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Romance / Re: My Mother Keeps Rejecting All My Suitors Because A Prophet Said So - Naija Lady by nkypat: 6:50am On Mar 01
Madam get pregnant for the man.Case closed
Family / Re: My Mom Refused To Do Omugwo And She’s Causing Havoc by nkypat: 9:09pm On Nov 07, 2023
OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

you are the okay.Why did your betray your mother

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Politics / Re: Anambra To Digitize Land Administration, Plans 72-hrs C Of O by nkypat: 7:07am On Oct 31, 2023
Reportbutton:
Small yansh dey shake, from ea#ing fellow human to s#ealing babies, one Small good thing is coming from AfghanEASTan
let's not forget this ppl can kill themselves for one small piece of land ..

Olodo
Romance / Re: Do You Support What This Guy Did? by nkypat: 3:06am On Aug 11, 2023
izonborn098:
No wahala as you give her memory to remember'' she will not forget you in a hurry''
You said ordinary relationship' but you billing him the way you will not bill your poor/rich dad at home'
Now the fish brain is a single mom because of food and cash.
Nigeria girls are too cheap.
How did you conclude the lady is a Nigerian?

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Health / Re: Motorcycles Carry Corpse In Dr Congo - (Graphic Pictures) by nkypat: 1:56am On Apr 23, 2023
RIP to the dead
Nairaland / General / Re: What Made You Cut Off Ties With Your Best Friend(s)? by nkypat: 9:35pm On Jul 17, 2022
I traveled to the east for her father’s burial during lockdown…was in their village for 2days but i was in the hospital for 5 days she never visited but ended up with silly excuses…

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Crime / Re: Court Sentences Businessman, Emeka Ekwunife To 10 Years Imprisonment For Theft by nkypat: 9:03pm On Jul 14, 2022
IgweOfNnewi:
Hardworking industrious Igbo if he wasn't caught
Ewu
Romance / Re: Cheating Indian Wife Forced To Carry Husband Through Streets After Being Caught by nkypat: 11:59pm On Jul 06, 2022
Health / Re: Frequent Urinating At Night: Help!!! by nkypat: 12:42am On May 30, 2022
Jamesbiodun:
Maybe you should stop drinking a lot of water in the night

Watch your water intake…Best advise
Religion / Re: Rev. Fr. Timothy Ngwuta Released On Bail by nkypat: 8:01pm On May 08, 2022
Adonis86:
It seems the Reverend Father is married... I'm seeing wedding ring �
Married to mary
Career / Re: My Terrible Boss And Work Experience. Boss using charm(share Yours) by nkypat: 8:24pm On May 03, 2022
ecolime:
I suspected my boss of using charm sha

It's not charm, your Boss could be pilfering from you.

It happened in a certain Bank branch. Tellers were always complaining of shortages not until a CCTV review of an unrelated event shows the Bank manager pilfering notes shocked
In banks,Branch manager did not have access to cash oga
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ghana Army Steps In To Stop Parliament Clash Ahead Of Swearing-in by nkypat: 1:25pm On Jan 07, 2021
Car Talk / Re: How Much Is Mini Bus Suzuki And Location Of Purchase? by nkypat: 11:21pm On Dec 17, 2020
Kindly contact me for your Sukumo bus
Automatic 950k

Manual 1,150,000



Myhusband:
Good evening Car experts, I'm trying to get a minibus for transport business but I keep getting the advice to get direct one and not the cutting ones.

Economically, Direct bus I'm being advise to get I believe would be expensive than the cutting

So I want to seek advise and ask some questions from car gurus and experts here;

What's the disadvantages of getting the cutting/assembling mini bus in Nigeria

How much is direct/imported from abroad sold in Nigeria

I look forward to your intelligent contributions. Thanks in anticipation
Car Talk / Re: How Much Is Mini Bus Suzuki And Location Of Purchase? by nkypat: 11:21pm On Dec 17, 2020
Kindly contact me for your Sukumo bus
Automatic 950k

Manual 1,150,000


quote author=Myhusband post=97139717]Good evening Car experts, I'm trying to get a minibus for transport business but I keep getting the advice to get direct one and not the cutting ones.

