There's a bias narrative we have of girls. I'm a first hand victim of man that leeches of every single thing you've. He works also, but will never do anything for himself. He does it on purpose just to make you do it for him because he knows you are "giver". I think it's extremely tiring. That you give and give and you get nothing in return. How will a man shift every responsibilty to the woman. That's the height of irrepsonsibilty. It's so exhausting, you spend and spend and have nothing left for yourself, all because you are a natural giver and can't wait to see people

I have applied . I'm interested in the job and I reside within festac.

Happy Sunday everyone. It's been a long time. How's life and the TTC journey. Just dropped by to say hi.
.....i want to type and scream out my lungs explaining my absence to you but my thoughts are just so warped. Just want you guys to know that I think of you all. The sisterly bond we've shared over the years and the comfort and encouragement we've given each other. This is more than a support group....its SISTERHOOD. Thanks for the mentions. Hopefully.... I'm back to trying....AGAIN. praying and keeping faith for a miracle to happen.....love you all sisters.

Redeemed:
I give glory to God Almighty for adding another year to my age. All I want to say is thank you Jesus. His mercies and faithfulness to me are beyond my comprehension. He's beautiful in all situation. He has kept me this far. Hubby's birthday and wedding anniversary, all in this month. Seven years of marriage and still counting, this can only be you God.
Jehovah God, you're too faithful!

#Hisgraceissufficientforme#
#Ancientofdaysibowbeforeyou#
#myheartisfullofjoy#l

happy birthday mama. The lines are falling into pleasant places for you. The Lord will encompass you with his blessings and favour you endlessly. Happy birthday darling!

moscobabs:


Fathia Balogun has taken a bold step to clock 40 now other female celebrities that do not want to clock 40 before now are now following

remain Dayo Amusa that used to claim 28

fathia turned 49. She's not their mate ooo....and she has never hidden her age. Same as funke akindele.

Can we please form a whatsapp group. For those of still waiting so that we can keep each other abreast of information.

Ha! I think this is true ooo. I just made a call and it was confirmed also. Let's all keep praying and keeping our fingers crossed. Not everyone was sent the message of the schedule like what I was told. At this point I am so tensed but I'm hoping that all would turn out for our favour. Let's keep the thread buzzing with information so that we can all be at alert and notify our contacts. Cuz I have been hearing of underground stuffs happening before it will be too late. I wish everyone success. Once we get messages please let's signify. I applied for general.

Last I heard from the office of the GM HUMAN RESOURCES(BUKAR), as at last week Friday. In the PM ADMIN'S(MOHAMMED) OWN WORDS "WE ARE WAITING APPROVAL"......so my people that's the information I have. Anyone with any other can bried us. We will highly appreciate it.

I see all the beautiful but bumps. As we have desired in our hearts, so shall it be ijn.

I see you all sisters. I couldn't join the faith bump yesterday as the devil is trying to steal my joy and sanity. I am a strong woman but believe me there are times in one's life, when the foundation of everything you believe and hold dear is being shaken. Hmnnn, the devil is really trying poop and I'm wondering where he is getting this morale from but I know that the almighty as already raised his standard.

I AM UNSHAKEN AND UNMOVED. I AM UNBENT, UNBOWED AND UNBROKEN. THE DEVIL HAS LOST OVER MY LIFE AND I REMAIN VICTORIOUS AND I CONQUER IN ALL FOLD. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS MY STRENGTH FOE WHEN OTHERS SAY THERE IS A CASTING DOWN. FOR ME I SAY THERE IS A LIFTING UP. I'M ALIVE TO GOD AND IM A TESTIMONY WAITING TO HAPPEN.

ladies, don't be surprised at my affirmations. "ITS ALL IN THE HEAD". when the enemy decides to test your faith, you don't just get prepared, you live ready!!!

SO DEVIL BRING IT ON! MY LIFE, MY HOME, MY ENTIRETY IS A DANGER ZONE. GLORRY!!!!

mummydaezy:
All the GLORY must be to the lord, for he is worthy of my praise.
No man on earth should give glory to himself, all the glory must be to my GOD.

At his time he makes everything beautiful.

It is my BFP.

The God that did this for me will do same for every mama here IN JESUS NAME. AMEN.

As papa Oyedepo prophesied, it is our new dawn era and every closed door is being opened including our womb, it will come to fulfillment for all of us.

congrats mama. I wish you happy bumping and safe delivery in Jesus name.

adunola03:

No. I think doing that is wrong. It is as if one is trying to vindicate or justify oneself from taking the blame for the infertility. As we all know marriage is for better or worse.
My case is similar to that of your friend, but I still subject myself to series of tests and procedures in my quest to have children. I am totally in this with my DH, will continue standing by him till will surmount this challenges. Encourage ur friend to protect her husband's ego, please.

