and no one said anything about love here

Mindset of been a liability.... Full house wife mentality...... Talking about d love I mentioned... Wud u propose to someone u don't love? If yes! On what ground?

Evaberry:


no he's not he knows I really like him Nd that I'm ready for A relationship but he just keeps bringing silly excuses
I wonder why guys behave this way.
you see someone who's ready to do anything to make you happy but you don't care

So gehs sef dey fall in love like this....this made me remember my ex.... She did every thing to be d wife including saying sorry when m wrong.... Buh I can't propose to her cuz i could not c her in my future.... She has some mindset that couldn't be changed hence became less of a wife material

madridguy:
The bae mental case na A1

So d mad geh is a bae to u....... U just use words without knowing d meaning smh

Now learn

It means Before Anyone Else. Why People Say BAE. BAE is an acronym that's typically used to refer to a boyfriend or a girlfriend, a lover, a crush or really anyone considered to be the most important person in another person's life.

greatmutt64:
Pics of the new look or I don't believe it. OK I have seen the pics. God bless the people that take care of him

English hard o

Maychang:


Oga Corrector...Its Deflower not disflower

Chai u for call am night call tell am na

HisSexcellency:

So he uses dollars in Nigeria right? His naira account is less than 4k and you want me to believe that
Check the account history, its blank meaning that no transaction has been carried out on it in a long time

D account has been frozen get it bro

chukzyfcbb:

as in over dull dey worry am. I get the fact that people just want any proof to nail hushouppi and label him an outright criminal for stepping on the toes of their beloved artiste, but then, If you must play dirty you must know the game.

The previous Guy who started this talk, did a shabby job.
and Nigerians being the gullible people didn't even bother to find out if it was true. The accuser said this email jwoodscrane@yahoo.com, was linked to Jane woodscrane. But if you type that email on facebook or twitter, it brings out hushpuppis account and not Jane woods crane like he outrightly claimed.. so he obviously lied to score cheap points. If you want to bring down hushpuppi, then dig deep not tell lies to sound smart.

.I mean we all saw how someone uncovered the pastor Suleiman saga and that actress concerning the parked jeep at her residence

You and d OP are both jobless fools here.... I read d first OP claim n I believed he has a point... Who get time go dey search jwoodcrane email on Fb? D first OP claimed he did it n gave d result n it was a sweet proof...abeg shift make I c road... I have better things to do than sit with paid fools of HUSHBINGO

ikp120:

Hushpuppi's name is Ray in case you're that daft as not to know what's up.

Hushpuppi didn't use Jane Woodscrane anywhere. His email id is jwoodscrane@yahoo.com. The OP of that thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3956741/exposed-hushpuppi-also-jane-woodscrane based his points on an assumption that the "j" in that email id is "Jane". That's purely assumptive, not objective.

Your argument is that there is woodscrane in the email id and in his Facebook name (Ray Woodscrane).

His real name is Ray (let me help your low cognitive ability).

No one paid me. Check my Nairaland profile and you will see that most of my threads are based on my investigations.

Investigating things objectively is my hobby. So I hate seeing people basing their investigations on assumptions.

Are u dull or what? The OP that exposed the guy... Checked d facebook account that registered with d mail he received d alert on.... Don't be dull... The first OP didn't assume he has point

ogorwyne:

It could be so annoying sometimes.

If I have no client to attend to. Afternoon sleep is a priority for me

DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

Keep treating her same. ....dont make d move for a yl... ..she ll serve u sex after b4 3 months.... She's trying not to be cheap n taken for granted. ...dont ask her out again just treat her like a gf buh no romantic move shd be attached.... Then watch her give u more attention

Maybe u look like a dil do.....afin oshi

ogorwyne:

I slept very late last night o, but i always wake up at a particular time every morning, once DAT time reach sleep dey always fly from my eyes.

