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"Because most marriages don’t fall apart from the outside—
They fall when the man inside the house stops showing up fully."



It sounds like men are SOLELY responsible for creating a successful marriage.

"A real man leads with humility, not ego.
He doesn’t just provide—he protects emotionally, spiritually, and mentally."

If a "real" man is supposed to provide and protect in 3 different DIMENSIONS of existence, what exactly is a real woman doing?

"If pressure makes you disappear, you’re not leading—you’re escaping."

When the pressure is coming from INSIDE the house, disappearing is NOT escaping. It's just SMART!

"Marriage requires sacrifice."

But NEVER from the wife. The moment a marriage requires a sacrifice from the wife is the moment the marriage enters a COMA.

"Her respect dies the moment she realizes she has to carry what you keep dropping."



The man is EXPECTED to carry and NEVER drop.
A man is expected to INTERMINABLY shoulder the BURDEN of TWO people and their baggage.

And NEVER falter.

Because the moment he FALTERS for just a second, "her respect DIES!"

When the man SHOULDERS the burden, it's expected that he still LOVES and RESPECTS his wife.

But when the woman steps in to shoulder the burden for a time, it's UNDERSTANDABLE for her love and respect to DIE and be replaced with RESENTMENT and DISRESPECT?

What does a MAN stand to gain in marriage?

They have to be STRONG, SELFLESS and RESPONSIBLE for marriage to work.

But their wives can be WEAK, SELFISH and IRRESPONSIBLE and the marriage should still work?

MADNESS!

Marriage is NEITHER an institution nor a business venture.

It's a SCAM!

Most institutions have something of value to offer people who come in contact with it. Business ventures offer something in exchange for the profit they intend to generate.

NOT marriage!

Marriage is a PARASITIC SCHEME that leeches a man of his RESOURCES, HAPPINESS and, if possible, MANHOOD.

At one point, marriage may have been SACRED.
But today, NOTHING is sacred!

Even the ALTARS have been sullied!

Plus, the entire dynamics of marriage have been DESTROYED.

Women want MEN to abide by ALL the tenets of marriage as established in the past BUT they want to abide by NONE of it.

They want their husbands to provide ALL THE MONEY the household needs and still share in the house CHORES equally.

They want a LOYAL man who'll forgive them for their "ENTANGLEMENTS"

Or worse!

They want a fatherly, generous man who'll provide for the kids they had with other men and NOT make a fuss when they spend the night with said fathers just "talking about the kids".

ANY man who enters into marriage today is willfully making a MAGA of himself!

Qatar BRIBED the Pedophile in White House with a $400M plane just to get BOMBARDED by America's attack dog 6 months later.

HILARIOUS!

Aaron Greenspan?
More like Morrrron Greenspan!

Tinubu is a CRIMINAL. Everybody knows this.
But the idea that an AMERICAN has the right to hassle him for his criminality is RIDICULOUS!

Tinubu is a CRIMINAL. But we can rest assured that he's NOT a SERIAL PEDOPHILE or a SERIAL RAPIST.

Meanwhile Mike Johnson, the Speaker of the US House of Reps, publicly DECLARED that Pedophile Donald Trump RAPED children on Epstein's Island as part of an FBI "sting".

America DEPLOYED thousands of FBI agents to pore through Epstein Files in order to EXPUNGE every record mentioning the PEDOPHILE they put in the White House.

One of the LARGEST Republican Donors have been shown to be a REGULAR patron of Epstein's Island, aka PEDOPHILE.

In addition to ALL of these, the PEDOPHILE in the White House has 34 FELONIES including INSURRECTION against the Government of the United States.

Yet this "activist" ignored all of that and crossed OCEANS to act as the "watchdog" of Nigeria.

He needs to remove the CHILD-RAPING log in his own eyes before he concerns himself with the DRUG-DEALING speck in the eyes of Nigerians.

That's NOT an ordinary skirt.

It's a UNIFORM for Hookup girls.

Some people say "Hitler was right".

Netanyahu is on a mission to prove them RIGHT.

When other people carry out attacks in Israel, they call it TERRORISM.
When Israel carries out attack on other countries, it's called a STRIKE.

MADNESS!

You can tell whom he VOTED for in the US election of last year.

People like this with SEVERE mental illness who believe that a Chatbot that uses mathematics and probability to construct the most likely responses are their BESTIE are the same people who believe that a PEDOPHILE RAPIST with 34 FELONY CONVICTIONS is Jesus 2.0.

Plus, if you are so PARANOID to believe that your 83-year old mother regularly consults with a DEMON with the sole purpose of spying on YOU (a jobless alcoholic) for the CHINESE government then it wouldn't be so hard to believe that illegal aliens from Haiti are becoming TRANS so they can take your job and your guns.

