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Family › Re: Some Of The Problems We Have Today In Our Marriages, Is From Our Upbringing. by nlPoster: 9:30pm On Nov 24, 2019
I dont even know what to say.

@ Hadeehart101, it's good you and your boyfriend are practicing marriage (minus the sex part if you're doing that), what I can add is educate yourself on his culture so you have an idea of his personality. By culture I mean not just his origin but where he grew up. He's supposed to do the same on his end but he probably won't consider it important.



Also, are you absolutely certain this relationship is going to lead to marriage.
Romance › Re: A Broke Sugar Daddy With Pot Belly Or A Rich Sugar Daddy With Six Packs? by nlPoster: 7:46pm On Nov 24, 2019
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Romance › Re: "Home Training Is A Scam, I Want To Start My Sugar Daddy Business": Twitter User by nlPoster: 7:46pm On Nov 24, 2019
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Romance › Re: Our Suggar Daddies Have Stopped Approaching Us. by nlPoster: 7:44pm On Nov 24, 2019
I'm sure they're still approaching you, dont be using reverse psychology here like in Lego movie.
Family › Re: What Is Wrong In A Woman Being A Housewife In This Modern Time? by nlPoster: 7:42pm On Nov 24, 2019
LadySarah:
I swerve
If you believe your rug can never be pulled out from under you, good for you.
Christianity Etc › Dont Roam Into Religion Section Anyhow: Accept Christ Into Your Life by nlPoster(op): 2:46pm On Nov 24, 2019
Note to the newcomers from other sections who are suddenly here mainly to bring their drama .
Family › Re: What Is Wrong In A Woman Being A Housewife In This Modern Time? by nlPoster: 2:37pm On Nov 24, 2019
Delete topic.

That's how a lady was explaining herself to people of no consequence as if she owes them something.

I work, I have businesses, my mum is not depending on me etc etc. Why are you trying to impress people here?

It's even very risky because all they are thinking of is how to collect what you have and make sure you are destitute.

I was just smh.
Family › Re: What Is Wrong In A Woman Being A Housewife In This Modern Time? by nlPoster: 2:35pm On Nov 24, 2019
LadySarah:
You are still dreaming.A housewife without a
nything bringing in money will watch life pull the rug off her feet .


Dont even imagine it.pls dont
And who doesnt have the rug pulled from under them ?
Christianity Etc › Re: Your Untamed Sexual Desires Can Hinder Your Miracles by nlPoster: 2:34pm On Nov 24, 2019
Dottore:
Why are so many Virgins still Poor.

Why are many carefree philanderers and whores extremely rich?

How many virgins and 'righteous' people are living a comfortable life.

Some righteous people spend days in religious houses on empty stomach and still come out to look onto the unrighteous for favours. while some folks they would rather term as unbelievers or unrighteous spend valuable cash in night clubs and other frivolities yet they never go broke
Applies to all, not just a few.
Romance › Re: Save A Hoe by nlPoster: 2:32pm On Nov 24, 2019
Quality20:
There are so many of them na, I alone can't cleanse or turn them to good xtians. This is a wholistic approach, that I'm seeking to involve all and sundry into. Because u don't patronise them docent mean u r not affected by their negative life
The major effect I'm seeing is the increasing levels of stupidity on nairaland.

Shown by utterly daft posters, comments, threads and topics.
Politics › Re: Look What Is Trending In South Africa About Nigerians by nlPoster: 1:49pm On Nov 24, 2019
usermane:
These South Africans . . .who can't see how much white men have contributed to their country's development.
South Africa is not Nigeria, which is a country of black people.



The whites you mention were contributing to their own country's development, meaning it's their country they were developing, not a foreign one.

It's like saying AAs are not American.
Family › Re: What Is Wrong In A Woman Being A Housewife In This Modern Time? by nlPoster: 1:39pm On Nov 24, 2019
Nlers really need to stop their campaign of calumny because it's getting very annoying.

OP what do you mean by place more value ? Must you insult others on account of the riffraffs here?

What value do they themselves have that you're asking them who they place more value on?

Please stop it.
Romance › Re: Save A Hoe by nlPoster: 1:35pm On Nov 24, 2019
Quality20:
nobody in particular, just against moral decadence of prostitution
Do you patronize prostitutes?

And could you discuss your issues with them specifically instead of disturbing the forum with generalized topics?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by nlPoster:
Romance › Re: Asking For a Date? Who Is Ready To Carry Her Baggage Of Problems. by nlPoster: 1:24pm On Nov 24, 2019
MedicH:
This one including myself is ogbako ndi lunatics.
Romance › Re: Asking For a Date? Who Is Ready To Carry Her Baggage Of Problems. by nlPoster:
loswhite:
The world is changing, stop encouraging our women to be lazy.
You shouldn't be saying our for people who dont know you.

Limit yourself to those in your circle.

