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First of all, that is a hookup girl with her colleagues NOT friends.

Secondly, from the way the guy is gesticulating like Bobrisky; you can tell he's a real SISSY. This is Nigeria. You can slap the shiiit out of an idiot and NOTHING will happen.

A girl is bouncing up and down and raising her voice at you and you failed to calm her down with two HOT slaps immediately? That's nonsense!

Men need to realise that verbal assaults is women's equivalent of a man's punch. They hit you with VENOMOUS words because that's the most dangerous weapon in their arsenal.

It's up to you to put a STOP to it with the weapons you have in your arsenal. Sometimes, that's walking away. Sometimes, that's slapping a bitch back to her senses.

Any man who values his peace of mind would NEVER get married in the first place. Regardless of the lady's occupation.

ALL women will cheat on their husbands if it they get the opportunity. Their occupation or profession means NOTHING.

Consider Nikki Haley, the former governor of South Carolina and a former US presidential candidate. She has NOT one but TWO men who claimed she had an affair with them.

That's a supposedly respectable woman with a respectable job. Yet it made no difference.

Any man who marries has chosen to FORFEIT his peace of mind. Because irrespective of her profession, his wife will SURELY Bleep around. Only a matter of time.

A female doctor will Bleep her doctor colleague with whom she spends an extended period of time. A female lecturer will Bleep her lecturer colleague. A school teacher will gladly hop on the dick of her 16-year old male students as we have seen COUNTLESS number of times.

Even in places like PRISONS where you'd think the male population are unfit and ineligible and as such your wife/girl would be forced to be faithful, she'll still decide to Bleep INMATES.

Only FOOLS get married in the 21st century.

I can BET my two black balls that the lady is a SINGLE MOTHER.

BlindAngel:
I'm the one paying the bills of course, yesterday I was angry and told her to buy all the maltina and meat pie then she can call her pastor to officiate the naming. She went silent and started calling me wicked, and heartless. I spent almost 400k on her CS spent 73k on the naming but it's time to make a decision and she want to make it.

During our marriage, her mother refused to appear in the church because I said I won't do court marriage, I saw it on my wife chat with her elder sister, she said her mom said she won't come because I'm thinking rubbish by not doing court marriage. And truly she didn't come.

Sounds like you ENJOY embarrassment.

You married into a family of DAMAGED women. Her mother basically called you an IDIOT for not doing a court marriage. Her sister is a baby mama. And I'm guessing her Daddy is either OUT of the picture or a PUSHOVER like you.

Without mincing words, you married WRONG!

Also you need to STOP caring about what people will think/say. For instance, you YIELEDED to your wife's manipulations because she THREATENED to spread a rumour that your mother controls you. Yet people are now talking about how you are a pussy-whipped woman-wrapper that is being controlled by his wife.

Point is people will ALWAYS talk. So do WHATEVER the Bleep you want! And let them talk.

ALSO it seems your wife NOT only controls and manipulates you, she also INSULTS you too. You should NOT be in that marriage. You have an ABUSIVE wife from a HORRIBLE family.

From your stories, I can GUARANTEE your sex life with your wife leaves a lot to be desired. You NEED to get a DNA test ASAP.

P.S. Just saw where OP said his wife's used to share her pussy like biscuits at a kid's birthday party. And her sister is a FULL-TIME baby mama and a part-time HOOKUP girl but somehow he still believes his wife, who was raised by a single mother, is different.

This is in spite of the fact that he was FORCED into marriage by tears and a pregnancy that is most likely NOT his.

OP sounds like an IRREDEEMABLE idiot.

BlindAngel:
It seems I have been too easy and quiet on her, I will do as you say and ban her from going to that church and if she refused, she should pack her load and go back to her parents house, I have really condole enough of her rubbish and tears at any slight arguments.

I paid 396k for her cs operation, and no where my name or surname appeared on the receipt that was given to me, it's her name and her father's name that was on it. This is because after marriage she has not changed her surname to my name, this hurt me a lot because her elder sister that is just a baby mama to her boyfriend has already changed her Facebook sur name to her boyfriend surname. Whereas my wife is still answering her father's name, I have told myself that if she can't think and do this willingly, I will never and ever confront her concerning this.

I have been allowing her to do whatever she want but this, she has over stepped her boundaries, seems I have been too easy on her.

My dude, you STARTED your marriage with a big bang of premium fuuuck up!

This woman has ZERO regard for you. She DOES NOT respect or love you. Probably doesn't even like you. You are just an expense account to this woman.

Any woman who has a MODICUM of respect for her husband would be EAGER to take his name. A couple of weeks ago, we all read about how Diezani Allison-Madueke's ex-husband, Allison Amaechina Madueke, took her to court just to get to STOP using his name after divorce.

That woman served as a Minister under 2 different Presidents before she became the first female President of OPEC. Yet she took NOT one but TWO of her husbands name.

But your wife (probably a stay-at-home wife) REFUSED to take your name and you still went along with the wedding.

You started on the WRONG track.

