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Curious345:
Nothing must happen to hundeyin..

But why can't he fly to Europe ?

It's not as if he's currently in Ghana o, He goes to anywhere he wants. He could even b in Europe right now, but he's making use of Ghanaian refugee passport. So, if Ghana should cancel his passport, Nigeria govt can easily get hands on him. Esp legally by ordering his repatriation. But as it stands now, Nigeria can't do dat cos he's more of a Ghanaian citizen and a special citizen for da matter o

tinsel:
Well, whatever, he exposed himself by leaking that knowing he is in Ghana, and Ghana is a member of ECOWAS and a signatory to that proposed military attack. He showed his juvenile nature.

Signatory to wot was never consensously agreed upon?? Did ECOWAS state agreed to wage war against Niger? It was an illegally planned attack. It's good as the guy aided in squashing it.

tinsel:
The boy was stupid to have released that secret military memo. He shows his juvenile there. Not everything you dish out to the public. Hold some and keep some. What he did is a treasonable offense.
He did not think about the lives of those soldiers.

More lives would've been lost if he had kept mute, don't u think so? U urself could've been a victim too, u never can tel

Babypal:
Is it possible for a biological parent to get jealous of a child's success? Using mobads dad for an instance some claim he may be aware of the circumstances leading to his child's death.

How possible is this friends?

Any real life experience, kindly share?

All I know is that a parent/parents could prefer a particular child to b more successful dan certain one. The loyal and humble ones are more likely to b wished by their parents to b more successful than d one dat is stubborn or the one wey im eyes no dey d family, or d one dey see as a rebel... ...

But den, it's very disapproving

Klass99:
If I were your father I will simply undo every renovation work done on properties he is laying claim to and let him have them, after I have returned said properties to their former state and status. I hate nonsense and stupidity sha.

Plz, no dey add plenty emotions.

The kingsmen can even penalize the so-called younger brother for indirectly wishing his elder brother death. Cos, from his body language, he's praying his elder brother doesn't come back.

We ain't just talking about building here o, wot about d land d building is situated on?

If the father's building belongs to d first son, den, d younger brother renovating, he should b commended for his good gesture, but dat doesn't give right to d ownership of d building/the land.

In my area, the second to d last born was d first person da made money as a very tender age. He built wide bungalow where d entire family lived. They've now shared inheritance and he was given an empty land where he now build his own house and living with his family. The eldest brother now own d bungalow the were combinely living in... but is now super rich da he has built beautiful duplex near d bungalow and is even about demolishing d bungalow sef. But den, wot the eldest brother never did was to send anybody out of da pioneer building. U can live there till U're able to build ur own house.

Peter532:
Hello all,
My dad immediate elder brother who went to south africa in the 90s is back to drag their parents property claiming to be the first son.

This is someone who after he travelled only came back once and never bothered about the affair's of the family.

Their father my grandfather died 2005 he was no where to be found. my grand mother died 2018 still nothing from him.

No contributions whatever even while their parents was still alive.

He cut all sort of communications with them and now he's back to lay claim on the properties.

The family is angry but some of the elders in the extended family are getting on is side claiming he's still the senior he was never disowned but they can't say it out though.

It's obvious he came back with almost nothing and felt laying claims on their parent property is the back up plan

No will was written and some of the old buildings has been reconstructed from the scratch by my father and yet someone is laying claim on it.

I will like to know how this will go because my father is ready to fight this with his last strength and we the children are firmly behind him

If I may ask, was ur father praying dat his senior brother doesn't come back or should die in foreign land?

Plz, irrespective of how long he stayed, he has rights to his entitlements. U don't even know why he didn't come home.

My dad's younger brother was being seen as a stingy man by us(the children), why...? because he brought nothing for us wen he came back from Germany after a very long time. He was just making us unending promises.
But we later found out dat he was in prison all d while. My dad was fully aware. Dey were communicating through letters. He could've faced such case.
So, sometimes it's not usually good to judge people from afar.

April4th:
Why you sef allow your mum go wormorwormor church?

Wetin he suppose do? Chain her down?

descarado:
That is my best.
Very sweet and rich.

This is actually the origin of jollof rice.
Jollof is a Senegalese word.

