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Nnamdi Kanu finally breaks silence ovwr his death.
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geequ:
How much?

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Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

If she's aware you're about getting the list from her kinsmen and she's not wearing the ring, you really have an issue.

I think you're the one carrying the relationship though.

Does your company allow married couples? Have you guys discussed who's leaving the company if otherwise? Op, are you the one carrying the finances?

They all keep saying you should complain as her husband. It's better to complain as a fiancee than as a husband.

I think you need to improve your personal worth though. Because I don't see how a ring becomes spiritual except if she's referring to Spirit husband.

Never overlook warning signals before you climb the altar! A man that wants to build a house must sit down and think.

Well, I wish you and her success...

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mrbenjame:
This is a direct question. What will you do when your spouse starves you in all aspects for months for no tangible reason? Even when you try to think if you offended her in anyway to deserve such treatment.

By starving emotionally I mean something of this nature:

-Like she no longer gives you the attention you used to have
-she doesn’t allow you touch her
-She doesn’t like going out with you, she keeps her matters private
-she spends more time with work or kids, only greets you in the morning and at night
-She doesn’t ask you about your day at work
-She doesn’t allow you touch her phone
-She doesn’t like seeing you smile with another woman.

I’m this type of marriage, if you’re in such shoe, what will you do as the man?

Your sincere opinion. No matter your opinions No shades please.

If a woman can do this in marriage. For a man, what's the essence of marriage?

After Jesus said it is finished, Apostle Paul was the next to confess that he has finished.

Singleness really pays. With wisdom you can have what married people have. However, I God favours you, you could marry the right person.
Otherwise, marriage is for simps.

Tonyclems:
To God be the glory, great things he has done.
After so many cancellations of date, I finally said yes I do to my beautiful wife on the 23rd of may 2020.

Lala beg help ur boy push am to promise land.

Congratulations. God bless your union.

luvyaself95:
You're 31 and still behaving like a kid you better follow naija246 advice and understand the world of women and their manipulation.
You this simp and upcoming cuckold.

You're too frank jo. Lol.

She needs to manipulate him a bit more before he would decide to learn girls antics.

If you'd ever be in a relationship. Be the ith someone that would add values to your life and help you multiply your value.

All I read o far shows that he has been the one carrying the relationship. No plan, no real futuristic contribution from the girl.

At this age bro, your standard should be really high. To the extent that a lady would guard her territories for you. This is done instinctively. Not because you had to complain.

I could be wrong. But I sense a little bit of low self esteem. Grow your status and ensure that you only engage in a mutually productive relationship.

GRACEGLORY:
That doesn't render the reported cases a scam, there are other isolation centres in Kano. More so, this could have been made up. Kano opened 5 new isolation centres for Covid-19 as at MAY 1st. Ask him to show us the rest:

The five facilities: the Abubakar Imam Urology Hospital, Murtala Muhammed Library Complex, Hospitality and Tourism Institute, Kano State Sports Institute at Karfi village, & the Nigerian Air Force Hospital in Kano.

These, supports the 3 existing ones, at the Muhammadu Buhari Specialist Hospital, Kwanar Dawaki Hospital, and Sani Abacha Stadium.

So, since Sani Abacha Stadium is empty, show us others.

Whoever thinks Covid19 is a scam should take for granted the precautions, and get infected to confirm for us.

Sir, you missed the point. Check the tweet again.

The man was reporting about a particular Center which was claimed to have 600-800 patients. He wasn't debunking all centers but a very specific one.

I hope you get it now sir?

We can only debunk his claims if the surrounding environment looks different from that particular Center.

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

I recommend that you postpone the wedding. And make her aware that you need her to handle her mood swing. Then the marriage can hold by December.

Although, I sense you're the needy one. She might not care. You might be scared of losing her.
You can tell families you extended it because of the current situation in the country.
Don't be scared of losing her (even though it's a proof of love). Another proof of love is her improving for your sake. She can't bare to lose you because she would be tagged in the society as well. Either that pressure or her love for you would persuade her.

Your home should be a peaceful abode. Not the one you'd be calling to know her mood to decide whether you would intentionally go through a busy traffic route when going home from work.

Naija246:
Women are economically better to rent than buy.
Don't marry that lady.
Don't say I didn't warn you

Succinct

Agbagbaregoo:
I just met this lady and everything seems to be clicking. she just started a business after I gingered her and I had to patronize her. in the course I transferred some money to her to patronize her far more money than she was selling the Stuff so as to encourage her. The bank debited me and I told her I sent it.

Throughout that day she claimed not to have gotten the money. Then throughout the next day same story so the third day I went to the bank to receive the statement of account. lo and behold her name was boldly written and the bank people told me she has gotten it. I got very angry and sent it to her but I didn't tell her anything I just ignored her call.

