Akuko!!!

Jasmine17:


Mommy mu.

Adim serious o. If only you know the amount of information we leave behind in our online activities.

All this "send me ielts material to xyz@gkl.com" call me on the number, pm me, etc.

Just use one of the email well and you will get even one's house address if you want.

Amen!.Thank you my dear.

MissEmmy:
Sir May God bless you. You completely spoke my mind. Why do some men feel the need to skip verse 21 of Eph 5 and jump to verse 22 as if 21 is not part of the scriptures, The hypocrisy of it all. I had to pause my reading and reply your post. Your wife is a lucky Lady, God continue to bless your marriage, Amen.

See my sister all these argument is just for talks. Bros did not like that babe finish. She did not fit into his ideal woman. All these ones were are stating here is gist. Most Naija men can relate with his dumping line. Once we want to ex a babe we feel we dont want to move forward with. We brand her disobedient and stubborn because there is nothing tangible we can hold her to. I can bet you that when @guitarlife meets a feminist that suits his ideal woman. We wont hear all these story. Loool!

Bsbabe:


"The rage"..."the temper"..."being irate"... "almost getting into a fight"... all these are from your perspective and is your side of the story though. And from the little we know of your expectations of women, even raising her voice a pitch higher may just be her showing enough disrespect to prove she can never be a 'submissive' wife.

And then I would ask, did you educate her that what she did was dangerous and why you had felt there was no need to get into a fight with the driver? If your sister had done it, would you have disowned her? No, you would have enlightened her because she is your sister and you love her and won't want her to do it again. Where was the love for your girlfriend here when your only reaction was to dump her because she simply didn't "fit the mould". That's the love Christ said husbands should have for their wives. In my opinion, you were looking for perfect submission where perfect love did not exist.

I really do wish you the best in finding what you seek but I believe you should take some time to think about what the married people here have told you and that is you will never find that perfectly submissive human being you seek as no human being (male or female) is wired to be an 'addendum' or a 'footnote'. You will have to sacrifice some of your firmly held beliefs for you to make that partnership work if you don't want it to end up being a failed project (and yes, I use the word partnership). My two cents.

No vex bros. But why did you omit that verse? Udo! May we all flourish in the new land.

DadR:
I didn't really intentionally omit verse 21 but since you have assumed so and tagged me an hypocrite, no froblem . As I mentioned earlier, I'm not in for any form of argument.

Peace!

Looool! I like your babe shaa! Well @guitar my man just let us drop this topic. You have dropped the Babe finito. You want to marry submissive wife. Bros you will see plenty of them. But what no one can guarantee is how submissive she will remain if she comes to this Cannyland. Look at the statistics from Salford. Nnaa you must leave your mind open at this point. Marriage get plenty hurdles. No story online can explain the loops. Whatever you want go for it. Shikena...[ Although I feel you got PR and exed the babe fast inorder to upgrade to better Canny quality! Looool! But I do not judge you my man at all. quote author=Guitarlife post=74053038]
While I respect your opinion , yet again I am stating that the bolded already addresses that area of your concern.

Have you thought that the man can ask the woman to take the key and drive ? But one person has to lead, even a pack of wolves is not led by 2 it never works.
This clearly shows my position , I wonder why people intentionally choose to twist my position.
The man is the head of the home but from this statement you'd see that the wife is welcome to take initiatives too. This concept is learned over a lifetime for many and at times never learned for some so I won't expect that it'd be so easy for you to comprehend if you haven't already.

I have decided not to comment on this again but you have forced me now, let me explain something. Now A man his wife and 2 kids, an armed robber comes into the house and their is gun that the family can use to defend themselves and a place to hide for 2 people .

Which 3 people do you think will hide ? The wife and the 2 kids
Which person do you think will carry the gun and face the robber ? The man, he will put his life down for his family.

Now we have a situation where some one must carry the pregnancy while someone must wait and pray eagerly for safe delivery , who does what here ? The wife carries the pregnancy (An heroic thing and grossly underrated feat in this part of the world)

Now from my analogies you will see that the man and the woman are not equal but rather unique in their differences. The inability of western countries to acknowledge this uniqueness and accomodate it is responsible for the dysfunctionality of marriages over there.
For all their education and exposure marriages hard last 2 years and this should tell you there is something wrong somewhere, I am not saying the African approach is entirely perfect but the foundation has to be well laid to prevent problems.

Lastly, I will tell you something that should drive this home, this happened with my former babe and this was one of the major pointers for me that made me run. We were both travelling - a public transport, so what happened the car broke down in the middle of the road and the driver needed to give us part of the money we paid so we can board another vehicle to our final destination.

So lets just say we paid 10 naira and the journey had only gone 50% so technically the man was supposed to give us 5 naira right ? Well I told my bae to wait for me in the car, I went to meet the driver and after some back and forth the driver gave me 3 naira, I protested but I didnt get ahead so I came back to her and told her I got 3 naira and altho it was not fair we could just overlook the 2 naira.

My bae became irate went to meet the driver and got into a fit or rage long story short she succesfully retrieved 2 naira and came back to me grinning from ear to ear with a sense of accomplishment visibly written on her face. That moment I knew I had made a mistake being with her.
Why ? (Please note I paid for the journey 100%).

