Next time eat beans and bread before you start with a lot of water , if you have sk take it too.

He is not married .

So there is road now from ogbia to nembe, it was only boat before in a journey of one hour on water.

Lol so those living around ring road in Benin, what
Will they do about the issue of bat? On the day oba was coronated, I was there live, the moment he was handed his certificate of office at the hall and canon was fired , the entire air was covered with bat.

All our Niger delta leaders are greedy, those agitating needs their own cut.

VicM6:
lolz, you re right thou.... i remember one mad guy that needed help from me badly that he has to place a call 6am to me... he promised me some cash after the help but reversed was the case..... hahahaha, human beings.... Well, i pity OP bcus with the way he wrote that write-up, Op is in mess.

If he feels that he is being used , let him just stop.

VicM6:
thats where d problem lies... after her study she will tag him as a low class dry cleaner and hop over those big niggas ridding benz around.. She will 4get the help, girls are ungrateful.

That is it, human beings are generally humble when they are depending on you for something, it goes both way , I use to have a boyfriend, whenever he was broke, he will be to close to me , because he knows I will lend him money and feed him , but the moment he gets a big contract he will distribute his money to friends while abandoning even his own mother.

All I see here is abuse , that child is a kid and no matter his offence , there is no point of beating him to that state where he has to beg, but the mother find it funny .

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state. I came to this state, as an intern and thereafter, still served here and in the course of all these, I thought out and established a laundry business, which is just about 8 months old. This was to keep life going and to better bond well with the lady in my life currently.

While in Edo state, having rounded my internship & kickstarting service sometime around 2017, I met this Kiki Osemudiamen (Name changed), and it was nothing serious at 1st, cos I never really thought I'd date someone here, fact is that I never thought I'd stay beyond my service year. I met her while she was in 200l. We encouraged each other, she saw potentials and had faith in me just like I have so much faith in her. She is simplistic, encourages me to save and I in turn, encouraged her and guided her through some of her studies. She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

Problem is that she came from a not buoyant family financially, and although both parents are alive, she struggles to survive/feed daily. Her dad supplies about 1000litres/trip water to households, while her mum sells at the local market. I on the other hand, came from a middle class family but my Dad is late since 2012, and I've been a sponsor of my education and that of my younger ones through the lil I inherited (which mum manages for now) plus my various endeavours. She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

The latest challenge came about, yesterday. While she slept in the shop, I was out on errand, someone sneaked into the shop and stole her android phone with all of her e-medics textbooks (she reads mostly e-copies because she can't afford hardcopies), she has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do. Since I knew her, She'd been an appendage and an extra financial burden to me, I can't begin to list what I've done for her, although I kept reminding her never to not have entitlement mentality and she does appreciate. Out of desperation to ease her pain, I promised to sponsor her in getting a new phone. I have burdens, huge ones, I'm yet to acquire a diesel engine for my laundry (I use ponytail industrial iron which has higher voltage/current than normal ones), plus other related merchandise that I need to set up and I feel like she slows down my financial pace.

Honestly, I don't do all these for her, hoping for any personal gains, in the words of my daddy in the Lord, Prophet T.B. Joshua, He said and I quote: "We make a living by what we get and we make a life by what we give" but I am almost fed up and tired, especially when I remember that both her parents are still alive.. I am scared that that for the 1st time, I may fail her in that financial obligation because I honestly need money now, with the whole pandemic issue plus, I feel like she slows me down in life financially and a huge burden to me. Right now, she's so attached to me, more so that when I initially wanted to hault our relationship, it almost nearly affected her academics negatively. Please I need matured minds to help me think this through and garnish me with advice(s) because I almost feel so choked up and a rising urge to relocate from here, so i can breathe again.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.

Modified: She went to her bank (First bank) this morning, only to be informed that about 20k (Her mum's business money) has been used to purchase recharge voucher. Her mum sends/receives money from distant customers through her account. Yesterday's scenario, all over again. Please folks, lock your SIM cards just as much as you lock your phones. Learn from this painful experience please.

