₦airaland Forum

Grade1 USA used Intel corei5
Brand name : HP
Model : Folio 9470m
HDD : 500gb
Ram : 8gb
Keyboard light
2.40ghz Processor speed
Screen size : 14.1inch
Memory card slots : MMC. MS. MS pro. SD 3 USB Port
Bluetooth yes
HD Webcam yes
Wireless network WiFi : yes
Bluetooth yes
Battery backup : 4hrs
Microsoft package : windows 10 installed
Body look : as clean as new
Condition : working perfectly, great battery

Price is 105k

Free original charger
Warranty on all our laptops
Free delivery within Lagos only and it's pay on delivery

Brand Name: HP
Model: Probook 640 G1
Processor: Intel Core i5-4200m (2.5Ghz/3.1Ghz)
GPU: Intel HD Graphics 4600
HDD: 500GB
RAM: 8GB
Screen size: 14 inches HD display
Ports: 3 USB 3.0 Display port VGA 3 in 1 card reader Docking station DVD rom
Audio jack Security slot
Wireless Wi-Fi: Yes
Webcam: Yes Hd
Bluetooth: Yes
Battery Life: 4 hours
Os: Windows 10 64bits
Condition: Very Clean, working perfectly.

Price is 87k

Package comes with an original charger
3 months Warranty on all laptops
Payment on delivery within Lagos( free delivery)
Pick up Locations Nationwide

onyegwu:
Men have been spending everything they have for women right from time immemorial even the one you call broke also has something he has offer at a point. The men know longer want to be those things or if I would say fools anymore. But all you do now is turn around and call them broke are you not also guilty of the shaming and calling of names that you frown against? Stop waiting for who will spend on u. You have brain, hand and leg. Blood is flowing through ur body so work and earn your dignity. The men are human beings like you who have to navigate through a lot so leave them and face ur self. You can go on a voyage for the kind of men you want is your choice and no one cares.

People like them keep claiming there's a glass ceiling. Yet we see great women leading the startup stats in Lagos, West Africa, Germany, etc. And 90% of them have good homes and are in healthy relationships.
It's amazing someone would just pop out advocating for some people to be spending on you. Only God rains on the good and the wicked. If you're parasitic, you deserved to be purged out!

Eyeness:
spend and invest. All euphemisms for the same term, putting money and resources where you see value. I just used the simpler word out of the two. I am not after political correctness.


I am not surprised by your response either, resorting to cheap blackmail and shaming telling ladies " you'll end up single at 30" "you'll end up a single mother" is no longer effective.

My threads give ladies the hard facts and the skills they need if they want to navigate the dating and relationship waters and come out with the best of both worlds.

Who says the ladies I speak to do not have a plan? Or are not virtuous? Women add value to men by simply being in their lives because they are multipliers. If the women you come across are giving you crap, it is most likely because crap is all you have to offer in the first place.

We don't want men who are all talk and no action, who can easily promise love but can't invest/spend on our business or our futures.

Women are not the liability, broke men are.


I encourage you to keep filtering leeches, since you were already anaemic to begin with.


Isn't it funny how the men that have come to this thread all make claims of having cash??

To effectively deny your dumbness and allergy to creative reasoning, tag where I mentioned "single at 30". You don't have to add to or twist words to remain relevant. Keep looking for followers with nothing exemplary about you.

By the way, I can't remember quoting an attention seeker. I have quoted you to give you your deserved reply. Don't quote me again. I don't have time for people like you. Replying at 10:52 is cutting from my movie time. Peace out!

jimyjames:
When I say 50/50 I'm not talking to only women a man who adds no value to a woman's life than sex should be dumped same goes for a woman


Love is a union between two people who equally love each other and want the best for each other, the two are each others strength , where the man is weak the woman might be strong in that area to help , where the woman is weak the man might be strong that area to help , we Africans don't understand love and we got it all wrong right from our ancestors

Bro, I think I and you are both wrong for visiting this thread. I think the topic depicts that's for ladies only.
However, I think you and I were curious. So we visited.
I wasn't disappointed to see what I saw. Op was constantly using the word "spend." The word "invest" never occurred to her.
Who wants to harbour unproductive liability in a human vessel?
Someone with a creative mind would not have to ask before you invest in her ideas. If you spend on her, it should be by choice not the usual send me this and that.

If you want someone spending on you, he'll be spending on others as well, and wouldn't worry about how you feel when he does what he does to what he buys, not what he invests in. Some ladies no this. So they stun you by rejecting some of these things. Otherwise, in the end you'll end up a single mother.

You should know bro, the right woman that understands your ideology would come your way. Not the typical Nigerian lady that turns a billionaire to a millionaire.

Some Nigerian ladies are actually the best. They make you feel like they have a plan. How they even go as far as going against your business competitors, ask you how something even you have forgotten about played out. How they just blend with your life and make you even want to grow better.

