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TheSeeker:
Who be the girl? She must return your number ooooooooooooooo

thank u my brother, i knew i could always count on u

Gabry:
Who be that girl now?

Maybe she want play shakara with you

i guess she just showed up

FL Gators:
Are you suffering from attention deficiency? 

do u have a cure? or are u the girl in question?

fellow NLders, make una see me see wahala ooo, i give one NL madam my number as she no gree give me her own con talk say make she call(she agree say she go call ooo!) e don reach like 5 days she neva call, make una help me tell am to call or return my number back to me jejely b4 i vex

megacity:
It all started in a bus station ten months ago. I was waiting at the station to board a bus from PH to Calabar, when suddenly this lady appeared. She was and still is one of the most attractive women I have ever seen. Talking about looks, she had everything: very tall (about 5ft 11), perfectly aligned front and back elevation, glowing skin, perfect dentition, etc. When she walked, her hips had this lazy movement that aroused every sexual passion within me. Fortunately or unfortunately, when we finally boarded the bus to begin our journey, she was sitting right beside me! Applying all the toasting skills I knew, I started a conversation and we jisted all through the nearly four-hour journey. In the end, we exchange phone numbers and parted ways. That night I put a call through to her and after talking on phone for a number of days, she agreed to visit. As envisaged, the first day of her visit ended in bed, and after several rounds of …, we slept; she ended up spending four days on that occasion. From then on, we practically lived together, doing everything together. I have been quite very happy in this relationship and I believe she has too.

Recently however, she has been suggesting that I go and see her parents to formalize the relationship. She has most of the qualities I want, and ordinarily I wouldn’t have any objection to her suggestion. But as I consider marriage more serious business that ordinary relationship, I went behind to carry out independent checks of her past and what I found out are not positive at all. She was quite loose. It’s so bad that if she were to pass through the street she lived when she was growing up, she will be sure to run into several men she had either slept with or used to sleep with.

Now even though I have been happy in my relationship with this woman, I cannot marry her because of where she is coming from. Her past is too much for me. I can’t imagine being married to a woman I can’t comfortably walk on the road with without running into one man or the other she used to mess. So I have made up my mind to end it all. She doesn’t know yet that I want to leave and I know she is going feel hurt when it happens. Now I don’t have anything personal against her and do not wish to hurt her, if it  is avoidable; so  my dilemma is how to end all this in way that she will not feel hurt or at least in a way that the hurt will be reduced. Or perhaps is it best to try and forgive her past? I really need suggestions here cos I need to move on and get my life back on track.

SHATAAAP DIAAA! u dey for calabar dey talk say she was very loose, wetin u bin dey expect? as e bin dey sweet u wen una dey do am, no bi from practicing she for take learn am? u neva talk ur church mind

Fhemmmy:
^^^^ Lol . . . so easy?

isnt it true?

Fhemmmy:
^^^ i never said all, i said most, at least better than we, men

what kind of men have u been hanging around with?

chiogo:
^^Nah, you can answer it better

are u calling me a NL addict?

platinumnk:
@poster - obviously  the good memories of her ex is sweeter  than your own, are u actually putting work in your relationship?

what a dumb reply, if her ex was that good, why leave him? how girls here we be happy if their man starts to compare them with his EXs saying stuff like your boobs are the smallest i have had to deal with, or your booty is way too flat, ngozi's own was the bomb, i miss her or your  is so loose, i used to enjoying doing kemi's.

190:
typical of na2day
no wonder he made the crazy ass category~

what category might that be? the one created by a crazy ass like u?

nastydamus:
We're all entitled to our right to make choices in life; that's what distinguishes us from lower animals- our ability to take decisions and stick to 'em. The guy must've done a lot of thinking before ditching the the chick (over 2 yrs of investment - KFC, Biggs, Tantalizers, bukka, zinc house, etc).
He probably discovered that apart from the fact that he'll bear the entire brunt of catering for the impending marriage, he might also get stuck with average IQ-ed kids, implying special schooling, extra lessons, special treatment and the attendant impacts on his wallet.
At least he didn't call it off after marriage. They should both move on with their separate lives. QED!

here u go, that is just the summary of this gospel truth. i like ur style jare

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=349754.msg4932747#msg4932747 date=1258329408]MAN = Bread winner

And man shall not live by bread alone, so, who provides the other stuff that goes with the bread??

ANSWER'; WOMAN.

@ Topic

NO.[/quote]LMAO!

