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Carchoice:
I support you 100 percent.

I’m still trying to picture myself in marriage and not cheating. It’s impossible. Me wey like yansh?


Women enjoys all the shakara and attention all through they youthful years but wants the man to hide his prick because of marriage. That prick will do wonders o. Even after marriage it will not rest.

Life is easy.
Marriage isn't for everyone. It's a choice.

If you can't adhere to the faithfulness of marriage then stay single and keep having fun with your community prick. It's a very simple logic oga.

What an achievement.
I hope you get nominated for the Nobel prize.

Rozz:
You will agree with me that men leech more these days in the name of "what are you bringing to the table "not more a woman's thing.

No. I don't agree.

Men are only waking up after realizing women have been doing nothing but leeching on them.

We ask “what are you bringing to the table? to verify that she is capable woman & not a leech.

Deltayankeeboi:
Really? what of your dad? has he gone into extinction? [s]If he is still around today, then he must be a fake ass man, wife beater and cheat because according to you, real men no longer exist today.[/s]

Bro, the latter part of your post is unnecessary.
You don't need it to counter her shaming tactic.

We all know they only use the term ‘real men’ when it's beneficial to women. Don't fall for it.

Rozz:
Leeches everywhere disguised as men.

How ironic that this is coming from a woman.

She's worse than those rapist.
Her punishment should be threefold.

On Tuesday, however, some policemen allegedly acting on the instruction of the Oliver Twist crooner detained Seyitan for over 24 hours and intimidated her, making her delete all chats, social media posts and other vital information from her phone.

An act of desperation.
Only a GUILTY person would do this.

He's not even trying to prove his innocence.

Are you really serious about her?
If you don't see a future with her, break it off.

Because it'll end in premium tears.

You'll lose her, your bestfriend and others.
Your mutual friends will have to choose sides.

Anyway, you've to make a choice now;
Your life time bestfriend or a potential mate?

For you to lie about your age, it's clearly obvious that you lack the emotional maturity she seeks.

And the longer you wait, the worse it'll get.

So tell her.
If she wants to date you, AGE wouldn't matter.

You are cheating on the first girl.

It looks like you've made a choice.
So break up with her already.

Why because if you valued what you have with her, you'd NEVER risk it for anyone. But since you're willing to risk it, means you feel nothing.

Sixfeetbelle:
And that's the issue, isn't it?

How safe is prolonged use of contraceptives for a woman who plans to have kids in the future?

How safe? Not encouraging.

Especially for hormonal contraceptives which is by far the commonest used by most women.

missjo:
This is kind of the point tho.
I can't comprehend any way I could possibly get pregnant against my own wishes. I mean, it's my uterus right?

That's an odd thing to type.

Lol. It's your uterus.

Well, I hope your perceived self-efficacy to avoid unwanted pregnancy and to use contraceptives doesn't come back to bite you. Have a nice day.

missjo:
Lol, what do you mean by coercion and manipulation and how exactly does it impact my decision to not get pregnant when I don't want to?

Your partner coercing you into having coitus & birth control failing (yes, it's not 100% effective).

You getting pregnant because your SO wouldn't marry you if you don't, thus your relationship is on the line and you're manipulated to give in.

Just trying to say, there are external factors that can impact your decision against your wishes.

missjo:
This is dependent on the society a woman lives in.
I believe single women in Nigeria are too culturally restricted when it comes to the issue of sex, this can make them feel embarrassed if they need to walk into pharmacies or see doctors to get birth control options.

I've been getting access to birth control since I turned 21. Waking into any pharmacy here for these things is quite normal and no one looks at you funny. Bought male condoms sometimes as well, to ensure he does not come with an excuse of not having one. Getting pregnant or not getting pregnant is my decision.

Not entirely true.
Not when coercion and manipulation exists.

Yes.

Let's applaud them for doing the right thing.

Cuties. I love the black one.

Lies. You don't feel any pity for him.

