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@topic, the right time for a man to marry is NOW, unless he is still a guy or boy, cos for you to be called a man, then you are a man.

Oh Sophie! I don't think you are getting me, seems you are a marriage counsellor or something, so all you are hell bent on is to just pass a message across, and that you have really achieved, you shifted the posts completely, while trying to pass just that same message.

Anyway, we'd probably do this anytime soon, break all down and pick them up one by one, then you would see what I mean, btw we agree to disagree and disagree to agree.

Sophyrocks: Can you now see the time you marry whether late or early has nothing to do with the success of a marriage? So why did you talk about someone waiting for the right one being on a long ride?

As for the instances mentioned above, most people do not take their time to study their partners or get to know their partners before marriage with the belief that there is nothing like the right person on earth. They also didnt have the right mentality towards marriage such that they allowed minor things to break them up. This is all becos of rushing into marriage.

As per the bolded, why not do it sharp sharp, instead of wasting your time, and still suffer, since there isn't any chance that it will get better if you actually hold on....... infact one benefit which simply outweights that of the other is that your son/daughter would be 20yrs when you are 45 years.

Sophyrocks: O.k religion aside, since we cannot agree on that issue, simply answer me straight up. If you believe there is nothing like the right person, why do you still have a choice or spec of the lady you want? why are you still selecting?

Okay, please get this, I said a lady waiting for the right person and age isn't on her side is in for a long ride, you asked 'how?' Now, I went on to assert that the right person thing as defined overhere is mainly based on the religion factor, right or wrong? Now my initial stand is all based on that wrong premise, if it was about other factors aside religion, very well, I may agree with you.

@Sophyrocks, easyyyyy.....that was a blunt one, wait! Might it interests you that those that married early and those that did that late are actually going through the same rigours? Might it also interest you that those that married the so called God factored will and those that didn't bother to are almost the same? What's the difference like? The pathetic stories here on nairaland, were they as a result of only early marriage? what's up with the 30year old guy and 28 year old lady joined together, and a day after they were, just tooth-paste and tooth-brush scattered the marriage......? Also what's up with a man and his God factored will woman breaking up after just two/three years?

Questions that beg for answers ma'am.

@Sophyrocks, am sorry if my post(s) weren't that clear, lemme make it clear to you nothing like 'right partner' if it is mainly about 'Religion'.....meanwhile, in this part of the world, choosing the 'right partner' is mainly pushed by 'Religion'

Sophyrocks: Finally, you talked about God choosing for you, religion playing a role. Now you are also contradicting yourself. Why are you concerned about God choosing for you when you beleive there is no right person? You wouldnt bother about religion but choose to marry any lady from any religion if you TRULY believe there is no right person on earth.

And this is the path that really interests me, I aint contradicting myself, nope, not at all, I wanna dispute the fact that in marriage matters, there is a will somewhere, nay! I will dispute that with anyone till eternity.

True, attributes are part of it, but then, I still maintain it that religion is a major factor, like 80% of it all, so the assertion then is 'the will of God is equal to the right partner'.

Ma'am, I feel there is nothing called 'the will of God in marriage', and since there isn't that, then forget the right partner thing.


Premise: If largely, it is believed that the God factor aids choosing the right partner (which is the mainstay overhere), then there is nothing like the right partner, and so if a lady isn't married for years cos she is waiting for the right partner, then she is in for a long ride, cos by the time the so-called right partner comes, first, she is old, second, she might suffer for the rest of her life-physical and emotional abuse by/from the so called 'right partner'.

I really hope you'll get this, and by the way, sorry for jinxing all this way, Germany vs Algeria match dey do me strong thing ni o.

[quote author=@farano]Abeg I just saw this in my dream so I decided to share. If they no say they wan win dah match, make dem no wear white o.[/quote]Killjoy ni awon boys yen, France played nothing, but the boys still couldn't beat them, I stopped supporting those goons since, even if they wear angel mathew's apparel in games, I doubt it that something good will still come from them.
They play with their hind legs, and think with their yanshes

Sophyrocks: You still are dodging. Thats your problem. I willl take the answer to my question as NO. Good. Therefore you have a 'type', a choice which contradicts your belief of No right partner.

2ndly, the 2nd bolded shows you have a particular choice of a lady. If a lady is NOT your particular choice, what will you say she is? Why do you still have a choice since there is nothing like a right partner? I isnt any lady of any character or lifestyle enough for you? why must a lady fit into what you want her to be?

