ivyT:
This is a fake story, if otherwise, the woman no get brain

what is she surpose to do.fight the man? please tell me because she needs advice too.

DRISKLEF:
OP keep it up. Your storytelling skills will in a matter of time, start putting some crabs on your table.
Maybe by them i'll believe your story.

DRISKLEF is not a fab story.it real and true.

I visited a friend yesterday and there was this quiet mood in the house. I inquire from her what it is all about ,she told me that her husband is inside one of the rooms checking if her two step daughters, are still virgin. one is 18yrs and in her yr1 in university while the other is 17yrs waiting for post ume.my friend and I waited for him to come out after like 10minutes their family doctor arrived we notice that the husband called him while in that room, the doctor joined him in the room.the husband was a very strict man.he restrict my friend from taking care of this girls that there are his , so anything that concerns them my friend backs off. after like 30minutes o,they came out and the younger girl was saying that the father was forcing his finger inside her all in the name of checking. please o what is this man thinking on doing this because i can't understand what he is doing this for.

thorpido:
Whoevere said they changed sabbath day from saturday to sunday?

I have even a better question for you Op?Where is it written in the bible that Christians have to keep sabbath?

.Sabbath day is for any body that calls him/her self a child of God.Hebrew 4:1-11.

gformula:
I would have loved to give the details of how the whole trouble started but my Sister who is the one on this platform said I should summarize. When my ordeal started in June2015 that time my husband stood by me and the same friend was around and helping out. In fact that was why we agree to let her help us with the kids. She is a long time friend. Why I'm accusing her now is because she openly told my Mum and some of my other friends who tried to confront her that I'm not the only one destined for a good home.
As for medical tests, I ran series of them I even tried the computer diagnosis all came out good.

OP I really understand you because I knew there husband snacthers type.she will come as a friend before you know it she will turn to you kids mother and take over your man, just take care of your health first if you have a sister you can send het to your house to stay with the kids.and be strong in praying God will see you through. get well soon.

soon it will be the turn of my pastor husband and his mistress.fake pastors.

evil fake pastors everywhere. one day it will be the turn of my stupid pastor. Eyes of God is watching.

sandland:
Madam, those children are your best weapon.if you have 6, then the 1st should be about 12 years. Use them well. Men are devils when it comes to the other woman who is younger. Do not blame yourself. Stop looking for his face because you wouldn't even have it. Use any other authorities that you may have. Your parents, his friends. His parents. The church even if he does not go to church. Forget about the woman. Like be on your own. Just know that woman Will be like you soon. Once she takes in, that will be it.do not let him lay his dirty hands on you sexually. Tell him that woman is enough for him for now. That you want to bear the pain of having those children. Make sure people who matters knows so that he will not be the first to cry lauder than the the person he beats. Op reply if you need more advice. Please do not pity yourself. You are a complete woman. Your primary job is to make sure you have children him and you already have have too many. He should go to Hell. Those children are your pride.

thank you.honestly he has tormented me a lot just because I refuse to acknowledge his relationship with the mistress. but I post this because I think this is the last abuse I will take from him. I have been participating in lifting up the church, all the books and activities the church can boots of today are all my deeds.it hurts that some are blaming me of becoming pregnant it happen because I don't want him to say that am not playing my role as a wife to him which is why he is thinking of another woman. I once belive in endurance that is why no matter what he did I endure but this is to much and is after my kids now.I have a meeting with the church members tomorrow regarding this issue I pray God guide my words. thank you all I really appreciate all the response.

cococandy:


Nothing can be done for you. You're too far gone in the pit of low self esteem to be helped.
If you can still call the fellow your husband, forget it. It's done.

You sunk from level -1 all the way to -100 where your husband's employee can raise hands to beat you and his mistress openly jeer at you while the man insists you beg her and serve her for him to allow you stay in the marriage.
There's no lower you can go.

Telling you to leave him will be a waste of time. Like you haven't been told that already.
You've probably heard that before but chose to pray and fast and grovel for acceptance that was clearly never gonna come.

Just tie your wrapper well now and go beg the girl. Bring her to your house and let her have the bedroom with Oga. Make sure you prepare breakfast too before they wake up and serve them in bed in line with his command.

You see, the happier you make his mistress, the happier he'll be with you and maybe just maybe, one day he will smile at you again.

Isn't that what you want?

hum, that's not what I want that's why I ask will a reasonable woman allow that.

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The kids is a good reason to divorce. .

Ok if you are in her shoes you would let your children grow up into seeing their father have have a mistress.. bully and maltreat their mother?