Same with me... Ure not alone in this

I once have a woman mere friend... She has 3 kid... With d way became close I knew she wanted a relationship hence I teased her with a relationship step thinking she want a fuckboy then... I later realised despite her horniness to get laid she want to get laid to someone who can help financially... .so she didn't allow sex after I played my financial card like a broke guy.. ..then I figured if he know aw much I worth then she ll form loving u for me... As me sef no ready bang old punna I picked race oooo... Guess my story ll help u decide

cathodekazim:
Good morning Nairalanders, Seun, Lalasticlala and Mynd44

My name is Yemi from Lagos and presently in a relationship dilemma.
I'm in love with a lady Chi, an igbo lady, beautiful n brilliant, lovely and caring and she is also in love with me but there are lot of issues facing this relationship.
Permit me to list them.

1. She is 5years older than I. Though people used to say age is just a number and love knows no age but can this be applicable when one wants a stress free and successful relationship. Will she respect me, wedding or no wedding, there will be a day that we will quarel and won't she use the age gap against me？there are instances women will have to shield their sword in order to let peace rain like kneeling down, begging, crying e.t.c but can a lady that is older than a guy do all these?

2. She is a divorcee. Though i don't blame her for this, as leaving a marriage is a thing of self decision. It is clear she sufferred a lot in her previous marriage based on what she told me but i kept asking myself this questions
what if she reconcile with her ex man? having it in mind that she has given birth to 3 cute children for him
what if i irritate her or my job has little problem and i'm unable to sustain her financial needs, won't she bows out?
what if those kids decide that their mum should go back to their dad, what then will be my fate。
3. Religious difference. There is this popular saying that two heart live as one and this i can say is the backup of most successful relationship.
I am a traditionalist even though i do go to church while she is a christian. Though we have discussed this issue and agreed mutually that we should carry on but there is this fear in me that once i ask her to perform some traditional rites, she might bout and this could be dangerous to my marital pursuit.
4. She has another manfriend. One fact about this relationship is that we have been very open to eachother. I told her about my past and she also narrated hers to me. But on a night that we were having sober reflections, she opened up to me that she has a manfriend simply named Alhaji and that he is the one taking care of her finances before i came into her life and that the man is married but she couldn't leave him or quit their secret relationship until she gets a job. I told her to choose between me and Alhaji but she keeps begging me to let us make it a secret, that when she gets a job, he will let him go.
I told her that i can't play the role of a second fiddle but she kept begging me, telling and swearing that she loves me and couldnt trade me for anybody.

This is a trying time for me. I have ended all myrelationships with other girls, I love Oge so much but these conditions are giving me sleepless night.

please should i continue with the relationship or break up?
nairalanders, lalasticlala mynd44 please help.

Sorry to say bro... You have been hypnotised Bcuz everything is wrong with the relationship... Her purpose of wanting to marry u is for financial or maybe sexual benefits.... She ll still leave you for a better man.... A woman that can leave her husband after 3 kids don't have what dey called perseverance ...and u won't be left out if u have any problem God forbid

austinosita:


Did you watch the video?

The man was kneeling and begging her to forgive him.

That's the evidence.

She's a smart girl!

Though I condemn what the taxify driver did, but she shouldn't have involved the police or she should have told taxify management, not to arrest him/charge him to court.
Habba.....see him helping her to carry her load and even kneeling and begging her.
They blocked him and deactivated him from the platform...... Which means, end of the road for him on taxify....and maybe uber self. Now they still went ahead to arrest him and they will still charge him!

That's too much!

In a law court.. Judges don't care to know the truth they deal with the FACT presented.... He could be begging for another thing Tho.... What's d proof that he squeezed her nipplesss..... It simple the guy should get a lawyer, write a statement that he only asked her out which got her angry because he is a driver hence he needed to beg.... Then sue her for defamation of character in another case....


Anyway I don't support sexual assault buh the her evidence is lame d guy can make money from it too

swiz123:
Two ftc in two hours in my own posts,indeed God is wonderful.i dedicate this feat to my bae shirley and my mom Anthonia for alwYs believing in me and may all my enemies in the village die bcs of my success...

Shows your rate of joblessness

The early commenters said it all buh I want to give a diverse opinion... There's two sides to a coin.... She's probably hoping for an erotic relationship later.... Buh she doesn't wanna be that cheap girl so u cud still c her as a wife material.. Hence the attitude to look decent...