D name jolof rice may not have anything to do with d jollof rice dish of today. It's most likely about rice itself.

According to wot I read, Senegambia region was ruled by jolof Empire, and dey were known for growing rice.. and dis dates back to 14th century.
But most ingredients used in cooking jollof were mainly 19th century products from different regions of d work. India, Asia, Europe...etc.

Holluwhakemmy:
don't let us justify evil what is bad is bad.

Wot are u even saying...?

So, if a married lady goes out to meet a single guy who is unaware d said lady is married, it's evil on d side of d guy? ...plz wots his offence??
Same is also applicable to married men.

U're the one trying to avert d truth.

Am trying to say in certain issues or crime, some persons are likely to be innocent.

...abeg no reply me again if u still no understand, I no get strength.

Leggodeals:
Your problem is not social media. You are struggling with lust. Go to YouTube and listen to grace preachers like Joseph Prince. You will be grateful you did

Tried listening to him, but it seemed like a fairytales. Maybe cos am not too religious.
Listened to Andrew Wommack too.

Holluwhakemmy:
Men are to blame they are ghe one sleeping with fhose women.

How u wan take men?

Some of diz married women denied being married sef... And some are going about with single guys, not as if dey're dating another married men o.

...let's say I speak from experience...

obembet:
Though I don't support Evil acts but Over 98% of men too cheat on their wife.

This isn't about cheating... But cheating and carrying belle. No b every cheating woman dey carry belle naa.

It's grossly disrespectful, wicked and silly for a woman to cheat and still carry belle at d same time... Disgusting!!

LegendHero:
David Hyundai na dunce. How can you use google search alone as a judge to know if someone exists?

So if you go on Google and search all your classmate name, you will find them there. This David sense don fail am.


Shey this man Tunde Badejo below too no exist?

A popular figure suppose b on d internet. An analyst

100smile:
Okay
There was this girl I was dating, we lived in the same area, I was staying with my uncle then. One day she came with her kid sister of about 3 years to my place. And that day I was the only one at home, you know na, as a sharp guy u nor suppose let that chance pass.
So I start with kiss, con carry my hand enter her skirt begin finger her. I observe her sister see say she focus for watin I dey do. She just stand dey look me like say I dey teach her work
Meanwhile my girl Don dey beg me make I penetrate. I just tell her say with the way her sister dey look me, I nor go fit. She con say mk we enter room. We dey go room when I look back see say the sister dey follow us, I just bone like say I nor see her, enter room, lock door. OMO d child burst cry. The kind of cry wey go alert dem neighbor. Nobody tell me before I open the door back.
Many thoughts of how I go take discharge the child just dey pass through my head. How I go take tell my guys say only me dey hous, my girl come, I nor dock am. Na falling hand na. One mind dey say mk I tie her, tie her mouth, carry her go dump for parlour till we fuk finish.
Na my girl con suggest say mk I download cartoon for my phone give say she nor go disturb us.
True true, the child nor disturb again. She just focus on the phone.

Finally brethren! My time Don show. After like 2 mins for the act, I con feel somebody presence around the room.
I dey give her through back, one of my leg dey ground, the other one dey the bed. I still dey stroke dey go wey I feel something very cold dey touch my blockous. The child grab my balls con dey laugh.
The kind shame wey catch me dat day ehh.

Till I comot dat area, anytime d pikin see me, she go dey put her hands in my pants dey try find balls

silliest I've read.

konvicted77:
thats not wat he said, just dat the idiot didnt use good puntuation and coma.

... D idiot kwa??

ecolime:
WhatsApp in 2001? You dey whine us?

Wots up!!!!!

Told his friend d situation on ground.

But, e hard to understand?

ebuka1511:
This is way too funny, the year was 2001, I was in SS2 while she was also in SS2, living with my Aunt in the village, attending the local community secondary, while she was a boarder in Anglican Girls Nnewi. Our communication then was through NIPOST. We exchanged lots of letters via the post office till when we decided to take a step further.