But then, in this insane society, do you think attributes alone makes someone the so called 'right partner', what about this belief that a right partner is God's will, or God's will is always the right partner? What's up with you picking out some factors without considering religion, the fact that religion plays a major part in everything we do, believe and follow, then you have to include that, meanwhile, to be frank with you, that is really where I want this to start from......

Except we are on the same page wrt this...

Sophyrocks: English Bro, Engggggggglllllisssssh. I spoke english. I'm talking about BEFORE marriage. I SAID WILL YOU MARRY HER? Jeeeeeezzzzzzzz. since everybody is good to go and marriageable even prostitutes,

#shocked#

So it is only infidelity that defines the so called 'Will of God'? #Justcurious.

Okay, it is very possible that a prostitute will become an evangelist tomorrow, does that make her the right person for me tomorrow?

So many questions begging for answers....

Sophyrocks: then you must have no particular choice of a wife since you dnt believe in marrying the Right person right?

Nah, I think I have a particular choice or better-put I have some qualities I look for in a lady, but I just want to disprove assertions especially with respect to 'right partners'.

Sophyrocks: Look at how you are intentionally dodging the question. Yes or No. Will you marry such a lady who has proven to be disloyal to you? YES OR NO?

Loyalty can only be accessed after marriage, if am dating a lady, and she is quite loyal, we can actually get together (marry), and she goes gaga afterwards, so pretence was actually the mainstay before we came together.

Am sorry, some stuffs have got to be sorted out before a yes/no answer to a question.

Sophyrocks: O.k i will be a typical Nigerian in this discussion. Is a lady that will sleep with another man once you get broke the right partner for you?

Maybe, because there is the tendency that every lady would think it, some will just do without thinking about it, while some others will do both. Since every lady would think about it, or better-put, less than 0.000000000001% of ladies wouldn't do both (think and do), and probably your assertion is that a lady that wont ever think about sleeping with another man when broke is the right partner, then, there is nothing like the right partner

Sophyrocks: who is a wh0re

I intentionally took that quoted off.

Sophyrocks: Explain. How?

The first question is this, is there anything like right partner?

myjoy08: Sir, I will give some updates on/or before the closing of today's business day. Stay tuned...

Yes boss!

Josh121: No laugh when you dont know follow people that know

Go to schools, teach for free, go to an NGO, volunteer yourself, there are a thousand and one things you can do with your spare time.......in all make use of it (your spare time) wisely.

Quite unfortunate, some pages yanked off!

Sophyrocks: How?

Hmmmmm! I trust you aren't among them (in for a long ride)

ATSOMEH: What if u havent met d right partner at dis age, do u just marry whoever is available to fulfil the age righteousness? Smh

Then you are in for a long ride.

[quote author=@farano]For men[/quote]Yes na.....too farrrrrr! By the time we do some additions and subtractions, you will realise that 28 is just over the bar for guys.

[quote author=@farano]From 28 years[/quote]28 years ke? Why?

[quote author=funkystanl][/quote]Kindly remove those names, wait.....are you guys slow or what? this is a forum for christ's sake!

okzcorp: It was never going to be bro. See below
https://www.nairaland.com/1229483/general-u.s.a-student-visa-enquiries-part4/99

Nah You are wrong, this (below) actually was doing over 2000 pages, before its life got cut short.....

https://www.nairaland.com/871307/official-manchester-united-fan-thread/742

Beat that?

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capricornian: I hail o Nitrogen... Am sure u would have used Hydrogen or Helium if you couldn't sign in into this account

Hope Dayokunu or wetin him name go give us some peace here. Honestly it feels like rapture took place or some kind of WW3

Okay we have signed Herrera and Shaw is almost in although the price of the latter is a rip off..I hope he proves me wrong

hAHAha!

Meanwhile, this place looks like an unsoiled sweety oyoyo......but trust Coogar and Elampiro to come and dis-virgin it.

Toluway: Join me for Wapic and MayBaker bus if you like. I no recommend o.

Wapic I know, who/what is JuneBaker? Tell us the reason why we should join you, as per the maybaker bus.

hayoakins: all my posts are gone...what a pity

Sorry!

Austeenx: [color=orange]In case you don't know, Chelsea went on to finish the season trophyless. [/color]

GustavoFring: So the Nyabinghi 'Grad Pic' drama never happened?

Choi! Na this one pain me pass....