FIRST thing you need to do now is get a DNA test for that boy to confirm it's yours. Because the series of disrespect and disregard your wife has displayed towards you makes it highly UNLIKELY that she'd let you get her pregnant.

Ypu already spent #400K on the kid so find money for the DNA test. And do it ASAP before you sink in MORE money into raising her pastor's kid.

Meantime, put a STOP to every manipulation. Don't let her dictate ANYTHING or manipulate her way through anything. Even with tears, don't give in!

BlindAngel:
Thanks for your input, what I actually meant is that she insist on her pastor officiating the naming ceremony. Which she's always crying endlessly whenever we start arguing about It.

REFUSE! And NEVER compromise!

Plus when the naming is finished and she's recuperated from the CS, ban your wife from setting foot in that church. Or having ANY contact with that pastor.

It's MADNESS to be weeping over the fact that you want YOUR child to be named in your church and by your pastor.

Also the fact that she's BLOWING UP on you and GUILT-TRIPPING you over it is HIGHLY suspicious.

She either has an AMOROUS relationship with the pastor or he has BRAINWASHED her. Either way, letting her stay in the church is STUPID.

Also, you already bleeped up by letting your wife go to a different church in the first place. Church is a fertile ground for illicit romance, outright fornication and UNBRIDLED adultery.

You bleeped up BIG time. And you're dealing with the aftermath NOW.

Unless you do what I suggest, be ready for MORE variations of the same arguments. Because as time goes on, she'll take the kid to her church because she's nursing. When he becomes a toddler, she'll tell you he stills his mum to look after him.

Finally when he starts being MORE aware, she'll corner you and tell you that you just CAN'T take him to a different chuch since he's gotten used to hers.

If you yield TODAY, you will not only LOSE your wife to a strange man but your son too.

Stop that NONSENSE now!

First of all, do you mean she wants her pastor to CHOOSE the name of your baby or OFFICIATE the naming ceremony?

Secondly, do a DNA test to confirm rhat you'll not be raising the bastard son of her pastor. This woman obviously WORSHIPS her pastor. It's not UNIMAGINABLE that she's tendered her pussy as offering one or two times.

Next you need to face the fact that a SCAMMER (the pastor) and a STRANGE man (still the pastor) exerts more INFLUENCE in your marriage than you do. And ask yourself whether you still want to be in that marriage.

A strange man holds the remote control to your relationship. Your marriage subsists by his will. Are you okay with that?

NEXT, she is blatantly MANIPULATING you without remorse. You are NOT responsible for the complications that led to the C-Section. Even if it's because the baby is too big because you are a big man, it's still NOT your fault.

Her eyes were wild open when she CHOSE to marry you and have your child. If it's yours, that is.

STOP letting her use child birth as an ammo for manipulating you. Because if you capitulate today, you best belive she'll NEVER stop. Next she'll weaponise the child.

Then her next pregnancy would be a NUCLEAR weapon. Everything you previously disagreed on would be tabled again UNTIL she has her way. Maybe she'll demand you DONATE your house to her pastor and rent a room and parlour for yourself.

Put your foot down and DON'T even compromise. Don't allow her pastor to be involved in ANYWAY when it comes to naming the child unless DNA proves the child is his.

An unrepentant LEECH like an oil company is fleeing Nigeria?

Tinubu has DESTROYED rhis country.

By the time this guy is done with Nigeria, running to ordinary Ghana would be like the heavenly race for Nigerians.

Mad man!

People CANNOT feed anymore because the most basic food item is now a luxury. Salary earners just work to pay taxi and bus drivers. Saving money is now IDIOTIC because the exchange rate will wipe out your savings in less than a month. That's even if you can afford to save in the first place.

Also issuing threats to stop a potential protest is not only STUPID but also unconstitutional. The protests should be LOUD and LONG.

Finally, Tinubu is the BIGGEST failure to have ever resided in Aso Rock. And that's saying a lot because Buhari was a DISASTER of biblical proportion.

Every policy that Tinubu and his incompetent government have introduced turned out to be WORSE than the problems they were meant to tackle.

So the idea that Tinubu "has a plan" fills me with nothing but dread at the next clusterfuck he's going to unleash on Nigerians.

This woman needs to take a look in the MIRROR for the cause of her husband's erectile dysfunction.

A fat, ugly woman who is obviously QUARRELSOME will make any penis go flaccid for life.

The KEY question is WHERE did you see a hookup girl that charges #18K overnight?

That's what some girls want for short time in my area.

First of all, the video sounds more like a SERMON than a press conference.

Secondly, this is NOT news. Public offices were ORIGINALLY established to serve the public before they were BASTARDISED by politicians. The foundation is sound.

On the other hand, religious organisations are established with the sole purpose of FLEECING and CONTROLLING the public.

USA is a real JUGGERNAUT!

ALMOST a TRILLION dollar spent per year just to develop more efficient ways to DECIMATE their enemies.

With a budget that is MORE than 3X that of the next country and their population, they will remain the BIG DADDY of the world for a long time.

Ordinary secretary to the Chairman of a local government will be jumping up and down while pounding his chest screaming "Do you know me?"

