₦airaland Forum

donogaga:
Located 40 feet below the ocean, you and your spouse could enjoy an "alone-time" in this luxurious room at the Poseidon Resort in Fiji. The cost? Only $30,000 (₦11.42 million) a week per couple. #HistoryVille

That money would build me a 3bedroom bungalow in my village. I think that's a much better option for me than sleeping under the water for one week.

MhisTahrah:
Location?

Lagos

MhisTahrah:
What does it entail?

Accompanying your boss to meetings and functions, attending to customers in his absence, reading company mails and replying them, running business errands for your boss...etc.

The current mods don't really care about it.... members here can revive it tho.

MhisTahrah:
What kind of job are you offering?I'm still an undergrad.

Personal assistant.

Venerealisles:
Yes, this is my first post on nairaland, and all I have to say is, I am a Feminist!!! A proud one at that, I know these little nairaland boys will come for me but I don't care!!
I have a message for y'all, we don't need your money to be happy, we don't need your d#ck to be satisfied, we can do without y'all.
Fellow ladies, lets keep up the movement, the more they realize they ain't shit, the better for them.

Errrm...you don't need to tell us, cos we actually do not care. Enjoy your life whichever way you feel would make you happy.

MhisTahrah:
You're right.I dey find job in case you get.

I have o...what's your qualifications?

I can't see any pics there o

This country is so insecure...I remember back then in 2002 I used to enter night bus with my parents and cousins from Lagos to the east. the roads were so safe and the journey smooth.

Now day travelers aren't even guaranteed a safe trip these days. Buhari has failed woefully in securing the lives and properties of Nigerians

Davash222:
Did your mom also tell you not to have sex with any woman that’s not your wife ?

Good question...the hypocrisy on his posts stinks

The only thing that annoyed me is when he concluded by saying he still loves her. Truly some men deserve the kind of women they meet.

Fountainofyouth:
But what if she was really really broke

Really broke to afford even N100? That's impossible...

I've met girls like the type in the op is talking about. Then when I was quite young. These categories wouldn't even call you back to acknowledge a card you sent to them.

I asked one at a point didn't you receive the card I sent, she said yes she did and I was like why didn't you call to atleast thank me she said if I call the card would finish and I wouldn't be able to use it for the important call I want to make.

These kinds of girls even of you're stranded and call them for assistance with a promise to reimburse them they wouldn't show concern even if you've given them a million naira in the past, they'll play the mute and avoid your plight then come back to keep milking you.

Thank God for maturity, I've outgrown all those emotional slavery.

These kinds of girls are nothing but parasites. Dating them is just a waste of time, resources...etc

The op should just let her be

StacyO:
You yourself know that's the truth.
Stop putting everyone under the same umbrella. It's exactly what makes "all" Nigerian females hoes.

Mind you, the term "preference" differs in everyone's dictionary.



When you see your babe is a blockhead in the financial sector,why not put her through?? Instead of throwing her legs up in the air 360° on bed.



Mentality.

Putting her her through isn't the issue here. Every guy would love to make certain touches and adjustments on any girl he fancies. Just like when you see a cloth you fancy but it's oversize, you can easily pay for it and have it adjusted to your size by your tailor.

I never and will never tag all girls as hoes because a hoe needs a d1ck before it can be classified as a hoe, so if a girl is called a hoe then guys whose d1cks makes them hoes should be called worse names.

My argument is if a guy is spending to rebrand his girls to his taste what does he get from her apart from sex. So many girls are dumb upstairs and feel so entitled towards any guy that shows interest in them. This act alone frustrates any effort the guy is putting towards the success of that relationship.

I saw a thread where a Nigerian man knelt down to beg his Chinese babe who was obviously beating him for cheating on her. He had to do so cos there's something he's certainly benefiting from her. Could be his stay, her apartment...etc.

When a guy is rebranding you, don't just fold your hands and say after all he opens my legs at an angle of 360° so we're even, that would be a very wrong assumption. Try to see what and how you can contribute to his life no matter how small and he'll forever respect you for that. In fact he wouldn't want to loose you and can go on his knees to beg for your forgiveness if he offends you.

Let me tell you something...forget all these guys here on Nairaland claiming red pill gang. If they find a girl who actually cares about them and contributes one way or another into their lives their mentality towards women would change.

I don't see myself in such group (redpillers) I prefer to use my head in any and every relationship I find my self. If you respect me, I'll reciprocate by respecting you in return. If you want to form feminist and play me, I'll also reciprocate by letting you know that I'm street brought up.

StacyO:

I need a sharp babe,I need a sharp babe.

You will equally have to purchase a sharp wig.



I'll blame the men pun this one. It's still this same gals y'all prefer.
Enough with the banters,no one is innocent here. You make your ladies lazy and still come out to shame them.

So in a nutshell what you're saying is the higher a man's preference, the fatter the expenses?