The onos is on us to keep filtering through and avoiding leeches. A virtuous woman is hard to find. But when you do, you should know God has favoured you, and invest in her, pet her, and be faithful.

Even aside male rape, there's no justice when there's false accusation. When you just get a call that you were watching her in the bathroom while you were washing your car (just because you don't usually greet her at all).

There's no equality. They expect you to feel happy because they touched your prick.

It has been since the time of Joseph. It is now (Johnny Depp and co can testify), and it would still be. Because our society is full of simp in the high places.

However, men that actually rape should never go unpunished as well.

Grade1 USA used AMD dual core
Brand name : HP
Model : 215
HDD : 320gb
Ram : 4gbram
Screen size : 11inch
Memory card slots : MMC. MS. MS pro. SD 3 USB Port hdmi
Bluetooth yes
HD Webcam yes
Wireless network WiFi : yes
Bluetooth yes
Battery backup : 4hrs
Microsoft package : windows 10 installed
Body look : as clean as new
Condition : working perfectly, great battery

Price is 55k

Free original charger
Warranty on all our laptops
Free delivery within Lagos only and it's pay on delivery

Dicktion:
A dedicated skull miner would rather not mine for the rest of eternity than decline a bread and beans meal... For that's the only reason why he mines.
True talk If you doubt me ask ijebu

Your tribalistic foolishness is undefined. Continue reasoning like this. You're most likely not going to see the best in people and in yourself till you pass...

Stephenomozzy:
This applies to both sexes; just read how i'm gonna use your own words in favour of men and you will still agree to it.


The very minute a guy agrees to date a girl, she switches from the appeasing mode to an entitlement mode of exclusivity, believing he belongs to her now. Issues such as trust and unrest and just like I said in my last thread selfish billings, violence and emotional blackmail becomes the order of the day.

A gentleman can make himself avail to any girl who is interested in him. But not leaving them with any sense of entitlement that will give no chance nor reasons on issues such as TRUST or SEX...

She cant ask for sex, money to solve all her immaterial lusts that she can't afford because she knows she doesn't have the password in the name of a relationship. If sex, money and marriage is what she is looking for she is going to hang around for a while hoping that her luck will shine... so she keeps coming and keeps trying to impress.

A man who knows his onions should know how to use his magic wand (lol...dik?) v ictoriously to cast his bait of bliss.

Seconded

YorubaMod:
You mean the "Agbo-Jedi Sellers"

It's better than the cocaine your brothers push!

lapazi:
Save pple the stress
Always put the price
How much?

.
Noted. Would do from th next post...

How many gig?

Grade1 USA used Intel corei5
Brand name : HP
Model : Elitebook 840
HDD : 500gb
Ram : 8gb
Finger print
4th gen
2.40ghz Processor speed
Screen size : 14.1inch
Memory card slots : MMC. MS. MS pro. SD 3 USB Port
Bluetooth yes
HD Webcam yes
Wireless network WiFi : yes
Bluetooth yes
Battery backup : 5hrs plus
Microsoft package : windows 10 installed
Body look : as clean as new
Condition : working perfectly, great battery

Free original charger
Warranty on all our laptops
Free delivery within Lagos only and it's pay on delivery

TheAfricaQueen:
I know many men will get Triggered by this topic but it's the truth, bulging pockets hastens and progresses the romance whilst empty pockets slows down and derails the romance.

Some of these broke pretty young men look great, have decent bodies and perhaps are packing down below with enough to blow a woman's back. He may even use sweet words but if you have nothing in your pockets the romance venture you are pursuing will amount to nothing because nothing from nothing leaves nothing.

This is why decrepit Politicians or older men who are 2 breathes away from kicking the bucket are stealing these young girls away from you, the unlimited finance quickly eradicates the fact that these old men have faces only their mothers would love and have bellies that would make a 9 month pregnant woman look like she has a toned six-pack belly.

So in these hard times pretty men when you send that free WhatsApp message with your last 2mbs at 2am saying "what's up babe" the woman is suppressing the need to say "Nothing is going on but the rent/bills that has to be paid. However she will play nice and answer with one word "Nthin".

Why is this targeted to the male gender only?

Everyone should only have people who would add to them or multiply them.

If a girl is smart, loyal and family oriented, a man would gladly spend on her. One thing God has put in a woman (Nigerian women leaching crew excluded) is the capacity to multiply what you give them. Give them money, they'll help you think of how to make and save more. Give them peace, they'll produce a peaceful family. Input sperm in her, she'll produce children.

Give your man (not players or gangsters) your time, they'll help you build a life with children and great grandchildren to comfort you. Give your man great ideas and comfort where necessary, he'll bring you wealth, become more successful and you'd be called the woman behind his success; his first lady.

