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EducationRe: Chukwuemeka Okonkwo: 8-Year-Old Anambra Pupil Beaten To Coma By Teacher Dies by Ndipe(m): 7:04am On May 24, 2024
10 years is too mild of a punishment.

Aurelius1:
Wether manslaughter or murder she is certainly going to jail for at least 10 years.
Foreign AffairsRe: 5 Most Brutal And Ruthless Warlords In Africa (Pics) by Ndipe(m): 11:49pm On May 22, 2024
Jean Bedel Bokassa of Central African Republic. He had school pupils and students killed for their refusal to buy school uniforms that was owned by one of his wives.
BusinessRe: IOCs Refuse To Relocate HQ to Akwa Ibom 4 Years After Building Tower. by Ndipe(m): 5:25am On May 21, 2024
14 million dollars for rent is exorbitant. The government should slash the rent to bring in tenants otherwise this impressive edifice may end up being another white elephant project.
RomanceRe: “We Want To Marry Nigerians!” - Say Ugandans (vid) by Ndipe(m): 4:49am On May 17, 2024
Uganda is a beautiful country.
FamilyRe: Stop Forcing Your Children To Speak English by Ndipe(m): 2:41am On May 17, 2024
The Holy Bible which is the most important Book was not first written in English.



Bardo:
If you are living abroad, make sure your child knows the language of the host country to an advanced level before you consider.

I am Igbo, never learnt Igbo but that will still not change the fact that I’m Igbo. I have lived amongst the white man and have beaten him at his own game because I know his language better than he does.

Every book of importance is first written in English.

You will always be much less proficient in the language you speak second
TravelRe: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by Ndipe(m):
I love my Nigerian community here in Northern California. The ones I know and associate with are kind hearted and progressive. Infact the Cburch that I attend, the pastor is Nigerian likewise some of the congregants.
EducationRe: I Want To Transfer My Kids To Public School. Is It Advisable? by Ndipe(m):
Please don't pull them out of their current school to a government owned public school, you may regret it. Have then do household chores like washing the dishes, clothes, your car . . .
PoliticsRe: Tinubu’s Reinstated Fuel Subsidy Will Drain Almost Half Of Oil Revenue—IMF Warns by Ndipe(m): 9:25pm On May 10, 2024
I don't think the IMF has the best interests of Nigerians at heart.
FamilyRe: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Ndipe(m): 6:21pm On May 08, 2024
The adopted child is th first son.
FoodRe: One Food You Cannot Understand Why People Enjoy It. by Ndipe(m): 5:54am On May 03, 2024
Efere editan.
PoliticsRe: Economic Importance Of Lagos Calabar Coastal High Way by Ndipe(m):
The Nigerian Federal Government hasnt repaired the Calabar Itu Road, yet, they are embarking on building a Calabar-Lagos Coastal highway. This might end up being a white elephant project.
CrimeRe: Police Inspector Cuts Wife’s Hand In Jos Over N20,000 (Graphic) by Ndipe(m): 10:13pm On Apr 30, 2024
Very very barbaric.
EducationRe: What Public Schools In Anambra Really Look Like - Michael Chibuzor by Ndipe(m): 4:35am On Apr 30, 2024
PoliticsRe: Ray Ekpu's Wife, Uyai Is Dead by Ndipe(m): 4:42am On Apr 26, 2024
Nsikak Essien, as far as I know, never worked for Newswatch magazine. He was a journalist for Concord newspapers.

DissTroy:
He's from Akwa Ibom. Along with Nsikak Essién who also worked at Newswatch with Dele Giwa.


What we are building would solve this. So many greats do not have it.

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No, I can't. At the risk of coming off as a snub, it has the high and mighty in it and we discuss sensitive issues. Think Senators, Professors, top media men, old time Nigerian entertainers like Régîna Askia, accomplished SANs, judges... Not everyone gets admitted, but we'd be having a physical event this month.

If you are a literati, there's a possibility though. People added are carefully selected. We discuss intellectual issues only. No cruise or any such thing. Purely cerebral issues. Careful also because some persons' aim in such groups is social climbing and hassling elites for acquaintances and favours.
PoliticsRe: Ray Ekpu's Wife, Uyai Is Dead by Ndipe(m):
"Others watch the news, we tell it," was the slogan of Tell Magazine when it debuted in 1991. Some felt it was a direct attack on Newswatch magazine including Ekpu who rebutted, "how can you tell the news without watching it?"


Jonwesley:
You remember the war between them, Newswatch and Tell Magazine: Some watch the news, we tell it.
EducationRe: UNN Lecturer, Professor Mfonobong David Udoudom Caught Pants Down In GS Building by Ndipe(m): 3:39am On Apr 23, 2024
Earlier a professor at the same university, University of Nigeria Nsukka was arrested for impregnating a student. Now this one. Anyway, it's common in Nigerian universities.

https://www.nairaland.com/6412830/chigozie-odum-unn-lecturer-arrested
LiteratureRe: Things Fall Apart VS Arrow Of God (pics) by Ndipe(m): 7:13am On Apr 21, 2024
Tough choice but I prefer Arrow of god to Things Fall Apart.
RomanceRe: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Ndipe(m):
Better to give the baby a chance to live and place them for adoption than abort them.