Akfrenzy:
NCDC still dey this matter? I thought they've moved on

As long as there's money to loot, they will never move on

This una update don taya person... make I enjoy jare. I can't come and kee myself

Readre:
Hello Nairalanders i get this problem that always bothers me, the problem is each time i fall for a lady they start drawing back away from me, because of that i stopped taking relationship serious, for the last 6 years i have not been in a relationship, but this year i met a lady and we just clicked but truth is i did not want a relationship cause of my past experience of not having them love me like i will to them, so this lady i met was always all over me but i was not reciprocating to her love, she complains i dont care about her that i dont call nothing nothing, so i decided to show little care but before i know it i don fall yakata for her, then tuale she started drawing back upon all the love am showing her she start to dey see me as a disturbance, if i call sometimes she wont pick or she will pick and say i will call u bck later but for where, i was doing everything for her but she was not showing me the love like before, she says am too soft but i jst care and love her is it a crime, am tired and scared of loving someone, they always say this you are soft, calm, quiet.
I wonder what all that means am just a guy that loves with all my heart is it a crime?.
Is any one having this problem with ladies please advise me on what i should be doing to avoid being hurt all the time.

You're too soft...it's one thing to love, it's another thing to still reason with your head in that love relationship.

Most ladies get turned off and easily loose interest in guys who are weak,

Guys who they can easily manipulate to get anything from regardless of what it would cost the guy,

Guys who beg or apologize unnecessarily


Guys who can't look at them in the eye and say no to their demand even for once,

Guys who can't dominate them by claiming ownership of their body publicly and privately.

Guys who can't speak up for her publicly.

Guys who can't warn her, scold her, yell at her, walk her out of your house...etc.

These are the reasons why they leave you or at best friendzone you...once you begin to possess these qualities, they'll come crawling back.

When you claim to be a man be a man...take a clue from the life of a male Lion. He stamps his dominance by fighting off intruding males. the females appreciate his efforts by feeding him and giving him free sex all the days of his life. But he must remain strong for them or else he looses those benefits.

If you want a girl to stick to you, then kill the boy/teenager in you and allow the man to manifest. She'll get attracted naturally to the man in you

Kneel fire.

After dating her for over 5 years and after dogging all her questions when she brings up the issue of marriage. One day I'll just walk into a store buy ring and bring it to her then tell her to wear it if she does and it fits her, I'll tell her to leave it there that shebi she has been talking about marriage and I felt I should take a bold step by buying ring. And she should be managing it until the end of the year when I come to see her people.

I don do proposal be that o...if you no want carry my ring jejely give me back. Girls plenty way need am

deezahbee:
My hand gets wet especially whenever I'm writing and it gets obvious and embarrassing at most times.

It's completely natural...as you grow older it would reduce

[quote author=fati2001 post=96334248][/quote]So my guess is right...I have his number o in case you want it.

fati2001:
the way he bend the MOUTH AND THE EYES.

Hmmm....I think you're having a crush on him?

CastingCrowns:
I have heard several times that individuals that studied psychology are always manipulative and devious, word on the street is that they make terrible partners.. I wonder if there is any element of truth to that assertion.

Uwa nka? What you heard is an assumption... assumptions are usually people's opinions on certain issues they have little knowledge of. Meaning assumptions are usually wrong.

fati2001:
YOU BETTER STAP!

Why do you like this particular meme?

pannyman:
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They're actually girls. We did video calls and spoke at length but I wasn't convinced with their explanations as to how they obtained my number.

Hmmm...it's well

pannyman:
I have been receiving WhatsApp messages of recent from girls I don't know. When I ask them how they got my number they say a girlffriend of theirs gave it to them, then they mention the name of the friend and I don't know who she is. I'm really baffled. Does anybody know what's going on? Have you been having a similar experience? Please help me to unravel this mystery.

They're not girls bro, they're guys posing as girls to feed off from leaches who can't keep their d1ck in check at the sight of a beautiful lady. Just use any of your other number they don't have to call their line and you'll be shocked by the thick male voice from the other end asking who am I speaking with?

anastasius:
Marrying into a dysfunctional or broken family. You will alway regret it. Children born and raised under a dysfunctional and broken home are usually broken and damaged. They can never be loved. They don't know the meaning of love.. They will always treat you bad.

If his or her dad treats his mom badly or his ir her mom treats his dad badly, flee!!!!!!
You have been warned!

The kinds of threads I read on Nairaland these days just de weak me.

Olofin2:
I need a female friend of between 35 to 40 as a friend, preferably from South West.

Note that I'm married. I just want a friend to discuss other things of life with.

Wifey should not be the only one to enjoy me


Fati and lefulefu should not comment here o. If you do, I will break your phone screen

What other things of life do you want to discuss with a lady of 35-40 oga?

EFULEFU1:
My mother is 59

The man should be 40, 42

Hmmm...your old man is just worried that a stranger got undies for his wife. Tell your sister to assure him that there's nothing to worry about since it's her husband who got it...and I believe that he'll be fine.