One has to be reasonable.. it has been happening for long even before she had 5 kids. . Yet she went on to have more kids.. and still complain then there is more to it that she is not telling us./quote] I said that there is nothing more to it .I have been enduring all his maltreat for a long time.you can ask all you need to know as long as you will give me a good advice. thank you.

Strahovski1:
I advice you divorce the man and move on.. What legacy are you leaving for your children? especially the boys?

Do not make anymore of yourself a fool. Just leave the man unless there is more to it because i dont understand

there is noting more in this, my husband hate to be challenged in any decision he makes.he an authoritarian man so all he is doing is his word to stand.

Hi everyone, after what happened in my husband church on Sunday how he embarrassed me and his worker slapping me. I decided to consult his doctor friend to talk to him ,the only reason he gave the doctor is that the mistress saved his life when he wanted to kill him self because of a woman that died years ago in his church which left him confused then(I traveled with My last child when this incident happen) and the girl telling him not to kill him self is enough that the girl love him and that from that day he swear never to leave that girl nor let the girl feel bad in any situation.

He said that the girl is his life. so for me becoming pregnant is enough to make the girl feel bad so he now tries to defame me and make the girl happy.he suggested that the only solution that will bring peace to my family is me becoming friend with the said girl and serving her.and that I should beg the worker that I have forgiven him if I want him to accept me again.

Now the girl in question here is rude and proud. she insult me anyhow.she laughed at me now that am going through this with my hubby. today she saw me and started laughing that she must make me leave my home with my 5kids.

Now all am asking my self is how can I step so low to the extend of begging my husband mistress just for my husband to love me again. how can I befriend this witch of a girl. How can I worship this girl in my own house all to please my husband. A girl that saved my husband name with Baby m. Will that make me a peace seeker or a fool the more.will a reasonable woman do that?

histemple:


This story is although not entirely strange but difficult to believe.
However, if you are sure what you just explain is factual, kindly give us the pastor's name, his church name and address. Possibly the church's contact details and we will fight him legally probono.

my story is real and true, believe me this is what am passing through. but please because I have not decided on whether to revenge or not, let me leave the church name for now if he didn't change then I will publicize his name, the church name.for now all I need is how to deal with this situation at hand before they start thinking that am powerless and weak.please bear with me for not exposing the church name. but my story is not fiction .

Good morning everyone. If you have been reading my previous posts then you will know very well how my story has been. After getting a job and trying to ignore My husband'S cheating and other cruel characters towards me, he cheats with a female church member and promises her that he will marry her as a second wife.

After much talking which could not bring any positive results, I decided to let them be And mind my own business. He still enters my room when he feels like doing it with me. Now it happens that am 2Months pregnant after 5 kids. I told him about it he was happy at that given time. I then thought that maybe he will change this time to become a better father.

On Sunday while the morning prayer was going on, I couldn't stand up because I have started showing signs of pregnancy. I was feeling very anemic so I decided to sit down. My husband came out and stopped the prayer and started saying that I sat down because I wanted to show his mistress that am pregnant and that am doing drama for her mistress, something that I have never thought of doing. He started calling me all sorts of names all to calm the mistress down incase she notices that am pregnant. All to show the mistress that he is not happy with me being pregnant. All to make me feel bad and not happy of my condition.

While the congregation and the mistress were watching and laughing. When I couldn't take it anymore, I decided to walkout of the church. one of his workers ran after me and forcefully drew me back which left a mark on my neck. His claim is that I shouldn't move out while his pastor is talking. I pushed him out of my way, he slapped me inside church while my hubby watch. with the little strength in me I fight back and leave the church premises. I was so hurt that I want to revenge on my husband and his worker. how will I be proud of this pregnant now that he has said in his congregation that all am doing is noting but a show how painful. how do I pay him back.I really wish the worst on them now.God help me that I didn't do something unlawful to them.

God knows best for me so I leave him to lead.

is good and safe and it helps to keep the bond between the couple and the unborn baby.however in some cases is not safe where it will lead to a miscarriage doctors will advice to stay off it until the pregnancy is 3months but apart from that fire on is good for the baby.

After many years of going through pains in his hand.I finally got a job which he said that is either I chose the job or I leave his house. after 5kids and a house wife for over 9years. staying at home and seeing what he is doing with his mistress in our home is really giving me pains.He did not want to change yet he is scared of me going out he banned my friends from visiting me.He turned his own friends against me. he lives with his mistress in our home.Now is either I chose the job I got or leave his house. I have suffered a lot in his hands. what should I do.which decision should I take so that my kids will not label me a bad mother. please I need your honest advice.

