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Romance › Re: Saddest Love Story: Camara Laye And Marie by Ndipe(op): 8:34pm On Apr 11, 2006
@Seun. That is why I wrote that Marie had a valid ground for divorcing him because she was Roman Catholic. And yeah, that was a bad judgment on Laye's part to have married a second wife.

But what I am even surprised is that she took the courageous step in divorcing him even after being released from prison. Other women would have accepted the situation
Literature › Re: Africa's Leading Writer by Ndipe(m): 6:56am On Apr 11, 2006
I don read Chinua Achebe, good writer. Wole Soyinka is rather verbose in his writing. If you read "So Long a Letter" by Mariama Ba or "Scarlet song", you will be impressed with the literary skills of the writer. In my opinion, she had no equal in Literature from Africa.

Check it out.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Religion by Ndipe(m): 10:54pm On Apr 09, 2006
Only Jesus Christ can Save you. Eckankar, like other religions are not the right paths leading to God. Please stay away from those groups
Nairaland General › Re: Embarrassed In The Company Of Nigerians by Ndipe(m): 10:28pm On Apr 09, 2006
I usually get along with Nigerians well in my neck of wood. But there is an incident I witnessed once on my trip to Nigeria. On a stopover at Gatwick/Heathrow airport, there was this lady who was crying hysterically. Her complaint was that her plane would not accomodate her excess luggage, unless she paid an extra fee. Now, common sense would dictate to any traveller that excess fee is required by pilots. And this lady had the money quite alright, but she was reluctant to part with it to these hostesses. I was pulled aside by my travelling mate to accomodate her luggages for a fee , I think it was ten pounds. I declined, so did he. I mean, why not pay the airline the required fee, instead of bribing someone else to take over your luggage? One of my homegirls did not buy her stance that she was genuine.


About the witchcraft saga, well, such discussion is usually limited to folks who believe that they exist. However, if you discuss such a controversial topic with a white man, hmmm, they might refer you to a close by mental hospital.
Romance › Re: Saddest Love Story: Camara Laye And Marie by Ndipe(op): 10:18pm On Apr 09, 2006
If I tell you that I wasnt moved by his biography, I would be kidding you. I had just finished reading "The African child" at home and was quite floored by the sentimental description of his life in Guinea. Mirrors my own childhood back home. That same year, or thereabout, while visiting a friend, I stumbled upon his bio and read it. His life in exile was a rude/dark contrast to his idyllic life in Guinea. Sekou Toure was a monster. Already, some magazine is trying to paint him as a hero? I might pen a rebuttal by bringing up his atrocities against Camara Laye as well as thousands of Guineans who suffered under his regime.
Nairaland General › Re: Has NEPA (PHCN) Ever Made You Mad? by Ndipe(m): 10:07pm On Apr 09, 2006
@layi, dont take the name of the Lord in vain.

Interesting@snazzydown. I am writing a novel about Nepa's inefficiency in Nigeria. At first, I used to be disappointed by the power failure in Nigeria. You could be watching a movie in the middle of the night with your siblings, and boom, Nepa strikes. Now living in America with its massive electrical output, I now reminiscence fondly on blackouts in Nigeria, that led to outdoor activity in Calabar. Nepa takes light and the whole neighbourhood troops outdoors for fun, while battling with mosquitoes. And when the light comes on, everybody shouts NEPA.

Chei, memories of Nigeria. Very wonderful memories.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is The Right Day To Go To Church: Saturday Or Sunday? by Ndipe(m): 9:41pm On Apr 09, 2006
Let no man therefore judge you in meat, or in drink, or in respect of an holyday, or of the new moon, or of the sabbath days: Which are a shadow of things to come, Colossians 2:16-17

With the above Biblical Chapter/Verses, you can either worship God on Sunday or Saturday. I choose Sunday over Saturday though. If anybody argues with you on your mode of worship, be quick to quote Colossians 2: 16-17
Romance › Saddest Love Story: Camara Laye And Marie by Ndipe(op): 12:10am On Apr 09, 2006
Enough of the hackneyed story of the doomed romance between Romeo and Juliet. Theirs is fiction, the one I am posting is true.

While living in Nigeria, I read my brother's novel, "The African Child" authored by Camara Laye. I was moved by the tone of the novel, especially its sucessful attempt to portray Africa as a continent filled with love, hospitality and compassion. Towards the end of the story, the protagonist falls in love with a half caste lady, Marie and then embarks on a study leave to France. In real life, Camara Laye married this lady. I came across this interesting information while reading his bio. Sadly though, the marriage ended in divorce. But their marital split would have been averted were it not for the evil machinations of a third party , Sekou Toure.

After completing his studies, Camara Laye returned to Guinea. The country was in the throes of development and this young budding writer was named the ambassador of his country to Ghana. When Guinea abruptly cut of diplomatic relations from France, the latter retaliated by cutting off funds to punish the country. Camara Laye in his plum position was able to secure some funds to bail out his ailing country. As the years went by on, Sekou Toure morphed into an evil dictator. During that period, Camara Laye fell out of favor with the president and he was imprisoned briefly. During his incarceration, he was poisoned, and the consequences led to a swollen body. Then, he was released and with his family, he fled to neighbouring Senegal, never to returned to his beloved homeland, Guinea.