A policeman asked for her number at the bank that he will question her. throughout these period I ignored her and I was just imagining how a beautiful light skin tender looking babe will behave like this. Then lo and behold today the bank reversed the money. I can't explain the feeling of disappointment.

Now she said she doesn't want to have anything to do with me again that she doesn't want wahala for her life. She finally picked after many trials of calling and she insisted on me leaving her life.she even said she's not doing business again. I don't know what to do.

Wow. I think this is the new thing they do. I had a similar experience. However, the money was for logistics. Then she started ignoring my replies. My client was waiting with nothing to show.
She then uploaded how she was dancing on her status. A lady I literally have nothing personal with. For everything, they'll ask for tfare, this and that. Usually, I pay once things are delivered. I decided to be gentle once in a long time and I learned.

She wouldn't pick, reply, etc. I then went and followed all her family members online.
I sent her a message asking her if she thinks she as successfully scammed me. Then she replied with "as in."

It has even become difficult to transact common business with typical Nigerian girls anymore. Even when you have nothing personal going on with them.

But op, if you have personal interest in someone, I don't think you should buy their interest with money. I'm glad you got your money sha. That's discipline. Their kind would come and start calling you broke because you retrieved your money.

Please tell me the process... And how long it took.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Your reply reeks of insecurity. See, no matter how many threads you people create from dawn till dusk, there shall always be "arselickers" . Stop fighting for what will and always be.

I have the right to quote you because the thread clearly stated " for men."

What are you doing here?

Pack and go immediately!!!

Premiumwriter:
This topic has been on my mind for a long time but I really haven't found a better time to write than today.

I have always been puzzled why girls act the way they do. You know the snubbing, the seemingly high self-esteem and the almost queen-like behavior. It was really frustrating to me and I hate seeing men begging for love and some pussies.

So, early this year I created a female account to run a few tests and my results were mind numbing. I wouldn't say I was surprise because I already have an idea of what to expect but really seeing the result was something else.

I'll first explore a little of my finding.

As a guy, i rarely get pm request from other guys or ladies. Maybe once in a while when i offer to post a freebie or talk about helping someone to do something to make money online, then I may recieve just one or two pm from other people.

On my lady's account however, the reverse was the case. A lot of dudes here kept sending me request to the point i had to schedule my replies to these PMs.

Now just so you know, my reply most times is only a hello to the pm to get an idea of what these people actually want because a Pm may just be a Pm or may actually mean something else.

After the first hello response, a lot of guys start praising how beautiful I am and then proceed to say they like men and would like us to be friends and then request for my whatsapp number.

the second group are those that will say, i seem like a very intelligent lady or that they like the way i comment and would like to get my number so that they can know me more. of course any sensible person here will know that their dicks were amazed and not their brains.

now after they say want to get on with me, I normally respond that i cant give out my number to strangers and most times they will not respond to the message. A few will respond and say that they will really like to know me and try to convince me to hand out my phone number because according to them, "how can we get to know each other more if we don't connect on the phone?" this is where i normally cut off my interactions as there's really nothing more interesting to say.

I n anyway, out of the hundreds - yes you read that well, out of the hundreds of PMs i received, Only one impressed me and actually had a meaningful line of approach. I responded and we actually hit a dead end again after he requested for my phone number.

Here is the bottomline: This ladies are bombarded with average of about 5 PMs per day and more than 35 PMs in a week. If they dont respond to yours, dont take it to heart, nobody is paying them anything to respond to emails. talkmore of responding to 35 new emails per week and then type new response to the previous week's 35 who are waiting for her response.

so dont take it to your heart if the ladies dont resply your PM.

secondly, as a guy, know your worth. I always see Milleniumlady signature saying every dude on NL wants to wife her and then i loomk at myself and say why but now i know why. the below is coming from a lady who has not contributed meaningfully to any guys life here. again, nigga know your self worth
www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602799_screenshot202005251833172_png9005f19ba87aa4a96d192b1bd199bfc7

and this trash below is also coming from a girl who has not contributed to her family not to talk of the world in any meaningful way:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11602802_screenshot202005251834172_png8a2380b4862be724af2202c60bb343bf

Dudes are giving these girls attentions back-to-back and this only comes back to haunt them. I mean, imagine what 35 new emails from different ladies complimenting you about your handsomeness can do to your self-esteem in real life. It will give you that king feeling and make you feel like you are the new god and you'll end up seeing any new comment as common.

Niggas know your self-worth. Give your attention only when it is actually needed.

Another thing i noticed is that ladies get way more mention than guys. You get response to almost every mention which always ends with the guy saying how beautiful your profile is.

then there are those who will like to proof themselves to you. they will try and tell you that they are very intelligent. I don't know their end goals but it wasn't funny.

and then there are those whose job it is to say, that your profile picture is not you. they will tell you she's too beautiful to be on nairaland and in the end still send you a PMs

And there are those who will be rude just to get a response from you. They try to act tough but i can always see the neediness through their attack and push for me to just respond to them.