Borno State, the TERRORISM capital of Nigeria, has released 8,490 terrorists and even provided vocational training for them while their people LANGUISH in countless IDP camps.

Basically, the government is REWARDING terrorists. That is the father of all NEGATIVE REINFORCEMENT that'll guarantee that terrorism becomes a family business that is passed down from fathers to sons.

ZERO consequence! These people are literally getting away with murder.

Madness!

Blinken said the transfer of the jets should be a signal to Russian President Vladimir Putin."It concentrates Vladimir Putin’s mind on the fact that he will not outlast Ukraine, he will not outlast us and, if he persists, the damage that will continue to be done to Russia and its interests will only deepen."

This is a joke.

In spite of DEBILITATING sanctions that resulted in the seizure of a WHOOPING $300 BILLION, Russia is still going strong after 2 years.

Ukraine has received $380 BILLION in aids from SEVERAL countries yet RUSSIA is still spanking them like a MISCHIEVOUS brat.

Russia is UNSHAKEABLE.

Ukraine and its supporters need to admit that and ACCEPT Putin's peace terms. Otherwise, the war will be LONG and possibly ENDLESS.

Putin has already proven that he's willing to do ANYTHING to continue the war. Including using mercenaries, foreigners and old people.

Ukraine and the people supporting Ukraine are still NOT getting the message.

This guy should be in jail for malicious INCOMPETENCE.

He's one of the reasons insecurity is a budding INDUSTRY in Nigeria.

Very incompetent guy!

Justice Rahman Oshodi is doing a great job!

This is the second pedophile-rapist he has sent to jail for LIFE. This is how rapists and pedophiles should all be treated—LIFE IMPRISONMENT.

Are you sure you're NOT forgetting a zero?

Modern warfare is like a comedy skit.

It's like fighting someone and getting upset that they kicked you in the balls. It's a joke! Especially in Western countries.

They are so concerned about killing people HUMANELY. A war is meant to OBLITERATE the enemy and destroy their capacity to retaliate.

Even the BIBLE describes incidents of God giving EXPLICIT commands to kill EVERYBODY. Including women and children. In the case of Egypt, God got his own hands dirty by MURDERING first born sons of an ENTIRE nation.

Fact is NOBODY deserves to die in a war. Human beings are probably the ONLY species who feud amongst themselves so ENDLESSLY.

War is a HUGE failure of the Homo Sapiens.

But when war happens, everybody deserves an equal opportunity to get killed. And by that, I mean EVERYBODY!

This "you can kill ALL THE MEN you want but don't touch women and children" vibe is NONSENSE!

This WAR is a testament to how STUPID people can be. Even leaders who should know better.

The US exerts significant CONTTOL over NATO. Mulling the idea that a superpower like Russia would just sit back and let a RIVAL superpower like USA surround them while cosplaying as as NATO is dumb.

Ukraine should NEVER have contemplated joining NATO. And as long as they still hold on to hopes of joining NATO, the war will NEVER end.

People who blame Russia and Putin for the war are just STUPID. Imagine jumping CONTINENTS to establish a Military presence next your most vocal RIVAL and not expecting a pushback.

That's like Russia wanting to put MEN and WEAPONS that are combat-ready PERMANENTLY in Canada.

It's madness!

Trying? Lol.

Same Nigerian Government that is rehabilitating and empowering 500+ TERRORISTS?

A real joke!

This is an obvious attempt to ANNEX an entire region under the pretense of liberation.

A real joke!

Empowerment projects? Funny!

EVERYBODY knows the only thing Nigerian Politicians empower is their POCKETS. Imagine setting aside ALMOST 1 TRILLION Naira for looting. And it's not even the main looting. It's SUPPLEMENTARY looting just in case the main looting is not enough.

Nigeria is in TROUBLE.

Church and the Nigerian Military are two of the biggest ATROCITIES in Nigeria today.

One CRIMINAL organisation using another to OPPRESS people and VIOLATE court order to the point of firing live bullets at people just carrying CARDBOARDS.

Yet people with brain still haul themselves to that church and allow themselves to be BRAINWASHED into believing that people trying to prevent their church-business from blocking a major road are the enemy.

Crazy people!

Pedophile rapists caught in the act should have their balls INSTANTEOUSLY cracked with a jagged rock.

As a man wishing to marry, DON'T!

"...6 suspects were gunned down during a shootout with the police in an attempt to kidnap a biz man in Ladipo Market."

Why does it sound like the Police were acting as rhe personal bodyguard of a RICH man rather than doing actual police work?

another avenue to WASTE Nigeria's resources.

Knowing how Nigerian politicians LAVISH money, the amount to be wasted on their fares, accommodation and feeding would be BIG enough to construct a MAJOR road.

Imagine politicians that have MONOPOLISED the political scene for DECADES talking about visiting other countries for TUTORIALS.

Pure INSANITY!

Funniest thing is that these same politicians have BASTARDISED the basic principles of democracy YET they are eager to waste resources to learn the FINER points of democracy.

For WHAT? Just so they can ignore it? Or learn new ways to FUUUUCK the masses?

A WASTE of money!