I'm still being nice, I haven't started cursing and insulting anyone yet.
Christianity Etc › Re: Types Of Conscience And Why Some People Are Heartless by nlPoster: 1:21pm On Nov 24, 2019
It's the sins of omission (pathological lying, false accusations, spreading rumors, slandering/destroying someone's character with "0" evidence, creating false narratives, etc.,)
Shows a basic problem with the society where these are acceptable.
Romance › Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by nlPoster: 1:13pm On Nov 24, 2019
Ojizy1:
Dude
All I seek is advice
You should have sought advice before refusing to practice safe sex.

Are there no people around you to discuss with?


I dont appreciate seeing such threads showcasing your amorality on a Sunday when you know folks are going to church.
Romance › Re: Save A Hoe by nlPoster: 1:06pm On Nov 24, 2019
Who are you calling a hoe? huh
Family › Context Versus Extremes & The Nairaland Viewpoint, Some Threads As A Case Study by nlPoster(op): 1:01pm On Nov 24, 2019
https://www.nairaland.com/5546028/why-paternal-family-disliked

The OP ignores the issue of who is the primary caregiver and what are his or her (op) references for the claim.


Meaning what is the reason for this particular question?



What is the background to the thread?
Business › Re: Unauthorized Card Debit by nlPoster: 12:56pm On Nov 24, 2019
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Romance › Re: Asking For a Date? Who Is Ready To Carry Her Baggage Of Problems. by nlPoster: 12:55pm On Nov 24, 2019
How does this hate speech bill work?

Is there a site to report it?
Romance › Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by nlPoster: 12:44pm On Nov 24, 2019
@ op

you people (nlers) are beginning to stand for everything evil and contrary to decency.

You espouse anything bad, eg why did you not practice safe sex yet you come here to whine to who exactly if your story is not fake?
Romance › Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by nlPoster: 12:43pm On Nov 24, 2019
Why so many mentions of Ondo state since yesterday, mostly negative ones if I might add?
Christianity Etc › Re: Office And Romance by nlPoster: 12:40pm On Nov 24, 2019
The issue Joseph had with Potiphar's wife was the same one he had with his brothers, namely his naivete .



God clearly had great plans for him but unfortunately, he always had to begin from the bottom before climbing to the top. Learning experience, and also character builder.
Christianity Etc › Re: Office And Romance by nlPoster:
Assuming a woman had this problem you described, what would you say about her?

When lodging in a hotel, have women stay in one and the men in another, if there is likely to be unapproved interaction. Help the women help themselves. Many of these issues are because people would rather go for the easiest option, than inconvenience themselves in order to do the right thing. Deny yourself in order to follow Christ.



It is easy to say the flesh is weak but the fact is we are very undisciplined as a people because we dont know better. And you dont have to be spiritual to get work done, if all the women in your organization are demanding sex and marriage from you, dont you think this shows a bad work ethic? Why do they assume that's what they are there for?

Just saying, nobody is condemning you but placing all the blame on the females wont solve the matter.

Prayer is important and so is discipline.
Politics › Re: Contact Details Of The 109 Senators In Nigeria by nlPoster: 10:18pm On Nov 23, 2019
(A Senator said) since yesterday he hasn't rested from calls from Nigerians
When the list came out.
Romance › Re: These Caribbeans Hate Africans by nlPoster: 10:05pm On Nov 23, 2019
And what if the lady in question is Sudanese?

I mean the profile picture, not the actual moniker.

I have a general idea areas she might be from (including Sudan) but I can't say for sure.

A Sudanese lady used to open some educative threads on nairaland many years ago, she looked a little bit like her.

I would only doubt Sudanese because they look somewhat like Egyptians and nominally west Africans, the picture doesn't seem to have a strongly Egyptian appearance.
Politics › Re: What A White Man Had Say About Air Peace by nlPoster: 9:32pm On Nov 23, 2019
Why do many of the Nigerians have fake names?
Family › Re: Is It Advisable For Spouse To Check Each Others Phone by nlPoster:
frozen70:
It's not easy to get spouses who agreed to live their phones open, even you, will not raise it as a topic of debate

You talked about third party, this is irrelevant to it
It's irrelevant for third parties to constantly nitpick on what couples do or dont do as if the couples privacy is the third parties business.

It's not my business if spouses check or don't check each other's phones. It's my business if an outsider feels it's their right to tell me whose phone to check.

Gbogbo e naa kii nkoja agbere.
Family › Re: Is It Advisable For Spouse To Check Each Others Phone by nlPoster: 8:44pm On Nov 23, 2019
frozen70:
Yes, totally wrong from both sides because you will definitely see what will give you BP

Live your life as if nothing is happening and you won't see things that will frustrate you

The more you want to see what's in the phone the bitter you will be at the end

This my point is applicable to both men and women
It's at the spouse' discretion if they want to check each other's phone or not.

Outsiders should not meddle even if they (outsiders) are also checking phones.
Romance › Re: Why Do I Love It When Girls Treat Me Badly? by nlPoster: 7:33pm On Nov 23, 2019
Seems like hidden resentment to me.

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