God bless you ma'am.

Prisca1993:
Good day mama's pls I need help as I don't know what else to do. Pls don't Waka pass and God will bless you. Each time I Bd with Dh I usually see this whitish discharge, it is not stretchy, not smelly either but always there. I have treated infection severally but it never goes away. My O is close but am worried as I don't know if it's the cause of my infertility pls has anyone experienced this? Plz help a sister.

if it's white discharge, have you you considered it was your "cum" . I mean your discharge when you climaxed. I see that on hubby's dick anytime I have a mind blowing orgasm. If the texture looks like "cottage cheese" it's probably just yeast infection. You prolly did something that altered the PH of your vagina. Or better still, see your doc and don't self medicate. Get A vaginal swab done.

adunola03:



Thanks mamas, Guess am just been over eager, just want to do the tests and be done with them.
But on a happier note, I picked up continuing my ICAN Exams to keep my mind off TTC, results came out yesterday and I am now a qualified Chartered Accountant.

You are welcome able colleague. Congrats.

albacete:


Designed to cause the malfunctioning of your brain.

albacete:
Oh lawd

When I think of how the gateman sacrificed his life, I can only come to the conclusion that those children from the next compound will go to church but buying the car from jiji doesn't mean that Patrick will visit the person who cooked the snake before the plumber would have finished the pathway that leads to the stream where the madman usually chases people with sticks and stones yet many will doubt that MMM is still working after I woke up on a Sunday afternoon to dress for work because Joshua denied bringing his PlayStation to the market to buy some foodstuffs after investigations have been concluded as to why did Mary tell her daughter not to eat the last meat in the pot even when it's obvious that the wedding was the talk of the town and at the end of the day it turned out to be a rumor that the gateman sacrificed his life after he died.

What the shit does this even mean. So incoherent. Laws!!!

wowfairy:
Congratulations curvy mama God bless John and his cousin it's really a season of celebration for your family may God remember us all.
Mamas please who else experience heavy sore breasts like 5days before AF shows up? Is it normal and what can be done to relieve it? No waka pass o my sisters @mztubsy hi Sis thank u for keeping the page plenty baby dust to you and us all

you are welcome dearie. Schedules are crazy but I always look forward to free time when I can check the thread and catch up with my wonderful mama's.

The sore breast thingy is kind of common. I experience it too although the degree of mildness might vary from woman to woman. Last time I experienced this someone told me to apply castor oil, I felt a soothing relief, not until my village people entered hubby to come and disturb me( I can't vividly remember what happened but I know I went all shades of crazy and ended up sleeping elsewhere). I think it's normal.... Try castor oil.

adunola03:
Hi mamas, hope we are all good. This is our season to rejoice becos God is going to put smiles on our faces. Please mamas I am considering going for a HSG test, I already did hormonal assay on cd3 and will do progesterone on cd21. My Dr is of the opinion dt I shouldn't go for the Hsg since its invasive and no reason has been identified for me to undergo it. Should I still insist on the test or not. Please help me shook mouth for the matter o. Thanks.

you aren't done with your hormonal profile yet. I'd suggest you conclude with that. Give your results to your doc and he'd tell you to go for hsg if he deems it fit. We're you ever told that your tubes were blocked? Calm down mami. One step at a time.

Anitaamich:
It's 4months now and no sign of af.. pls fruitful mamas what should i do next? Should i induce and start treatment? Please don't read and pass.. dealing with pcos

4months? Try and induce and start treatment as soon as possible.

LadyShadow:
Hello everyone, got married a month ago and now I'm TTC, may God almighty favor us all...

sweetheart, welcome to our midst. Don't panic, clear your head, eat right , time your "BIG O", and try to screw hubby's brain out..... You'd be be just fine. Congrats on your wedding. Just a month right. Keep enjoying your honey moon and don't even bother your head.

Towerofgrace:


Hello Ma'm, you are not TTCing, you can only say you are after you must have had unprotected kpekus for at least a year.

Just relax everything will fall in place. Time your ovulation period and make sure to bd very well around that period, don't worry very soon you will testify okay.

Remain blessed.

you took the words right outta my mouth. . Aunty is supposed to be giving her hubby snake in the monkey shadow style on bed. She is thinking about baby.

orney:
Hello mamas, pls wot day of the cycle can one detoxify?

Pls no read and pass

ermm, I heard before or during period is best. Just make sure it's before your fertile window.

