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Truvel:
My Advice 4 U Is To Fulfill D Promise Both Of U Agreed On. Nobody Forced U Into It. After U Av Enjoyed Her Sexually, U Want To Dump Her? No Way. Ignorance Is Truly A Disease. What U Entered With Her Was A Covenant. U Ignorantly, Foolishly & Lustfully Enter D Covenant With Her.

Case closed.

NeoWanZaeed:
YOUR SUFFERING NEVER START. . INSANE MAN. AFTER EXPLAINING ALL SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH AND RESISTING UR SEX ADVANCEMENT SEVERAL TIMES. . Na so una dey spoil 9ja name all over. . Unless u marry her, no peace for u. .oloshi . . What if she is ur daughter and got treated that way. .thunder faya u dia. .

Thanks my dear, u told him well.

indigene:
The second son might be free based on claims of diminished responsibility.
There are probability that his father with a loaded gun, might be on a rampage to liquidate his family.

i swear! @liquidate biko! U re right

Ebonyi state indigenes re so blood thirty & backwards like hausa people. Unforgiven & bitterly wicked. I ve lived there b4, gruesome things takes place there. That was how one seconday school teacher behead her 2 children unprovoked. Due to mental illness, was sent to jail & became worse. Another a principal with her boyfriend murdered her husband butchering him to pieces, another a woman murdered her co wife with a mortal pestle while in her sleep, & crept up to murder her step daughter who was studying her book with lantern in d corner of d home over a bicycle. D list goes on & on.

Provided its in d North, I am indifferent. They welcomed it thinking that they re doing d rest of nigeria, alas! It was their destinies they was doing.

Pierocash:
Don't let what you read online deceive you that it is sleeping paralysis.

What is happening to you is demonic. You are under witchcraft attack. Nobody who have such experience that won't suffer one misfortune or the other. Some ignorant dudes will soon land and start claiming intellectuals,and forming technocrats by calling black people ignorant.

But bro, take my word for it,you are under demonic siege,go for deliverance because I was in that situation of yours ,I did deliverance and am totally free from that rubbish. I sleep perfectly well like a baby for many years now

Thanks for dis deep truth. As soon as I started studying bible with Jehovah's witnesses, believing in my heart all I ve learned & put them to work, I automatically came under d protective wings of sovereign Yahweh himself, them nor born that demon well.

PhDinView:
Dear OP,

There is nothing spiritual about your problem. To reduce the rate at which you experience sleep paralysis, try and set multiple alarm clocks to wake you from your sleep at intervals. Also, try and force yourself out of your temporarily paralysed state each time you experience it. It might be difficult at first, but with time you might be able to just snap out of it at will. its all about your mental strength.

PS: The suggestions I've given do not have any scientific backing. They are just my opinion and it possibly might not work.

I sincerely hope that you find solution to your problem quickly.

There is nothing special about FTC.

Keep kidding urself. What nonsense. Sleep paralysis is nothing but a demon trying to take possession of d body at its weakest time which is when its subconscious.

