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1stNumeroUno:
Maybe they're friends....and they are playing 'konkolorun'...

Hehehehehehehehehe

generationz:
please stop telling anybody everything about yourself. its dangerous.



aren't we told to marry our Best friends?



I see this as a result of your immaturity (no offense dear) you are still in the university , by the time you graduate and date more guys you'll realize that not all that glitters is gold.


There's a difference between an Hollywood movie script/ mills and boons novels and reality

this. my dear is reality


when a person becomes too available and ' too there' for us they become undesirable

The guy made a mistake in the art of seduction 101


Right now because of the love he has shown you and his over availability there's nothing left to the imagination again instead of seeing him as Romeo you see him as the elder brother you never had.

if a man can know all your trash and nonsense, good and bad , and after four years still say girl I love you then that man truly loves you.



tell me dear


his he ugly, perhaps you are attracted to handsome guys

his he short? perhaps you are attracted to tall guys

his he poor ? perhaps you are attracted to rich guys

his he soft ? perhaps you are attracted to bad guys.


during those four years has he had a girlfriend? because I know we ladies love guys who many
girls want for one reason or the other. its not our fault but a thing of genetics and desirability.




I know your dilemma . He doesn't fulfil your desire in a man.

Seriously how couldn't you see a guy likes you withing four years of knowing him. if its me within a few days of knowing someone I'll know if he likes me,is a players or doesn't even like me.


its in the words, the extra care, the eyes ,the body language etc.



please don't date anyone out of pity


with the time you are taking to think about it , change your thinking pattern . Ask for more time off if its possible. Tell him the time off is for you to make a sound judgement devoid of emotions.



maybe it will even be all through his exams and his final year project so he can focus on that.


not seeing him can make you desire him more.

now reconfigure your brain. start seeing him as a man you can spend your life with . think of how good he has been to you and compare him to your exes in each aspect. see him as desirable too.


If you both were lost on an island and he was the only man there for you to procreate with will you do it? your first reaction to this (in your brain) will tell if there's even a slim chance of being with him.

love isn't a mushy feeling o


love is in action. The mushy feeling you have for someone you just met is infatuations.

eg we love our parents a lot and appreciate them. that doesn't mean every time we see them we have butterflies in our bellies.


so to help yourself you must reconfigure your brain.


it would be a shame if after rejecting him you realize after many years that you should have accepted him and it's too late. I've heard too many stories like this.


trust me attraction is secondary when it comes to choosing a life partner.

the important things include

His spiritual life ( if you are spiritual)

can he take care of you (not only materially ,but emotionally and maybe spiritually ,)

his genotype

his family background . this is very important because if at the end of it all both families don't approve then relationship don scatter be dat. you must know if his family is one you can be married into.


If he ticks all these buttons please hold on to him o finding someone that meets everything like this is rare.

I so much love this

tashashiel:
Anytime this man speaks
My Pvc will just be vibrating...

Lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

anochuko01:
that hammer for the panadol advert dey always affect my head

Souvenir

dingbang:
you need a boyfriend?

No, sir. I've got one.

Giddymoney:
Trying to understand the English

Somebody help!! She needs a boyfren

Hmmmm

Nice.

Hehehehe. Na wa

torpedo92:
Xylophone

Lolz. Nutty you

Edopesin:
The Games U Will See Them Play Is Candy Crush
Zuma Revenge
Barbie Doll House( can U Imagine )
Temple Run
Makeup Club
*They Worst Die abi* And They Can Form For Africa

Lwkm.

Hmmm. U're really lucky. I thank God for ur life.

Lwkmd...lmao.
Dis is fvcking hilarious

Chuknovski:
from bad to worst

Lwkmd...

Zoharariel:
Missy89, Nightie, Houseofglam7, Ishilove

Lol. Are you alryt, Sir?

IpobExposed:
Notice all the people are just lying down no prove that they are dead. lol. PDP wailers will not stop this. poor Photoshop work.

Fvck! But u're so fvcking stupid.
Gosh!!

mikaj:
Miss I did give you tips to make one. Just get an empty small spray plastic can.

Buy 200naira Cameroon pepper. Mix it with water abi hypo (Their father)....

pour it into the can and spray as you like.

Conductor no give you change, spray.
Someone touch you on the road, spray.
You don't like the way he is looking at you, spray..

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lmao...
una no go kee pesin.

Obinovictor:
Tboss does not even know the both of them and chances are that she won't even know them till they grow old and die.

rotfl

TrapHedges:
Short guy.. See as d yansh dey reach am for belle

lol

d guy looks lyk him sha

lolzzzz. jobless citizens.

dis is nice. weh done

Simple, bt nice... tiz ok sha.

nice!

fratermathy:


Any lover that is not creative enough to type an original message from his/her emotions is not worth the stress.

ur head is intact jare.