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Is there no one with an idea of a Nigerian website on Wedding Planning where he could have a full idea because am sure we have not answered his question. He seems he wants something like a list of what actually should be available and things like that, well what I feel!

as a wedding planner i can very easily tell you that you can only work with your budget. if you have 3 million naira to spend you will find things to spend it on, if you have 100,000 naira, it would also be fitted into your budget, so its really budget depended.

Is there no one with an idea of a Nigerian website on Wedding Planning where he could have a full idea because am sure we have not answered his question. He seems he wants something like a list of what actually should be available and things like that, well what I feel!

as a wedding planner i can very easily tell you that you can only work with your budget. if you have 3 million naira to spend you will find things to spend it on, if you have 100,000 naira, it would also be fitted into your budget, so its really budget depended.

i don't think many women would gladly leave thier kids and just go away, sometimes there's a lot more to it than meets the eye, sometimes they live in dangerous situations in which they may lose their lives if they stay and the only thing they can do is try to get out and see if they can fight for custody of the children from outside. but all in all, its terrible for any woman to leave her children.

marriage is for men, not boys. and a man will be very comfortable with providing for his family. my husband has never and will never ask for my paycheck, because he is a man and capable and able of taking care of his family. that is not to say i do not contribute effectively to the upkeep of the household. even with my fat salary, my husband stll gives me housekeeping allowance. i didnt beg him to come and take me form my father's house, so he shows very well that he is a man up to the task in every way. so you boys buckle up!

when you don't know something it is not proof that it cannot or does not happen and until you know then you just don't know.  pregnancy for every woman very different, even specialists will tell you that much. now i know so it will do you all 'unbelievers' a lot of ggod to stop being so cynical and learn, cos you never know when it might be up your alley.

as for pie1ect's cousin i can definitely not say whether or not she's lying but as to if women can be pregnant and not know, oh, i can verify that very easily because it has happened to me. and after finding out i wanted to find out more information about why it happened the way it did, checked out a few sites and found out that a lot of women have acutally experienced the same thing. i had wnat is called poly cystic ovarian syndrome, which made it impossible to have regular periods, women with pcos sometimes go for as many as 6 months or more without having their periods and coupled with that, they get bloated a lot, and experience weight gain around the waist. in addition to the foregoing, not all women experience morning sickness, i didn't, apart from fatigue once in a while, (which can always be attributed to something other than pregnancy of course) i didn't experience any other pregnancy symptom.

all these are not farfetched sotries, they are actually scientific information that anyone can get from books and the internet.

so like i said, in as much as i am not giving credence to the cousin's story, i am also saying when you don't know, don't knock it as untrue, find out!

timmy, i hope all the posts have made you realise that you are not alone, so many people face exactly what you are facing, its always our repsonse to situations that make or mar us. you have done the right thing by talking to your mum and i pray that you will be able to at least get a favourable response from your dad too. people who have lost loved ones are better able to appreciate the moments we have together in this life, don't wait until then before realsing that there was so much you could have said to each other.

what i said was i kind of want to blame them because they should have seen it coming but i guess they didnt.

its very wrong to blame or want to blame kids for their parents divorce, separation or whatever. we all (including parents) make choices. it is the choice of parents whether or not to get married in the first place and if they chose to fight continually before their kids, its also a choice and if they do decide to go ahead and get divorced no child should be blamed for it, no matter what the child did or not do. moreover, children should never have to play referees between thier parents.

we have one in my workplace and it is great. new mums can actually be close enough to their babies to breasfeed them and keep a closer eye on them. new moms who also do not have anyone to help out with their babies also bring them to the creche. its really great. i wish a lot more organisations will do that.

like others have said, most everyone faces issues like that while growing up. that is even the reason why some girls get married quickly, so they can leave home but the truth is parents usually love their kids and are just looking out for their best interests. so keep out the hate and just love them until you are able to be on your own, then you will actually realise how much they were doing for you.

they do so that they can go to a better place.

well, truly some things are always better left unsaid, but it doesnt have to be deceit. but when the issues bother on key things like a girl who can't have a baby anymore or stuff like that, it should definitely be said as sson as you are sure that it is serious otherwise you may find yourself telling every nferyn, ocho and seun all your tightly held secrets only to have them dump you.

suicide is never the answer to anything. only cowards consider it an option. and really if you consider yourself dead and look at teh issue in retrospect, you will discover a better way of handling things. i know because i have also tried it. but i am so glad i didn't succeed, my love found me before i could complete it.

i think skentele is the best from lagbaja, the guy is just so talented. i really like the song.

are you a sister who has been trying to have children? well what have you done about it? i am of the opinion that a lot of us don't do anything and the environment can be so unforgiving around here. meanwhile there are plenty of resoures available to you. first of all do you even know what the problem is? have you been to the doctor? lets talk because i have lots of information in this regard. of course this is strictly for married people.

ok. step 2. u guys should check next.co.uk, shopforless.com, door2doornigeria.com, and give me your quotes to design such sites.

hi rotimi, i would like a web site designed, can u give me a quote. you seem to know ur onions. its a shopping service site.

hi. for all u diego and paloma lovers, u can actually read most of the synopsis here www.novelahitz.com/cuando_seas_mia_synopsis.htm. i should actually charge you for it though cos it took me long hours to find a site with the synopsis in english. but i should wan u though, once u read the synopsis, ur interest in the real thing may wane. but enjoy it.