Righteousness2: Daily Dose of Undiluted and unadulterated preaching, teachings and truths from the Bible , which may make you uncomfortable or angry, but will Save your soul.
Botragelad: Have you lost your mind? Is there a law against wearing a brassiere or whatever you call it. Not like it's a religious outfit or anything.
It's like saying a bloke can't come in because he's not wearing a singlet. How does that make any sense? You're the same one who moans about government injustice but you back injustice against others or things you don't like. Isn't that hypocritical!
By your logic, you don't challenge your tutor and expect him to cave in but you want your president to cave in to your demand on how to make the country better. You are saying she has no right to speak and stand up for herself yet you moan the judiciary is rubbish, you want everyone to shut up and let their right get stomped on, yet you lot whinge about abuse from the police.
The audacity of that bloody wimp. I can't picture this happening in the US or any civilised country. You are bound to get your arse sued for harassment!
Bra Not in Ghana. I used to ask if Ghanaian ladies are forbidden from wearing bra. Both young and old. If people should b stopped from writing an exam cos of not wearing bra in Ghana, den only men are to write.
TOBILOBA2023: FOR A FAMILY MAN? IN THIS PRESENT ECONOMY?Na how many Nigerians (married with children) wey dey earn above 50k monthly, get 600k in savings? How many casual workers earns 50k monthly salary in a "bread factory, pure water package company, wheelbarrow assembly factory".LET'S BE REALISTIC ABEG.
ARE YOU EVEN A NIGERIAN? DO YOU LIVE AND WORK IN NIGERIA? HAVE YOU STARTED WORKING (Not affiliate marketing, forex/Bitcoin stuff or some online something something) HAVE YOU WORKED IN A FACTORY AS A CASUAL WORKER BEFORE? ARE YOU AN EMPLOYEE OR EMPLOYER?? ARE YOU SINGLE OR MARRIED? DO YOU LIVE ALONE OR LIVE WITH PARENTS?😃
If the loan He's seeking is for business purpose, My advice to him . . . "NO MATTER HOW BIG YOUR IDEA OR PLAN IS, BE BOLD TO START SMALL"
However, taking a genuine business loans (not grant) with an agreement to pay back, from family members is not a bad idea. All fingers are not equal. A large count of people won't go to family members for help if they have other better and sure options, to avoid "see finish" - "Na Condition dey make crayfish bend."
"Big men dey take business loans. Big men dey support each other. E no easy abeg.
PLEASE, LET'S BE REALISTIC 🙏
Thank u my brother...
Some people speak without reasoning.
Which menial work pays 50k in Nigeria?
...and for him to even say 50k monthly will give u 600k in 6-8 months makes me doubt his reasoning.
MatrixReloaded: Ungrateful weakling as you is the reason people don't help. Your uncle or whatever doesn't owe you and 600k for 2 years if you are hardworking, you should have gotten such amount through savings. You can work in bread factory, pure water package company, wheelbarrow assembly factory. 50k monthly salary will give u 600k in 6-8 months. Plus your wife doesn't need to sit back and wait for bread and fish to arrive before feeding 5000 multitude. Just dey play with ur time.
...50k monthly gives u 600k in 6-8 months?? Are u joking? And he saves all his income...? He doesn't eat, pay bills??
opamoses1: Some 🤡s like to say "Yorubas don't travel".
We just don't travel to unsafe regions. That's all.
Don't b mistaken, yorubas ain't just Nigerians. Other West African countries have yoruba.
Also, igbos adopt cultures so much, including languages. So, some of dem find it hard teaching dia kids dia language. Even in Nigeria, some Igbo kids residing in Lagos don't know how to speak Igbo.
ivolt: How is this related to the topic? Even if you rumour is correct sleeping around is not a crime for married couple let alone unmarried cohabiting ones.
Abeg just calm down and go through wot u wrote up there. Joking??
englishmart: This nonsense won't be happening if Mr. Ibuprofen had learnt to invest when he had endorsements from glo, gotv, etc. Instead he was balling, drinking and partying. How much is that sickness that he had no choice but yo resort to public help. A whole A-list actor
Plz any entertainer can b broke but plz not Mr Ibu...
A wise actor utilizes every opportunity at his disposal.
So, wot makes u think he isn't just "acting" to be broke just to make more money? Money no dey belleful.