Economically, Direct bus I'm being advise to get I believe would be expensive than the cutting

So I want to seek advise and ask some questions from car gurus and experts here;

What's the disadvantages of getting the cutting/assembling mini bus in Nigeria

How much is direct/imported from abroad sold in Nigeria

I look forward to your intelligent contributions. Thanks in anticipation[/quote]
Celebrities / Re: Denzel Kelechukwu: Nina Ivy's Son In New Photos by nkypat: 11:58pm On Nov 19, 2020
Are you a witch?
firstworld:
Fakeness personified. Fake hair, fake eyebrows, fake eyelashes, fake eye colour, fake lips colour, fake skin color. God forbid. Can African ladies ever be proud of their heritage? Must everything look American?
Foreign Affairs / Re: "It Means I Won" - Trump Reacts To Georgian Governor's Tweet by nkypat: 1:18pm On Nov 10, 2020
Story story story
Sultannayef:
He can never return to the White House

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Politics / Re: Prisoners In Warri Protest Starvation By Delta State Government by nkypat: 10:12pm On Nov 02, 2020
Which way our country
Crime / Re: Father Obimma Ebube Mmuonso Leads EndSARS Protest In Onitsha (Photos) by nkypat: 5:53pm On Oct 22, 2020
Lier!!!!
Bullpenn11:
Nonsense!
FR EBUBE MUONSO IS ONE OF THE WORST PRIESTS IN THS CATHOLIC CHURCH.
He has used his ministry to generate so much money from corrupt politicians.

In fact, he is one of the people that support looting of Anambra State Treasury in exchange for favors from the Governor Of Anambra State Obiano who has gifted him 2 Prado jeeps and 3 other vehicles including a big bus for his so called ministry


Obiano facilitated several juicy appointments for his family members= one of them is a Local Government transitional chairman, Another one of his brothers was put in the house of Assembly as a legislator by Obiano, and two others are SSAs to the governor.

He is given a subventions Of 4 million Naira monthly by the Governor all because this corrupt priest compels his ministry worshippers to vote for Obiano for d past two elections, in spite of the fact that priests are not allowed to dabble into Politics.


Now he is joining protesters to condemn a system that he has been encouraging and benefitting from for so long.

EBUBE MUONSO IS NOTHING BUT A SHAMELESS HYPOCRITE!
Crime / Re: Father Obimma Ebube Mmuonso Leads EndSARS Protest In Onitsha (Photos) by nkypat: 5:52pm On Oct 22, 2020
Go and ask who Ebube Muonso is:
Sunofgod:
Holy Ghost - the Priest wan shine small.....
Music/Radio / Re: What Is That Hit Song(s) That Everyone Else Likes But You Just Don't Like It? by nkypat: 12:04am On Oct 09, 2020
Limbobo by kceee....
Awol1:
Beauty, they say, is in the eye of the beholder.

It therefore wouldn't be invalid to say, when it comes to appreciation of music, that the beauty of music is in the ear of the beholder. And if we remember that music has been defined, by some, as food to the soul, it means therefore, that what is food to one's soul may be poison to the soul of another when you consider that we all have different soul.

There's no objective yardstick to judgment of art because aesthetics judgment is purely subjective.

I'm compelled to ask this question because most time, I've seen songs that are hit but just can't make it into my playlist. Some hit songs irritate me actually.

So what's that hit song that everyone else grooves to but just doesn't cut it for you?

For me, it's:-

1) Mad by Wurld
2) Mafa Mafa by DMW
3) No Stress by Wizkid
4) Wonderful by Burna Boy
5) Yeye Boyfriend by Bolanle ft Zlatan
6) Issa Goal by Naira Marley
7) Lady by Rena
cool Gelato by DJ Cuppy
9) Call by Joeboy
10) Wo, Woske, Pawo, etc, by Olamide.