1. The rage and anger displayed was something I had never seen in her, I could never have imagined she was capable of such.
2. The audacity to go and re-negotiate with the driver was not only insensitive to me but showed a lack of respect for my judgement.
3. The reason I choose to allow the driver get away with the 2 naira was because I felt this illiterate drivers sometimes could be violent and dangerous and there was not point risking my life over 2 naira - now her decision to proceed to wrestle for the rest of the money to me showed a lack of proper orientation in value system.

So I had to type this much to put some things in perspective for you, like I said earlier relationship issues are quite tricky and this event I narrated was only the last straw the broke the camels back as I had seen some traces of this kind of behaviour at some time earlier.


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Hehehehehehehehe! Typical Nigerian hypocrisy being displayed here. Why did you omit verse 21 of this your lengthy bible post. My people verse Ephesian 5:21 says "Submit to one another out of Reverence for Christ (The NIV bible titles from vs21 to end as (Instruction to Christian household). But the typical Nigerian guy will always ignore that verse 21. But its ok. My brother @guitarlife if you are going to stay in Canada you must revisit your mindset of submission although I have reasons to believe you didn't want to marry the lady in question. Your submission story is just a cover loool! We have all used it before and gone ahead to marry crazier women. My wife told me worse than this lady told you I still went ahead and married her because I was crazily in love with this crazy girl. Three years down the line. I have a woman who will transfer her whole salary to me if I am short of cash, do my laundry( I do not know how much washing a shirt cost, she washes and irons like a pro), send me to market with soup list,I have customers now..Lol! hand me okra to cut, taught me how to make spaghetti and plantain (infact she swears I fry plantain better than her so she has stopped frying plantain, I do that now..Loool!But all in all I have a woman who is willing to love me with her all, who is still not afraid to call me out whenever she feels I am wrong. If that is the partnership, my guy I will take it and to be sincere I am happy. I will not lie and say I wasnt scared prior marriage but I have learnt that all you need is a good woman. if the so called partnership is me taking part in house chores. It hasn't killed me yet. This our Canadian journey she gave it her all infact I just started participating. My opinion is let us all work with stuff that will work for us. Naija favors we men all the time but if you are planning to move here with your spouse my dear naija brothers readjust o. Bikokwa to avoid had I known. If you dont want to you can do like our Igbo brothers relocate alone and be sending money down but then there are still downsides to that..

DadR:
@guitarlife @azed1 @vcole @salford @panelofjudges @ouraudience

I'm not here to argue , this is just for the records and to provide some clarity regarding whatever position our debaters have taken.

Ephesians 5:22-33

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

1 Corinthians 11:3, 8-9

3. But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
8. For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.
9. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

Peace!

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joo2018:
cc: @Inloveforever

Please can someone answer this question.

ans123:
Guys how awesome is this news

Ifeoma77:

The work reference letter on its own is usually sufficient. But then, most of the interview requests by IRCC are related to employment and the need to convince the VO that you really are employed in that organisation and in that NOC.
Therefore, any additional information you can provide will help your case. Personally, I don't think ID cards are necessary but payslips? Yes! You might also consider adding your appointment/promotion letter, especially if it bears your job title in the relevant NOC.

IMHO

Thank you so much my sister for your response.

ijeaify:
Hello people please I sent a mail to Ralph and he confirmed my application was received at central intake office in Sydney on the 17th of Sept , I made a call to cic agent and was told my application is in Accra.

Accra? ! You need to be patient a bit. It will end in praise. But if I may ask Nne you don travel go Ghana before? Dont mind me I am trying to see if I can predict why people's application are moved to ACCRA.

Congratulations TEECAN. I remember this your moniker clearly in 2017 then I was a newbie on this site. Although a ghost reader. Chai! Congrats o. I am really happy for you. Congrats to all PPR and ITA clinchers. Please house I have a question for Employment records we uploaded Our work reference letter, payslip for 6 months, and official ID cards. Please is it too much information or should we just upload the Reference letter alone. N.B. The Reference Letter is in CIC format. But I had read somewhere that payslip and ID card were needed. I am just trying to be sure.

Congratulations to wizean and everyone who clinched the most coveted PPR and ITA. Our testimonies will keep flowing. Please my nairaland seniors I have a question, for the Application fee and RPRF. Which one is recommended paying the both together or paying the application fee and waiting for RPRF request?

Thanks a lot for the wealth of information. Raphrulz

raphrulz:
Funds in accounts of accompanying spouse (included in the application) can be used... as long as you obtain a consent letter that allows that. You didn't even have to stress yourselves transferring the money to your account. However, there are no issues as long as the source of funds can be proved if requested.

Per the 2nd question: The reference letter (showing average balance) from the bank in CIC format, is indeed the requirement for POF. No where on the platform stipulates that 6 months bank statement must be presented. However, people present it to avoid delays, ADRs or doubts about the POF documents presented. Its not really compulsory.

Thank you so much for your response

joo2018:
1. You can buy the Tbill.
2. 6 months SOA not mandatory. If you add it, you may add a letter of support/gift declaration from your spouse to reflect the money he/she transferred.

Congrats to all that got ITA. PPR, IELTS. May the news of joy continue to come in this forum.

Please I have two questions, my spouse transferred part of the proof of funds to my account. Now we want to fix this money in T-Bills. Will the fact that this money just came into my account pose a problem if I use it for T-Bills?

We intend to use 2 T-Bills certificate (if we include this new one) and a Letter from Co-operative as proof of funds and a letter from the Bank. Is there any need for the 6 months account statement since the Balance in this account will not be up to 100k after using the money to purchase Treasury Bills?