Resetinc: Blow up everything that’s blowable in gaza 😂😂
If hamas have the power and weapon Israel has you think they will give a fvck about children in Israel hospital ?? bloody terrorists .. kill them all
God Bless Israel and their lovers 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱
Modified: some terrorist sympathizers are calling Iran 😂😂 I laugh in Swahili because you people don’t know what’s on ground .. Iran is America’s main target … US is just waiting for Iran to make any direct move against Israel 😂😂 even Al Jazeera propagandists will not be able to televise what will happen in Iran 😂😂😂
Uncle close mouth... US defence minister
US is waiting for which Iran? No dey allow movies enter ur head. War is war...
jamesope04: The confusion in this family is more confusing. Who is the wife to the man self?
Being a second wife or even d main wide doesn't make u d heir to every of a man's property or account. He might've opened dis account and made d 2nd son heir to it even before they married d so-called second wife.
They're just dragging money. Mr ibu is widely loved and would b getting enough donations from fans and well-wishers.
Iagos: I boarded a bus from Ajah to Oshodi and noticed an unsettling driving behavior from the driver. I suspected he was sleeping, I recorded a video and caught him dozing off while driving on the 3rd Mainland Bridge. Concerned for my safety, I chose to end my journey at Oworo, prioritizing my well-being to avoid potential risks.
netpro: This made-in-Agulu lying machine thinks we don't know how he was dashing out hundreds of car as campaign gift for his second term reelection as governor?
U must b a puppy to think elections are run by the political gladiators. Stake holders could do certain mobilisations without ur personal involvement, ok.
So, saying dat Peter Obi dash hundred of cars during his campaign is a big lie.
And it was almost a gross stupidity and waste of resources for anyone to run against Obi's second tenure ambition,,, because he did so well in his first tenure dat if not for formalities, there should b no elections after his first tenure.
BluntCrazeMan: From the video, e be like say all of them dey fear the strong lady.
Even with all the flowing blood, the others were still peeping around from a good distance.
I don't blame dem o... De gal wit knife has red eyes already and wouldn't relent attacking another person. Gals novhet mind naa... Even, most men go draw back under such circumstance.
OlawaleBammie: God pun!$h una......where is the deadbody??
Nobody died, she only sliced her adversary in the arm and the fight stopped joo
Modified...the video didn't show it to the point of her death, so stop talking like a kid to me
U read ur news just on nairaland? Her artery was cut. Medical experts already spoke on d case. Dey say if an artery is cut, it takes just 3mins for d victim to die if not attended to. And d imminent remedy is to add enough pressure and tie d place up. Dey call it tourniquet.
I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.
I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.
My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.
Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.
Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.
My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.
My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.
My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.
The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.
What do I do? How do I approach this.
Aunty, I honestly was blown off wen I read u saying u sent a screenshot of ur mum telling u not to allow ur aunty to come around, and even called her sis a husband snatcher... Dats just d height of it. Wot exactly were u thinking? Wot stopped u from telling ur aunty dat ur mum must've misunderstood things, dat she should not worry dat things are ok, da she should come... U went ahead saying wot I don't know. U made it sound as though u hated ur mum. I mean, if anyone calls u a bad child or a betrayer, I don't think it's out of proportion... The enmity u created between ur mum and her sis would b very hard to salvage. I mean, it's not just a hearsay, d screenshot was a clear evidence ur mum spoke ill of her sister, how do u expect d so-called elder sister to forgive her easily?
U never loved mum nor ur family.
Ha, d only way I could forgive such if I were ur mum's elder sis is to convince me d screenshot u sent was an AI generated, and didn't come from u and ur mum's chat(her supposed close loving sister).
And as for forgiveness from ur immediate family, na to find a way and say u never sent anything to ur aunty, dat infact, ur WhatsApp was hacked. If possible rake around, make report to police station, lay some accusations... All is just to make dem believe u didn't sell dem out da way. Dat ur WhatsApp was actually hacked. Else, u've ostracized urself from ur family for a very long time to come...
I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.
I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.
My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.
Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.
Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.
My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.
My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.
My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.
The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.
What do I do? How do I approach this.
