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am finding this thing pre and more boring by the day i wish they wld just get to the end. i get so tired oif diego and all his stupid temper flares.

this thing is really really sad, innocent people just dying for what?

living your dream means pursuing that dream with all your mental faculties working, not becoming senseless while pursuing those dreams. why would an otherwise intelligient guy or girl stop going to school or working because he/she wants to travel out? its just plain madness.

have you asked your father's people? that is if you know them? they should be able to at least give you a clue as to her people even if they don't know where she is.

Instead of her to knock the head of the husband that infected her with HIV she is complaining about the women that slept with him. Typical of women, they only love to attack their own kind.

actually watched oprah the other day where women were discussing their husband's infidelity and one of them actually said it was the "other" woman's fault. its really baffling how some women don't like facing up to realities.

anyways, this woman is being so unreal, how did she get the figure?

wow, boarding school was great, so much fun and independence! and all those stories were just stories. all those who said they saw one thing or the other were just fabulizing. hot angel dont believe all them stories.
the visiting days, the interschool competitions, where you get other schools coming over to yours and start posing for the boys, all those social fridays, wow just brings back memories.

why wont you speak for yourself?

another keyword is skentele.

geleonline is cool

only if you practice them o

If my wife to be can't cook, I will send her to catherine school! why catherine and not ngozi?

cooking is very easy, any woman who wants to retain her man will learn because lets face it you can't eat out every day and somedays you really want to be by yourselves in the house so the cook thing may not owrk plus my man just has not had a proper meal until he eats mine

i am thinking why are so many people not signed on to nairaland these days, making it kinda boring.

seun saw your site and i think you are sometimes koloistic

anywyas would you please invite me so i can register, sooner than later they would have to resume, if they haven't already.

too many children are out there just waiting to be adopted and loved by somebody. so they should adopt. if he marries a second wife that amy just kill the wife sharp sharp.

can you marry anyone from a broken home?

why would taht have to do with anything? so many people are from broken homes and gone on to have successful, lasting marriages.

I had to learn a long time ago that marriage takes a lot of work. I aim to make it my full time job, everything else is secondary and I let him know that.

Someone told me at my bachlorette party that marriage is a garden. It needs plenty of sun, you need to put a fence up around it to keep the critters out, constantly look over it and pull out any weeds you see growing, and give it a lot of time and attention to be sure that things are growing in a healthy way

well said. i will also add my penny's worth:

Bind not yourselves in the secretness that causes suspicion and doubt. Trust and reveal yourselves to each other, even as the budding rose opens to reveal its fragrance and beauty.
And hear not only words, but also the non-language of tone, mood, and expression. Learn to listen to understand rather than listening to argue.
Let no one come between your togetherness, not child, not friend, nor worldly goods. Yet maintain enough separateness to allow each other his or her own uniqueness.

"basking lovingly" my dear lasts only the first 1-2 years of marriage. After that, children, finance, bad habbits will begin to take it's toll on your marriage. and i presume you intend to get those strawberries in nigeria?

that is so not true! i have been married for many years and the 'basking lovingly' has intensified rather than diminish!

Different strokes for different folks, i am desperately trying to put on more weight to look much more good and here are people trying to come down and shed some ponds of flesh, na wa o, if only you guys can put those flesh and transfer them to me, i'll be so happy, not every girl luvs a lepa, especially when your girl tells u to put on more weight sha.

Hey Nikinash,thanks for asking. Am grossly overweight believe me! Am 5 7inch in height.BMI is > 30!
No chance of me ever being skinny-I can't remember ever being tiny except in Secondary school,and even then, I was bigger than lots of others.
for some years I was able to control my weight at 85 to 92kg.But in the last 5years,I have increasingly become more sedentary,and less active.My present job and abode means more time sitting down and less exercise. I can imagine the stare and horror!of a heavy black guy jogging on the streets of Quetta!! I get mugged when walking from home to office,and back,and that is just a 10 minute walk in a "safe" estate. However,am begining to discover things I can do that do not cause me severe lower back pain(whch I guess is due to the weight!)

when you do sedentary jobs its more advisable to eat less carb cos you dont use it!

I think lecturers are not earning so badly. Most of the lecturers can afford cars and can even (the professors) send their chilren abroad to study. Plus, they have lots of time for private businesses

reason why they can afford to send their kids abroad is cos they have too much time for private biz, not cos they earn enough to even dress well.

too true

I've come up with a new hypothesis for this. "These females are just, simply put, stupid."
Pretense is definitely not the way forward. Never has been. Never will be.

guys like you are the ones who get shown that babes are anything but stupid.

you could do something else. consulting for example.

guys believe that they are God-sent to babes and therefore once they appear babe must fall. so when babe says no they believe she's forming, why can't you just accept that she does not like you at least initially until you prove your m ettle?

might be, to you. but i believe it.

You know what, I've only been married a year now, I was married at 17 and now i'm 18 years old, wearing makeup and stuff doesnt change the fact that some people wern't meant to be or just have a marriage that is dead, wedding photos, i always look at and he doesn't seem to say anything oh you look beautiful or anything,

some men have difficulty expressing themselves, you have to tell him what you want to hear, its just like when you make love most times your partner would not be able to satisfy you except you let him know what it is that gets you there so let your husband know what is is that will make you happy, if he says it fine, if not then learn to understand him by reading his nuances. even if he doesn't say it he may look at you in a way that will make you know that he appreciates what he sees.

by the way, are you sure he even likes you making up?

not enough to take him home

why would i want to contradict what i believe?

teefah, wonderful post. well done my sister.
he who feels it knows it!

word!

abuguy64 what is your height? its important to know so that you are within the proper weight range for your body. a lot of people just want to lose weight for losing wieght's sake. we dont want you being skinny now do we?

Kay, I'm not trying to loss weight right now but i gained 1 stone over Christmas and manage to loss it in one month. My friends do come to me regularly for advice on how to gain muscle tone and lose weight. I don't go to the gym but manage to invent my own home made work out regime.

so share those workout tips gilr

i keep a bottle of water by my bedside and drink often so i can get at least 8 cups everyday. you may go to the loo often but hey, it helps to flush out all unwanted toxins from your body and you lose weight faster

It is good for girls to act tough atimes, but some guys might not be patient and would move on. So girls have to know the level of how they front

if he wants her good enough he will stick around!

what is ur height? get on a scale and check what it says, that would be your present weigh but we can get your ideal weight range with you height and it is possible to tone up before meeting them.

yep dressing well is definitely very key. sometimes we get careless when we get married and stop looking good, that just turns our men off, don't ever forget that those mini-wearing monis are out there.