No 10-denying your relationship with him or her in the midst of friends..and introducing you as just friends after kissing you inside the house kills too

Just joining The thread ..am not soo happy...in love With My bestfriend living in The same logde..The bad news Is he knows abt it becos we dated briefly bfor he gave an excuse of His Mum despising were i Côme from..i cant relocate to
another logde neither Will i live My job-we also wôrk in The same Company..i go tru hell in pain..everyday..he brings in The other girls and calls only when he has issues With thèm..he refuséd deleting romantic msgs we share in our dating days and The letters...well today i sneaked into His oFfice and took The letters ..also délétéd The msges on His phone..i did that because i dont want othet colegues to find out we had something..to avoid gossips..i réàLly cant stand him calln His gals and braging abt thèm in The office..then telln me i dont love as pretty as they are..if i have My way,i Will live My job..nd The lodge..distance has a way of healing hatbreak but how can My heart heal when i work and live With The same Guy..in The same logde..i have prayed, made vows to God to see if a miracle of not loving The Guy anymore WiLl occur but..not der Was no sex but kiss..but wonder this strong feelings..please any miracle for a solution please

Thank you specialguest.you are suggesting i make friends with the high influence people...how will i do that?walk into their offices to say hi everyday?what will you also do when your haters have succeeded in giving the high influential people a bad impression about you?lastly is leaving the firm makes you a looser from those haters?finally how can i win this fight?please will be glad if you will help on this because its really eaten me up

Please if you do how do you manage them to avoid falling into their traps which they will use against you

As for the viewers keyboards you mentioned?let me think of which jazz to send for destruction..lol..

@abohrandy,the guy is wonderful that I can attest to anytime,anywhere.again,she finks for once in her life she met someone who matches her, knows her fault and very comfortable with her.in addition,he has really impacted a lot on her because my friend use to be this 'worldly' but now religious..a lot more..reasons dear

@abohrandy,I said they don't straf..

383 views with just 13 comments?c'mon you guys should stop viewing and start commenting..this is a serious matter oooo which need serious attentions not serious viewing!!!

Thank you all for advices..after going through your comments and I decided to talk to her again yestaday friday,surprisely she told me she has tried walking away several times but observe any time she takes the decision'the guy will become unnecessarily angry with her,he keep caling to tell her he misses and love her...but when they gets back together again he will bring the not marrying her issue again so she's confused but just hanging with him to hope another better suitor comes around.note-they don't have intimate...together as she claim doh I know what she can do

She has gained her publicity finally...which ever way or things she said

[quote author=oleku baby]I had a friend who deluded herself for 6yrs just like ur friend did, the guy she was obsessed with even got married and she bought Aso-Ebi. kindly tell your friend to remove d blinders covering her eyes and let the one whom God has chosen for her enter her optical conea. A word is enuff for the wise.

thanks.she soo much love that guy...his such a nice guy doh.I know him in person.his honesty on the marriage issue shows his not them other guys who waste girls time for nathin..I wish my friend knows his reasons of not wanting to marry her so she can probable work on herself(if workable)to win the guy's heart...or what do you think she can do?

[quote author=oleku baby]I had a friend who deluded herself for 6yrs just like ur friend did, the guy she was obsessed with even got married and she bought Aso-Ebi. kindly tell your friend to remove d blinders covering her eyes and let the one whom God has chosen for her enter her optical conea. A word is enuff for the wise.

thanks.she soo much love that guy...is such a nice guy doh.I know him in person.his honesty on the marriage issue shows his not them other guys wh will waste a girls time for nathin..I wish my friend knows his reasons of not wanting to marry her so she can probable work on it(if workable)to win the guy's heart...or what do you think she can do?

@mmm am not the one....my colegue i stated
@ Omega you know the truth is sometimes bitter they say...i have said all these to her but seems am loosing my friendship with her since am not encouraging her to 'fight for love'
@Sapphires dats a nice one there ..thanks

Please come back..really need an advise...

Good Morning.please my colegue has been dating this guy for months now and often times he mentions to her that he loves her but not to the extent that will lead to marriage.am worried about this friend of mine who has refused to move on claiming God told her that guy is her rightful partner.please do you think her staying in the relationship worth the time and prayer?

Exactly what they usually do bfor Valentine

[quote author=Okija_juju][b]Here is why I think you won’t succeed:

Reality Check #1: Juju is involved: Somebody in your family somewhere does not want you to progress so had tied your wealth and locked it inside an Alomo bitters bottle in the village.

You will need to fast for 3 days to break that curse. _{If symptoms persist after 3 days, consult your nearest native doctor..}


Reality Check #2: A witch in your Village is using your picture as ceiling fan in her room: This is the reason for your near success syndrome. Every time it looks like something good wants to happen to you, it like one big breeze comes and blows it away.. That breeze is being generated by a witch in your village.. Solutions include Fasting, attending many crusades and drinking 2 teaspoons of annoiting oil 3 times daily for 2 years..

