₦airaland Forum

Hoodbilonia:
who dey live for slum
see this stinking gutter and no gate house occupant
best roads for which area. maybe na inside estate dwm dey drive the car dey po

Guy, abeg upgrade and move to a better place. Nice neighborhoods have nice roads connecting to the major roads.

You think men with substance and sense travel interstate via road? They take a flights! People like you live in horrible places. Upgrade! Even ordinary Benin, I drive from my house to events, I no see bad road fight. Guy, leave slums abeg

Hoodbilonia:
how do they drive these cars on bad roads and pot holes
black man no geh sense

nobody go kukuma buy am as second hand for this part of the world

You think these guys live in slums with you? They live in the best of places and only use the best of roads

If a thief enters your house, do the world a favour and kill him and hand over the dead body to the police. Bunch of useless set of people

RZArecta2:
Sunny Motors will add 6-10m on top for the culture

No, clearing that car is like 80% of the value. So the least price of that car in Nigeria should be about 22m. Anything less was not properly cleared at the port

Bluezy13:
Proffer a solution instead of criticizing other's opinions

Read it again. You should see the solution

Dude, don't marry anyone because of pregnancy.
Don't let any stupid person on Nairaland blackmail you. Marriage is not for pregnancy protection

WTF man! That's like an Esan girl. Tread with caution with that kind of girl

greensavanna:
Hello guys, I told my bae of 5yrs that our introduction would be by August and wedding by november though I told her it would be by Feb. but things didn't go as planned due to family issues which I am very much sure would be settled before March.

The main reason for pushing the dates is because I want save up enough for the whole ceremony, now she has refused me touching her, telling me it would be after the introduction.

what have I done wrong guys? We've been together for over 5 years and we just have months to go. This lady that is saying I shouldn't touch her till we do intro is someone that can't go two weeks without me touching her, it's been three weeks now and she still stands by her word, as you all know, I think the urge is not the same for both sexes

guys, I need matured advise, cause she says since we are hoping for serious thing from God, that a little chastity will go a long way.

You better leave that girl alone and move on. This is exactly what is waiting for you in the marriage. Blackmailers only get worse

Is this how desperate Nigerians have become for change that they can't see through this guy? This guy is unstable and lacks principles. Very immature, which is very glaring. He's not even trying to restrict it, which makes him the worst person to put in any spotlight

I'm glad Channels saw that clearly

Headlesschicken:
Only 22, that bwest doesn't look 20ish,it looks 40ish, besides she really transformed well,she was looking more like a Bat,in d oda pix,n wen she started hitting it raw,now she's looking all healthy n sh!t...

WTF man! That's a kid in that picture. Yes, some 10 year olds already have boobs showing very well. Have some self-respect

izzy4shizzy:
One way or the other, we guys pay for sex

I've never paid for sex in any way. Up your game, bro

Leave them alone oga. The money you seize from them surely won't be returned to the victims, but will be stashed in government coffers thereby making Nigerian government complicit to the fraud they claim to be dealing with

The only time anyone should he arrested for fraud is when (or if) the victims report the incidence to you guys. Anything outside that makes una part of the act. .

Except you have plans to return the money to the victims, which basically never happens

Arthurwinner:
But I dont eat pple

Stay there na

She's catching feelings, just eat her

She's likely not the friend type

lilmax:
your friend is your reflection

Olalan:
Only a foolish girl will think in such manner remember the old saying "show me your friends and I can tell who you are"

The Catholic priest next door has lots of married friends but he will never marry

Mtcheeeew. Go to the garage and finish the business Home is for learners

Trash! They should modify that nonsense to something sensible

victorian:
@ the bolded , really ?

You make me laugh ! You talk like u will live forever and protect her till she's old ?

Lemme tell you , just pray your daughter no fall inlove with a jack ass and dead beat father to their kids .
Just pray .

Cause if u use your gun blazing rifle to kill him or even shoot anywhere on his body , you will be arrested alongside with him if he's still alive . But if he ends up dead? Na jail straight ! No bail! ( that's after they've dated for two years and eventually marry)

So think man! Think!

That's when u really care about the guy , cos he go be like bone wey hook throat!

Come, you dey give me problem. First trading day of the week and almost 5% of my equity s wiped out. WTF How person go lose almost a mil because of Nairaland?


Abeg I don hear. In fact make he kill her, I don't care again. Bye

She's trying to be more mature than you .

Sometimes you just get used to people being a certain way, and grow thick skin to them. .

But do your best and get her angry. I mean, very angry. Even if it means fūcking her best friend . You have the right to know her reaction when angry

Talk2donstan:
looks like someone is trying to catch-up too

My brother, it's a life skill most guys lack o. So who no get am, make he try get am

victorian:
If yawa gas! There is nothing u can do to the son inlaw , even if they dated for Two years and more . With the kind of son in-laws wey we have these days ?
Most won't even answer you .

