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Sixfeetbelle:
@ the bold, I wonder too.


I've heard this your story a lot on this forum that I'm beginning to think either you'all dated the same lady or you'all have the same favourite story teller.

What story is that?

ZIINI:
Nazgul Yep you got any business for mii?

None for now...was just curious. I wish you all the best

Are you the same person as ZINII

pappy2000:
What is really fueling the prostitution industry in this country, I was talking to a lady n she is ready to come for what she calls a short rest for a fee of 30k . I am like this is suppose to be a decent girl. Good looking but the number of oloshos in the country is growing geometrically

What's the meaning of short rest?

Coldie:
All dz guys complaining about money money money, expensive this that has never met the woman they love yet.

If u meet the woman u love even if her wedding is worth 10million u would sacrifice for her and u would be extremely happy about it

Do you know what 10million naira is?

Anointedclass:
To be honest ..when I hear Harder Harder ..my head always spark and I'm always like...I must destroy this thing

Look at how this wants to push himself into an early grave.

NwaAmaikpe:



Inna lillahi wainna Illayhir rajiun

But if I am to say, I'd say that this looks like pure Qiyamah for a blasphemous act.
I honestly do not think it is right for a woman to be the principal of a College of Islamic Theology, it is akin to being a female Imam.

I stand to be corrected but the hadith of Sahih Bukhari (88:219) tells me that this is haram; besides, the teachings of Ibn Jarir and Al-Thawri that permitted women to lead Islamic discourses has been long discarded.

May Allah the most merciful show us mercy because we deserve it.

You too do turn Muslim just now?

Anayxz:
U see gals with this kind mind set no dey contribute shishi na to just dey fantasise de plan de go. Is now dat he will prove to the people and his babe say na man him be by cutting his cloth according to his material if no like am, de door is open for to waka comot.

I'm telling you...these are the kind of girls that when you marry them, common 1k to recharge meter they won't bring. They'll rather say in darkness and wait till you come back, then inform you of the situation and expect you to cough out money.

Honestly some girls are worse than parasites.

Xammie001:
I'M NOT SAYING WANTING A FRAME WEDDING IS BAD OOO BUT CAN THE LADY IN QUESTION AFFORD IT,MOST OF THEM ARE LIVING IN FANCY LAND AND ALL THANKS TO THE ROMANTIC NOVELS THEY READ

And Nollywood movies they watch...I think fantacy is the right word to use. Most of them come back to reality when they hit menopause.

2dice01:
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Exactly...but baba mama wahala no be here o

virginprincess:
True, but all women are not same.

Obviously...we have the good, the bad and the ugly.

2dice01:
Cus most don't really care about you
Their needs first before anybody

Honestly that's the truth...I do pity most men.

This generation isn't fair to men. Imagine trying to beg a girl to accept the kind of wedding you want. And she's objecting telling you that you must agree to do it exactly the way she wants it without even supporting you with a dime.

Well I like myself sha. If I don't have the resources for the kind of wedding you want and you're refusing to do it my way, my dear Waka pass...I can't come and go and kill myself.

virginprincess:
Hmmm the matter hard o, but i think what the lady is asking for is a normal wedding celebration, but the guy want to do it in a very small way, seriously it difficult to see a girl that will agree to a low key wedding, moderate wedding is the best.

It's true...but up till now I don't know why ladies fancy colourful weddings. If the guy is the one paying for it then it's wise to allow him decide how he wants it.

If she wants certain side attractions, she can add her own widow's mite... regardless of how small the guy would oblige and consider doing it her way...that's what I feel

Zzor:
They should reach an agreement and separate if that's not obtainable. AGREEMENT

Hmmmm...it's not as easy as that. The guy in question brought up the issue of canceling the entire wedding if she wouldn't shift grounds, but the girl isn't ready for any form of cancellation...she keeps uploading pre-wedding pics on social media and tagging everyone along reminding them of the date.

So such a person wouldn't consent to any form of agreement that wouldn't be beneficial to her unless the guy breaks off the whole stuff, then she'll cry like most ladies do and form victim.

virginprincess:
if the guy is capable of sponsoring a big wedding, then he should do it the way the lady want it, but if he is not capable enough, then the lady should try and be considerate, let them manage to do it anyway they can.

The problem is that he isn't capable and the lady has refused to be considerate and she isn't ready to support with even a penny...that's terrible if you ask me.

frozen70:
Am not against an expensive wedding so far she will be the one to sponsor it

If the guy can not let her know his budget then he will have a bigger problem setting his family

He can as well go and and start having kids until she is ready for wedding carnival

Exactly...I'll tell him this...he should just impregnate her and ask her to move in. By the time she remembers marriage again she would be nursing about 3 kids...sense will not kill you.

2dice01:
Peer Pressure
My wedding will be the Best amongst my friends infact in my family

That is why most marry someone that is ready not someone they love

To what end...I've been opportuned to attend a couple of weddings. The harsh reality is that after a week people forget all about how Behind your wedding was and move on with their lives.

So why put a man through hell just to brag...

Bornsinner7:
You never know naija babes

That's a very shallow way of reasoning

Bornsinner7:
Marriage is the new female champions league

It's a big competition..

