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RED flags everywhere.

I don't know what love is but I know it can never spring out from an angry, manipulative, distrustful, disrespectful and abusive person.

Keep her out of your life and know peace.

Lmao. If you're not at peace about it, throw it.

Legalize abortion?

I am guessing it'll pleased you if she decided to be celibate and move around with an ash tray till eternity... Life goes on actually.

Probably because you hate to be bothered!

Speaking for myself actually, I don't bother people because I want people to respect my space and privacy also.

Learn to cherish what you have OP.
Have you not sworn to take care of her?

Apologize by getting her another phone.
Then send her the cash she demanded.
Don't forget her family members too.

You'll get sense or die trying.

What a he-goat. Men never disappoint.

Anyway, moving forward, be a better person than your parents. Tell your son the truth and protect your daughters fiercely.

I find time to rest everyday. No matter what.

Buhari 2.0.
His health should be his priority anyway.

seunsiju:
At least she should be considerate, it's hard everywhere

I agree with you.

But If you can afford to take care of your new girlfriend and her expenses, you can do much more for your child.

And why should she?
New baby stuffs for a new baby. Congrats.

After effect of using toxic bleaching agents.

Date smart people please.
Planet Earth IQ must rise not decline.

I'm sorry about your situation. Seems like you've been through worse and this is just a bump. You will survive this and come out even stronger.

Currently your biggest problem is money to pay bills. Bro don't wait for a hero to save you. Go out and hustle, manual labour and all. Do it all.

From your write up, it's obvious your boyfriend genuinely loves you. He wants a future with you and he wouldn't want to lose you. If he's playing the culture card, it's coming from his parents. It could be that they do not totally approve of you.

You may not like the pace but I think he's doing the best he can in integrating you into his life. I suggest you take a step back. Do not pressure.

Nothing is worth fighting for except its your life.

If I'm not my girlfriend's bestie, I'm wasting my time. Yes, I'm so possessive. It's me or not me.

History tells us that our ancestors interpret any deviation from ‘normality’ as either a blessing or a curse especially if they don't understand why.

Albinism unfortunately became associated with negative superstitious beliefs hence the hate & discrimination. It's simple as that.

I can smell the strong stench of infidelity.
Stop playing detective and confront her asap.

She has to clear your suspicion beyond ALL reasonable doubt. If she fails, you know what to do. Your sanity and peace of mind is important.

Life is too short to tolerate nonsense.

A lot of Nigerian men need psychiatric care.

Received. Thanks alot ma'am. God bless.

Cc: Ifyalways.

It wasn't even appropriate for him to ask.

How I imagined Blank spend her Lockdown.


The media was saturated with news update about the world in demise and a lot of countries started to close down their borders in order to protect their citizens from the corona pandemic. Blank noticed the evolving trend and thus immediately decided to seek for permission from her employers to work from home. This will not only allow her to work safely from the confines of her room but also allow her to travel abroad together with her family.

A week after her request was granted, Blank and her husband along with their 3 lovely children flew across the Atlantic to the US. This was a decision taken with very little time to prepare and so expectedly, the first 3 days after their arrival was hectic. Taking care of her family in the day time and working late into the night due to timing differences with her home country took a toil on her. It wasn't easy. She thought about getting a nanny to make things easier but for some reason decided not to. Eventually though, she immediately signed up her youngest child up for daycare. With him in good hands, ‘she could breathe easier, work better and still put an eye on her older boys’.

As predicted, things got easier for blank at least for about a week until unfortunately, the daycare had to close down after a nation wide lockdown order was issued by the government. To prepare for the coming event, she and her family wasted no time in rushing to a supermarket to purchase and stock up on all the necessary provisions that'll last them for the uncertain future.

After the lockdown began, life became a little stressful for Blank. The initial early days were chaotic and tiring, typical of a full house. Staying indoors and not being allowed to go outside was a new experience for her and her family. They were all anxious and uneasy. They'd watch the news everyday and it's always about people dying from corona and health care workers fighting a battle to save lives. It breaks her heart every time she sees such sad news and her patriotic nature usually compels her to say a word of prayer for her home country.

A few weeks later, the BLM movement started. Blank had to stop her kids from watching the news because paranoia was gradually seeping into their lives. To help her family survive this, she came up with a new routine. She'd wake up early hours of the morning for her private time and then wake up the whole family an hour later. After breakfast, the children attend to their morning chores and then study online for a stipulated period with TV and game time sandwiched in between. Occasionally she'd make them go outside for a walk but they don't like that. They would rather stay indoors because they are afraid of coming into contact with infected people. She also taught her kids how to ‘make basic food so they can fetch their breakfast, warm their food, make sandwiches, fry eggs, etc.’ Soon the routine became a part of them and they all adjusted to it. Life started to sink in, and their mood started to change. Friends and family reached out to them to know how they are coping.

A new passion for cooking spontaneously took hold of Blank's husband. He cooked and baked and cooked. Blank wasn't really into cooking though. She instead tried to help her kids to understand creative arts but it was futile as they couldn't do it on their own without making a huge mess. For the rest of the lockdown period, Blank concentrate on her work. And with her exams coming up, she has started prepping for it.

There's no reason for you not to marry her man.

She is an amazing person before anything.
You've deemed her worthy to be the mother of your kids, to spend the rest of your life together.

So why should our opinion count??

Happy married life man. Wish you the best.
You're not alone. She will be there for you.

Just want to say it's a bad idea to drill him.
You can't correct his addiction by torturing him.