On a very good day, she wrote and informed me she would be visiting me, local man began to sweat, then I was also a virgin, I never spoil and was among the best students in my class then. I confided in my best friend Chibuzor on whatsup, that my babe wants to visit, he was aware of her . Chibuzor after thorough thinking advised me to let her come between 10am to 1PM on a particular date, as my Aunt been a teacher in one of the government primary schools in my town would be in school.

I communicated back, sharing my home address with her, and told her she fit show on our cleared date. Na so my babe come oh, meanwhile, I came back early from school, when all, including my aunt, has left for work. My lucky day, I went with my guy, Chibuzor to our main road to receive her, see butterflies doing acrobats in my tummy, Wow, only seen her once on a crusade ground in her village, Awka Etiti. when St. Barth. Anglican Church came for a crusade, there we met and exchanged school postal addresses.

With my little savings, I bought some biscuits, short cake biscuit by Nasco, not short bread oh as I could not afford it, then I bought a bottle of fanta and coke, so she gets to make her choice and I take the left over.

On arrival, Innocent me, I did not take her to my room, rather I took her to the living room, less I forget, I don discharge Chibuzor after we reach house. We were in the living room and I offered her my little refreshment, she took fanta, while i sipped my coke . We were discussing about Physics, Chemistry, how many topics she has covered, most difficult topics, and the like when our main entrance gate made a noise, the gate usually makes noise when someone is using it,

Swallowing hard, I went and peeped over the window!! low and behold, it was my Aunt, you suppose understand those Aunts that teaches primary six in government primary school, she was a no-nonsense lady, very strict. I evaluated my situation, we were not in any compromising position, me stuttering, informed my girl that my Aunt was back, she had nothing to fear, I would introduce her, she was scared, but so was I. However I tried calming her down.

Local man was in a fixed , however, I await my fate. Meanwhile, my aunt arrived before their normal closing hours, as she normally closes from school around 1:30 pm, but it was just after 11 am, I know someone must have snitched on me, but then, we were not doing anything bad, that was my thought, so it was going to be easy.

She quietly came in and entered the living room, I came out and greeted her, she asked why I was not in school, I stuttered to answer that I had a guest, she now asked me who was the guest?

I answered my friend.

She asked again, what type of friend? while walking into the parlor. When she entered, I blurted out... she is my Girlfriend, told her her name, her surname, her village and her school, her class, her last position in class, and many more things I cannot recall now.
Next I saw was broom landing on my girlfriend and me, men!!!! local man is finished!!!!

I never knew how she made it out of our compound. That was the end!!!! I could not write back to apologize and soon we wrote our SSCE exams, contacts were lost. In retrospect, I smile now and have played out many scenarios I would use that would have saved me that embarrassment, but then it happened.

... Omo...

Possibly person snitched on u as u said..

Chai... Me wey hate embarrassment die, if I experience dis one, e go better make ground open make I fall enter

pweeryambre:
Ok

I think punctuation killed his write-up.

He had nothing to do with d mother,, just d daughter.

allthingsgood:
Yes but your representatives are in the National Assrmbly. You are the one that elected them to represent you. So demand your cut from them

Plz dia primary work is to make laws, ok. If dey wan empower d grassroot, dey should instead give to d local governments, let our legislature focus on making laws and policies...
U talk as if Tinubu actually gave dem d money to disburse or use for their constituencies... Na lobbying, we know.

helinues:
Wait, are LP representatives also part of those who collected the N100m ? If yes, why have they not returned the money as Labour Party is a party of saint

Meanwhile, some Nigerians can just be deliberately mischievous.

The N2bn sent to states for palliative, shouldn't that be the responsibility of both senators and house of reps members to contribute their own palliative to the constituency and also monitor how their state governors would share the money or whatever items.

Some people are becoming generational wailers

https://www.nairaland.com/7820355/palliative-hold-governors-federal-representatives

https://www.nairaland.com/7777855/delay-palliative-funds

We all know those ones reps no one but themselves and their family. Anything given to dem is a wasted resources...wit exception of just few.

cococandy:
They ask you your qualities and you say you work . Bro really? 😩

Certainly he misused word.
Maybe "attributes" would do better...

descarado:
You are assuming he has.
A man that earn 700k in naija na big man.
Wifey should have her own car.
House fully equipped with modern kitchen gadgets to ease in housework.
Fully functional gen( cos of electricity wahala),then, even though you work, should help when you are at home eg weekend.
Your wife is no slave.