Dreadlock69:
I created this topic in this section to get a wider audience please contribute if you have /had the experience
Early my teenage years, I do have a female neighbor very close we play and do all things together both bad and good you know what I mean,most times she will sleep and her eyes will be open lying at her back ,I do mock her about this and laugh about it .she always say she can't control it that I won't understand that she see everything happening around her but can't move ,I'll be like how is it possible I don't believe you but she will say dreadlock69 you won't understand.though she really stressed herself sleeping late but she is very bright with her books my parents used her to mock me.
However mine started when I was ss2 I could remember vividly well it happened one night I was sleeping all of a sudden something griped me I can't move I can't breath it was like something or someone inside the room was taking my life force out of me ,I'm very much aware of my environment but when it's stopped I be gasping for air and my heart will be racing ,this repeatedly happens every night at times worst and horrifying ,one night it happened again I was terrified and told my parents they told me nothing gonna happen that I should pray over it.
"Omo nah just the beginning I dey see ooo"
Later when I finish my secondary school I still experiencing it but ,this time round I can breath well but still see images .then I got my new phone I surfed the internet then I came across an article talking about this which seems to relate to what I experience then I made more and more research and findings which were scarying and calming.i remember one time I'd told my brother not to touch my phone strictly warning him then I slept off and the sleep paralysis started I woke up but can't do anything can't move ,can't talk just lifeless but I can see and I'm aware of what is going on in my environment and behold my brother was using my phone I was in anger but I can't do anything I just lay there lifeless with anger in me till it fades off thank his stars he went out before I regain consciousness
Another experience was when I watching a horror movie it happened the again when I was having a nap I was so scared I just have to close my eyes not to see images.
Later on I had full control over it and sometimes I transit from that state to lucid dreaming. Then I had a good work with all good amenities not stressful you can take a nap anytime you like , funny enough my partner experience it also I noticed the day he was sleeping but his eyes where open trying hard to move his body ,I just left him till it's fade off
So one day I was having a nap in the bedroom my boss was calling me I could hear him but I can't move anything just laying lifeless I was praying he should not catch me in this state .
Sometimes I'll have to call my partner but he is still in that state but I have to wake up,which he do wake up looking frightened.

I just learned how to lived with it cause I can't do anything bout it and feel for people who experience this but don't know how to manage it
Probably transit from that state to lucid dreaming
Maybe someday I'll have to tell my spouse or someone to close to me to not get frightened if they see me like that maybe a girlfriend, a wife ,my child I can't say for now
What your opinion on this

it a demon tryi5 to possess urbody while u re asleep. At sleep, our aura is weakened hence d unwanted entities seizes such an opportunity to take possession of d body. But as soon n as u believe in ur heart about d true God Yahweh, & seek refuge in him, it stops. Mine stopped when I started studying d bible with Jehovah witness & sort refuse under Supreme Yahweh, them nor born that demonic entity well.

ValCon888:
I don't want to judge.
But as far as the law is concerned, the courts declared him not guilty. He is free to go wherever he wants.

Nigerian courts re not credible my brother.

CalliDora1:
You think so?

It's over worth it. Though it depends on your level and with time, as you get promoted, your salary will also Increase. Free housing all through your service and as a young chap you might retire earning up to a million with which your gratuity and pension will be worked. Most importantly, the job is secured and pension is constant. My dad received his pensions till his dyiing days without hitches.


Don't look at the now. Look at the future. You may also need to run some courses to speed up your promotion and get you up there in a short time. My dad did a lot of courses those days and it really helped him Climbed up fast in Rank.

Lastly, its about you And what you want. If you don't feel up to it, don't do it!

which free housing?? That dirty old colonial masters housing I see?? Really??

jaytii:
They just presented you with a blank cheque.
Sue them for everything they've got.

Congratulations

u think Nigeria is a developed country?

Elvictor:
stop roping SE and SS together, we have cleared Herdsmen in Rivers State since January.

SE leaders are busy with 2023

Thanks my dear blood bro

UndauntedYOCA:
I know her. I follow her on IG and we both have a group in common.shes not the only one who's suffered from abusive relationships. Abusive doesn't have to be physical, it could be emotional, verbal and mental.

I didn't say she is d only one. She is one of d very few here in our soil speaking up & campaigning against clusters b personality disorder & narcissism through her page on ig.

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

go check out dis page on ig it's a real Nigerian lady that has gone through abusive relationship, u could learn a thing or 2 from her @afriproud

surebona:
How do I start doing that thanks for your response

invest in urself mentally read books,stay single while u do dis, contact & lead no one on. Avoid & stay away from place or songs or things that remind y of her. Read about mental & emotional health awareness. But y sef. How do u leave someone as a mere girlfriends for 6years without making her a legal wife. Na wa! There was nothing exciting to here to dream of being ur wife sef.

