History tells us that our ancestors interpret any deviation from ‘normality’ as either a blessing or a curse especially if they don't understand why.

Albinism unfortunately became associated with negative superstitious beliefs hence the hate & discrimination. It's simple as that.

I can smell the strong stench of infidelity.
Stop playing detective and confront her asap.

She has to clear your suspicion beyond ALL reasonable doubt. If she fails, you know what to do. Your sanity and peace of mind is important.

Life is too short to tolerate nonsense.

A lot of Nigerian men need psychiatric care.

Received. Thanks alot ma'am. God bless.

Cc: Ifyalways.

It wasn't even appropriate for him to ask.

How I imagined Blank spend her Lockdown.


The media was saturated with news update about the world in demise and a lot of countries started to close down their borders in order to protect their citizens from the corona pandemic. Blank noticed the evolving trend and thus immediately decided to seek for permission from her employers to work from home. This will not only allow her to work safely from the confines of her room but also allow her to travel abroad together with her family.

A week after her request was granted, Blank and her husband along with their 3 lovely children flew across the Atlantic to the US. This was a decision taken with very little time to prepare and so expectedly, the first 3 days after their arrival was hectic. Taking care of her family in the day time and working late into the night due to timing differences with her home country took a toil on her. It wasn't easy. She thought about getting a nanny to make things easier but for some reason decided not to. Eventually though, she immediately signed up her youngest child up for daycare. With him in good hands, ‘she could breathe easier, work better and still put an eye on her older boys’.

As predicted, things got easier for blank at least for about a week until unfortunately, the daycare had to close down after a nation wide lockdown order was issued by the government. To prepare for the coming event, she and her family wasted no time in rushing to a supermarket to purchase and stock up on all the necessary provisions that'll last them for the uncertain future.

After the lockdown began, life became a little stressful for Blank. The initial early days were chaotic and tiring, typical of a full house. Staying indoors and not being allowed to go outside was a new experience for her and her family. They were all anxious and uneasy. They'd watch the news everyday and it's always about people dying from corona and health care workers fighting a battle to save lives. It breaks her heart every time she sees such sad news and her patriotic nature usually compels her to say a word of prayer for her home country.

A few weeks later, the BLM movement started. Blank had to stop her kids from watching the news because paranoia was gradually seeping into their lives. To help her family survive this, she came up with a new routine. She'd wake up early hours of the morning for her private time and then wake up the whole family an hour later. After breakfast, the children attend to their morning chores and then study online for a stipulated period with TV and game time sandwiched in between. Occasionally she'd make them go outside for a walk but they don't like that. They would rather stay indoors because they are afraid of coming into contact with infected people. She also taught her kids how to ‘make basic food so they can fetch their breakfast, warm their food, make sandwiches, fry eggs, etc.’ Soon the routine became a part of them and they all adjusted to it. Life started to sink in, and their mood started to change. Friends and family reached out to them to know how they are coping.

A new passion for cooking spontaneously took hold of Blank's husband. He cooked and baked and cooked. Blank wasn't really into cooking though. She instead tried to help her kids to understand creative arts but it was futile as they couldn't do it on their own without making a huge mess. For the rest of the lockdown period, Blank concentrate on her work. And with her exams coming up, she has started prepping for it.

There's no reason for you not to marry her man.

She is an amazing person before anything.
You've deemed her worthy to be the mother of your kids, to spend the rest of your life together.

So why should our opinion count??

Happy married life man. Wish you the best.
You're not alone. She will be there for you.

Just want to say it's a bad idea to drill him.
You can't correct his addiction by torturing him.

I believe she must have left with your 3 year old daughter too and even if she didn't, it's wrong of you man NOT to initiate contact with her family.

Go and see them in-person to resolve the issue.
You claim you love your wife so chase after her.

Your nonchalant attitude will ruin your marriage.

What's there to even deliberate about??

He should send his wife and kids packing and make his ex-girlfriend his new wife. I sincerely believe they are meant to be together. She has learned her lesson and she's a changed woman.

A man that lacks common sense should suffer.

It's literally impossible for her to be pregnant.

Why? — There is no egg available to be fertilize. Even if there's one, it will take about a week.

He is a useless husband for absconding from his responsibilities. That man not only betrayed her trust but his marriage also by impregnating another woman. Your sister should leave him.

I believe family and friends can rally and aid her into securing a job or something to do. Also the court will force her hubby to provide money for childcare. Your sister is better off without him.

Your wife;

1. Cheated on you.
2. Prevented you from seeing your own kids.
3. Didn't support you when you needed her.

There is nothing to go back to here, nothing. So yes, confront her about the affair. Let her know what she did killed her marriage and whatever you both had. Don't let her manipulate you man.

When scammers give relationship advice.

Is it too late now to say sorry?

Go and ask Justin Bieber. No offence.

I can't even imagine how it feels to live under the same roof with a suicidal wife who is bent on trying to blame her demise on you. Terrible.

The way I see it, your wife needs mental care.

She is depressed and so stressed out from the pressure of TTC. I'm not making excuses for her bad behaviours but she needs someone to talk to and relate with. Let her go home mate, she'll cool down. In the mean time, think about IVF & surrogacy. Lots of successful stories out there.

Stop harboring strangers under your roof. Just because she's a woman or another sex worker doesn't mean you're safe or she's to be trusted.

Have some regard for your life man.
Stop being so careless and reckless.

Send her out, call for help if necessary.

You wouldn't know what disrespect is even if it slaps you in the face. You're exaggerating and seeing what is not there. This is a case of you having a fragile ego but if you believe otherwise then you both need to sit down and talk about it.

You made the right decision man for your sanity peace of mind. You will not regret it. Focus your mind on important things and forget about her.

I don't see myself ever cheating on my wife but if I'd, the only thing she can do that'll hurt me is to forgive me entirely; and then permit me to go marry the woman I cheated with so that we'll all live together as one family. That would hurt me.

Shouldn't he be celebrating the second chance given to him by his ancestors?? The way I see it he dodged bullet! He'd be trapped in a marriage with a woman that doesn't want him.

I've got nothing to say. I'll just lay low here...

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She was honest enough to open up, well then she's worth it and you should give her a chance.

Looking forward to your future threads.

Your husband has not even acknowledge that he has a problem. I mean the fact that he's not even bothered at all signifies that he's not ready to accept necessary changes to his lifestyle.

You need to make him see and accept he has a problem. Do whatever you can to make him visit a doctor together before anything. Only then.

Yes. It doesn't matter to me.
I look at potential and industrialization.

So black panthers are actually jaugaurs and leopards and not like a real specie of a big cat??

But I thought.... And I watched...
Mehn I never knew but now I do. Interesting!!

What tha?

She's a minor by law.
A romantic relationship with her is illegal.

Whatever relationship you seek to have with her should be put on hold for now until she's 18yrs.