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Eneze1: not all girls are moved with money, it's just really sad to hear guys generalizing all girls as the same, personally I believe those girls that run after money na these "I never chop type" or those that don't have any future ambition other than relying on guys to give them money

Don't you love money?

Lie at your own peril.

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ighoosagie: 2face seems popular in Nija, can someone tell me wat he does

Are you a learner?

Ehn? 2baba? To inspire? Then youths will see impregnating as many women as you lile as normal.

luluosas: My dear, if you think that wearing the most expensive clothes is the best for you, go on using them but, what are your motives? Haven't you heard how people in trying to emulate people wearing expensive clothes ended up becoming liars, debtors, prostitutes, armed robbers etc in an attempt to buy the most expensive clothing materials.
What do you mean by 'worn out/unattractive clothes'? Are you now trying to say that until and unless you have the most expensive, latest designs, new fabrics etc you cannot worship or serve God perfectly? Keep on looking or finding people with rags in your churches and keep calling them whatever you like. One thing I do is that, I rather use that worn out clothes I have than borrow money to buy the most expensive clothes that reveals all my inner contours.
My dear, make no mistake, as you actually don't no that God is both interested in your inward and outward look. How can you be hiding under this corner that God look at the inside, whereas, your outside is nothing to write home about? Maybe you have forgotten the bible in Matthew 7:20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them. How do you know a good and and bad fruit? God bless you.

Bro, you can only speak for yourself. The same church members who criticize good (not provocative) dressing just because they can't afford it are the same ones who'll mock someone who wears an unattractive cloth, that's why i was asking. Looking good is not bad, but today's religious people make it look as if you're the worst person in the world just because they can't afford it. You'd rather wear rags, for real?

50calibre: When a man marries a woman, she becomes his property. He owns her completely and gets to decides what happens in the marriage.

You are violating the sanctity of marriage by try to rub shoulders with your husband. You have to understand that a woman isn't equal to a man.

Go and read the bible, you would understand better. Pray to God to change his ways, worship him as next to God and he would change. If he doesn't then accept your fate and carry your cross gracefully.

Ah ah...did we not read the same story? So the man has every right to cheat, huh? Your comment is harsh, one sided and very unfair to the lady. Her actions aren't justifiable religious wise, but they're even according to the law. She might not be as religious as you are. Best solution is clearly to end the marriage cos it's clearly not working.

Nashville: Na wah o. So, if a man cheats on his wife with the maid, it is now his wife's fault. I am man by the way. I cannot even imagine myself at my level sleeping with a maid, someone that is also probably sleeping with the driver, gateman and the cook or with some AIDS infected guy somewhere. And people are saying it is the wife's fault!

There is no excuse for cheating. Cheating is a choice and you should never blame your spouse for it. No one can push you to cheat, you cheat because you want to and it is only your fault. A man that wants to cheat will always find a good excuse to cheat, because his wife can never be perfect so he will always find an excuse. Cheating never solves any marital problem. It is a cowardly act of selfish and lazy fools!

Marriage is for better for worse, ok, there will be better days and there will be worse days. If you wife isn't doing the things she is supposed to do, why not talk to her. If her bo*obs are no longer pointed and it means the whole world to you, why not think of silicon.

If you claim she has body odour, why not buy her the perfume, abi no be your wife again? You and your wife are one, her problem is yours and her appearance is a reflection of you. If she doesnt welcome you with love, talk to her about it. I dont think sleeping with the maid will solve any problem.

As i said, cheating isn't justifiable. I never said it's the wife's fault as infidelity happens both ways. Moreso, anyone who cheats is at risk of infection, so it doesn't matter who the maid is also sleeping if a husband cheats on his wife with her. You've made good points but do you actually expect a silicon to give that satisfaction that a bosom gives, for real? If the husband does all these things you mentioned and the wife takes it the wrong way, or quote for me the exact words to tell a spouse about sexual satisfaction, saggy bosoms, body odour etc. Human beings differ and are imperfect. You can only speak for yourself.

[quote author=Sky-walker]lol.i get your point but like i said, its like taking advantage of the maid. Someone that calls u sir sir and you decide to sleep with the person. its does not sit right with me.[/quote]Of course it's wrong, but he's human. People should know it's on both sides, not just the husbands. As i said, it's not justifiable but 'sir' is just a title and sign of respect, nothing more.

[quote author=Sky-walker]still not an excuse to sleep with the maid. He can go outside and do it but definately not with maid. Its really creeping. Its like taking advantage of the maid[/quote]Oh really? Sounds almost plausible. So he can do it outside with someone else but not with the maid, huh? What's the difference, isn't he still cheating? Whether he cheats with a maid or a beauty queen, they both have pùssý. As a matter of fact, the maid's own might even be sweeter.

@ topic;
Cheating isn't justifiable quite all right but the spouse being cheated on should make sure their inexcusable, cos some have issues like home management, personal hygiene et all. Imagine someone with body odour whose spouse finds it difficult to tell him/her just to avoid quarrels, they become less attractive to their spouses cos of this, so if they find comfort in a hygienic maid, they'll justify their actions.

luluosas: You are getting me wrong my friend. I am not here speaking about expensive clothing materials but, dressing indecently. What image are you desiring from me, when you have all these things around you?
Indecent dressing is made up from the intent of the people putting it on. Sagging, mini skirts, handless clothing etc are some of the materials people use to dress indecently (going for the kill).
Now, what will you say of lady, who says she is born again and goes to church, revealing all her inner gestures? Or, a brother who sags his trousers to church? Are these 'decency' in your own terms?

