Christianity Etc › Re: Things Christians Should Never Do On Social Media by nlPoster: 6:26pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Don't be on social media if your spiritual life would be affected by pictures showing women's bodies etc. |
Travel › Re: 9ja To Usa. A Story Of Grace And Providence. by nlPoster: 6:24pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Are people being vetted properly before they are issued visas? How can the current system be improved? |
Travel › Re: Some People Who Only Do Followfollow & Attack Others On Their Role Models Thread by nlPoster: 6:23pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
More examples just now. |
Travel › Re: 9ja To Usa. A Story Of Grace And Providence. by nlPoster: 6:18pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Mcslize: blah Work on yourself so you wont be carrying brief for people who don't carry yours. The op no even send you neither has he acknowledged your determined fighting and feelings catching on his behalf. Hustle oh! So you dont act all sentimental over person wey no send. |
Travel › Re: 9ja To Usa. A Story Of Grace And Providence. by nlPoster: 6:17pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Jamestown123: Kid kid kid if anyone sees me in real life now dem go know say I be kid. Bad belle and stup*dity will not kill me. |
Travel › Re: 9ja To Usa. A Story Of Grace And Providence. by nlPoster: 6:16pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Mcslize: I just visisted that thread. Now I know the reason for the guy's grudges. He has issue with people sharing their travel experiences. There used to be one username like nlPoster that used to attack every travel thread 2yrs ago here on Nairaland so much that she became a nuisance until she got a heavy backlashes when people noticed her jumping from one travel thread to another castigating people that share their travel experiences of how they should have stayed in Naija and still make it, of how they will do odd jobs living from hand to mouth.
Her disturbances became too much that she got heavy backlashes from a couple of persons. She was forced to deactivate her account. It's the same thing nlPoster is doing.
tpiar is the same person as nlPoster. They usually operate multiple accounts attacking people in the travel section. I really don't know why someone will take panadol for another person's headache because of their relocating abroad. How that is an issue to some persons truly baffles me a lot. nlPoster: All lies minus the tpiar/nlposter part, I dont know how many times I have to continue to tell people I am tpia. For some reason, you and your cronies dont seem to get it and keep jumping in glee announcing this fact over and over again as if you discovered something new and are snitching.
Your deranged and degenerate mind thinks you can insinuate I'm that imaginary or not person you mention in travel section and whose id you refuse to reveal so people would know you're implying it's me.
Your favorite enemy who you rush to malign whenever you think an opportunity presents itself. Not caring how stupid it makes you look.
Take your interest in the op to a blog, is that hard? No one would disturb you there.
Also, get help.
Who you be sef? Obviously this is not your only moniker. |
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Romance › Re: Guys Listen by nlPoster: 6:02pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Jesus would like you to be saved. He offers salvation. |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 5:56pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
franchasng: among Yorubas; you will see a hungry, jobless Yoruba boy getting married at 24yrs and producing babies and abandoning them with his mother to cater for, and to them it is good because they don't want to marry late like they mock Igbo guys of marrying late, which to me remains the best The op said nothing about tribe. And even if you know his tribe, could you make your point without ethnic references to others. |
Nairaland General › Re: See The Reply From A Scam Text Message by nlPoster: 5:53pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Education › Re: Geography Students by nlPoster: 5:47pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 5:22pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Slimsly100: some people are like that o. Dem go carry church for head sotey lazy join. Dem nor go wan work Sounds like the op has issues with the cousin's husband in particular, he clearly mentioned he gave N10 million towards the business but avoided telling how much he gave the cousin to look for a job. |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 4:41pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
J111333: I have a married female cousin who takes church serious more than her life, Now, this is a very serious statement, why exactly did you say it? |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 3:02pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
zone51: You sound like you are abroad.. The story makes sense now. The OP or whoever this is about, might be abroad and sending euros, not being there to actually monitor the money. Of course who wouldn't be religious and have many kids when N10 million is comfortably coming in. Cant really blame them. Its answer to prayer. |
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Crime › Re: Online Access To Nigerian Sexual Offenders Register. by nlPoster: 1:58pm On Nov 26, 2019*. Modified: 5:51pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
I'll check the stuff as soon as I'm in Nigeria.