Trevor125:
my own seed?? Oh no.
RomanceRe: I Might End My Relationship Because Of My Babe's Family by Ndipe(m): 8:10am On Apr 19, 2024
Call off this relationship for your benefit. Stress is not worth it.
PoliticsRe: BREAKING!!!! Two Commissioners In Ebonyi State Fight Dirty In Public by Ndipe(m): 10:31pm On Apr 18, 2024
No names of the comissioners, no pictures, no montage (despite the propensity of people to upload stuff on youtube) no link . . . Story seems doubtful.
RomanceRe: I'm Lost, She Is Pregnant. by Ndipe(m): 7:57am On Apr 18, 2024
Placing the child for adoption is a honorable option to abortion.
Foreign AffairsRe: Ghana: NPP Candidate, Mike Oquaye Washes Underwear For Woman During Campaign by Ndipe(m):
Honorable men and women will still troop out enmasse to contest and vote in the right candidate but the elections still get rigged. So how can this political malfeasance/anti-democratic practices be eradicated once and for all?

quote author=theamazonguru post=129463553]

When the honorable ones shy away from public offices, as nature does not permit void, the dishonourable ones who can't succeed elsewhere accept the challenge because the reward is sumptuous and mouth watering.

Solution will only come when honourable men and women go out in mass to contest and flood public offices.

Simple.[/quote]
EducationRe: Private School Teachers Are Really Going Through Alot. by Ndipe(m): 4:49am On Apr 17, 2024
Its worse in America where students even fight with their teachers and sometimes if the teacher retaliates, they are then suspended. If you think I am making this up, look it up on youtube. It's crazy.
Foreign AffairsRe: Ghana: NPP Candidate, Mike Oquaye Washes Underwear For Woman During Campaign by Ndipe(m): 7:31am On Apr 16, 2024
What offense did Africa commit to be saddled with dishonorable people like this one?
CrimeRe: US-Based Nigerian Bodybuilder, Michael Chidozie Dies After Being Shot By Wife by Ndipe(m): 4:20am On Apr 15, 2024
In another tragic irony, one Michael Chidozie was arrested recently in Anambra for beating his wife to death.

https://www.nairaland.com/8025807/tragedy-strikes-pastor-allegedly-ts#128866438
PoliticsRe: Josef Onoh (Bianca Ojukwu's Brother) censures Chimamanda Adichie. by Ndipe(op): 8:51am On Apr 14, 2024
What do you think?


jeffizy:
But is he right or not?
PoliticsRe: Repentant Boko Haram Member Enlisted In Army Slits Woman's Throat In Enugu by Ndipe(m): 8:29am On Apr 14, 2024
Ask Chepos1



Verbtips:
wetin mungo park do nahuh
gist me
PoliticsRe: Repentant Boko Haram Member Enlisted In Army Slits Woman's Throat In Enugu by Ndipe(m): 8:06am On Apr 14, 2024
What has Mungo Park got to do with this heinous crime perpetrated by Boko Haram?



Chepos1:
It will never be well with MUNGO PARK wherever he is. huh
PoliticsRe: Lagos-Calabar Road: Outrage As Umahi Proposes ₦‎1,500 For cars, Truck ₦‎5,000 by Ndipe(m): 8:58am On Apr 12, 2024
Have they even started building the road before talking of the amount of money to be exacted as toll money from drivers?
PoliticsRe: Breaking News: Meet The 2 Wives Of Gov. Adeleke, Ngozi & Titi by Ndipe(m): 1:59am On Apr 12, 2024
CrimeRe: Nigerian Brothers Extradited To US Over ‘Sextortion’ Of Young Men, Teenagers by Ndipe(m): 1:50am On Apr 12, 2024
FamilyRe: I Don't Care Neighbours by Ndipe(m):
Unneighborly acts totally different from the compound I grew up in Calabar. When I visited my sister in Lagos, she told me that over there, tenants operate a "mind your own business mentality." which sort of surprised me because I didnt grow up that way. She invited one of the female security guards to a family wedding but she never showed face which surprised me but didnt surprise her because she said, "I knew she wont come." Growing up, I remember when one of my neighbors gave birth to a baby boy, my parents stopped by, uninvited, to greet them and they were welcomed warmly and I remembered the nursing mother gave us treats, anyway, it was expected because their kids were my childhood friends. To a grown-up living in the compound, if you did not rejoice with your neighbor during such festivities, people would think you had a very wicked heart. Similarly, when my mum gave birth, the whole compound stopped by to help during her Christening/dedication ceremony. It was like a feast. My dad was touched and elaborated on the hands on deck displayed by the neighbors during the ceremony. I think this uncaring attitude displayed by today's neighbor is common only in big cities like Abuja and Lagos and its partly due to crime, insecurity and the high cost of living. At the same time, I am not excusing them. It's sign of the times.



hizzylife:
Minding one's business is nice but we're beginning to take it too far to an unhealthy level. I and my husband recently moved into this house of 6flats after we got married. Nobody welcomed us as new neighbours. I noticed the neighbours were cold and some will pass without even greeting. I continued greeting them warmly when I meet them.

Between now and then 2 neighbours have done baby dedication and another's daughter got married. The invitations were sent through the compounds WhatsApp group. We innocently attended all not knowing the invites were just for formality sake. We wondered why other neighbours didn't come.

I gave birth last year and till today none of my neighbours that we all live in the same house together has said "oh madam you don born?" "Congratulations " "thank God for safe delivery ". Even the women amongst them who are mothers too. Even the one's we attended their events.
I'm not even expecting them to come to my apartment bearing gifts for baby but at least an acknowledgement for such an event. They'll see me spreading baby clothes or carrying baby out and not even a simple gesture to acknowledge that your neighbour put to birth. Is this wokeness or what?

I was just thinking about this issue today and wondering how things have changed. My father had a house of 4flats and I remember how everyone were to each other. Brother's keep. The children played together and attended school together etc. Here Nobody relates with each other.

It's strange and disheartening truly.

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