So they'll prefer to loose a prospective husband simply because he told them he can't or wouldn't shoulder the expenses of and expensive wedding? That's weird if you ask me.

Olunmercy56:
Different ladies with different thinking, not all ladies

True...not all ladies but most tho.

Hello everyone...

Just decided to Share this here...

There's this guy in my office (a colleague) he's been in love with a girl for quite some time now. In fact they were supposed to get married this year but due to the covid 19 Lock down and how cash suddenly vanished from everyone's account, he and the girl in question decided to postpone the marriage till Easter period next year. (March/April)

The guy in question says he wants a low key wedding which is understandable, no thanks to the high inflation rate of food and other commodities, but this his babe wouldn't want to hear such.

He was just telling us now that his babe is saying her friends would be coming from PH (she schooled in uniport) and she intends to do something presentable. That one of her friends who wedded earlier in the year, her wedding was the talk of the Town. And she wants theirs to be just like that.

From what he was explaining, the girl in question is just interested in having an expensive wedding just to show off to her friends not minding what it would cause her supposed husband...very selfish of her if you ask me.

I just asked him to talk to her about it...cos I was very careful so I won't say anything that I would be blamed for later in the future.

Ladies should understand the current situation in the country, if you want an expensive wedding please show commitment by contributing to it. If you don't have the finance for it please manage the one your guy is working towards.

There's more to marriage than a one day wedding...the guy even told us that if she continues to insists he'll just call the whole thing off. I just calmed him down and advised him to talk to her about it.

What do you all think?

Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique

Biglittlelois:
Really? So love can also make a man give a woman his ATM, his salary, steal and borrow for his woman? Abi does love being a strong force apply only for women?

Men in love do worse and more foolish things than what I wrote up there.

How is this romantic...this is romance section open your religion threads in the right section

Zzor:
Tor, maybe I have powers over such force because I'm never going to love any man without my senses

Easier said than done...like I said you've never experienced real love. When you do you'll be acting like a zombie whose life is remote controlled.

Until then, keep searching....very soon you'll find that perfect guy. Then we'll come back to finish our discussion.

Zzor:
Yes, I will never bring anything to any man's table because I see that as part of the modern day slavery. A woman will give a man care, bear him children, nurture the children, take good care of his home, gives him sex anytime he wants, wake up at anytime of the night to attend to the baby's needs, gives selfless emotional needs, prays for the family, works and earn money (99percent of women work these days) and many more. So after doing all these for a man, these same man will want you to come share bills with him? like seriously? Am i his mother? Am i his slave? Why are men of these generation becoming so mean? Why do you all want to add to the burden of women? I will only spend my money on my kids and parents alone and not any man who is comfortable to still demand that his wife brings something to the table with all these stress women undergo. Don't even bother insulting me, it's a waste of energy. I'm also not against women who are comfortable doing such.

You obviously haven't fallen in love before. When you do you'll give him your ATM, your salary if you're staying with your parents, you'll even steal and borrow from them to give your man.

Love is a force, once it takes hold of you, you'll even deny typing this write up you just posted.

Beverlyjean:
I'm done... will not allow myself to b dragged by mushin boys like u...

Neither will I descend so low to trade words with cheap dirty hoes like you.

Beverlyjean:
U are 4kin broke , thats y u reason the way u do... thats y the rich dont mingle with ass.holes like ur type cos u full of jealousy and envy ...keep ur poverty opinion to urself... u dont have the money then 4kin hide ur face.... luxury wasn't created for people like u

So it was created for you? You obviously don't know the meaning of luxury and trying to explain to a brain dead hoe like you is as difficult as fetching water in a basket. So quit stalking my mentions and continue selling your rotten cunt for 2k.

adioolayi:
Too bad the Police are now endangered species....any small provocation..Why attacking police and police station...when the clash was clearly between warders and okada riders

The Police hierarchy needs to do something very fast to gain citizens trust and protection.

We all know how the citizens, especially the drivers, respect VIO and Road Safety Officers, these officers do not carry weapons, yet.. sighting them from afar sends shivers to the spine of drivers. Police needs to do something very fast to gain citizens confidence and respect...Things are terribly bad right now

Why would a police shoot someone... probably a breadwinner because of N50?

Freestainworld:
No wonder our ladies are into bleaching, sense no go kill them, they want to trick the situation.

You're a clown.

Beverlyjean:
U are the brain dead pig... also respect those that can afford it and stop classifying it as a waste of money... its a stupid thing to say instead of a person to spend such an amount in a day , he should use it conservatively...thats broke peoples tone... if a person can afford it , its not ur business how they choose to spend their money...u dint earn it for them

See whose talking...seems common English is so difficult for you to comprehend. I'm speaking for myself not everyone else. Get that into your STD infested brain.

If I choose not to engage in certain activities it's my business...if you term my decision as being broke, then you're more miserable than I thought.

Sixfeetbelle:
Ladies like that don't enter into sexual relationship with guys. Can you survive faithfully in that kind of relationship?

What's with all this hype about sex...I'm not a pervert neither am I a rapists. If a girl possess the qualities the op stated and she tells me she doesn't want sex, I'll respect her wishes.

I've been in a relationship for over a year without sex. Although it was a distance relationship, crazy thing is she was the one who broke her code and eventually cheated. I found out and ended it.