And should i talk about the number of followers i get almost daily? Like seriously. this lady is not posting anything meaningful or something that could help you to make money online or address any issue you may have, but she kept getting on average of 3 followers per day, all men, like seriously where are you following her to?

after following, some will start answering all of her comment, attacking her or send a PM.

The thing is a lot of men today are failing one of the most important rules in manhood and dating: Treat a lady like a celebrity and she will treated you like a fan.

Men are simply nuisance on this platform to the ladies and to be sincere that is what i am convinced about. If you are guy that follows every lady, praises and support her every mentions and then send a Pm, you are more of a fan and she the celebrity.

Guys for chrissake, go swallow some redpills. Learn to focus on your goals, your dreams and ambitions. Girls will come with the shelter as an extra. you are the reward for a woman.

I see this thing a lot on facebook and instagram. Go to instagram and checkout any female profile. It is only men you'll see commenting "oh what a beauty" "so beautiful" "you are an angel" etc. like seriously why won't these girls in turn, treat you like trash when you treat them like the air you need.

After deactivating my female account, I have since taken a little break to observe things. No longer chasing women. Just relax now and very observant while working on myself and my ambition.

Bro, even if you told them that you saw God. And that he asked them to stop, they'll never listen.

We have only about 20 percent ladies that worth good attention. But we have 80 percent of men who don't even value their time, and they keep chasing those typical Nigerian girls.

The good thing is that 10 precent learn after they get duped, dumped, broken, cheated on, lied against, and rejected.

Hopefully our society would get the kind of fathers she deserves. I can remember Dr Myles Munroe of blessed memory emphasising on this.

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Emytea:
Fulani will always be fulani

they always believe they can command any body as far they are in power

Tueh for them

Bigotry has so much permeated your thinking faculty and rendered you ineptitude to reasonable thinking. The topic is about illegal mining. Federal and State law. Yet you chose to remain a stupid Nigerian.

It's not a matter of tribe. But rule of law.

If 55 percent of Nigerians think like you, evidently Nigeria's future is doomed!

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Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

Chop knockles. If I can't find one that would fit in church here in Nigeria, I'll go for a Latino when I'm in the State. Loyalty would be more assured.

icetrimz:
I would like to go symmetrical to the point. But before I proceed, I will like to say sorry to whom it may concern. Yes people I did it, I went through her phone. I broke the rule and went against my instincts.

In fact, I'm writing this with pidgin so as to carry the street along. so I invite ma babe come house today, the babe too cool, silent and has this innocent look and all. As she enter house, the first thing wey she ask me be say make i go buy her pad... i swear i shock. i nearly fall sef, but as a "niggarrrr" i no tok, i just waka jeje go buy am come, i even buy fruits join sef as a beta pikin ... lol [ well, im not laughing shaa o] I later move go market buy catfish cook for her, just to make sure Jesus is happy with me, his son.

So later in the day, i went to play around with the boys as madam dey "flight mode" I came back around 9pm and met her sleeping. I waka go kitchen go take something, then i see her phone for there with 8 missed calls from the same number. As a retired agbero i sensed something was not right about the calls. So i jejely and smoothly snicked back to the room and placed her finger on her phone sensor to open it. After unlocking the phone i went straight to the rest room to settle my curiosity. omo, as i open whatsapp, enter the caller name chat, naso i collapse.......... athink say na only that one, as i enter others naso i paralyze. what i saw was UNBELIEVABLE and beyond my mental absorption. The one wey one paddy dey complain give am say she no sabi suck preeq na im wound me. I lost my breath for a moment and nearly went to join my ancestors.

Please help me. This is 3am and I'm still in deep pains. I can't seem to walk, my sight is going blurry too and i don't know what to do about her hereafter

Please how do I get my legs working again so I can at least walk back to the room and sleep first??

The code is, " never start a relationship with a typical Nigerian girl. Leave that to the simps."

But you can love. You can have who you want by making them the one in the...

I have to make it vague because of the sinisters that would start quoting and saying it's for broke guys. That's their delusional strategy for the one that is not enlightened.

Send a dm or research more... But never go for a typical Nigerian girl for relationship. Never!

Note: The Nigerian girl is a girl with certain ideaologies known to the enlightened. Lol

FloxySmart:
Who else agrees with that men are bull dogs? They impose sex on their wife like it’s their birth right. Nonsense


Modified

They say the truth is always bitter to take in, continue quoting me. I have all the time in the world tonight will give you a deserving response

If men are bull dogs, your dad is a man. Your uncle is a man. Your brother is a man. Thus, you're also a bull dog. Because a bull dog only produces a bull dog. Chew that!