People like this who look like they are minute from ROAMING the streets while having conversations with INVISIBLE companions have access to WEAPONS that'll make the Nigerian Army green with ENVY.

It's MADNESS!

A STUPID man for many reasons!

First, for getting married at all.
Second, for sponsoring the WHOLE wedding by himself.
Third, for ENDING a relationship on the verge of matrimonial conjoinment because the bride doesn't want to be best friends with his sister.

Finally, the LAST line of the screenshot is MANIPULATIVE.

If it were such a "trivial" matter, why did the man CANCEL the marriage.
The triviality is not exclusive to the woman.

It is fast becoming apparent that LAW is one of the easiest professions out there.

The number of IMPOSTORS who have achieved success pretending to be LAWYERS is too much.

That is the difference between an ASSET and a LIABILITY.

A wife is a standing LONG-TERM LIABILITY by every measure. A wife is a constant DRAIN on your resources. Even a "good wife". You'll support her. You'll support her family. You'll entertain her. You'll "upgrade" her.

And the sex is NEVER guaranteed.
In fact, the more you do the above, the LOWER the frequency and quality of the sex.

Wives NEVER want to let their husband think they deserve sex because of ALL their husbands have done.

Meanwhile, the GF on the other hand needs LITTLE maintenance. And pleasure flows from her.

If a side chick dies on Friday, the man would take his family to the wedding ceremony of a third cousin without missing a beat.

By the following Friday, another Side Chick would have taken her place.

Plus, this woman phrased it as "suffering with 2 kids" like it's not the man that drives them around. She made it sound like the man NEVER takes them anywhere.

Finally, she didn't "think much of it" because the car is likely over 15 years old with more than 5 years on Nigerian road. It's OLD and DOWNTRODDEN.

In fact, I can GUARANTEE that the current market value of the car is LESS than what the man has spent on his wife this year.

Why would you think that buying someone a bottle of beer entitles you to anything other than a "Thank you"?

It is NOT mandatory that NYSC immediately follows graduation. They do NOT need to be sequential.

He is allowed to contjnue his business until such time he deems it convenient to serve his RABAland.

"It was only once."

This guy sucks!

Trump played him. Now, he's acting out.
He ORCHESTRATED the election of the FELON and he needs to deal with the consequences of his actions.

Dude spent over $250M campaigning for Trump and ALTERED the algorithm of Twitter to BOOST Trump posts while hiding those of Kamala Harris.

He gave an interview during the campaign where he said he'd be going to JAIL if Harris wins. Harris did NOT win but he still may be going to JAIL.

Donald is a PETTY man who'll do everything in his power to RETALIATE against perceived enemies. And thanks to ELON, he has ABSOLUTE power. So the extent and scope of his retaliation would be MASSIVE.

I'm gonna enjoy this!

He is very CORRECT. He used Twitter and his wealth to put a Pedophilic FELON in the White House.

He pushed rightwing contents and MOCKED harris with an AI video.

He gave $1,000,000 to several people in Pennsylvania leading to the election.

He enlisted his MOTHER to spread the Propaganda that the Kamala Harris and the Democrats want to put him in PRISON if they win.

He won the Republicans the White House and the COMBINED Congress thus handing the felon ABSOLUTE power.

Let him deal with the MONSTER he made.
I trust the Felon to roll out PUNISHMENTS for Elon.

Now, he's made himself politically HOMELESS!

The Trump CULT will reject him and treat him with DISDAIN for daring to CRITICISE their Messiah.

And the Dems LOATHE him for his role in the 2024 elections.

He has no ALLY.
But his MASSIVE 414 Billion USD wealth should be able to buy him some.

Zero.
Zilch.
Nothing.
Nada.
Bupkis.

There is NO negative perception of marriage.
Only a REALISTIC perception.

People used to keep their dirty secrets SECRET and show the world a FAÇADE of a happy couple. Now, thanks to Social Media and the thirst to trend, people air their DIRTY LINENS in public for the whole world to see.

And give interviews about it!


Case in point is the woman who shot a PORNOGRAPHIC MOVIE while cheating on her husband and then went on a PODCAST to dissect the anatomy of her INFIDELITY.

There seems to be a preponderance of NEGATIVE news about marriage because that is what the marriages of today have become—a haven of INFIDELITY, intolerance and insincerity.

Fact is marriage today is UNTENABLE.

Just a few days ago, a woman got on Social Media to tell the world that ALL women have a man that they love MORE than their husbands.

And a LOT of them act on it and have their husbands raise the SPAWNS of another man.

Marriage is UNTENABLE!

Money can buy ANYTHING!

Anything money cannot buy is NOT real.

Seun, your bots suck!