But the reverse is the case here. Nigerian women go after chiefs, married man etc. which would give them all they ask, and wait for about three years or earlier to use them for rituals. You think those people are just benevolent? Some of their wives are no longer flexible. So they'll use you for the time being. However, 10% of them can actually make a woman rich without issues. Even though she'll still struggle to have a stable marriage.

The gangster or playboy would make you a single mother.

The playboys too keep counting numbers if their victims until they find it hard to ever love again except of something special happens. And sometimes their daughters would experience what they did to others as well.

No matter what, don't ever be broke. A single day of peaceful wealth is sweeter than 10years of struggle. The key is to choose the right calibre of people to roll with. Not the send me data gang. Or come to my house for our first date.

Cheers.

sexylassie2:
I hate men that nags.

These nagging boys or men are the broke and jobless ones.

Stop showing your frustration on Nairaland.

Who is this lady? I noticed she calls almost anyone that contradicts her opinion, "a broke man."

What point are you trying to make exactly? Usually, people like you don't get my attention.

However, I'm curious to know if you're so much in a financial struggle that has really conditioned your thinking faculty, and inadvertently made you allergic to making assertions with sense.

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

Simp. The Bible says to be as harmless as a dove and as cunny as a serpent.

No offence intended. Good luck to your marriage to her. Hopefully her kids would also be yours...

How much did you spend for your parents? Your siblings? Relatives? Orphanages?

You know what? You would probably repeat this again.

Now, go and study Ubunja's miseducations, dating drills, some writings of Great Researcher, all on nairaland, and the rules of wealth by Richard Templar, the rules of love by the same author, and study about the purpose of being a man.

You're meant to lead. Learn to abstain. Anything sex should rather be spontaneous for you (when you're happily married is even better).

No woman would ever have control over you if you have control over your prick! If you have money with confidence, vision and high calibre of people in your life.

Get busy being successful and tell yourself the class of women you want in your life.

When you have purged your low self esteem, seeked knowledge, applied knowledge that subsumes feeling, you'd be a real man. A real man chooses who should get access to what he has. He leads his family to success. Not by being harsh, but by leading with exemplary virtues.

You particularly might not put this to work. I hope someone else would make a success out of it.

Ominie:
Is this still available?

Yes please.

912:
Your wife is cheating on you no doubt.

First, use her phone to chat with the guy and make him say something that you can use as evidence then send it to your phone.

Second, carry your child to one of your family members before showing your wife the messages.

Third, do not listen to any begging or explanation, just tell her to go and be with her lover full time. Tell her that now she won't need to delete messages anymore since she will be living with him.

A cheating girlfriend is manageable, but a cheating wife and mother cannot be excused

Number 2 is vital. I hope it's court wedding.

Redmi available.

Grade1 USA used Intel corei7
Brand name : HP
Model : pavilion DV6
HDD : 500gb (upgradeable)
Ram : 8gb
2gb dedicated Radeon graphic
2.6ghz processor speed
Screen size : 15.6inch
Memory card slots : MMC. MS. MS pro. SD 4 USB Port
DVD RW CD ROM hdmi
HD Webcam yes
Wireless network WiFi : yes
Battery backup : 4hrs
Microsoft package : windows 10 installed
Body look : as clean as new
Condition : working perfectly, great battery



Free original charger
Warranty on all our laptops
Free delivery within Lagos only and it's pay on delivery

tohby2:
ur number is not dere tho

Check now

Isiboy:
How much?

Please check my signature. I don't know if numbers are allowed on this section though. It says technology market...

For all your inquiries, contact me on whats app
On my signature

seunmsg:
Reno is right on this one. However, Africans are not the only ones insulting Bill Gates, lots of Americans are also insulting him. Considering that Africa needs his support more than other continents, I agree we shuold stop crusifying a friend. Bill Gates has done nothing wrong.

We are dealing with a crazy pandemic that has seriously disrupted people’s livelihoods and way of living. So, it’s not out of place for people to come up with crazy conspiracy theories at this point in time. Pastors like Suleiman (Reno’s friend) have also been spreading similar theories so lots of people are just confused.

Once the virus is defeated, people will come back to their senses. Rabble rousers like FFK, Suleman and Oyakhilome will move on to the next conspiracy theory.

Tell me the conspiracy theories these three people you cited once had. Your failure to name one or two conformed conspiracy theories they all propagated before now proves that you're more an idi*it than an objective numb.

Favour3250:
How much do they go for?

Check my reply please.

Please contact me on whatsapp via my signature.
64g is 140k.
It depends on the gig you want.