GROUNDCHALEBOY:
i have this female friend,she always around me even when i was dating,oneday something happened and she was telling me how much she love me and wish to date me,now am single but i dont think is right for a girl to express her feeling for a guy.that my female friend is coming today and she want to spend the night,i promise to give her a respond today.guys what do u think i should do?Sorry for the errors

Please tell us what happened. It's been three days

ReluctantAdult:
If you finish fccking a woman and she still has time and energy to take a smiling selfie, it means you didn't do a good job. She should be sleeping or holding her belly when you withdraw.

Experience is a good teacher...

US President Donald Trump has threatened to permanently halt funding for the World Health Organization (WHO) if it does not commit to "substantive improvements" within 30 days.

In a letter to Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus, the director-general of the WHO, Trump criticised what he said were repeated "missteps" in the global health agency's handling of the coronavirus outbreak. The "only way forward for the [WHO] is if it can actually demonstrate independence from China," Trump wrote.

"If the WHO does not commit to major substantive improvements within the next 30 days, I will make my temporary freeze of United States funding to the WHO permanent and reconsider our membership," he said in the letter posted on Twitter.

Trump suspended the United States's contributions to the WHO last month, accusing it of promoting China's "disinformation" about the coronavirus outbreak. Officials at the United Nations health agency have denied the accusations and China says it has been transparent and open.

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https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2020/05/trump-threatens-permanent-freeze-funding-200519041139473.html

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You have a whole life ahead of you. Sex is overrated.
Build your self esteem. More excercise and more academic goals plus spiritual growth is key at this your age.
This is the age visions and purposes of most great men in history were discovered. The age where you get into the military. The age where you should be devouring biographies.

If it should happen, it should be spontaneous. You'd even care less.
Good luck.

simplepee:
Lol.

You should stay together with any lady or guy you wish to marry for atleast 2 weeks before marriage. FOREVER is a long time.


I once said this here and ladies attacked me saying I am cheap, well I still stand by it.

Seconded.

Even experts in the US now recommend it. House keeping...

Kingosytex:
A Nigerian girl of course, but I have no back ups because I see it as unnecessary distractions.

Bro, stop dating Nigerian girls. Nigerian girls in this context refers to leeaches, entitlement bearers, cheaters, gold diggers, slay queens, etc.

There are ways to get girls in Nigeria that do not have the *Nigerian girl mentality*.

By the time you have two of them, your conscience might start worrying you about who to settle with though. And you might just hope one makes a mistake for you to capitalise on...

There's a way to get them. But we have to hide this from the playboys. Lol.

Babyforever:
Don't tell me you're cooking for all this broke fustrated and selfless nairaland guys....when their occupation is bash women here like their lives depends on it instead of them to go hustle like their mate's......umu ekwensu

See mentality...

Someone was innovative enough to create a DIY thread. What in the post shows any gender inclination? From your reply to the post, who is bashing who?

Learn to take your frustrations away from creative threads please. If you don't know how to create something educative, go and learn!

Fortunatesoul:
What you just post is completely true
Anytime I masturbate my social anxiety increase complimented with trembling..but still I found it hard to leave(masturbation).

Bro, whenever that feeling comes, hit the gym or exercise at your place. It feels like you just did it. It's superb

The House of Representatives on Tuesday passed for second reading, a bill to allow independent candidate in the nation’s electoral system.

The bill sponsored by Rep. Tahir Mongunu seeks to amend the Nigerian Constitution to allow Nigerians participate in elections without necessarily belonging to any political party.

Leading the debate on the bill, Mongunu said allowing Independent candidates will deepen the nation’s democratic space by giving opportunity to Nigerians who want to participate in the governance of the country but are often shut out by godfathers.

He said political parties have often been hijacked by a few individuals, who dictate who should contest election on the party platform therefore denying Nigerians the opportunity to actively participate in governance.

He said political parties are supposed to have manifestos, which spelt out their programmes for the people, adding that people with contrary views are often not allowed to contest, stressing that in view of the need to contribute to national development Independent candidates should be allowed.

He said as a result of this imposition, candidates elected by political parties are often removed by the courts and others imposed on the people because of the absence of transparency in the conduct of party affairs.

However, Rep. Abiodun Faleke, said it was not feasible at this point in time to allow independent candidate in the electoral system as it will increase the cost of elections and litigations, adding that INEC lacks the capacity to handle the issue of independent candidate.

Speaker Femi Gbajabiamila said since it was an issue of constitutional amendment, the Nigerian people will be allowed to decide through a public hearing and referred the bill to the Constitution amendment committee.

Source: The Nation
https://thenationonlineng.net/bill-on-independent-candidate-passes-second-reading/