This one that you cant adjust your cover cloth without the monitoring spirits spreading rumours you molested the person sleeping beside you because that's what they consider normal. |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 12:53pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
notoriousbabe: ok send me the money and I will prove it to you You mean op |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 12:50pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 12:46pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Help, My Husband Keeps Insisting I Stop Talking To Strangers by nlPoster: 12:45pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
pocohantas: Lol. You are behaving like most virgins or women who married as one, very flirty and jovial.
They always think they can handle all the attention without sex and since they have done it for years- they hardly ever see any reason to stop or be convinced otherwise. You should know you are married and act accordingly. Humans are territorial and they want to know they are the only ones that can get your attention in that kinda way. It should be exclusive, right?
Please, your husband is not being insecure. You are the one acting like a child.
I have one guy I am profiling here, once I confirm he is very rich- all my rough play will stop...  Brb |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 12:43pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
N10 million is about $28000 btw. |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 12:42pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
NonFarmPayrol: You see some Nigerian
Once you help them once, they tend to think your a governor  |
Travel › Re: 9ja To Usa. A Story Of Grace And Providence. by nlPoster: 12:40pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Long epistle, just stop jumping on my mentions, eod. I dont know why that's hard for you to do.
Seems this is another one of those topics where the supporters carry feelings more than the thread originator. |
Family › Re: Why Is The Paternal Family So Disliked? by nlPoster: 12:23pm On Nov 26, 2019*. Modified: 12:54pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
The problem with this type of thread is it presents a picture which is the op's own, intentionally ignoring a wider view.
Non Nigerians or non op's tribe would assume it's the absolute truth.
Those who know it's a biased opinion, would be afraid to talk last they come under attack and the op's reality becomes theirs. The many yaysayers agreeing with the topic are either same as OP or not knowing anything different. They'd also be monitoring anyone who says otherwise.
So the argument is circular.
Depending on your culture, if you are from a part of Nigeria that's strongly matrilineal, you'll identify better with that side. If your primary caregiver and socialization is matrilineal, you wont have strong bonds with your paternal family especially if there is rancour between your parents or they dont make efforts to balance things out. If your paternal family is bitter and unaccepting of your mum and primary caregiver, or vice versa, you might not identify with them psychologically or perhaps in reality. These are all factors that swing the balance towards one side or another, the underlying reasons are what I just mentioned. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Isolate The Diseased Plant Else The Disease Spreads To The Whole Garden by nlPoster: 12:17pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
nlPoster: Galatians 6
7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. |
Christianity Etc › Re: DOES THIS DESCRIBE YOU??? by nlPoster: 12:16pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Hm |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Tell The Truth Please.. by nlPoster: 12:13pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
All these people I keep reporting, what is being done? |
Romance › Re: Women Need To Wake Up by nlPoster: 12:12pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Ladycewhy: "Women have nothing to offer but sex" "Women bring nothing to the table"
I am sure these phrases sounds familiar. I have noticed there is a psychological conditioning going on ,when you are told you are not good enough you dont strive to be better.You are made as a woman to accept what is thrown at you and maintain the status quo after all ,this generation of women have it better than those of old , you should be grateful the patriarchy society even allowed you some privileges like education since girl education was one time a taboo, you should be grateful, You might even be told, the only good thing you are for as a woman is popping out babies.
Many women do not know a woman is the backbone of any nation,the nurturer, extinction of a population depends on women. If your lineage will survive it depends on the woman which is why women and children are the main target of war.
Do you also know that as a woman you can change the future? Yes, you can by how you raise your children today, how you nurture them and shape their though process. What is it about society treatment towards women you want to change ? start by shaping the thought process of your children towards that direction,do not neglect your sons to be another woman's headache , teach your daughters self esteem and self respect, you are the nurturer, the key to the next adult to be released into the society is in your hands, this is the time to be parentally alert to how your children respond and see issues, change begins with you. Some of these people are sourcing for women for their illegal activities, they wont say it openly but that's what they're about. It doesnt excuse their behaviour though. |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Helping My Cousin Without Feeling Guilty About Her Kids? by nlPoster: 12:07pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
shadeyinka: Adopt the son till he completes his first degree. It seem you are worried that the money would be spent on something else. QED. I dont even get the gist of the story. He mentioned church, then switched themes to the older son is in university and the parents are having baby 5. The wife is not working, then helping the husband with an imaginary business op gave her a non existent N10 million for, op helped her find a job, then she was swindled of the money (which money?) Op wants to sponsor the kid in university but doesnt want the parent involved, etc etc. |
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