Fhemmmy:
Let us be real.
Say you make money and you used 50% on Rent/Mortgage and to make the house aiight.
Spend another 20% on other stuff around the house, now as a man, what will u do with the 30% that remains . . . . pls be honest.
Most ladies are more prudent and good with money that most men.
Someone like myself, that is when i will remember that i shd have BBQ every weekend just to have fun, but a woman will keep the money and when there is a need for it, when you feel like changing the car, and there is no money, that is when the woman will remind you of the money she has been saving, that is what i called a virtuous woman, however, u need to note . . . .there are some women that are terrible with money, so it is all about knowing your woman and knowing who you with . . . .who she is will determine how you deal with it.
Like yo have said, u dont trust any woman with your money like that . . . . . sad, cos u sleep on same bed with same woman, meaning u trust her with your life, but cant trust her with your money?

i beg to differ

switosman:
FROM WHAT i READ SO FAR, POSTERS DONT UNDERSTAND FEMALE PYCHOLOGY. IF U DO THEN U WILL KNOW WHY MEN DONT FILL COMFORTABLE WITH A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN.
I WAS WITH ONE LONG TIME, SHE MARRIED U KNOW AND PPLE PRAISE HER HUSBAND. BUT ATIMES EITHER UNKNOWINGLY OR NOT SHE BLUNTS OUT TO OUTSIDERS THAT SHE IS THE ONE KEEPING THE HOUSE. THEN I WONDER, IF THE HUSBAND TAKES MONEY FROM HER ITS because SHE HAS IT. IF SHEE PAY THE HOUSE RENT ITS because SHE HAS IT.

THEN THINK ABOUT THE ONES NOT YET MARRIED BUT THEY TELL WHO CARES TO LISTEN HOW THEY INTEND TO RUN THE MAN( NOT YET MANIFESTED O)

i concur

Henrygirl:
I will. Please forgive me.

hey sis, leave abuzola to me, don't worry ur pretty head

Abuzola:
Na2day and noetic- you guys are bloody dunce, what is God's will '. So if he decide the cup not to pass away it is not his will ? Awesome dude

--sighs-- education is a waste on u, seriously

sexyZee:
@na2day,  story of your lyf, u mean your father , it arnt so strange cos your fada still dey use daiper at his age,  TRAGIC!!!!!!!!!!!. your familly is so lame , u c dat u r a true son of u fada, das why u r male chauvinistic piglet.

oh this bush mallam 10 yr old girl is back? ur papa no get farm wey u suppose go? or ur mama no get fura wey u suppose go sell? stop coming here to display how retarded ur family is

TheSeeker:
190, make a new nomination, seems like the first one wasn't approved.

u sef dey listen to 190? na wa oo, world don spoil finish

190:
**blinks**

na wa~

Na2day~

this guy is taking over from where i stopped~

wen-eva i see him,i take race~

yeah, u better run!

TheSeeker:
Na2Day should receive the award of the most "date and dump guy" on Nairaland.

why nau? u dey talk like say i reach lord lexi

chiogo:
She's out of Nairaland yet she posted last today 

Nairaland is that addictive, huh?

dunno, u tell me 

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=349754.msg4928458#msg4928458 date=1258270927]roflmao!!. you dey craze no b small [/quote]i learn from the best

pureminded:
Re: Reasons Why Many Nigerian Women Look Unattractive To Men

Ans: Simply because they're not attractive

church close!

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=349754.msg4928419#msg4928419 date=1258270169]you know dats not true[/quote]very true ooo and they are still just after our money. check this signature out

"A man w/o money is w/o sense, if you have sense go n make d money"

[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=349754.msg4928405#msg4928405 date=1258269637]isnt dat the duty of 99.99% women in the home anyways. so whats difference does it make?[/quote]the point is women of nowdays dont do that no more

[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=350409.msg4928093#msg4928093 date=1258257540]LMFAO!!!!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA!!!!
this guy, sef.
he better take what he can get and stop being picky about big stomachs.
what is his own sef?
this guy, dont make me laugh finish ooooooo.[/quote]so i guess u dont want a guy with 6 packs no more, right?

