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I believe she must have left with your 3 year old daughter too and even if she didn't, it's wrong of you man NOT to initiate contact with her family.

Go and see them in-person to resolve the issue.
You claim you love your wife so chase after her.

Your nonchalant attitude will ruin your marriage.

What's there to even deliberate about??

He should send his wife and kids packing and make his ex-girlfriend his new wife. I sincerely believe they are meant to be together. She has learned her lesson and she's a changed woman.

A man that lacks common sense should suffer.

It's literally impossible for her to be pregnant.

Why? — There is no egg available to be fertilize. Even if there's one, it will take about a week.

He is a useless husband for absconding from his responsibilities. That man not only betrayed her trust but his marriage also by impregnating another woman. Your sister should leave him.

I believe family and friends can rally and aid her into securing a job or something to do. Also the court will force her hubby to provide money for childcare. Your sister is better off without him.

Your wife;

1. Cheated on you.
2. Prevented you from seeing your own kids.
3. Didn't support you when you needed her.

There is nothing to go back to here, nothing. So yes, confront her about the affair. Let her know what she did killed her marriage and whatever you both had. Don't let her manipulate you man.

When scammers give relationship advice.

Is it too late now to say sorry?

Go and ask Justin Bieber. No offence.

I can't even imagine how it feels to live under the same roof with a suicidal wife who is bent on trying to blame her demise on you. Terrible.

The way I see it, your wife needs mental care.

She is depressed and so stressed out from the pressure of TTC. I'm not making excuses for her bad behaviours but she needs someone to talk to and relate with. Let her go home mate, she'll cool down. In the mean time, think about IVF & surrogacy. Lots of successful stories out there.

Stop harboring strangers under your roof. Just because she's a woman or another sex worker doesn't mean you're safe or she's to be trusted.

Have some regard for your life man.
Stop being so careless and reckless.

Send her out, call for help if necessary.

You wouldn't know what disrespect is even if it slaps you in the face. You're exaggerating and seeing what is not there. This is a case of you having a fragile ego but if you believe otherwise then you both need to sit down and talk about it.

You made the right decision man for your sanity peace of mind. You will not regret it. Focus your mind on important things and forget about her.

I don't see myself ever cheating on my wife but if I'd, the only thing she can do that'll hurt me is to forgive me entirely; and then permit me to go marry the woman I cheated with so that we'll all live together as one family. That would hurt me.

Shouldn't he be celebrating the second chance given to him by his ancestors?? The way I see it he dodged bullet! He'd be trapped in a marriage with a woman that doesn't want him.

I've got nothing to say. I'll just lay low here...

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She was honest enough to open up, well then she's worth it and you should give her a chance.

Looking forward to your future threads.

Your husband has not even acknowledge that he has a problem. I mean the fact that he's not even bothered at all signifies that he's not ready to accept necessary changes to his lifestyle.

You need to make him see and accept he has a problem. Do whatever you can to make him visit a doctor together before anything. Only then.

Yes. It doesn't matter to me.
I look at potential and industrialization.

So black panthers are actually jaugaurs and leopards and not like a real specie of a big cat??

But I thought.... And I watched...
Mehn I never knew but now I do. Interesting!!

What tha?

She's a minor by law.
A romantic relationship with her is illegal.

Whatever relationship you seek to have with her should be put on hold for now until she's 18yrs.

How can a mother and a father, two grown-up adults who are supposed to protect their very own children agree to give them off to be defile in the name of casting out evil spirit??

They are mentally INSANE.
They should be in the psychiatric ward.

My heart bleeds for those poor kids.

You physically assaulted the person you love to a point she bled and you're fúcking proud to tell your story to the world?? You are very SICK.

You need anger management man.
You also need to apologize for your actions.

Work on yourself before you kill someone else.

You've a very twisted and messed up mentality concerning discipline, correction and love. The fact that you believe not beating kids equates to poor parental duty, signifies the need for you to undergo immediate psychiatric counselling.

Taking of facts, there's no research out there to back your claim of unabused kids turning up with the most sense of entitlement & etcetera.

It's just YOUR unprofessional opinion.

My advice to you is not to have kids. Not yet.

I'm sorry for your lost man. Be strong.

Not trying to be insensitive but I don't think you should entertain diabolical thoughts concerning your parents death. Sudden deaths are mostly due to an underlying disease so don't be afraid.

The best way to fight your enemies is by going for regular medical check ups & living a healthy life. Don't pay any money to any pastor.

God's protection doesn't cost a dime. It is FREE.

How do you live with yourself knowing another guy is panel beating the woman you intend to marry but with your permission??


I pity you.

You are not dating her father or his deity.

As long your girlfriend shares your beliefs as a Christian... then I don't get the cause for alarm.

Pastors are men, human beings.
Only a fool will give them blind devotion.

flyingpig:
yoruba man will lick anything, I repeat anything buhari does just to get support from him for Tinubu. I guess during school lockdown in USA cows and camels were being grazed on school fields?

Your backward, old centurist mindset surely doesn't know what is called private ranch.

Pig, your first sentence exposed your stupidity.

Have a nice flight.

So what's wrong with camels eating grass in an abandoned school?? I see nothing wrong here.

Taywon:
The heart of Man.....

Blame the mother...

God gave you a functioning brain but NO... you declined and choose to reason with your anus.

Now see the nonsense you're spewing!

“Blame the mother”... Why??

I hope your pastors gave you permission to share your story and seek for advice on nairaland?

A gift for the fanatics hiding in Sambisa.