Grade1 USA used intel corei5
Brand name : HP
Model : Pavilion Dm4
HDD : 500gb
Ram : 4gb
Screen size : 14.1inch
Memory card slots : MMC. MS. MS pro. SD 4 USB Port VGA
DVD RW CD ROM hdmi
Webcam yes
Wireless network WiFi : yes
Battery backup : 4hrs
Microsoft package : windows 10 installed
Body look : as clean as new
Condition : working perfectly, great battery

Comes with original charger
Warranty
Free delivery and payment on delivery within Lagos

UK used iPhone 8 plus

64g and 128g

Black, grey and red available.

Lostz:
who said there was no trade around the whole world?

Acts 8:26-40 New International Version (NIV)
Philip and the Ethiopian
Now an angel of the Lord said to Philip, “Go south to the road—the desert road—that goes down from Jerusalem to Gaza.”
So he started out, and on his way he met an Ethiopian eunuch, an important official in charge of all the treasury of the Kandake (which means “queen of the Ethiopians”). This man had gone to Jerusalem to worship, and on his way home was sitting in his chariot reading the Book of Isaiah the prophet. The Spirit told Philip, “Go to that chariot and stay near it.”
Then Philip ran up to the chariot and heard the man reading Isaiah the prophet. “Do you understand what you are reading?” Philip asked.
“How can I,” he said, “unless someone explains it to me?” So he invited Philip to come up and sit with him.
This is the passage of Scripture the eunuch was reading:


or is Ethiopia not in Africa?

Jesus also repeated same command to preach to all the nations after his resurrection so he could not be talking about his death

Abi o. I wonder where he got his own assertion from.

For me, I don't see it as a wrong thing if your girl makes you aware that she's sex starved. Some would keep quite and/or be getting it elsewhere. Although, perfection ought to be that both of you start after marriage. But since this is the case, it's not a big deal.

The big deal is that, according to you, she lies and gets angry easily. Those two, I don't see how you can change without her conscious involvement.

The sex drive might reduce or even go... I don't want to talk about how to make that happen. Butt the other two is a turn off.

Maybe you should tell her you'd quit if she keeps that anger and lies. Some people adjust for love. If she continues, save your self from a forseeable future fiasco.

walex2:
so if you can afford it, what if he cant afford the 600k plus of doing DNA? you gather all the evidence and the profile of the man that she is going out with to her family members and you insist the next time she is caught, that would be the end of the marriage, so if all these doesnt instill fear in her and still go ahead dating the man, then you can call off the marriage, if truly you are the father of the child, she will confess it later on

The next time she is caught? Sir, if this were to be you, is this what you would have done?

ladkud:
Please your advice is needed on the issue of my wife whom I got married to December last year, I discovered she is in love with another married man and having intimate affair with him. Now she told me she is pregnant now and am doubting that am the father of that child. please dear nairalanders your advice is needed, this lady is the person I spent a lot of resources on that even want to lead me to broke.

Oh my God! Five months old marriage. No offence. But this is your fault. You have laid your own bed and now have to lie on it.

How did you lay your bed?

1. You spent a lot of resources, not calculated resources on an entity you do not or cannot own (as every human being has a free will as compared to tangible assets).

2. You ignored warning signals. This is common with simps (I'm not implying that you are a simp). Deep down you had the hounch that she loves someone else. Except if she just developed the love as you described, which is very rare of a newly wedded bride. You must have thought that you could change her.

3. You must have seen things not adding up in her statements, calls, chats, push, etc. Except if you were a cheat yourself.

4. You never read about things to know before getting married especially to a contemporary Nigerain woman (no offence to them as this refers to their ideologies). Maybe you're the type that sees threads like redpills, ubunja miseducations, Dating drills, reading of books like men are from Mars women from Venus, the perfect match, etc as a waste of time because you think you should only focus on your career forgetting that you need to get acquainted with rules of love, rules of parenting, courtship journey, etc.

How to lie on it:

1. Luckily for you, you're not in a country you'll need her permission to conduct a DNA test. You have to do that test. You can't rely on her words.

2. I wanted to ask how you knew she was cheating. But you know that yourself. Make sure she feels comfortable. Show her more love (which shouldn't be difficult since you bought your way through). You need to keep seeing her as your bride.

3. After the result of the DNA which means you might have to live with her for about a year, be composed. If the child is yours good. Then decide whether to keep them both or separate on cordial terms. If the child is not yours, life just taught you another lesson. You might decide to divorce. (I guess a man like you wouldn't even have prenuptial agreements before.) The DNA would be enough proof.

If you choose to keep living with her, you might live for another 5years more or less.

Inevitably, your life can never remain the same if the child turns out not to be yours. You would have to ignore the "what would people say syndrome" and put her away quickly. And if the child I yours, you become a single father.

I don't usually type this long. I just feel pained for this kind of ditch you have found yourself just 5months in your marriage.

Note, my suggestions and assertions might not be the best way out. But you're surely in a big mess and you have to fill this grave you dug with sand and not your own body (your future).