Our low mentality give birth to these skewed thinking and reasoning.
You guys should grow with the world cos you have been left behind.

Not, this is Africa mentality.

Africa that is synonymous with poverty and wretchedness.

Are u joking
Have u gone to their house to know it's not properly equipped?

So, assuming d husband is making just 50k monthly nko? Or u think some families don't live within such amount? Stop sounding silly plzzz...
I personally think d woman is privileged. Any woman dat has a husband da gives her money regularly to take care of home is truly blessed!
Wot about d wives dat get nothing from d husband? ....or u think there's no such thing?

U talking, how much are u giving ur wife or girlfriend... Or rather, (with all due respect) how much is ur father giving ur mother monthly? Just b honest....

Acidosis:
You're the du m.b one, clearly. Your earning is useless if it doesn't reduce the burden and workload in your home.

Stingy criminal.

Oga b calming down!
Are u married? How much is ur pay and how much are u giving ur wife?

Some married men's monthly pay isn't upto 100k, yet their family lives within it...while everyone does his or her responsibilities in their best capacity.

So, because he said he's making 700k, u now see 100k as meagre amount? Are u joking?
Didn't u hear where he said d wife also does little work...? Is d revenue she's generating from there meant for d dustbin?

He's not even expending d balance on frivolities o, d money goes into a project to b enjoyed by d entire family which dey're well aware of. (Even if dey're not aware).
Ibi like say some of una dey reason wit una anus o...

...plz commend d man. He slaves for his family!

FreeIgboho:
OP since your problem is strictly sex, it is not worth breaking up a home over that. Below is your solution. Requires a bit of disciplined saving though. Will also make your wife sit up

Lol... U no well.
Dis shit still dey exist? D wave died like it never came

ADURA123:
No...this I can swear with anything...she is not just meeting my sexual needs, simple, she complained I have too much sex drive and she is not ready to be killed.

Abeg no swear for any human being, I take God beg u.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Involve ur kingsmen asap... Dey know how to rubbish such move. Esp d incorruptible ones among dem.

If she chooses to stay den she stays, if she chooses to remarry, she should get out of her late husband's house. What an insult to d dead!!

Stand ur ground. Am happy ure a man, if to say u were a woman, maybe ur legs would b shakky, but being a man, u're ur father. No one should take ur father's labour under ur nose.

Like I said, if ur mother wants to stay let her stay. But if she wants to remarry, she should forgo her late husband's house. U no get reasonable uncle's sef?

TimT:
When u love someone unconditionally, you won't generalize their name. Infact, their name will always be on the tip of your tongue..
What stops the man from saying "My wife and my kids"?
Besides his wife came first before the kids abi love of the wife don tire the man?
That's not misconception.

Make we rest abeg ....
We don too carry person matter for head
🤣🤣

D man loves his family unconditionally, don't come and start dividing it for him. Young family means young marriage. D wife is even d epicenter.

Like u said, make we rest, no b our personal matter

TimT:
None... But IconicR was actually self-biased because she felt the man didn't "List" his love for the whole family, only the kids, hence her accusations...
So if the man had responded Nd said something about the wife, all would have been well...
But u see dat other one, just carry the matter for head

Wait, u actually concur with her dat d man didn't mention his wife? Dats not true.

The man said my relatively young family...(d wife and kid inclusive). D family is still young, barely 7years marriage.

So, I think d gal(abi lady, abi woman, abi na grandma sef ...na joke o...) accused him wrongly, and of not mentioning d wife.

...she honestly went off d line, making d AdvancedDNA guy to attack her straightaway.

Misconception is all I've seen.

gassbee:
leave am, make him start work first, e go get d message, enugu weekly na beans?

Transport alone go gulp d so-called salary

TimT:
Honestly.... Both of them just occupy the front page... I just open the thread only to see argument...
Especially that AdvanceDna....
At least IconicR first post was referring to the topic, but the AdvanceDna just follow her for back...na wa o... So much for front page...

Dey followed each other.

But if I may ask, between d two, who do u think was more reasonable?

Be rational plz...