SoBright101:
See twisting. Are they justifying the killings that is happening in north by boko haram? It was the army that first blame the dead for not taking permission before going to farm, now this.

Beware Nigerians. This is the time to know and understand the true identity of those who cause tribalism on here, they are paid agents, they are neither from east or west. They have more than twenty monikers, they would create tribal related topics and make tribal comments with different monikers to cause chaos between southerners. Though, they have no conscience but you can try to educate them or better ignore them. They are easy to identify, use your head brothers.
They dominate this platform. They are evil and restless until their aim is achieved.

Are you satisfied with the status quo of this country? Nigerian youths, prepare to make this country a better one, don't be silent, speak up. Enlightened your neighbors, community about the situation of this country, educate them about their right to demad good governance from their local representatives to the national level. They can't kill us all. You may think you are comfortable now but remember the monsters the bad government policies are making, the hungry masses would search for survival by all means, they won't mind hurting others for survival. The comfortable innocent people who refused to speak against evil would also feel the heat.

my dear souther8 re United against anything northern. Its d easterners u should be worried as about as they re not United among themselves let alone d north as they keep taking northern wives. D west is a complete sellout.

Mabizela:
Some teachers are devil in human form. reason why majority of the females don't get married. how I wish I can locate my former maths teacher and beat the hell out of her

I stand with u.

They did very well. Pls hail & check on d hoodlums for me

Fheelzz:
is having a pot belly also a recruitment to become an officer

Yes my it is, sadly.

Davash222:
Every Senator in Nigeria both past and present constitutes 75% of the problems we’re facing now.

A senator’s house is not private property. The house was build with our collective funds.

Nice target, in my opinion.

Indeed very nice of a target.

WiLdFLame:
Are you going to do what men do?

Y not, am i not at liberty to do so?? Is what is good for d goose not good for d gander?

obiekunie2:
hmmm!

thats true fa!

history repeating itself!





how can u decapitate your fellow human being bc she cheated on you!

whatever happened to "cheat back"!



this life no balance i swear!

or working away?? Dis goes to show his abusive, & animalistic nature

WiLdFLame:
Cheating is worse than murder

But u men cheat at liberty & say it men's nature.

sapphiere:
Jealousy is worse than hate.

Walayi! I will Never stick around with a morbidly jealous person, let alone a relationship & call it love. its a negative energy.

Madibah:
EndSARS protest should stop

Let's #killSARS#

I stand with u

urchcoded:
Well, this is the test, it's not enough to walk around with placards, withstand brutality to show that you are serious, if not it's not a protest but simply a cry for mercy.

Yes, that is it. All Nigerians in their mass should all come out in their masses with maths or clean carton & lie in all major roads in each states, & federal highways, while a massive majority should lie down on & block government house, house of reps & Assembly, nnpc & wharf entrances. They should do it by shifts morning to 6pm then night shifts take ove. While have our armed militia in case of an open fire on standby. Enough is enough.

Queenlovely:
we don't count these ebonyi as igbo because they are violent people like the hausa. similar lifestyle,

they don't like renting house
29 of them live inside one room
very dirty people
with a dirty language

but that is by the way. my point is this: they are warriors.

communal clash are common and deadly. especially when they have the backing of the local chief.

why can't they wage war against these Invaders. ebonyi has a. lot of weapons, now they are crying about ordinary herdsmen. fight them, waste them and stop whining

U re right, ebonyi people who exactly like hausa people in nature re violently blood thirsty, their capable of all sorts of wickedness against cowived & children, so they should deal with their shit.

sotomayor:
I think the fantasy of sleeping with a virgin is what causes this barbaric act..
the man has a mental disorder and should be killed also

completely, better still fed to Crocks

KoleDgreat2020:
the man needs psychiatric attention...

no! Killed off.

KoleDgreat2020:
the man needs psychiatric attention...

no! Killed off.