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Lightangel65:
Yes mom's, but not ladies you are all money sucking whores

Maybe, na men dey turn to mums.

MNDY:
Make una dey defend bad thing make e worse.

Can you not see that the mentality of Nigerian girls/women is different from the mentality of other girls/women elsewhere?

In fact, Naija girls/women mata taya pesin, same thing with everyone of them. Before you see the very few exceptions, e go tey.

Everyone is meant to be ambitious and to be working on becoming successful. Men are automatically wired that way already. Women should be too, but sadly they are not. The very few ones that are (I mean very few) would not contribute their money to the well-being of the family.

How did you come to this conclusion?

It's funny how you guys talk like this, but , in every street, every road, offices, politics, you see women hustling. Our mothers, sisters, aunties are out there, helping their families and someone like you is telling me what?

Bahddo:
no one likes a burden. If she prefers to fold her arms and be carried along without making an effort to walk with him, he'd likely drop the burden at some point, especially when he realizes he deserves better. A relationship isn't a charity.

I'm yet to see a lady that will fold her hands, when an opportunity calls. Bro, give me an example please?

Choices differs. A guy might be eyeing an educationist, but then falls in love with a business woman. While forcing her to go to school, and she refuses, then you come to tell that she doesn't have vision? Or self-development?

Bro, you know what you want in a woman. Look for your type, your like, someone with same vision with you, and I don't think you'll force her into developing herself.

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

Checking the OP's profile picture and signature, you'll just know she posted opposite of what she is. They post to gather likes, and nothing more.
Don't bother yourself sis, this is just copy and paste.

ireneidiva:
Then date your type. Simple.

His type always end up fixing their women, but will come to form kingkong on social media. We've seen them all.

Any man that forms intolerance online, check well, dem no dey breath for house.

All I know is, a man with vision will always carry his girl along. No sane man moves, leaving his girl behind.

When a man leaves a lady, it's obvious the lady wasn't his first choice, someone somewhere was, and he was building her vision too.

shugaboy6102:
Really am not talking even based on the new lady I met, what am asking is are we legally married? and if so do we keep enduring each other and for how long. Should I stay with her out of convenience because of what people in my church will say, my neighbours, friends, colleagues etc. Do we keep tolerating when we both know it was out of passion and youthful exuberance that landed us both in this. Oh God help me because my life is in a mess I hope someone understands me

Bros, you're not married to her yet. Free yourself from this bondage.

But then, how are you sure the next girl will be better?

The truth is, we cannot decide for you, do what your heart tells you.

Typical Nigerian man mentality would have made this guy miss this babe.

Congrats to them.

healthserve:
My dad and mum met at a bank. Dad was a Don and could feed 100 people. She listened and retired. Till 20 years later she and the entire family suffered the decision. Men like that are con artists. I'm yet to meet a single married woman in the OP's condition to say they're happy in their marriage or aren't going through series of abuse. The moment she agrees to the logic, frustration and pain follows.

You've said it all.

Desric:
Again ask this question, what kind of job is the wife talking about and can that work sustain the family six months if the man loses his? Even if it can, one of the worst nightmares of any man will be to be out of job while the wife works, just a few men will be lucky not to consider suicide due to the reckless abuses they'll be getting from their wives.

Men that thinks like these, always keep their wives and children frustrated in life. Because, you will want struggle till your last breath, just to provide for your family. I wonder what would have happened now, had it been my mum listened to my father then.

My brother, this country hard for one person to dey bring money ooo. See Otedola pikins dem, Dangote children, Buhari family, all our politicians, their children dey work oo, if not for any other thing, I know there are some things there fathers can never provide for them.

Bros, two hands are always better than one.

As if there's work somewhere waiting for you. See as you dey nag, as if say, if him leave you now, you go just find work now now now.

My sister, sit down and chop your husband's money. Save from whatever he gives you( maka tomorrow).

But then, any man that thinks like this, him money no dey last and they always end up frustrating their wives.