Dopeboy8701:
Why fight a war u can't win

A MORONIC question.

If The Rock grabs you by the neck with the malicious intent to slowly STRANGLE you to death, won't you fight back?

If someone tries to kill you, it is PROGRAMMED into your DNA to fight back. Regardless of whether you'll win or not.

Russia started the war. Russia could lose the war and go back to its normal life as if NOTHING happened. Ukraine does NOT have that luxury.

They have to FIGHT BACK!

By the way, a lot of peope keep acting surprised at the RESILIENCE and Military prowess of Ukraine. That's because a lot of people know NOTHING.

Remove Egypt and Ukraine will SMOKE the COMBINED Military of ALL the countries in Africa at once.

Only about 19 countries in the WORLD are more powerful than Ukraine. And Ukraine has demonstrated the capability to take on ANYONE of those 19 countries by dealing skillfully with a SUPERPOWER like Russia.

Ukraine would have been a superpower if they had not given up their Nuclear Warheads.
But still, they remain a FORCE to be reckoned with.

When I was new to sex, I thought women walked around with 2 natural jugs of milk. I thought they were ALWAYS lactating.

Imagine my DISAPPOINTMENT when I sucked my GF's nipples and it was drier than Sahara Desert.

I have been INDIFFERENT to breasts since then.
I prefer YANSH.
Yansh does NOT disappoint.

Back to your question, it's NOT compulsory to enjoy every aspect of sex. There are plenty OTHER things to enjoy about sex and pre-intimacy. Concentrate on the ones you enjoy.

And if you partner likes it, do it for their pleasure. Sex is about giving and receiving pleasure.

"Awoof...distressed sale" but you FAILED to add price.

MADNESS!

Girl is planning to run a BARRAGE of medical tests in a bid to CHEAT on her partner but when they catch her now she'll say it's a "MISTAKE".

One of the GREAT things about the Internet is that it has revealed the fact that RICH people and people in LEADERSHIP positions are not HALF as smart as we thought they were.

Take this submission from Makinde, for instance. It reeks of NAIVETY. Especially from someone who should know better.

HUNGRY Nigerians are the secret weapons of the CROOKED politicians who are defecting now.

Give him 2k and 5 cups of rice and a hungry Nigerian Bishop would vote for the DEVIL.

Hungry Nigerians are NOT a beacon of hope. They are the flagbearers of DESPERATION.

They will vote for ANYBODY who feeds them ON election day and BITCH about it for the next 4 years.

I have ZERO faith in Nigerians. Hungry or bursting from overfeeding. They are UNRELIABLE and cannot be trusted to exercise COMMONSENSE.

After 8 years of APC's Buhari PLUNGED Nigeria into the GREATEST security and economic catastrophe rhe country has ever seen, Nigerians still VOTED for another APC disaster.

Tinubu's first term is RENEWED hope. His second term will be I-wish-I-KNEW hopelessness.

Forget relocation!

#100,000 is NOT enough to relocate to anywhere in Nigeria if you expect it to cover accomodation.

For instance, the only potentially viable location in your list is the one in Benue. Others are prohibitively expensive.

Osogbo is a NO-GO area for now. It's super expensive. Uyo has ALWAYS been expensive. Same with Abakaliki.

In fact, you'll probably get a BETTER apartment in some areas of Lagos State than you'll get in Osogbo, Uyo or Abakaliki. Only you'll get better FINANCIAL outlook.

Your best bet is to SAVE MORE and get yourself to Lagos State. Other places are a waste of time.

Apart from the Northern parts of Nigeria, the cost of accommodation across Nigeria has ballooned so much that it makes ZERO sense to stay in states with MINIMAL economic activities when you can get BETTER opportunities in Lagos State with similar or slightly higher accommodation costs.

And the only thing more expensive in Lagos than other places was the cost of accommodation. Now that GAP in accomodation cost is SLIM or completely CLOSED in some cases.

Other things are CHEAPER in Lagos or the same price as in other LESS economically-viable states.

If you must relocate, go to LAGOS.

Power Companies in Nigeria are LEECHES!

They bill companies and businesses like they were established with the SOLE purpose of making money for NEPA.

They come with UNREASONABLE and criminally ESTIMATED bills every month and make threats.

That's why I have ZERO pity for the NEPA guys that were assaulted by Military guys.

The government can END this MADNESS by mandating the Power Discos to provide Prepaid Meters for Businesses and Institutions like Universities and Hospitals.

Billing a hospital #240 MILLION NAIRA per year is EVIL.

This is Nigeria. That is a LOT of money. Unless the Hospital is making more than one BILLION every year, it's UNSUSTAINABLE. Especially, since they still need to buy DIESEL.

It's no wonder hospitals don't have equipment. NEPA is ROBBING them.