You are a good man, I just wish you can handle her financial burdens, there is hardship everywhere, I pray you marry her at the completion of her studies.

For those you attacking two face , he is from the same place with the boy , besides the father was among those he has cashed out from in his music career. Terrywaya is a kingmaker in benue , he has funded a lot of politicians despite his questionable source of wealth .

Jeboy:
Your time will come, don't give up. The OP never told us how many he tried before arriving at his last bus stop.

You are right sha , thanks.

Congratulations I have met some nice people here , but none worked out.

FAAN likes overdoing things , they think their problem in that airport is DSS , if they like it or not , DSS will remain at the airport, same avsec staff a military personnel will escort his boss into the boarding gate they won't stop them, because they are afraid to challenge them, same avsec will almost empty first timers at the airport because the passengers are naive, their own staff will close from work but will be busy escorting VIP. is not the same airport Mompha passed with millions, why didn't they detect it. Unnecessary over zealousness.

I am supporting terrywaya son kiddywaya.

Tripitaka:
What about that massive building around Okokomaiko-Iyana Eran axis? The building gives me the creeps.

Ehen do you have any idea about that building?

Very interesting.

YEBOmadiba:


She didn't die "of" it. She just had it.

Come and teach me swahili and Zulu. Saboene!

You didn't tell what the couples does for a living ?

This should be like the 10th batch that have been evacuated, most of them are from the west , unfortunately some of them revealed that they will return when their economy is better.

murphyibiam15:

Kiddo there is something called visa on arrival

Nigeria is not among the beneficiary of visa on arrival, you can check online.

Anambra men and their penchant for money ritual.

Rochas and madumere is coming to play , they will first frustrate the loyalists to the deputy governor, clip their wings and move for impeachment, they won't even wait for any court ruling, probably the deputy governor will go to court to and seek a restraining order stopping the impeachment, they won't even carry out the impeachment in the house of assembly, an hotel belonging to one member will be the venue, without media coverage.

I do that anytime time I am at airport road or kubwa expressway, I am trying to maintain my 120 , 140 speed someone is driving at 80 , the moment you overtake them , that is when they will remember to speed , I will surely overtake you.

OkikiOluwa1:
Rape cases should also be reported early.
When it's delayed, it losses credibility especially when there's no concrete evidence.
When rape cases are confirmed, capital punishment like cutting off the penni s or sealing or damaging the vagin a or anu s is vital cos females too rape males.
And ladies should be encouraged in learning self defense while we teach our boys how to be a gentleman & not a rapist or rogue
Last Bullet: Religious leaders should discourage underage marriage. It's one of the things that aids rape.

Just like the case of a 20 years old girl who claimed that she was raped by one man that took her into an uncompleted building where he was doing labour job, she didnt tell anyone until it resulted into pregnancy and she gave birth to triplets , it's annoying because a girl of that age without any mental issue ought to have speak out. Now she is left with no one except her widowed mother. No one is making any attempt in tracing the man.

That is why I can't trade nairaland for any site, there are so many intelligent people here, that can dig out facts about issues. I read that post that year, I can still remember vividly, I am interested in cyber security and I wish someone will put me through.

My friend from sagbama one time told me that in his place , it is a normal culture for young girls to go and stay with their boyfriend due to the level of poverty in most families, some of the girls are even taunted by their parents because they are not living with their boyfriend. Most of them at a very young age are already baby mama to different men .

The former accountant general of imo state, she is originally from ilah in delta state, while her husband (late) is from orlu, so what is there?

SaintBeehot:
the guy was also drunk so lady the could also be held responsible for rape

The guy said he was drunk according to him, how is he going prove that he was actually drunk?

Racoon:
Abacha naturally worked his way up the ranks of military hierarchy but he was alleged to be dull upstairs though an expert coup specialist.

The man at the front of Abacha looks like dambazzau.

Don't reject it , unless you want to run mad, I know some ezes in imo whose fathers were still alive when they were crowned Eze. Eze ilomuanya for example ( eze of obinugwu orlu) , you need an ugoeze from your village too as tradition demands.

Where are the adults on nairaland?

Damage control.