Prisca1993:
good day everyone am new here please welcome me

you are welcome dearie. May your stay be short and fruitful in Jesus name. Baby dust!

Can we work in unison in this group and be sure of information before disseminating it. Last I heard was that collation has started but I didn't hear of them calling any one yet. Can someone please verify this. We need to know our grounds and where we are standing. Let anyone with information please come and out and speak up. Thanks and God bless.

ShyCypher:





On a more serious note, looks like a humpback whale.

Prolly a baby injured by the propellers of a ship.

that's definitely the legendary humpback "whistling" whale. This size is quite small compared to the size of an adult one. It's probably a baby. I watched a documentary on this whales on National Geographic channel and I was so amazed at the wonderful creatures in existence. A full blown adult is capable of toppling a ship. I was shocked!

orney:
Yes ooo, my dear sis, my wish came tru yesterday,
but d man made u dis morning again

Good for you

happymummy:
mztubsy weĺdone

i dey catch your salute left right and center. How you doing today?

orney:
Happy new year mamas

This one that hubby has been so nice and caring for me since November last year, i don't kno ooo , despite paying for the expensive treatment m receiving, tho he made a confession on xmas day, tho i av forgiven him

i don't want him to be dis nice again jare , mayb baby will decide to kom wen he sees dat daddy is not nice to mummy again

Just wanted to rant a lil bit, don't mind my 'foolish' thinking, but this is just how i feel wen af decided to show up now

Period rants i guess. I was worst-est than u about a week ago. God got us. Just dance and smile it off.

curvilicious:
Here is our miracle baby o
He arrived 5:05am 12/01/18
I use him as a point of contact to reach you all. Your miracle will come to you this year in Jesus name

oh God! See our cute baby join. Congrats once again mama. Im so happy for you. See me grinning from ear to ear.

zoestar:
Good morning to us all

Congrats @curvilicious on your safe delivery. I key into the miracle and I pray we all will birth our children this year.

I woke up this morning and all the symptoms I was experiencing all gone. I decided to do a HPT and I got a BFN. I've not given up yet because I know I know there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

I just wished my hubby will try and understand. I brought up the issue with him this morning about us going for tests and we ended up arguing, he said he's not looking for child and hence not going for any test or taking any drugs.

Please I need suggestions for a good and affordable gynae around Ajah/Snagotedo/Abijo axis. Although, I'm on HMO but I don't mind changing hospitals. I really don't flow well with my current gynae.

Baby dust to us all in Jesus name

so sorry to hear about that dearie. Here i was rooting for you to take a strip test, without reading foward to see youve done it already. I know the feeling yeah. We get all those symptoms and see a single line at the end of the day. Its all part of the process to make us emotionally stronger and of course, how would our success story be complete.

As for DH, i think you should be calm about this. All men are generally wired the same way when ut comes to fertility treatment. Its like telling them "they arent man enough" when their friends and family had theirs without any hassle. They kinda think its belittling And degrading when you tell them you think they are incapable of pro-creating.

When i needed to convince hubby for test. I knew what i went through to make him agree that i wasnt undermining the power of God but i just wanted to certify we were very much fine and dandy. Im glad we went ahead and did all the required test. Just talk to him and put it in prayers. He'd eventually come around im sure.

Bomgirl:
Curvilicious don born o!!
John has arrived!!!!!
God is faithful.

yaay! Praise be to God in the highest. This is great news. Our God is still in the business of doing miracles. Thank you jesus! May God bless and protect mother and child. Whos next in line with me #team2018. #teamsupernaturalbirth #mycaseisdifferent

Bomgirl:
Curvilicious don born o!!
John has arrived!!!!!
God is faithful.

yaay! Praise be to God in the highest. This is great news. Our God is still in the business of doing miracles. Thank you jesus! May God bless and protect mother and child. Whos next in line with me #team2018.

zoestar:
Hello my beautiful mothers of nations.
Hope we all had a wonderful day.
My update
CD 32
Still having the weird taste and sense of smell
I get hungry easily
Having this milkish CM
My bre**asts are feeling sore
I don't sleep well as I should.
The cramps have reduced but it's still there
Funny thing is I don't feel tired, nauseous or have the morning sickness.

I know I should have done the hpt by now to confirm, but the fear alone of not seeing the two lines is just making me to hold on.

This year is our year by God's grace
Baby dust to us all in Jesus name

can you just the hpt done already!!! i cant wait to share your good news darling. Mamas she needs a little nudge. Lets all encourage her to go for a test. Every BFP means one person down in this thread. Im excited already!!! Yaayyyy!!!