catherine1998: You sound like a thief, wealth is not the criteria to measure similarity of a ppl, culture is the vital tool, in any case abiriba ppl can not say for sure that they are wealthier than Great Afikpo ppl, except that they(abiribas)are thieves
"great" my foot Who dash monkey? Weak, broke & wretched afikpo people. See d sound of d name sef. U guys should be kidding urselves
Alexgman1: Its not as easy as u tink. We av formed dis gud and non-romantic bond.
Spell out clear boundaries. Empathy without boundaries bis self destruction. Ur boundaries will let d right people in & keep leeches, low viberation, one-sided dead end & negative energy folks away. U will clearky see how much they respect u.
DrLiveLogic: That's savage and animalistic. As inhumane as rape may be, mutilation is more. Penalties should serve only as deterrents, this goes way beyond that. There are better ways like heavy fines, public disgrace on national television and up to five year jail terms with hard labour. Some men here who are feigning support for this are doing it only to avoid rapist labels or being in women's bad books. Just trying too hard to score cheap points with women.
I'm not saying your son ever will but I hope you will support this if he ever acted that stupid?
This sounds logical but in many cases reality proves otherwise. There's more that drives people than fear at times. Also, if you support this, not saying he ever will, but I hope you wouldn't bat an eyelid if your child ever acted so barbaric.
I'm not the guy you quoted but is mutilation a commensurate penalty? If someone stole money from you, should he necessarily be killed or his hands cut off? Is the penalty I suggested above for rape not good enough? And also tell please, I know your son may never do such if you bring him up right but tell me if you ever got to hear, that by any chance it was your child, would you support this?
which five tears jail term & he will be fed with taxpayers money? His balls being crushe with a heavy harmmer is equall to d pains d victim ent through. In d Bible time d penalty fir rape is death as instituted by d true God, so what re u talking about?
But have Y'all considers if she is afraid of what her aunty will do to her if she doesn't comeback with the calculated amount.... She might be one of those kids living with strict wicked woman as a guardian......
I mean if she are one meat from there.... All these guys wey dey tell am make em chop am no go give am money to complete am....
Think about it
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I didn't insult anybody with my comment and I don't know why I am getting the insults.... I suggest u read well....
If u can't type civil pls don't quote me.... Thank u
Ciao
But they re insisting that tgey re d ines who wants to pay for her to ve a taste of what dhe is selling naa.
TheSourcerer: Unacceptable ! We are not savages , we are a civil society.
was d rapist acting civil he igbored d no! command & went ahead force himself on a fellow human being, violating her?? Was that not savagery? U re a rapist urself, u & all who liked ur comment
vybzkartel: I proposed love to her though knowing that she had a guy Wanted to marry her but she said she will think about it. Later she said No so I moved on.
I decided to avoid her totally since I wanted the feeling I had for her to die since I couldn't get her...I wouldn't call nor message for about a month and then she would either call or message me. This cycle has gone on for about three years. Anytime I decide to forget her, she will call or message asking why I don't call and bla bla. When she does that and I decide to call or message her, she would give excuses and hang up or quit chats.
When I shun her, she will find her way back to call me or message me. Should I blacklist her and block her on messenger?
If she doesn't love me and can't date me, why can't she let me be? Please advise
She is keeping u as emotional consort, someone use get relief wgwn d guy hurts her. Take a decisive stand now. Come & marry me naaa
PowerOfLove: Hmmmm, even while poor or being in want does not mean one should eat everything. We should be mindful of what we eat in this country to avoid becoming the next China in terms of producing deadly virus that could be called "Nigerian virus" capable of becoming a pandemic like the one we find ourselves today.
monitor lizard re just like fish. Beside we Cook our meals thoroughly, Chinese don't. They eat it fresh.
Isobug: Third Class?.......Anyway i'm from Afikpo in Ebonyi and since I was born I have never seen anything different between Abiriba,Ohafia,Arochukwu and Afikpo.