OP I know is hard to leave someone that gave you support when you needed it most. and I belive you never expect him to reconcile with his first wife that why you went ahead with this marriage. and now it has all happen and your going through jealousy and the stigma of it.well I think I understand you very well. I want you to know that life is unpredictable. things change as we go on with life. belive me this is just the beginning soon you will die of jealousy and people must talk .My advice is ...sit your self down and think is this really What you wish for your self. is this the kind of marriage you dream of.can you cope and endure?. at your age you need love and caring but greed push you to decide otherwise. well is up to you if you really need happiness you must leave that house because is not urs from the beginning you snatch it away from the Muslim woman who can cope even if the hubby marry 6wives. your a Christian that place is not for you. hard to say but leave that house. never you compromise your love life with sympathy love it will hurt you to the last. you can still find love. think before another wife comes in because that will surely happen. if you can cope good luck if you can't find your way and live a happy life don't listen to what people will say they must talk.Am looking at your happiness not your greed I know you post this because your regretting now. Good luck in your decision is all about you not him nor people. is your happiness that matters.

No 6 .leviticus 19:27.

God is good. he created beautiful things." I clear my throat ".

my friend's daughter dated a guy while she was in school.during the relationship she used to travel with the guy to his village he even make it know to his parent that she is the girl he likes to marry. after graduation they had a dispute which resulted in quitting the relationship and they parted thier ways.even the boy's family knew that they are no longer dating. now the boy elder brother want to marry this girl ( his younger brother ex-girl friend).he claims he loves her and he is making serious moves to marry her.the younger brother opinion is that since they have parted for 2years that she should accept his brother. Is this right? please advice her.

CharlieMaria:
In Exodus 25vs18 God commanded the making of a man made cherub of beaten gold on the ark of the covenant. So if making images is wrong God should be the first offender we are only imitating him. In Josue 7vs6 Josue wit al the elders of israel fell prostrate before the ark of the covenant with statue of angels on it and God did not take offence. So if Josue did this and God did not complain what makes you think he will complain when i bow before the statue of Jesus or Mary? Read your bible well dear

God instruct the people of Israel to make cherub to beautify the ark not yo worship it. belive it or not if you bow down and worship any images in form of God your worshiping idol.if you bow down to that statue your doing what exactly what shadrach, meshach and Abadenego refuse to do in the reign of king Nebuchadnezzar. worship only one God not in any image form. only dibia worship thier god's in idolise way.

thou shall not make to thou selves any image of any kind.thou shall not worship any images of any kind. says the Lord.

OP if you want to fight it you have to make up your mind. sometimes we become product of what we are thinking. we become our mind slave.I know a friend who is like you until he realise that such acts is from devil and anytime he pour he feels he has satisfied an unseen force. know that by doing all that some force beyond you is be enriched by your fluid. and anytime they demand it the urge to masturbate will come to you. just ask your self why did they get to you.why you. then know they get to you by what your seeing and planting in your mind.stop watching porn,stop watching BF films. Infact OP become a prayer warrior even become an SU.pray and make up your mind to stop giving them the glory. God help you.

God answered him because he kept the bears LEVITICUS 19:27.now he cut it I pray God forgives them and over look it and still answer them.

so sweet to see couple that share love.is their thing.is their way since they love it is good.I wish them well.

hum, this is really end time. is good to use your money to buy what you desire but be careful let those things not take your mind away from God. since they now buy jet for God.who won't want show his own. traders are hustling to make it.churches is now a competitive zone. God is watching.

is good to give them what they wish they had. but it wound have been more nicer to give them money to start business so that they can get it on thier own when they want it. anyway since they are happy receiving it, is good but I hope it will not make them to shut up when they see something bad happening in that church. lots of church members have eaten forbidden gift from their pastors that they don't care anymore if the pastor is from God or devil. if his sermon is going against God's will or not.please be wise when receiving gift. use your consience.

he is cheating on me and he even brought his mistress to live with us. he still profess that he loves me and our kids. yesterday he saw me and started shouting at his mistress thinking that I will believe that they are quarreling. after I left I was peeping them through my window he was watching to make sure that am out of sight he immediately knee down and start begging the girl. any time we want to sleep together I notice that he calls her on phone before anything.I just pretend that I don't know. he gets permission from her before giving My kids money anytime they demand something from him. should I tell him all that or should I just write it all down in my divorce papers and serve him.

humm am surprise that he is still alive.stupid man of Satan. if that is his fate let him face it.