Reality Check #3: Your destiny is out of coverage area.. No matter how you try, you can never reach your destiny. Every call you make to your destiny, you only hear 'The destiny you are trying to reach is either switched off or out of coverage area', let me tell you now that you are suffering from what is known as 'NITEL DESTINY PALAVER', and until you change your destiny from Nitel to Glo or Etisalat, this problem is never going away.. How can your destiny still be landline when other peoples destiny is now on 4g.. Solution, change your network provider and watch your destiny move to the permanent site.

 Reality Check #4: Bad Minsitry a.k.a Wrong Permanent site syndrome. Its like all your prayers to God either returns undelivered, enters spam mail or goes straight to trash. You might be suffering from bad ministry. If you have been attending a church where testimony is only like 2 persons in a montj, my brother, you need to move from that ministry, because thats not the permanent site for you.. I suggest you move. And when you get to the next ministry, check if they have the C-of-O before you settle there.

Reality Check #5: One Chance..  You have been in Malaysia or over 10 years and you still have not hammered, then you are suffering from one chance syndrome. It is better to deport yourself than to remain their. Solution, migrate from Malaysia to Indonesia. Keep doing this until you reach the permanent site.

Reality Check #6: Ogbange Spirit You make money but it disappears.. You just checked your balance now now at the ATM and its says you have 100 thousand Naira and when you pressed to withdraw 10 thousand naira, it says 'Inssfficient funds'. You have been writing JAMB for over 10 years now till the point that JAMB now sends your form to you pre-filled (all you need to do is sign) yet your cut off for 'Animal Husbandry' (which requires only a cut-off of 50 to gain admission) is always 49.99. You have been jobless for 15 years, and after passing the test and interview, doing medicals, on the day you are about to resume work at Savannah bank, you hear that CBN has closed the bank.. You are definitely suffering from Ogbanje spirit.. Solution, Nna I no know o!! You are on your own..

Conclusion

If you havent succeeded in life, its just because you havent succeeded in life.. #SIMPLE!

Their is no hard and fast rule to success. Dont let anyone decieve you. Some lazy people stumble upon success, many hardworkers still are not successful. Success does not come from spiritual sources either. If God threw down money from heaven, Prayer worriors will be the wealthiest people on earth. All you have to do is be focused in life. Have a dream, pursue the dream. Whilst pursuing that dream, stay sharp and be on the look out for an opportuinity that may come. Life is a risk and a gamble. Bill Gates took a risk by dropping out of school to pursue and uncertainty, today he is filthy rich, many others have also dropped out of the University to pursue a dream (that seemed fool proof then), Today! They have absolutely nothing. The kid who graduated with a third class from my graduating year today works with one of the biggest oil servicing companies in Nigeria and has racked up more experience points than his peers. Not all dreams will be achieved. Not all of us will be successful in life. What worked for Mr. A may not always work for Mr. B.

Whatever you do stay honest in your pursuit. Dont cheat anybody. Work hard. Stay focused, shy away from envy, Stay sharp, always have hope cos In the end, thats all we have..


#BestOfLuck.......

 Case closed.you've said it all bro.

imagine the statement 'how to survive on vals day as single'if you visit the hospitals omo you will channel your worries on something better than valantine

Only on nollywood people cough before dieing..must dey Cough? Only in Niger movies pastors cast out demons within one second

Nawah!the rate at which ex issues appear on nairaland's front page kills my joy.why this topic every week nah?the last i checked,we are in 2013 not 2012.stop backwarding us biko..mcheeeww!

To me only village gurls wear dat ring.wats d essence?you can be engage in your mind jare.wats this wearing for?

My high priest, Rev Amakaeze of the community of yaweh world wide noni...

thouht the question was suppose to be why men dont marry from poor homes like they use too in those days.every man wants to marry from jonathans family.its not always about the gurls,men has join the club of wealth concionsness family background.

Doh death tuk away my loving Precious mother to spoil my year but walahi,they will regret their actions cos dat Brot me closer to God nd everyday I make Him smile wit my praises.I just laf the devil for a waste of talent knowing fully well my mum is hppy were she is.

One thing I love about myself is that I love myself and don't care about my haters.found out its one way to live longer nd happier. Sins I can't pls everyone.

that means she dont need to call God's name since singleness is now a taboo mcheww.i join my fiath with hers (thats if she wants to marry)to declair she will get married nxt year in Jesus's name Amennnnn

She looks prerri.seems she will give us a baby girl ni

no problem nw.is spelling in full also devilish, no morr lol,bt laf out loud

with Yaweh by my side,noo shaking aroll

#LANNNNDD, THE WORST PLACE TO SEEK FOR ADVISE.TRUELY, I LOVE YOU GUYS.Y'ALL HAVE DIFFERENT WAYS OF PUTTING LAUGH ON MY MOUTH ANYWHERE,ANYTIME,ANY MOOD

nope....my present is wonderful

well most men still show all these signs and still breakup over little mistake by the girl.the signs i think, works at the beginning of the relationship were you still have the "butterfly thing" in your stomach but subsequently when bigger chanllenges comes by,thats when you will know if he loves you or not; for the man who has the Holy spirit in Him.....i wan bring church come here ooh!

now,this is funny