My point exactly. What you consider as indecency in your 'born again' lady illustration might not be as bad as you're painting it. A church is a holy place, right? So, if the bosom-exposing & trouser-sagging sister & brother respectively goes to church with their indecent looks, i think the church is at liberty to deny them entry or allow them with the intention of changing their dress sense. You brushed off the expensive clothes comments i made as though it's irrelevant. I ask again, what will you as a christian brother do if you sight a church member dressed in worn out/unattractive clothes?

Bear in mind, God looks on the inside.

luluosas: My dear, not in the Christendom. The bible principles applied to every believers in Christ, no matter the philosophy you are being taught by your pastors.
Look, even though these people dressing immodest and indecent in our midst today have read in Hebrews 12:14 Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord:, they still choose their own lifestyle to live. Even if you preach and preach to them, they will not listen because, they've made up their mind and whatever you are telling them as far as they are concern is immaterial. In fact, they will even dare to ask you: Are you my God?

You're probably getting a wrong picture of what 'decent dressing' is. What exactly is your definition of 'looking good'? If you feel and look good in what you wear, not in anyway exposing sensitive parts of your body, I don't see any wrong in that. Most MOG's and clerics wear quality and expensive cloths because religion is not an excuse for not looking good. I bet you if a man goes to church wearing an old/worn-out cloth. The same church members that criticuse bad dressing will do same to him. Or doesn't God not focus on the inside anymore? If you can use an image in defining what you see as decent, I'd appreciate.

luluosas: My dear, if have by chance ask an indecent dressed around you before, you will be shock to hear them telling you that, you are judging them. Therefore, let everyone uses whatever they think is good for them but, a true Christian is not suppose to be caught in the Webb of indecent dressing. Thank you.

Isn't it your duty as a Christian to lead people going astray on the right path? Haven't you thought that what you considered 'indecent' might be 'decent' to others. At least one man's poison is another man's meat.

luluosas: GBAM!
When there's no difference between a supposed Christian dressing from a full time prostitutes, it leaves more questions than answers about your professed Christian faith. If you are a Christian, please dress Christianly and if you are not, you are very FREE to wear anything you like, even to the church and I know that, if you visit a true bible church in that harlots clothing, you will become a saint before you live such church.

Now this is one selfish post. You can wear whatever you feel like as long as you're not a christian, right? Thank God life's not about your policy.

Joavid: yea thats the topic but read the content.

So, according to you, people from other religion can rot in hell for all you care?

Kamsy10: At bolded. The op is talking about Christians abeg. Every religion should have their dressing habit. For instance Muslim ladies don't expose their bweasts all over the place but you can tell that a lady is a Christian by her exposed bossoms.
Pators, una do well o

The topic says: Clothing And The Believer In A 'Modern World

So, where in the topic did the OP mention christians?

WTH!!

No link?

Hopefully, with this picture, garri go cheap wella...

So should we go & rob a bank because of this news?? Ah!


Why seun no do unlike/hate button for Nairaland sef? Mtcheww.

Daz all

ijawkid: HÀhahahahahÀha.............

Run o before somebody reach ya house now now....

Shuu! Why him go run? Dem no dey hold person unto say he no believe nah. Na to dey abuse him papa mate dem no like.
#daz all.

Image123: Christian: why are atheists forever fixated on the Christian God?

atheist: uncle moderator come and save me for i have no answers but questions.

i keep wondering why it's like that too, & i guess it's because serving him didn't work for them. They're always quoting bibles & displaying images of jesus. I thought it was atheism, not anti-christianity.


#expects post to be hidden.

¤ Stole meat from pot, & when i was caught by mum, i felt so embarrassed (prayed for the ground to open up & swallow me)

¤ Was smooching a girl under our staircase & when my sister caught us, we changed it to hide & seek

¤ Used to sneek a peek of ladies in bathroom when grandma asks me to go call her tenants (students).

¤ My sisters & i steal drinks from grandma's shop @ night (biggest sis take 1 & immediate older sis & i shared 1)

¤ Buys goody-goody for any girl i have a crush on in primary school.

¤ Press the cover of a soft drink, put it in the bottle, & wait till 9pm to see if it'll turn to a cockroach.

¤ Always prays to God for nepa to restore electricity when it goes off (& the tin work one day like dat oh )

manmustwac: why derail the topic?

i didn't derail, just giving my opinion. @ least there was no atheist-abuse in my post. Lets see how many posts you'll hide if it hits frontpage.

@ mod. Why hide my post?

wiegraf: I have a friend who slept 'behind counter' at a police station for allegedly stealing a pipi. Remarkably (or not), despite falling prey to the effects of this sort of inanity this very same (university trained) guy would later argue with me about the thief that turned to a goat claim that was on nta.

it's strange though. Isn't literacy & maturity supposed to overshadow myths?