Laye's life in exile was marred by tragedies. His parents had passed away during his days in Senegal, but he was justifiably absent from their funeral for fear Sekou Toure, though he was the first born. Financially, he was struggling. A one time ambassador, he was now reduced to the position of a research assistant for some organization in Senegal. And to compound his woes, he was faced with a kidney problem (which would be the cause of his death), probably as a result of the food poisoning earlier in prison. Nevertheless he and his family thrived on, until a telegram from from family friends in Guinea would torpedoe his relationship with his wife, Marie.

Marie's father was dying. In the telegram, he dictated to friends, he begged Marie to visit him while he was alive. Against the wishes of her husband who was concerned for her safety, Marie flew out of Senegal to Guinea to visit her father who had just been released from jail. As soon as she arrived at the airport in Guinea, she was immediately arrested (at the airport) and taken to jail where she was incarcerated for SEVEN years!!!.

Laye took his wife's incarceration hard. He was hospitalized out of a very serious illness relating to his wife's incarceration. To curb the lingering loneliness of Marie's absence, he took in a second wife, an act that was in accordance of his islamic faith. Ramatoulaye Kante, his Senegalese wife also played the role of his nurse because of his failing health. But her presence in the household did not dim his affection for Marie. Acting on the advice of some friends, he suspended the publication of another novel of his which was to be a scathing attack on Sekou Toure for fear of his wife's safety. He changed his stance of his attack on Sekou Toure, organized some friends of his to pressure the president to release his wife. Eventually, he would cede to their demands and release Marie. This came after seven years.

Upon her release from prison, Marie moved back to Senegal to be reunited with her family. But the reunion was not as memorable between husband and wife as one would have anticipated. Marie refused to accept the presence of the second wife on valid grounds , she was Roman Catholic. And so, she divorced him.

Laye did not live long after the divorce. In failing health since the 60's probably stemming from a food poisoning incident in prison in the sixties, exarcebated by his beloved wife's incarceration and their subsequent divorce in 77 which consumed him towards the end of his life, Camara Laye gave up the ghost in 1980 and was buried in exile, Senegal.

Sekou Toure's evil deeds caught up with him in 1984, when he died, while undergoing a heart surgery in the United States of America. His demise was celebrated in his country. I dont know if Marie is still alive or not, but in 1990, she was alive and living in Guinea. She is memorialized on the website of the infamous Boiro prison in Guinea. I am amazed that she even survived the incarceration, because people died in that camp. Documents have surfaced that some of these dead people were buried in unmarked graves.
Christianity Etc › Re: Celestial Church of Christ: Your Experience And Opinion by Ndipe(m): 11:49pm On Apr 08, 2006
@greed. I am not criticizing any Church, but remember that the Holy Bible advises us to Test every spirit, because many false prophets would arise in the end times to deceive people. So, if I notice any practise that runs contrary to the Word of God (I am imperfect, mind you, Saved by the Blood of Jesus Christ), and I discuss the matter with the Pastor and he is still insistent on practising it, guess what? I would have to leave them. Many would be led astray by false prophets in the end times and we all have to pray for God's Guidance in our life.

Read this verse that I culled up from the net.

http://bible.cc/1_john/4-1.htm
Literature › Re: I Have Several Unpublished Stories And Novels by Ndipe(m): 8:51pm On Apr 08, 2006
Vantage press does not have a favorable review. That's what I found out on the net. Best way to go about it is to find a literary agent.
I am also writing a novel too.
Goodluck
Christianity Etc › Re: Celestial Church of Christ: Your Experience And Opinion by Ndipe(m): 8:50pm On Apr 08, 2006
@guy.

Can you clarify for once if your church espouses animal sacrifices or not? And if it is enforced, does that not run contrary to the Word of God?

Secondly, can you debunk the allegations that rituals and sacrifices are made at the river/sea in the dead of the night to solve some spiritual problems?
Nairaland General › Re: What's Your 'Best' Nigerian Newspaper, and Why? by Ndipe(m): 2:50am On Apr 08, 2006
When I lived in Nigeria, I liked reading Vanguard and Weekend Concord. Those were those days

What of magazines? My favorite was Quality Magazine, a defunct sister publication of Newswatch magazine.
Christianity Etc › Re: Celestial Church of Christ: Your Experience And Opinion by Ndipe(m): 2:39am On Apr 08, 2006
Any Church that practises burnt sacrifice should be avoided at all cost. Remember, Jesus Christ was the Only Supreme Sacrifice needed to atone for our sins. With this Truth, I stay away from any organization that tells their members to bring animals like chicken to appease whatever force that they think is working against an individual. Put your Trust in the Blood of Jesus Christ. Celestial, unfortunately, from what I heard about them espouse animal sacrifice which goes contrary to the Word of God in the New Testament.
Literature › Re: I Want To Publish My Novel by Ndipe(m): 10:29pm On Apr 07, 2006
I am also writing a novel too and I am trying to garner tips on how to publish one.
Literature › Re: Africa's Leading Writer by Ndipe(m): 7:33am On Apr 07, 2006
Mariama Ba.

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