Greetings the same, Languages almost thesame, mode of farming thesame, Tradition thesame(apart from eyeing Visitors...lol ), Afikpo people are also modern and Well educated just like you may claim
I hope neighbors apprehended him, & beat him up thoroughly to a pulp 1st B4 handing him over to d police. U can imagine what he would to to that woman in his place Ghana
Apeshy102: Life may never remain the same for Mr Emmanuel Iloabuchi Iloanya after the Officer in Charge of Awkuzu Special Anti Robbery Squad (SARS), Mr. James O. Nwafor and his men allegedly killed his son Mr Chijioke Iloanya without getting justice.
Mr Iloanya in a telephone chat with News9naija recounts how his son was arrested and gruesomely killed in cold blood by one Mr Jame O. Nwafor, now a retired police officer attached to Awkuzu SARS who led his boys to a naming ceremony and arrested attendees which many of the arrested never made it out alive, unfortunately, Mr Chijioke John Ilonanya was amongst those who never made it out alive.
Upon learning about his arrest, on November 31, 2012, Mr Illoanya in company of his wife went to the Awkuzu Police Station were they met their son in handcuff, though they saw him there, they were driven out of the police station.
Unsettled with the proceedings, Mr Iloanya proceeded to the office of the Anambra State Commissioner of Police where he met the Commissioner and his deputy. Upon narrating his sons ordeal to them, they promised him that nothing would happen to his son, but this promised was never fulfilled.
Upon his subsequent visit to the commissioner, Mr Nwafor was summoned but never showed up.
It was on his visit to the Commissioner's office in January 2013 that the Deputy Commissioner of Police told him of his son's death.
Mr Iloanya proceeded to the Awkuzu SARS office where he met Mr James Nwafor. Upon request for his son's whereabouts, Mr Nwafor told him, "Go, I have wasted your son". This insensitive statement didn't go down well with Mrs Iloanya as she collapsed and was rushed to the hospital upon hearing what Mr Nwafor said.
Mr Iloanya didn't stop there, he went on to seek justice for his slain son, if not for anything but to at least retrieve his corpse from the SARS.
He met one, Rt Col. Emmanuel Udechukwu (now Late), a human right activist through who Mr Iloanya delivered the sum N1.5M to the Awkuzu SARS but nothing came forth.
Till now, Mr Iloanya has not set eyes on his son nor his corpse.
Mr Iloanya is calling on the Nigerian Police Force, NGOs and well meaning Nigerian to help him get justice for his son. He said, "I know that my son is dead, but i just want justice"
The Sister to the slain young man also gave account of the incident on Twitter.
https://twitter.com/Ada_mummyya/status/1140000709649358848?s=19[/quote]My sister u re a woman, use ur body, do heavy make up in a way he can't recognize u lure him to a local cheap hotel that u know very well that ur room won't be checked while u re going out to buy something living him behind. Lodge with a big a big eco lag box as if u will remain there for a long time, pay for 7days, do full fringe bouncy big hair to mask ur face & facial structures a little, always tip d receptionist & security men. Maybe money take away food packs so they can earn ur trust dress in responsible modest coperate outfits to emit class & standards so d hotel people can see u as reputable & responsible, lute him. Drug home tie him ip in ur toilet there . Put dirty smelling period pads into his moths & use that silver masking tape to tape his mouth thoroughly. Make sure he regrets his life. That lidocane injection to his throat 5ml will also knock him off if d reph drugs is taking forever to work on him. Make sure u cause him real pain that re deep whilst getting d truth from him, he is a monster. make it's his end.
ncpat: For now no cure only management so get her inhaler (Ventoline) also make sure she doesn't eat fried things or even stay close to frying oil or smoke to avoid breathing problem.
let d op not use inhaler for his wife o it makes her dependent on it, when there is none, death is inevitable. A Dr adviced me so, it worked. While I made herbs to check it.
Megaflex: I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.
I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.
Megaflex: I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.
I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.
igwegeorgiano: Being in a relationship with a destination on one's mind is a beautiful thing considering the joy of having the right partner in your world to make things happen. Am beginning to have a rethink about my present relationship with the most ungrateful of all ingrates of a lady on the planet earth.
Am presently in a relationship with a lady from the eastern part of Nigeria while I am from the south-south. We met over five months ago and within this short period I have spent well over 7million naira on this lady setting up a boutique biz for her getting her a befitting accommodation tastefully furnished and many more goodies to ensure she is comfortable including a car.
