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She's too young man. Leave that child alone.

A relationship with her is very inappropriate.
Let her face her studies abeg.

Don't fall into that category of old men who prey on young innocent girls & derail their education.

lessonlearned00:
If reverse was to be the case, i don't think I'll forgive her bro, but even if i do it won't be easy. She let me off the hook too easy and i wont take it for granted.

This sums it all man. Your wife surely loves you dearly to forgive your betrayal. It's not that easy.

Yes please, don't take her for granted.
Be transparent in your doings.

Also sleep with one eye open at all times.

And how exactly can he stop her??
Your brother should take his L and move on.

@Lessonleàrned00

If your wife was the one with the love child and the one who cheated with her ex, would you've forgiven her? Personally, I can never accept her.

It'll end in tears for you.
Never date a woman with a personal vendetta.

This is classical betrayal.

Dating a friend's ex is considered a sacred ethic man. Even with a blessing or a permission from her ex, you as a bro, should dare not approach.

Treat her like a radioactive city & stay far away.

This is not a healthy relationship but a poverty alleviation program. Bro, you need to reconsider.

Don't ignore this red flag. Becoming an in-law to this kind of entitled mentality is financial suicide.

Niniolahabby:
Am nt ok tolerating him,i was scared of wat will pple say but right now i dont care anymore,i keep forgiving him and hes taking me for granted because he knows i will always forgive.he even tank me for been so patient or stupid for 5yrs .

Good to know you've had enough.
People like him will never ever change.

Forget about what people will think.
Divorce him abeg.

If you as a human being can stay faithful to him then what's his excuse? Time to end his 5 years of serving you misery. It's never to late to leave.

Better to be alone than to be miserable.
And married to the wrong person.

Niniolahabby:
I have several evident if it for divorce oo,domestic violent pics medical report sef ,marriage na scam sha.

Domestic violence too??
You've several evidence & you're still with him?

Why woman? Why??


Yes. What you're into is scam. Not marriage.
And seems like you're okay tolerating the scam.

Use the video as evidence and seek for divorce.

It's really important if your brother acknowledge his gambling and womanizing habit a problem.

Only then can he agree to face it & accept help.
So are you guys on the same page??

Man, that's a 9yrs gap. It's not a brilliant idea!

Strongly suggest you abort mission. Or you'll be drag into a race of time with her to battle libido, fertility issues, incompatibility, and leadership.

She's respectful?? That's not enough.
There are lots of respectful younger women.

Be careful not to ensared yourself to misery.

How long do you plan on dating yourself?

I forget things I read a month before an exam.
Does it mean I don't give a fúck & I want to fail?

Obviously NOT.

The brain is wired to forget information that has not been reinforced via repetition or associated with strong memories. This is basic physiology.

I can see you're ready to accept the blame.

You losing weight & lighting up, can't stop your hubby from cheating. If he wants to... he'll do it.

Concerning alimony; On what ground is your mum going to demand for financial settlement?

Do they operate any joint account??
Is she a full time housewife with no income??
And did she contributed to his wealth??

If your answers are NO. Just forget about it.
I don't see how she'll get any benefit.

Nothing goes for free. You can help someone and It's okay to demand for something in return.

It's WRONG though to take advantage of them.

This however is nothing but prostitution.
No matter how you see it; it's money for sex.

Why pay when it's pleasurable to both parties??

There's a thing call selective amnesia in which the sufferer loses certain parts of their memory.

OP, you just need a very good slap to trigger it.

I can guarantee you'll forget about that leech.

It's your life.
Why should other people dictate how you live?

Don't be miserable just to make others happy.

Besides, you'll probably make a bad leader.
Because your ideals and beliefs are against it.

Karma? No. Paternity fraud exists and persists because married women decide to spread their legs and cheat. It's never a consequences of a cheating married man like you gleefully portray.

I have never been at the receiving end of a bad treatment from my uncles or aunts. I've lots of them, and yes, I've stayed with some for years.

Why did all of them treat me good??

Well, I can tell you it's not about my character or personality. I believe it's because they genuinely love my parents so that reflected towards me.

So IMO, how well your 2nd degree relatives treat you is immensely influenced by your parent's personal relationship with them as siblings.

A lady that's barely tolerating you.
Yet you want to continue this facade??

Dump her man. Don't be a pity àss simp.

Also there's no need confronting her. Be brutal and cut off contact. Take her out one last time and have fun and then break off immediately.

The emotional and nurturing commitment of a woman trumps that of a man... So I'll always go for a female nanny. Unless I don't have a choice.

If my wife suggests a male nanny, I'll consider.
Though I can only hire a vetted, referred person.

So why not?

HomerTimpson:
I can bend for messi but lingard ? Don't tell me its jesse bro

There's only one Lingard considered a genius.
It's Jesse Bro. Yes. Jesse Lingard.

pulsa:
I understand you now, yeah he is, and in the same sense Ozil is also a genius dude currently is the highest earning player in Arsenal with nothing to show for it lol.
The dude in your display picture is probably more of a genius than all those people you listed combined, the smartest guy in the whole damn series, always cool to meet a Naruto fan out in the wild. We are not so much in this country.

Hehe. No argument here.
Ozil is a genius amongst other geniuses.

Yes it's rare! We're a dying specie, lol.
So cool to meet you man.

It's normal.
That's an uncontrollable reaction.
Dude has a healthy neuronal system.

pulsa:
Lingard? How come I still understand Messi being a football genius but lingard lol no way.

If you know how much they pay Lingard to play rubbish, bro you'll not debate this. He's a genius.

If all these are true, then you simply have a high IQ. That explains why you are a very fast learner.

It's an innate quality. You were born with it.

Rare gems and geniuses, are next level shít and they “identify” themselves with a particular field.

Mozart, Newton, Messi, Einstein, Lingard etc.

You dear, didn't identify yourself with any.
If anything, you claim to be overall good.

Conclusion: You are smart woman.

There is nothing wrong in dating two people at the same time especially if you are a 35yrs old woman; who is desperate enough to date her grandfather, get pregnant for him and abort.

Aírforce1 drops another album. Congrats Bro.

The competition for front—page has gotten so fierce, you’ll do yourself a favor if you learn how to write compelling stories. Learn the craft.

This story lacks suspense and a plot.
You'll not make it as a writer, OP.

Carchoice:
how you chose to live your life is your choice. I will get married and do as I like. It’s my choice.

Nah. You'll propably die single.