asha09:
my ex boyfriend was cheating on me wit som chick in my block while we were dating bac den. i got 2 knw bout it thru my frens n rumors bt each tym i confronted him on d issue, he alwyz denied. later on, i startd seein him wit dis gal arnd n even in skool 2geda but he alwyz denied dat dey were jst frens. d tin is dat weneva d girl sees me she wud look @ mi wit scorn (eye me) wit ha frens n den dey wud al laff. tho it was annoying but i neva retaliated as i saw dat as a very childish thing, so i alwyz went my way. after som tym i began 2 wonda y d gal wud hate me so much if she was nt sleepin wit d guy i was dating den, so i got convinced dat my ex was cheating on me wit d girl. we broke up several tyms bt made-up. den dere came a tym wen it seemed like my bf(ex) had chnged n tins were kindda ok 4us bt dis gal wont leave him alone. she went 2 his house 1day 2 ask him 4 assistance in 1 of ha courses, wen i found out, i got mad n cald my bf(ex) 2 yell @ him n break-up wit him since he was stil seeing d gal. den he agreed 2 break-up wit me saying dat he was tired of d r/ship since i wont trust him agn. i dint cal him afta d break-up cos i took it seriously dis tym. 1wk lata he cald 2 ask wen was d last tym i cald him or sent him sms as if we were stil dating. so i told him dat iv bin busy. its bin 2yrs since we broke up nw and iv moved on eva since den. i hv a nu bf whom i love n wu loves me 2. my ex startd dating dat girl's best-friend. d 2 gals had quarrelled ova d issue n d 1 he was cheatin on me wit den, moved out of our hostel cos she cudnt tek d shame dat d guy she snatched has bin snatchd frm ha by ha own bff. (am guessing, lol)

my ex kips in touch, cals me bt i hv neva cald him bac or even sent him sms. he kips complainin bout dis n wants me 2 return his cals or visit him tho  he knws i hv a nu guy. i only chat wit him sumtyms online n he has visited me 2wice. i didnt want 2 4giv @ 1st cos he neva sed sori, bt @ som point, i had 2 let go, nw he wants me 2 cook 4 him, tellin me he has neva met any1 wu cooks wel like me whereas he has a gf. he tels me he wants us 2b close frens since i refused 2 tek him bac, i tel him i like our frendship d way it is. i dnt hate him tho even afta al he did 2 me. bt d qst in my mind is dat do u tink dis guy rilly luvs me or he jst feels bad 4 nt tritin me nice? cos he told me afta d break-up dat i was 2 decent 4 him dat was y he lukd 4 som1 wu was  mor like him cos i dnt drink, smoke or like xcessive partying. dat wen he realized himself, he left d gal n focused on me bt d prob was dat i didnt trust him agn n i was alwyz accusing him. so he got fed-up n agreed 2d breakup bt d truth is dat he wants me bac nw, dat hez chnged!

d fact is dat i stil hv som feelings 4 my ex bt dere's no way am going bac 2 him. tho sumtyms i fantasize bout us being bac bt i'm using ma head cos dat guy is not worth me. dis is a case of gud gal dat fel 4 a bad guy

i should have dumped ur sorry ass long ago for writing like this, see now my eye dey pain me for reading this crap. u go pay for this eye drop wey i go buy to clear my eye so that i can see normally again!

lovemoi2:

women this women that
some of this unnecessary questions you guyz use to generalize all women, why dont ya'll just ask yah mother or sisters, since its ALL WOMEN

maybe u should ask ur father or brothers since u generalize on men too

Mr blazer:
Maybe you forgot to buy her something or you yell at her cos of her stubborness and the next thing she was like '' That is one thing I like about John(her ex), he never forget to get me things and he doesnt yell at me. What does this implies? Is she still interested in her ex?

then its time for u to dump her b4 she dumps u, be the new ex so that she can compare sum1 else to u

Fhemmmy:
This is what i mean.
A man makes 100o$ a month.
The woman makes 800$ a month.
The man pays 500$ on mortgage, the woman spends 500% on household stuff.
The husband paid 100$ for gas into the vehicles.
The woman spends 100$ to make her hair.

Tell me who outspend the other, who spent more?

dunit! this is going to be a hard one, let me think [img]http://4.bp..com/_6q-f-zD4xPY/SswzPZFQi7I/AAAAAAAASRU/SBwBSYbPvm0/s200/moronSmiley.jpg[/img]

190:
i know thats why u always top that category u keep finding yourself~

which yeye category? every1 here knows i am the most loving and reasonable guy of all

MrCrackles:
Really

don't worry, the Lord is ur strength

olabowale:
@Noetic:« #28 on: Today at 12:05:09 AM » Is that his will or the Will of God, since we heard him praying to God that He should let the cup pass off his head? What I see here is that it is true that it is the Will of God that was done, and not the will of Jesus, who begged, prayed, cried, wept to no acceptance of his request?

have u ever tried dying for sum1 b4? have u been asked to do a task in ur life where u actually said to the person telling u to do it that i dont feel like it but since u asked i will? why cant u guys use the brain God gave u for once to reason rather than blowing up ppl? nonsense! ! !