I don't want to bore us with other issues that cropped up which actually prompted me to share my experiences with this ingrate of a woman. I work so smart for my money as a certified mariner and I made my money from every available legit means am very comfortable to a very large extent but true love and affection is missing.
I went into a relationship with the sole aim of settling down with my woman whom I have done so much for. Just last night she called me and requested I assist her with with 500k to take care of some personal issues I agreed to give her the money but unfortunately I was able to raise 250k which I sent to her. Just few minutes ago she called to tell me that am a very stingy man. She told me I can't take care of her needs, yet I want to marry her. My people, am confused right now because I can't imagined myself going into marriage with this lady.
I have decided to relaxed any form of assistance to her henceforth so I can take my time to assess the situation of things in my relationship with her.
can u imagine? U re dealing with an entitled, ungrateful Narcissistic b**ch , should u ve gin into marriage with her, u would ve deeply regretted ur life. But ur God is alive dear one.
ADVISE PLS MY GIRLFRIEND LIKES MALTREATING MY GATE MAN WHEN SHE VISITS. I am a guy who has been through a lot in Life, I suffered so much before God finally blessed me and I became a successful man. I vowed to always help the less privilege around me in any little way I can, because of that my driver and my gate man and other people working for me, I treat them like my own brothers and try as much as possible to put similes on their faces. The problem I'm having now is my girlfriend whom I'm planning to settle down with, Though i have not proposed yet. whenever she visits, she treats my gateman like a slave, I have talked to her about it, but she doesn't want to change. The other day she even slapped him, and I'm not finding it funny anymore. I'm beginning to doubt if she will make a good wife and sometimes I do think whether she is hiding her real character when it comes to me because she has never disrespected me before. My dream has always been to marry a woman with a good heart. Do you think she can make a good wife? Pls advise me. Post and hide my ID
My dear, everything is now in d open dis mask has fallen off her face. U will deeply regret it should u marry such a toxic b**ch, u re dealing with a violent woman, a narcissist. Retrace ur step now, I warn u. She has no empathy in her, psychologically studies have proven that no one can pretend for longer than 3months. Max 4months, after which d mask begins to come off. Do not marry that woman.
frozen70: Am eye for an eye, make everyone go blind
If you read very well, you will see where I say try to avoid staying around people who hurts your emotional feelings
Always calm down to read or comprehend comments, it's not about sending a counter comment
She has a rare gift and have to be will to accommodate somethings
She knows when her emotions are about to be punctured and that's the right time to move away
If she continues to curse, have you considered how families will keep mourning
It's like u ve not encouraging egotistical, malicious, arrogant, toxic, malignant & demonic Narcissistic beast B4 such need not be i dis life in d first place. Ask survivors
alfredilly: It is condemnable to give a dehumanizing treatment to our fellow man. Although we can't relate without stepping on each other toe, there is a limit to which we should direct hurtful behaviour at others.
When I read your story, I can't but marvel at the number of times you have been a victim of other people hurtful behaviour. You alone? That is why i'll advice you to weigh your action to see if those experience are not a result of your own careless manners. Whenever you are hurt in a heated row with others, try rather than dwelling on their actions, by be insightful about what trigger them. Sometimes, people action are senseless and unreasonable but trying weighing you are behaviour may shed more light into the strings of event to led to those experience. You may even be surprised that apology should come from both side.
Another advice I have for you is to briddle your tongue when you are angry. Our action during a feat of rage could sometimes be extreme and needless. Waiting patiently to act when you are calm is better.
Lastly, you may need to approach prayer for deliverance. The devil may just be using you. Those hurtful treatment you get might just be the catalyst needed to perfect his assignments.
my dear, stepping on each other's toes is sharply at variance with calculated, cunning, manipulative, gaslighting, arrogant, betrail, malicious wickedness, especially to a person one is intimate with. Such as siblings, lovers, spouse age long friends, close & trusted workmates, trusted & helpful neighbor. It will hurt so badly due how u take these people at heart . If they bring doom upon themselves, then so be it