I'm here to laugh.

hisexcellency34:
See how they pushed Femi to the back

Na oti mkpu na( town crier)

Make Magu swear say him no be fraudster? Make Magu swear if him fit allow any of him children do this kind thing? Rubbish.

ask4double:
.....and this made the front page. As in what are we supposed to do? get into the room with them abi? smh for mod

Bro, I think it's high time we all started accepting the fact that, nothing good will come out of this country. The country has failed us, so make OP dey give us all these celebrities gists make we use am dey pass time biko.

daddytime:
No matter wetin you do brother, this marriage na manage e no go last. Sorry, but this is the honest truth.

A precedent has been set, so, at the slightest provocation, your in law's will March down to move their pikin.

Get smart...

If na me, na dem go beg me to come carry my wife back....

How old is this wife by the way?

NB

Please, if you are the guy who advertised a size 44 shoes sometime last week, or you know the guy in person, kindly mention me.

If you want a size 44 shoes, I can do for you.

AJohnnasa:
Ngwababe, pastor must do Christmas.

If it's true, that's too bad and unchristian.

AJohnnasa:
Ngwababe, bịa gụrụ.

Someone should prove it.

YorubaAmaka:
But where I reside, I always see girls/Ladies wearing panties on the street looking for customers, I never seen a man dress that way. Who does that

My brother go inside those rooms and see for yourself.

And by the way, who are those girls waiting for?

Expert17:
OLOSHO spotted

I just showed my parents your comment, and they've pursued me out of the house

Nna, channel your energy to something that will benefit you and our dearest country. We've gotten used to this olosho of a name. Ka Chukwu gozie gi.

Weedhustler:
Y say na only rich people wedding naija bloggers n journalist dey cover? Abi poor people no dey wedd also?

To cover wedding na free?

Poor people dey see everything as waste of money.

That's what they are everywhere.
Nigerian men are just sex machines, they have nothing else to offer, that's why they can't stop terming every hustling lady "olosho".

That's what they are everywhere. Nigerian men are just sex machines, they have nothing else to offer, that's why they can't stop terming every hustling lady "olosho".

bukkielee:
What they are born to do.

By there cap, you shall know them

onye ohi

Abeg, make una ban this guy.

ReneeNuttall:
Mystery indeed,that's a bird whose abode was probably invaded,due to d large crowd and noise blairing from the speakers during Shiloh service.
If you have trees in your house or around your church or even in ur school u will notice that birds drop dead on a daily even bats.Does that make them evil?

Mind u I'm a living faith member but I do not subscribe to superstitions.

Madam you lie.

You shall find him.

izzou:
She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

God bless you.

mikoli:
Your facts that the country is in an obvious bad state shouldn't stop one from saying the right. The tin dey pain us all no mean say truth and morals no exist again. Don't limit yourself to Nigeria. You can live outside Nigeria someday where all this doesn't exist I bet you say your opinion go change. No matter how we feel about our current travails, make we still dey think BIG

Leaving this country is only sure thing, but then, what of those that don't have the money, do you kill them by judging their way of survival?

Until i see his wife's phone or girlfriend's phone, then I will say what's on my mind.

lexy2014:
Seems he is a mechanic. But does that invalidate d points he made?

He's not any mechanic, he's just an Instagram influencer and that's why the points he made are invalid.

These men bleeps female senators, top politicians, only to come down to judge us? How many persons has he helped in his life? How many persons are on his payroll lists? We are in a country where no one helps you except you give them Bleep. We are in a country where you offer sex in exchange for whatever thing you're looking for. If you don't offer your body, you pay a very high sum of money just to make sure you put food on your table.

I uploaded the things I do on my profile, not even a single person liked it, not even one person asked me "how far" with your products for almost 3months. But immediately I removed the picture and put my face, within a space of time , I had more than 50 likes and my mail filled with friend requests. Who is deceiving who sef? How long are we going to be like this?

They will tell us to go learn handwork, trading etc. when the market world is filled with greed and jazz. Go to universities and see first class graduates begging for employments ( because dem no get long legs), how many of them where even appreciated on their convocation days. But BBnaija housemates are being signed in different industries and companies as ambassadors, when someone somewhere wants to accept my CV if I dress properly on Facebook.

Any man that can't help build a lady, should just keep his advice. 90% of men in this country are into fraud, our leaders are damn corrupt, who is even better in this God-forsaken country?

Ishilove:
Motivational speaker

What does this guy do?