You'll definitely have to confront her about it.
If you can't do that, then take away her reason for the visit.

You are not the only one.

My fears about marriage originates from the fact that I don't want to share my space with anyone. But watching my parents, together, I think I want something just like that.

Distract yourself with someone or something else. What's worthy of time and affection is out there, not a liar and dishonesty person.

Well, he can't seem to focus on one woman.

I totally agree.
If I reincarnate as a woman, I'll be a lesbian.

Offpoint1:
Why not informed her?

Hey, your breath smells really bad.
Go behind the pulpit and brush your mouth.

Sure. Why not...

Serves him right.

I've always preferred slim women. And no, am not talking about slippers... But those with a little back and front.

Run away from women who like free food.

Run away from women who talk too much.
That is, if you want to live a long peaceful life.

RED flags everywhere.

I don't know what love is but I know it can never spring out from an angry, manipulative, distrustful, disrespectful and abusive person.

Keep her out of your life and know peace.

Lmao. If you're not at peace about it, throw it.

Legalize abortion?

I am guessing it'll pleased you if she decided to be celibate and move around with an ash tray till eternity... Life goes on actually.

Probably because you hate to be bothered!

Speaking for myself actually, I don't bother people because I want people to respect my space and privacy also.

Learn to cherish what you have OP.
Have you not sworn to take care of her?

Apologize by getting her another phone.
Then send her the cash she demanded.
Don't forget her family members too.

You'll get sense or die trying.

What a he-goat. Men never disappoint.

Anyway, moving forward, be a better person than your parents. Tell your son the truth and protect your daughters fiercely.

I find time to rest everyday. No matter what.

Buhari 2.0.
His health should be his priority anyway.

seunsiju:

At least she should be considerate, it's hard everywhere

I agree with you.

But If you can afford to take care of your new girlfriend and her expenses, you can do much more for your child.

And why should she?
New baby stuffs for a new baby. Congrats.

After effect of using toxic bleaching agents.

Date smart people please.
Planet Earth IQ must rise not decline.

I'm sorry about your situation. Seems like you've been through worse and this is just a bump. You will survive this and come out even stronger.

Currently your biggest problem is money to pay bills. Bro don't wait for a hero to save you. Go out and hustle, manual labour and all. Do it all.

From your write up, it's obvious your boyfriend genuinely loves you. He wants a future with you and he wouldn't want to lose you. If he's playing the culture card, it's coming from his parents. It could be that they do not totally approve of you.

You may not like the pace but I think he's doing the best he can in integrating you into his life. I suggest you take a step back. Do not pressure.

Nothing is worth fighting for except its your life.

If I'm not my girlfriend's bestie, I'm wasting my time. Yes, I'm so possessive. It's me or not me.