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I dont even know what to say. @ Hadeehart101, it's good you and your boyfriend are practicing marriage (minus the sex part if you're doing that), what I can add is educate yourself on his culture so you have an idea of his personality. By culture I mean not just his origin but where he grew up. He's supposed to do the same on his end but he probably won't consider it important. Also, are you absolutely certain this relationship is going to lead to marriage. |
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I'm sure they're still approaching you, dont be using reverse psychology here like in Lego movie. |
LadySarah:If you believe your rug can never be pulled out from under you, good for you. |
Note to the newcomers from other sections who are suddenly here mainly to bring their drama . |
Delete topic. That's how a lady was explaining herself to people of no consequence as if she owes them something. I work, I have businesses, my mum is not depending on me etc etc. Why are you trying to impress people here? It's even very risky because all they are thinking of is how to collect what you have and make sure you are destitute. I was just smh. |
LadySarah:And who doesnt have the rug pulled from under them ? |
Dottore:Applies to all, not just a few. |
Quality20:The major effect I'm seeing is the increasing levels of stupidity on nairaland. Shown by utterly daft posters, comments, threads and topics. |
usermane:South Africa is not Nigeria, which is a country of black people. The whites you mention were contributing to their own country's development, meaning it's their country they were developing, not a foreign one. It's like saying AAs are not American. |
Nlers really need to stop their campaign of calumny because it's getting very annoying. OP what do you mean by place more value ? Must you insult others on account of the riffraffs here? What value do they themselves have that you're asking them who they place more value on? Please stop it. |
Quality20:Do you patronize prostitutes? And could you discuss your issues with them specifically instead of disturbing the forum with generalized topics? |
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loswhite:You shouldn't be saying our for people who dont know you. Limit yourself to those in your circle. I'm still being nice, I haven't started cursing and insulting anyone yet. |
It's the sins of omission (pathological lying, false accusations, spreading rumors, slandering/destroying someone's character with "0" evidence, creating false narratives, etc.,)Shows a basic problem with the society where these are acceptable. |
Ojizy1:You should have sought advice before refusing to practice safe sex. Are there no people around you to discuss with? I dont appreciate seeing such threads showcasing your amorality on a Sunday when you know folks are going to church. |
Who are you calling a hoe? ![]() |
https://www.nairaland.com/5546028/why-paternal-family-disliked The OP ignores the issue of who is the primary caregiver and what are his or her (op) references for the claim. Meaning what is the reason for this particular question? What is the background to the thread? |
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How does this hate speech bill work? Is there a site to report it? |
@ op you people (nlers) are beginning to stand for everything evil and contrary to decency. You espouse anything bad, eg why did you not practice safe sex yet you come here to whine to who exactly if your story is not fake? |
Why so many mentions of Ondo state since yesterday, mostly negative ones if I might add? |
The issue Joseph had with Potiphar's wife was the same one he had with his brothers, namely his naivete . God clearly had great plans for him but unfortunately, he always had to begin from the bottom before climbing to the top. Learning experience, and also character builder. |
Assuming a woman had this problem you described, what would you say about her? When lodging in a hotel, have women stay in one and the men in another, if there is likely to be unapproved interaction. Help the women help themselves. Many of these issues are because people would rather go for the easiest option, than inconvenience themselves in order to do the right thing. Deny yourself in order to follow Christ. It is easy to say the flesh is weak but the fact is we are very undisciplined as a people because we dont know better. And you dont have to be spiritual to get work done, if all the women in your organization are demanding sex and marriage from you, dont you think this shows a bad work ethic? Why do they assume that's what they are there for? Just saying, nobody is condemning you but placing all the blame on the females wont solve the matter. Prayer is important and so is discipline. |
(A Senator said) since yesterday he hasn't rested from calls from NigeriansWhen the list came out. |
And what if the lady in question is Sudanese? I mean the profile picture, not the actual moniker. I have a general idea areas she might be from (including Sudan) but I can't say for sure. A Sudanese lady used to open some educative threads on nairaland many years ago, she looked a little bit like her. I would only doubt Sudanese because they look somewhat like Egyptians and nominally west Africans, the picture doesn't seem to have a strongly Egyptian appearance. |
Why do many of the Nigerians have fake names? |
frozen70:It's irrelevant for third parties to constantly nitpick on what couples do or dont do as if the couples privacy is the third parties business. It's not my business if spouses check or don't check each other's phones. It's my business if an outsider feels it's their right to tell me whose phone to check. Gbogbo e naa kii nkoja agbere. |
frozen70:It's at the spouse' discretion if they want to check each other's phone or not. Outsiders should not meddle even if they (outsiders) are also checking phones. |
Seems like hidden resentment to me. |
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