Make I stop here.

What's your own?
Health / Re: Commercial Motorcyclist Commits Suicide In Ibadan By Hanging (Disturbing Photo) by nkypat: 1:44pm On Sep 26, 2020
You are right...check the legs and foots too
greatbuc:
Pure murder. The crime scene is very unrelated to suicide. The killers did a very poor job.
Pointers:
He was probably killed before his body was lifted to the noose.. See the folded part on his trouser indicating he was lifted.
No stool or block to have giving him the height he needed to hang himself. How did he climb up to the noose?? If you say the hole in the walls then he should have been facing backwards and his foot should also be dusty and bruised.
He is scared of dying from covid by wearing a mask but took his life by hanging? Haba. Poor job by the criminals.. Let them check how much was left for him to complete the instalment money.. Some people fit kill person so the bike will be theirs even when the instalment money is almost completed.
Politics / Re: Ngige: Monarch Armed With Pistol Intervened When I Was Kidnapped As A Governor by nkypat: 1:36am On Aug 18, 2020
Romance / Re: I Am Scared My Girlfriend Could Be A Lesbian by nkypat: 11:13pm On Aug 09, 2020
Nonsense...
internationalman:
20 percents of girls are practicing lesbian..


The remaining 80 percents are lesbian at heart, though practicing heterosexual..
Properties / Re: How Do I Handle My Landlord?? by nkypat: 6:55pm On Jun 29, 2020
Mama4dworld:
Hello everyone... please advice me.

My landlord is ignoring me.

My house is leaking.... very very badly. I have complained to him on several occasions and he has done absolutely nothing about it.
I have been experiencing this issue since the rain started this year.

And this man doesn't give a damn about it.

When it rains everywhere will be soaked.

NB: I moved in during the dry season last year. This is something I wouldn't have known.

What can I do...I really want him to pay for this...it is sincerely not fair...the worst part of everything is...he doesn't care.

What can I do??
.
Repair the house yourself and video the process and send the cost of work to him via WhatsApp.During payment of house rent remove your money
Business / Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by nkypat: 2:06pm On Jun 29, 2020
LudaChriz:
A lot of people are used to complaining about various commercial banks in Nigeria especially the low income earners as regards the dubious charges perpetrated by these Banks.

So I want to ask, which Bank is more considerate in terms of their charges for savings account currently?

Don't forget to tell us your reasons.

Let's talk business



SterlingBank is the best for saving your money.
Romance / Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by nkypat: 10:28pm On Apr 07, 2020
The best post ever
Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

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Politics / Re: Seyi Makinde: I Used Carrots, Vitamin C, Blackseed Oil, Honey To Fight COVID-19 by nkypat: 10:20pm On Apr 07, 2020
Health / Re: Coronavirus: Man Washes His Mouth With Hand-Sanitizer (Photo, Video) by nkypat: 7:13pm On Mar 28, 2020
Did he look like Igbo for your eyes?
JAOS:
igbo man no dey carry last
Family / Re: What's The Biggest Gift Your Abroad Relative Has Ever Given To You? by nkypat: 10:24pm On Mar 08, 2020
Original HP laptop

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Crime / Re: Cyriacus Onunkwo: Charles Nnana Arrested At His Wedding For Killing Rev. Father by nkypat: 10:05pm On Mar 08, 2020
Agalicha must come back

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Politics / Re: 9 Ex-Public Officers Forfeit Over N100 Billion To FG by nkypat: 7:19am On Dec 15, 2019
The money they could have given to their village people to progress

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Celebrities / Re: Emily Faye: Adunni Ade With Her Mother On Sick Bed (Photos) by nkypat: 3:25pm On Oct 17, 2019
Tesclaros:
I need an active instagram account with 10k followers above to buy. It must be nigerian followers. Recommend any trusted person here please. I won’t attend to anybody that is not trusted. Cos i got scammed
How much?

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