You're nothing but a useless díldo that a woman is using to scratch her vagina so how can you??

I don't understand how you can comfortably be fúcking someone's fiancee. You are shameless.

Abort mission.
Don't be a maga.

She'll ruin you and run you dry.

ModestGal:
I know the tribe of your sister. They are good in using family members like slaves, let me just not mention it so they won't say I'm a tribalist.

But this particular tribe is very good at this thing, my sister friend for example, this lady is very wicked that she would tell the girl living with her to mop floor with rag, she said its neater than using mop. And the most annoying is that when the family members of this girl visit, they would still be calling the girl lazy (I mean her mother), this girl is almost depressed, she's a little girl in JSS3, she can cook food wey I no sabi cook. She looks very dull, it makes me hater her mum and a my sis friend shes living with because they are both wicked idiot practising child abuse.

Back to your matter, just have some patience ehn, the one you can do, do it, the one you cannot do, leave it. Don't get angry with your sister, just leave her to be angry, you can also say sorry and still not do the work she wants you to do. Thats how to live with those kind of people, and make sure you demand money very well from her, and if she no give you, report her to your mother. When you are through with service, commot her house. She no get option, you be her sister whither she likes it or not, and you can't have her in Abuja and move somewhere not convenient for you.

Tell her this, ''go and tell our mother to rewind time and not give birth to me to be your sister, but this one that I'm your sister, you will have to take care of me whether you like it or not''.

Now, play victim, always remind her of people with sisters that are handicapped but taking care of them, you can even play movies with such occurrences and grumble that, ''shebi na one sister be this''
Start playing baby, you can even form that you are sick, chronic one, dey vomit, and if your mother ask you, tell her that you have depression because of what you are going through in your sisters house.

Tribalism, emotional blackmail and extortion.
All in one post.

You're not helping anyone with this balderdash.

OP, don't blackmail or extort money from her.
Yes your sister is taking advantage of you.
But don't be like her.

I suggest you move back to your parent's house.
You can accomplish your goals there.

You're an irresponsible man.

You don't have the resources or courage to face responsibilities yet you refused to zip it up or make use of contraceptives against pregnancy.

I don't have anything against abortion but I am against stupid people abusing privileges. Now you're a father to ‘several’ dead children. Sicko.

If you don't want to lose her, then marry her.

You both should use your ‘fertile energy’ and get a job that'll take care of the financial challenges.

The society doesn't want a dysfunction family.

asgard01:
LOIZ... I see what you did there

Finally.

You transformed in the right places. Nice.

Her big god have a thing for busty sacrifices.

But the high priestess should have known that while she can decide who comes into the shrine, she cannot decide who the god visits.

And we all know Ned is an old benevolent god.

A girl I ignored in my class started a rumor that I fart uncontrollably in class. Well guess who told me?? My sis. Got to know after I left the school.

I've never seen a manual on how to grief.

It's not hilarious to me. I can tell she's in pain.

Wow. Incredible news.

I just recieved a million naira bank credit.

Funny really because same people chastising them see nothing wrong in an adult man taking an underage girl as a bride or child labour.

Onyi22:
Using Ring is an old fashion of proposing to a lady, Must men still use it up till date?

Can't they use Cars, Landed properties, Conpany shares, investment Portfolios to prospose marriage?

What about hoe, gold digger, go to hell, etc.

There are lots of farm tools that we can use too.

Another one.

At this rate, one-day, we'll all wake up to find out that Nigerian snakes have migrated to Canada.

Friend22:
OK, can we agree your birth came through rape because we don't know if your dad did it forcefully.

OK, can we agree your skull is full of spaghetti because we don't know if you have a brain at all.

So your obstacles to a married life are age and feminism? Lol. Your type plenty for naija now.

Coming back home is a waste of time.

You'll only just be joining the marriage hustling market of illiberal old men who're all desperately searching for close minded young ladies to take advantage of in the name of marriage.

You'll hardly succeed.