You're an irresponsible man.

You don't have the resources or courage to face responsibilities yet you refused to zip it up or make use of contraceptives against pregnancy.

I don't have anything against abortion but I am against stupid people abusing privileges. Now you're a father to ‘several’ dead children. Sicko.

If you don't want to lose her, then marry her.

You both should use your ‘fertile energy’ and get a job that'll take care of the financial challenges.

The society doesn't want a dysfunction family.

asgard01:
LOIZ... I see what you did there

Finally.

You transformed in the right places. Nice.

Her big god have a thing for busty sacrifices.

But the high priestess should have known that while she can decide who comes into the shrine, she cannot decide who the god visits.

And we all know Ned is an old benevolent god.

A girl I ignored in my class started a rumor that I fart uncontrollably in class. Well guess who told me?? My sis. Got to know after I left the school.

I've never seen a manual on how to grief.

It's not hilarious to me. I can tell she's in pain.

Wow. Incredible news.

I just recieved a million naira bank credit.

Funny really because same people chastising them see nothing wrong in an adult man taking an underage girl as a bride or child labour.

Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Conpany shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What about hoe, gold digger, go to hell, etc.

There are lots of farm tools that we can use too.

Another one.

At this rate, one-day, we'll all wake up to find out that Nigerian snakes have migrated to Canada.

Friend22:


OK, can we agree your birth came through rape because we don't know if your dad did it forcefully.

OK, can we agree your skull is full of spaghetti because we don't know if you have a brain at all.

So your obstacles to a married life are age and feminism? Lol. Your type plenty for naija now.

Coming back home is a waste of time.

You'll only just be joining the marriage hustling market of illiberal old men who're all desperately searching for close minded young ladies to take advantage of in the name of marriage.

You'll hardly succeed.

Vikkygeee:

She's not someone, she is my blood that I've looked after all my life,If I see something that is going to lead her astray I have the right to do anything that will keep it from happening. However this situation is not a grave one that is why I decided to support her.

She's an adult and her own person first.

You are wrong to believe outing her will make everything to scatter. You'll only be giving her a choice; to deny her sexuality and to resent you.

Try putting yourself in her shoes.

You can encourage her to come out though.
Don't spill out her secret without permission.

It's NEVER in your place to out someone.
You can encourage her to come out though.

But that should be HER decision alone.

spartan117:

Kid.

SIMP.

Joycekkh:
Why is it disturbing? [s]you are so broken that you dont know how to love. Leave me that wants to love and pamper women to do so and get the fuq out of here.[/s]

It's disturbing because he's encouraging men to put themselves in a subservient and submissive position under a woman; from worshipping her to living for her alone. That's utter nonsense.

Men should respect their women not worship.

And they should live their lives for themselves and not to please the expectations of a woman.

If you consider boosting your baby's immunity by feeding him nature's balanced nutritional diet as spoiling then well yes. Too much breast milk will spoil him. She's not a witch but she's right.

Poloyanabo2:

What do you mean?

Exactly what you deduced from my post.

Stay put. Don't accept the new offer.

With no job security and it's only a slight salary increment, it's not worth risking your stable life.

I believe the free accommodation will be invalid the moment you're fired, so it's not really a perk.

There's nothing like marital rape.

It's simply RAPE.
Be it in the confines of marriage or not.

Oh well, good news for yahoo boys and SARS.

Giving tips on a successful union, 'FFK' states that "if you want to keep a lady, live for her alone, worship the ground she walks on, treat her like a Queen, tolerate and accept her idiosyncrasies, weaknesses, and excesses and love her for who and what she is, warts and all!".

This is disturbing.
His article should be titled; How to be a simp!

Men should acquire wealth and forget woman.

Move on.
There's a new rough rider in town.

It's obvious her celibacy only applies to you.

Taking care of your girlfriend is entirely different to playing professional football for MAGA FCB.

There's a clear distinction between the two.

There's no formula to getting over heartbreak.

But one thing common in all successful stories is a conscious DECISION to accept reality and move on with life. This with other actions like;

- Cutting off total contact if possible.
- Reaching out to others to help you fill the void.
- Getting busy with life and hobbies.
- Having fun.
- Going to a shrine and bottling his picture.

The goal is to create new memories in order to over ride & destroy your emotional attachment.

baralatie:

the thing about reporting or intervening is that you don't know whether you are dealing with a snake, a monkey or leopard hiding in the bush.
if he reports and both adulterers change story,tactics and get him burned what happens then.

I don't see how he can end up getting burned.
But I understand your concern.

Anyway, anonymity is an option he can explore.

Lordfranklin:
Mind your business and live long OP.
There are lots of evil going on in this world even as we speak.
Minding your business requires no starting capital.

Na only you come today?
Ambassador of mind your business crew.

Lots of evil going on in the world doesn't mean we should condone or accept it as part of us.

Nothing wrong in OP contacting her hubby.
Or appealing to his friend to stop this evil.

But as always... You lots only encourage evil.

A moment of silence for that unfortunate man.

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esky158:
is it right to marry someone baby mama

It's ONLY right if you love her and her child.

If you despise her child, don't attempt.
Abort mission.

Why?

Because no woman stays in love with a man who despises her child. Her natural maternal side will always win. She'll start hating you.

So it's up to you to decide if its right or wrong.

Macphenson:
After chopping her for years with it's attendant consequences, you now realise you are not ready.

You should have told her from the very first day you were approaching her that you were not ready for marriage, so she won't invest her emotions in the wrong person.

Now you have eaten to your fill, you realise you are not ready for marriage.

Nonsense.

Bros calm down now.

We are in the 21st century.

It doesn't make sense to start reciting poetry on the first day about not being ready for marriage.

People have different goals for getting into a relationship; financial benefits, companionship, sex, security etc. It must not end in marriage.

Adult know this.

Before or immediately after first coitus.

It's never too late to seek for justice.

I encourage you to sue his arse even though it'll be a very tedious task. Bro, your late dad might not even be the only victim to this wickedness.

There might be others out there.
And unless you try, you'll never know.

No matter the outcome, you'll find solace in the fact that you didn't turn a blind eye. What more, the evil man will know that there are people out there watching him. So he'll be forced to repent or risk falling by the edge of the sword.

Research bro, research about him!
Also compile all your dad's medical records.

You need to prove that your dad went under the knife with two healthy kidneys & died as a result of organ rapture due to medical incompetence.

Goodluck man.