Don't deceive yourself.

If you are harbouring vile thoughts and hate against her, then marrying her should not even be on the menu or an idea worth considering.

You're not ready to forgive.
You're not ready for marriage.

Besides, the fact that you're double dating and not being loyal is a red flag that you're not ready for any marriage. Grow up and stop being petty.

There's clearly a new recipient of her affection.

But what do I know.

The politicians have a lot to lose.
They wouldn't jeopardize their income.

They'll always find a way of unifying the country.

Donating blood should also be a sin then.

She's already into runs.
You've been dating a prostitute.

Her vagina. Her life. Allow her to put it to good use so as to feed and cloth her wretched life.

She's not abandoning you.
She's giving you space to fix your life and mess.

You should be grateful to her.
Fuel your legged benz and move on.

You don't spend on him yourself.
So why should he spend on you??

Don't be an entitled leech.
It's his money. And you should be okay how he decides to spend it. You are not married to him.

She definitely raped that poor boy.

When are we going to start arresting abusive and incapable parents?? This is just soo wrong.

It's not discipline at all.
Its assault.

Stripping and flogging in public??
How can you do this to a human being!

Only mad and insane people will justify this.

Have you thought about involving your pastor??
He may be able to convince them to accept her.

Anyway man, it's your life.
In the end, you'll be the one living the marriage.
So be selfish and do what is best for you.

This life is too short. Marry your woman abeg.

Meme guy laycon will win this show.

Mark my words.

Opening up is a step in the right direction to not hating her. You can start up a conversation with her about how it's very improper and criminal to ‘touch’ people without permission. It should be easy to pass the message. You'll feel better.

That bitchy leech will keep bleeding you dry and one day, you will wake up to the realization that you're nothing but a carcass. Don't be a simp!!

This is a woman that would rather leave you to die from your thirst than give you water to drink.

Dump her!

Because there's no need to pretend anymore.
And the mask falls off.

There's no change in character.
People just stop pretending.

Your title should read; she's older than me but I want to marry her because of green card.

Anyway man, it's your life.
But this is a stupid decision in the making.

Lmao. I like the guy already.

He'll be a great supplier to the meme factory!

textilemania:


Abi you don get Corona?

Godforbid man.
I'll regain my voice if Man Utd Score/win.

NerdyRudeGyal:
No, it is not. Spongers, loofahs or whatever you use to bathe are breeding grounds for bacteria and contain fungal organisms that can lead to skin infections. Something you're supposed to be changing regularly as a sole-user sef, you want to now be sharing, na wa.

Thank you for this!

I get sore throat so I'm not shouting today.

uniqueboi1:
What if she didn't tell you? Now you know she is honest and fertile.

It also means she's a promiscuous woman.
And that she's incapable of rational decisions.

You should abort mission. Unless you want to and you're comfortable sharing your family with two other men. This will be the case anyway.

It's not hygienic.
Unless you're a microbiologist.
And culturing bacteria is your thing.

Physical abuse doesn't correct bad behavior.

Life is unfair. I'm pained that a tree somewhere out there is tirelessly producing oxygen for the ídiot OP to live. She is abusing that privilege!

He should turn himself in to authorities for rape.

Keep it as a pet. It's an option.

This is lovely.

Wishing you a happy married life.

RIP to bachelorhood.

I disagree.

Modern age fathers are not losing relevance.

No courtship and straight up to marriage??

It's no suprising that with his lack of education, he's opting straight for marriage without getting to know her. But why is she even considering??

That's very risky. She should flee.
If she's educated, then answer is pretty obvious.

This is barbaric. It's the height of gullibility. His parents ought be arrested for utter neglect. And the prophet confine inside a psychiatric ward!

veave:
Errrrrr. You go need patience oooo.

One thing you should know is that your brother is now married and is firstly responsible to his wife and kids before any other person so him allowing three extended family to stay in this hard times is an act of kindness and bravery please don't add more stress to his life by bickering with your in-laws. We women are troublesome by nature then when we see someone who has our time we extend the trouble. The truth is
1. There is no way the room would have been left for you while there are women in the house (they need privacy).
2. Why will you say that you will go to the village? Don't you know you give your brother some kind of security in the midst of his wife and her obviously troublesome sisters by staying with him? Has he asked you to leave yet?
3. You where wrong to slap the young woman, no matter what the grieviance is you don't touch a woman.
4. They where wrong to throw your mattress out but please forgive them and move on. Thank God your brother made provisions for a replacement.
5. Take this place as a training ground for your future, if it's anything you should be bothered about now, is to be more determined about gaining independence and making it in life.
6. Leave rofo rofo fight for women, in fact ignore them totally for your national peace.
7. Hustle!!! Hustle!!! Hustle oooooo!!!!

Hugs.

Women troublesome by nature.
Women need more privacy.
Wrong to slap a woman no matter what.
Bla bla bla and so many other nonsense.

Why didn't you reason before posting this?
You must be a dunce.