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Abeg, wetin una dey discuss?

Hmm, how about the next time u see a girl asking a guy for cab fare, u rush up and help pay the cab. After that, u can tell the girl how dissappointed you are in her for not carrying money (she probably didnt have) instead of gathering here and basically impacting nobody

@ idupaul LOL,

I think Ini Edo is a sight for sore eyes (very fyne) . Its just the dressing and attitude that spells "bitch". That shouldnt cloud the fact that she is damn good to look at

I cant believe everyone is encouraging this man to have issues in his home. The matter is simple. U cannot control what comes into your wife's phone neither can she, som1 can just up and send a text to her and u are crucifying her for the message. Look at the sent items. That is where u shld really be concerned with. All the same, u should have told your wife to stop receiving night calls as it is improper for a married woman and most importantly, you dont feel comfortable about it. Instead u have been allowing her 2 receive the calls and now u are looking for pple that will tell you she is cheating on you. Well you have heard them now.
Tell your woman to stop taking night calls n let her tell you who the fellow is possibly inform the fellow that he shld desist from calling your woman at night. If they persist, then u can do what u have to do.



Lets keep it real

@London cool - I have replied your mail.

Also, 3 Storey building in calabar available for sale. Pls send an email to the above address for more info.

London cool, I am so sorry i could not reach out during the weekend. I will send the reply to your mail shortly.

@ Brownbonno specifically the 3 bedroom is located at Diamond Hill Off Murtala Mohammed Highway i.e Esien Town/Ekorinnim area - (Which is a very cool area) and so is the plot of land. it is in the same aread but much closer to the Flour Mill junction. If u need the price infor u are going to have to mail me. Have a cool day!

Plot of land available for sale in Calabar metropolis, close to the highway. Very cool spot for a business facility or for a home. For more information, send a mail to la_dotra@yahoo.com

Also, three bedroom appartment for sale, completely fenced and lovely appartment for sale. Still in a very lovely and un-rowdy part of Calabar, Cross River state. Send a mail to la_dotra@yahoo.com for further details.

@ Poster - You are in no position to divulge that information to your father because we all know that even if your father has been sleeping with all the Alhajas, as a Nigerian man, once he hears your mom has slept with one man, Hell will be let loose. However, nothing stops you from asking your mom about it (being that you love her) it aint a crime to feel protective over her. But note that in your quest to reason with your mom, you are not to subject her to gruelling questioning and Ultimatums or threat because for a woman to want to cheat on her husband (and with his brother for that matter), means that there is a history between your parents that neither you nor I know nothing about.

So if you're going to take any action, it shouldnt be informing your dad, your sisters, your brothers, the village elders and all that, you would even feel very much of an achiever if you alone at your age was able to talk to your mom and help the situation instead of aggravating it. All in all lady, Do your thing!

thats the pics of my best dude her in calabar. he'll love to meet u. he's a nairalander aswell.

@ poster, i op this does come in belatedly.
i just want to welcome u to our dear country.
pls dont believe everything u heard about Naija,
cos we've gat God fearing peeps who cud be more trustworthy than those u know abroad.
do enjoy ur stay,especially our lovely local dishes.and tourist actractions. u cud find time and come to cross river state,and u wud be amazed at the blessings of nature.

Dear, please don't go, u are only going to hurt yourself further no matter whateva hunk u decide to go with. It's really going to hurt you that after all u've been through with him, someone else gets to wear the ring.

@Bebe, I am sure if your Mom was the first wife, you'd be singing a different song right now. Have u asked your older siblings how they felt? or better still your step-moms? I am not dissing you o, I am jst trying to give u food for thought.

@ Jaymobb, Solomon indeed had quite a number of wives, but in my bible study class, when we were using an example of how the blessings of God can decrease, we used David-Solomon as an example. And u should also know that the downfall of Soloman was as a result of his promiscuity.

Polygamy is a matter of choice, but I believe u will raise better, more disciplined children when u have them in a not so large number, that way u can look into the affairs of your children, set standards that they will follow and show them the respect you have for God. While monogamy is not a guarantee for happiness, neither is polygamy.

I guess sistaz really detest this one cos since u put it on almost a year ago, no one has responded to it.

@ poster, u said that "you have gotten over this guy but you are afraid to hurt him"? . I think that what you are experiencing now before marriage, will only worsen outside marriage, then u will be keeping malice for 3-6months and the most painful thing is u'll be sleeping on the same bed with this person. My bf used to be the same and I felt that I loved this guy too much (whcih is a painful admission since I am one proud gal ) but he did his usual malice thingy once and I followed him up, I didnt speak with him and my friendslist grew. He called up my sister and started narrating what happened and how he loves me bt I am too proud n my sister shld talk to me and all that. After 4years, we understand ourselves better and try to avoid quarrels, else we try to make up quickly.
What causes problems in marriage is the length of time for the "agreement" after the "disagreement" to occur. Malice leaves one big gaping hole and the more often the quarrel and malice, the bigger the hole. I think you have to read the signs on the wall and walk away,

N/B And the guy is threatening his mum to run away with you (making the momsy to dislike u thoroughly). That will definitely not be a favourable thingy.
Bottomline: The guy is unstable and highly unpredictable (filled with nasty surprises), Just walk away sis, I will be praying for you

Nairalanders, u are simply da bomb!!! Every contribution is soooooooooo 4nny!!!

i think your brother is totally f**kd . U said this is not the first time he is doing that and that means that as your younger brother, he doesnt have respect for you to keep away from your woman. All the same, diss the girl, that is no excuse. If for only 10days u were bizzy, she could not hold herself, how abt women whose husbands go abroad for a 1 or 2year course?? She'll probably have died by then .

Forgive ur Bros, but keep him at arms length.4nny dude, I'll probably kill ma sister if she did that One more thing, please go back to the house (cant let your Bros think he has killed u over a chic )

I would jst love to believe that most of the guys shouting "kick her out" have/will not cheat on their wives otherwise MAKE THUNDER FRY THAT THAING IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS for speaking so unforgivingly.

There are many reasons to why someone would cheat. If my husband cheats(God forbid!!) I think i'll seat n reason with him if:
1. I know he aint that kind of person
2.He's apologetic and remorseful

Contrary to this, Only God knows what will happen.

@amaikama, who knows she could cheat because in your "Oh so knowing" mind, u neglect to shower her with the little things she needs like attention, care, understanding, love, playfulness and instead put in pride and authoritativeness,

That said, have a swell day all

Girlie, first cut is the deepest but I think I can survive if he turned out to be such an asshole

Hmm! All the babes shouting I can marry a poor man, I stand here to say "abeg na lie". It is not even about the babes o, but the poor handsome guy himself will frustrate you with his constant anger due to lack of money (Poor man/hungry man na angry man). And besides, is it love ur children will feed on? On educate themselves on?? or your relatives, ? Parents in their old age, I can only marry a poor handsome man if I am working and he has prospects (as in he's intelligent and can get a job).

And as for you poster, instead of going out to source for money, stay here and be looking for a babe that will endure u in poverty (jst kidding )

@hot-angel, what's with the "thing" about Calabar girls? Instead of telling the poster he's wrong about Yoruba girls, u say that and mention Calabar chics,  take time o! As if Calabar chics love Owambe more than Yoruba chics and a quickie like that is what most yoruba babes would resort to!at least Calabar babes do it at home, with the clean sheets an all that!Duh!!!

@poster, wo I feel you jare Up Calli babes