Gone are those days men respect their in-laws. Those days are gone .

Let's be realistic and frank!

When yawa gas like serious gas, my sister, then you go answer the question "Who's your daddy?". . Na that time men go show up with guns blazing to defend their daughter (that's the advantage of not collecting bride price) . I don't care about the guy one bit, all that matters is my daughter. I can take the guy out if he ever maltreats her, without me feeling guilty at all. At least he was warned


But if she insisted on marrying him against my wish, I no go show face. If he like make he kill her, na her problem be that

princfred:
I pity that your daughter whose destiny you want to tie on top of iroko. So after 2 yrs the guy bail nko? Then another 2 yrs each for another 2 guys? If am your daughter and here this kind talk from you, na teenage pregnancy i go carry do you can faint in peace earlier.

LMAO .

If he bail, she don dodge a bullet .

Actually, the 2 years is backdated to when they started dating (not when they knew each other), and how many days and nights she's spent at his house and with his folks and her folks .

The system we have these days is so bad that any idiot with a nice life can walk up to any girl with big ass and nice boobs and tell her he wants to marry her. By the next month, they're already doing traditional wedding . Sorry o, my daughter won't have my consent on that.

She can go ahead and marry him if she insists. I will attend all the occasions but I'd make it clear to both of them that they are on their own. I no go vex at all because she has her life to live. But when yawa gas, make she no even call my name because I know that I did my best to protect both of their interests .

mhizbel:
I understand you.
But you see, God is not an altar of confusion. If indeed they prayed and got a clear and direct response from God, and were sure that it really was God, there is no way they would be in a bad/wrong marriage.
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't encourage anyone to jump into marriage like that but in cases like this, I don't think there's anything wrong with doing so.

My sister, the guy doing yahoo got a direct response from God o. The average yahoo boy is a serious God guy o. Check their Facebook, na God full there o .

My sister, the G word is the word for defending any action these days o.

Their eyes are looking at the wrong place. They should get a life for themselves and watch life happen . They should also get a nice dick to avoid feeling all high and dry and grumpy and frustrated while life happens

Every relationship must have a side chic and side guy o. Especially marriage .

Another good no strings attached pussy will save that your main relationship. An extra dick will help her be stable and more focused on you .

In fact, it will put both of you on your toes . You can take that to the bank, my brother

mhizbel:
She said once you've prayed and you are convinced in your spirit, go ahead and marry him.

You think those girls being maltreated all over town didn't conceive in their spirit, mind, liver and kidney? . No be for womb they conceive o

Make una girls dey logical. The spirit she dey talk about na her emotions .

Kellibae:
I know they type of brainless kids we have on this forum ... Enemies of progress everywhere.
Shame on y'all.
Their marriage is a success.

Jobless men!

Wedding is a success, not marriage. Go and get a life, not marriage. Two months marriage is absolute trash! . I mean ABSOLUTE! .

Someone you can't stand for a year in relationship, you think you can stand the person in 10 years? . Make una dey reason . Minimum should be a year! . One month that the girl only stayed with him for a total of 6 days on and off or even less, out of 30 days.

That thing you see there is trash, my daughter cannot have my consent on that . Na so alhaji dey marry girls for north o. . And the stupid papa go collect money on top who her pikin can't even write a page about Haba

Look at the kissing pics and you'll see she just made a big mistake .

I wonder when women will learn to quit thinking marriage . That's like the easiest way to get any lady to be dialing your number every hour

What a shame. People get into relationship and breakup in less than a year, yet one dummy is getting married in less than two months . See her mouth like he paid her price . How much is the price you sold yourself for carelessly? .

Very soon now we go hear say the guy is this and that. He's an occultist, he licks menses, he likes anal, he beats me when angry, bla bla bla . Women make una dey logical for at least 24 hours after a guy approach you .

If my daughter brings a guy for marriage, he's going on at least 2 year quarantine period. If she can't think logically, I go bridge the gap for her using that method. If after 2 years they're still together, I approve. . No one will pay one penny on my daughter's head. What nonsense

They should go and buy laptop, abeg

JoanApril:
This also happen to me, but the more i become matured I change. I think you should be patient and always ask why your partner or friends behave that way to you.

You're one of the easiest persons to manipulate if you really do what you advised him to do .

I think I like your type too because I can manipulate you without feeling guilty, since you literarily ask people to manipulate you

krissconnect:
Sometimes, I do think I'm never gonna have friends, I'm never gonna keep friends. Other times I do feel I was created to be cold, stoned, and not depend on anyone

You don't need friends, just bitches and money

You have high self esteem, and that's cool.

No issue there at all. Ladies do that a lot. Guys should try and catch up and stop being beggy and all that shìt