Aunty, I honestly was blown off wen I read u saying u sent a screenshot of ur mum telling u not to allow ur aunty to come around, and even called her sis a husband snatcher... Dats just d height of it. Wot exactly were u thinking? Wot stopped u from telling ur aunty dat ur mum must've misunderstood things, dat she should not worry dat things are ok, da she should come... U went ahead saying wot I don't know. U made it sound as though u hated ur mum. I mean, if anyone calls u a bad child or a betrayer, I don't think it's out of proportion... The enmity u created between ur mum and her sis would b very hard to salvage. I mean, it's not just a hearsay, d screenshot was a clear evidence ur mum spoke ill of her sister, how do u expect d so-called elder sister to forgive her easily?
U never loved mum nor ur family.
Ha, d only way I could forgive such if I were ur mum's elder sis is to convince me d screenshot u sent was an AI generated, and didn't come from u and ur mum's chat(her supposed close loving sister).
And as for forgiveness from ur immediate family, na to find a way and say u never sent anything to ur aunty, dat infact, ur WhatsApp was hacked. If possible rake around, make report to police station, lay some accusations... All is just to make dem believe u didn't sell dem out da way. Dat ur WhatsApp was actually hacked. Else, u've ostracized urself from ur family for a very long time to come.
Also, besides ur mum not coming for ur omugwo, have u people been in good terms? ... because, if u guys were, u must've seen more tactful way to approach dis issue from d start.
Chijeep: Lemme just talk small sense into your head, everyone isn't like you. if I don't want to disclose anything I'll never even think of posting such not to talk of mentioning a woman with 4 kids and beside I've never received any token for posting on nairaland nor hitting frontpage. So what will be my gain in garnishing what's really bothering me? Even if I sleep with her will you kill me 4 it? WHY IM SO PAINED HERE IS THAT I USED TO CONDEMN THIS TYPE OF MESS FRM PEOPLE AND NOW I'M DIRECTLY INVOLVED IN IT TALK MORE OF A WOMAN WITH 4kids. *NOW I KNOW THAT NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW
Lol... ... D way u keep emphasizing on "a woman with 4'kids" ...as though a woman with 4kids is categorically finished ...
Oh, in every case there could be an exception anyway. But dat doesn't change d fact dat people won't admit most of dia sexual adventures in public. It's just a Stark truth
Onyiiobi7735: Op I admire you for your decency and being honest.Many young men in your shoes knowing the woman is married would try to go beyond the platonic romance,that is by having sex with her, but you didn't because you have a conscience and morals. Just try to convince her to remain in her marriage and help the man work on the marriage. Because it's not like the woman's husband offended her or is an abusive one. The marriage just needs reconstruction . But if she's adamant on leaving, just keep a distance from her so it won't look like you are encouraging her to leave her husband. If she decides that it is you she wants,then fine and good. But for now while she's still in the man's house,pause your romance with another man's house. Let her do everything by herself in leaving.
U were expecting anyone to come in public and admits he sleeps/slept with a married woman/women...? Are u joking? It's normal, ok.
Flesh10: 6yrs relationship with my fiancee I can't seem to find any fault with her. I have searched and searched yet that babe is just too perfect in every area. I asked her about my flaws too and where I need to improve she also cannot spot.
We are a perfect match, 6yrs and chasing 7yrs no drama, no fight, no quarrel just both of us loving , making sacrifices and managing our little.
Lol... U people should keep lying to urselves. Una dey do una selves not me ..
Samantha124: Last time I watched football was back in 2010 during the FIFA world cup in SA, and I only watched it because it was in SA... ... We had long school holidays that year because of the world cup.
And funny enough, even though I don't know much about cricket and rugby, I just happen to know more SA rugby and cricket players compared to SA football players.
Hambivert: This is sparogatively Ona not Una Ona with its bitter-sweet taste is a delight to the taste bud when it is cooked well. This yam is a very heavy diet
Dey said in ur dialect...
Possibly called una in their dialect.
We call it ona too... Eaten with ncha We see it as food for d elderly. Cooked today and eaten tommorow.(I mean, not eaten hot). I don't like it. Can only eat it wen am extremely hungry.
cyber999: People protesting "Free Palestine" would never see anything wrong with this o. But when Israel retaliate, we will start hearing "genocide".
The truth remains, killing of children/civilian is same thing anywhere/everywhere...
Both people's life matter. U shouldn't cry wen Hamas kill Israeli children and celebrate wen Israel kill d Palestine children. Dats hypocrisy anywhere/everywhere.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Makes You To Adhere To Your Church? by MySolace: 1:19pm On Dec 24, 2023
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